As someone who is genderfae (microlabel under genderfluid), I have a lot of different experiences with gender.
I just wish someone told me sooner that it won't go like "today I'm a girl" "today I'm an enby" but more like ,,, "today I am a swamp witch" "today I am a feminine victorian vampire boy" "today I am a forest goblin collecting people's stares about my gender expression like shiny rocks on the ground" "today I'm an androgynous pirate lady"
Like,,, sure, are those real genders? I don't fucking now. If a cisgender person asked me what I identify as that day, would I answer like that? No, definitely not.
But to my genderqueer, trans and genderfluid friends; do you get me? I can't be alone with this, right?
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Funny tlt fanart thing I keep noticing: Even though Gideon is described as having longer/more hair than Harrow (with Gideon's hair being "ridiculous" for a cavalier primary because she doesn't shave it regularly, which seems to be a cultural/religious thing for the Ninth), some people on here are so devoted to this weird "butch = big muscles and buzzcut, femme = petite waif and long hair" understanding of gender (and weird understanding of gay relationships where this is the only kind of couple dynamic that can exist) that I keep seeing Gideons with shorter hair than their respective Harrows. It's such a funny way of portraying them they really are yaoi for girls
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I don't use Twitter really just cause I tend to get upset over things easily - this is one of those times.
So someone one Twitter said...
WHAT DO YOU MEAN?!? LOOK AT HIM!!
He is adorable and doesn't even look old.
If enything he just looks healthy.
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Re-dyed my hair bc it got super brown and faded and also bleached my white streak again!
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