#anger outburst

[bbgthoma]

my dad and his random angry outburst be making me feel like shit

#dad #daddy issues #anger issues #anger outburst #outburst #feeling unsafe #unsafe #help me bro

[yourmentalhealthpal]

Unprocessed anger is the unexpressed emotion of anger that remains inside due to various personal or societal reasons. This bottled-up anger can lead to anxiety and stress, negatively impacting our mental health. Acknowledging these emotions and letting them out for better health and well-being is essential. Read more about How to release suppressed anger

#mental health #yourmentalhealthpal #mental health awareness #self improvement #ymhp #anger management #anger outburst

[zu-is-here]

tee hee (*´∇｀*)✿

#zu art #comic #studio #zudio #backstage #dream!sans #undertale #undertale au #utmv #I wanted to make it part of the plot but it's too kawaii to be true xd #although he does have problems with self-control and aggression in particular #scientists associate outbursts of anger with deep-seated feelings of guilt and narcissism; as well as comparison with a sibling :') #(it'll be shown later ig <3) #sorry for so much of [Dream] content xp We'll switch to [Cross] soon ;) #OH and thank you guys so much for 17 900+!! (*´꒳`*)

[samaelwinchester]

i love the idea of angry sam but when it's just "sam should have gotten angry and confronted everybody" i'm sorry but that's rookie shit. sam should have gotten so blindingly furious his powers came back in full force, lights blowing out, glass shattering, everybody in the room feeling like their chest is collapsing. he wouldn't even be able to get a word out beyond screaming and spitting and cursing and being unrecognizable from the meek, withdrawn individual who was keeping this unfathomable rage down all these years

#im talking APESHIT im talking BLISTERING FURY im talking RAGE of a THOUSAND SUNS #im talking anger that makes dean's manpain induced outbursts look like stress relief techniques #sam winchester #spn

[dennistakesamentalhealthday]

dennis is an angry character btw im sorry but he is full of rage but that rage is not exclusive his anger does not negate sadness and fragility and insecurities in fact they work together and dtamhd was one of the first times where his anger was not used as a joke via a surface level rage explosion from him but instead explored the fragility of his anger. the way he keeps reassuring the workers he encounters (and himself) that he's not mad. when he tells daisy he's not mad but he is a little bit upset. dennis is angry and that anger is what makes him so fragile. he was upset and it manifested as rage bc he doesnt know what to do with his own sadness

#disclaimer tags yes i would like to see his emotions explored more but i disagree that we ONLY saw anger in dtamhd #and EVEN IF IT WAS ONLY ANGER... anger is just as VALID and fragile and vulnerable as sadness. they are family #we saw how his anger makes him fragile how it exhausts him #how it works with his stress and fears and insecurities and sadness #he was UPSET!!!! #angry dennis in dtamhd WAS big feelings dennis in tends bar. that was the same #he expressed anger in tends bar bc he was upset he expressed anger in dtamhd bc he was upset etc etc #and i think the sadness people were expecting was present. the sadness and fragility we would have seen if he cried on the beach like most #of us anticipated (btw he did cry at the beach <3 technically <3) was THERE. it was just in his anger #sewerkingcharlie talked about this already and worded it very well but im honestly kinda bothered by how some people have treated #the portrayal of anger and emotions in this ep #you dont have to like the ep or how they portrayed dennis but some posts have really given the vibe of #his anger and his emotional outburst not being as valid because it wasnt portrayed in the way you expected #or that it wasnt palatable enough #and honestly if you dont like it thats okay! but can we please be careful with how we talk about mental illness and anger outbursts! #yes it is frustrating when people ONLY see dennis' anger or see dennis' anger in a very shallow way #which a lot of the audience unfortunately does because its been treated like a joke #but it wasnt a just a joke here #and maybe this will all go past dudebros heads frankly i dont give a shit lol but thats for another post

[simplenefelibata]

ENOUGH with the 'jack forgiving dean in an instant' trope! ENOUGH!

i know he's a pookie and too good and incapable of doing evil ever in his life, but that doesn't mean he isn't allowed resentment or anger. i want to see him angry, i want to see jack raging like a teen because cas is gone again and the last words he ever heard of him were "i'll go with you, dean", so where's he now? where's he? where's his DAD? dean was supposed to protect him and now cas is gone and although they destroyed chuck, he's alone because even that isn't good enough to gain dean's love. because he's not family. because he put a gun in his head.

it doesn't have to be apocalyptic anger, too. actually, i think it'd be like when you're sixteen and you can't stand your mom/dad and they talk to you and you just — ignore them, look at them with such hatred they yell at you, roll your eyes, or respond with bitter cutting words.

i mean...

“Eat. You haven't eaten in days, barely sleeping too, and I remember you enjoyed eating—”

“Yeah, like you cared so much before about what I enjoyed.”

#obviously jack wouldn't be god #because we ignore he ever become that #he's just a kid and he deserves to act like one!! #also #anger isn't below jack #when he's frustrated he tends to get angry #and he's scared #and the one he knew for sure loved him is gone #yeah he wants dean's approval and would be afraid about causing an outburst #but he couldn't control it #feelings rarely can be controlled #idk i may be projecting.. #anyway i think i'll write this then.. #jack kline #jack spn #dean winchester #supernatural #castiel #casdean #destiel #spn

[emberflame999]

Drew an angry Egg because I was bored and I am incapable of drawing something with an actual plot

#Egg’s anger is actually pretty silent she doesn’t do outbursts #I love Egg a lot she’s one of my favorite ocs #This drawing literally took me 2 hours 💀 #thsc #henry stickmin collection #henry stickmin #thsc fanart #the henry stickmin collection #toppat #toppat oc #thsc oc #among us #thsc egg

[ladymacabrebeth]

I may appear as silent as a dormant volcano, but a dragon resides in me. It's been in hibernation, but one day, it will awaken. And the moment I am stepped on and taken for granted, it will rise from its slumber, and with fury, it will burn this city with its rage.

#dragon #introvert #quiet #introverts #rage #femalerage #anger #angermanagement #mentalhealth #panicattack #outburst #therapy #mentalhealthawareness #infp #intp #intj #infj #isfp #isfj #istp #istj #trigger #triggered #angry #volcano

[the-ninja-legacy-whip]

What was you're Opinion in Kai amd Jay's Fight in Crystalized? Will Kai ever have an outburst from anger? In a real fight who would win?

Boooooi have I got a good something for you

#fic tag #fics of mine #works of mine #kai smith #jay walker #I think the fight should have been longer #I think jay could overpower Kai but Kai could outmaneuver jay #and yes Kai can have an outburst from anger #(but that’s more Lloyd and Nya’s thing regardless) #ninjago

[willosword]

literally all they had to do to get me attached to mark grayson was give him permanent eyebags huh 😔

#GRRRRRGR I GET CUTENESS AGGRESSION WHEN I LOOK AT HIM NOW. #willow whispers #invincible #btw incoming tag rant his whole situation in s2 is so tragically fucked up 2 me #bc he's terrified of turning out like his dad but.. he still needs to grieve?? and express his emotions?? #like any perfectly normal outburst or display of anger is just gonna affirm mark's worst fears. even tho he should be allowed to be angry #and even in s1 he was alarmingly prone to catastrophizing in a self hate-y kinda way. horribly insecure lil man. #so like. i don't see this season going well for him at ALL.. a bit scared for girliepop not gonna lie

[agabus]

i know i am a bowser simp but really sometimes i think about how everyone in mariolore is supposedly ~equally flawed~ but bowser's thing is that he gets mad sometimes. local man gets upset, expresses negative emotions about it. guy who has anger management issues and if we're being real probably a personality disorder uses self control to the best of his ability but still flips out sometimes in a world without dbt and meds.

#it's just so weird. when people in the comments are like oh bowser's just as bad. #is he? like i'm not saying his behavior is fine but he you know. cannot manage his anger. that's kind of why it's called that #in b4 anyone says ''but it's the same for peach'' mental health doesn't justify cheating lol #it doesn't justify violence either but having an outburst is a mistake cheating is a plan #mariolore

[chirpsythismorning]

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#byler #stranger things #bizarre love triangle playlist #will byers #will's pov #i still stand by the fact that will did have hope at one point that mike could feel the same ie. 'i guess i did. i really did' #and despite mike's outbursts in s3 with 'it's not my fault you don't like girls' and 'that's bc she's my gf will' / 'we're friends x2' #i also think will's anger both times was still in large part over him being mad that mike is distancing himself AS HIS FRIEND #but it's in these moments in the aftermath that reality hits will and he starts to question himself and his own motives #s3 was a huge wake up call for him #it's caused him to distance himself from mike out of fear he's coming on too strong #in all honesty it's not will's fault mike is so insecure to the point where he could think that will doesn't care #bc to will his feelings are obvious to the point where he could never imagine mike would think he didn't care #'there are things that you know damn well' #in will's eyes despite this all being a secret that he now has no plan of revealing outright to mike #he simultaneously thinks mike knows and he's just subtly rejecting will through all of this vague language and by pushing him away #'and now you see. my secret is #is love.' #mike was entirely misunderstanding will for the past year and now he knows the truth is that will actually does care #*enter mike's most doubtful era over his and el's relationship yet* #'every day you're always there. you comfort me. you make it feel like it's worth my while. and then i look around and you're not there' #'and every day you say you care. and i'll beware.' #as much as will is willing to forgive mike for anything and everything #i think he's also at a point where he feels that he can't trust mike by sharing his true feelings anymore (not like he could back in s1-2) #hence why he goes from telling mike everything (at mike's request) to telling him little nothing (mike hasn't requested in a while...) #so it's this open secret now where he can't tell mike directly bc he's convinced mike can't possibly feel the same based on his actions #*enter unreliable narrator will byers feeding this inaccurate point of view to the ga* #4x03 #gif

[baejax-the-great]

Hi, I saw on one of your ao3 comments that you think Homers' Achilles is on the spectrum. This is a really interesting idea to me, but I don't know that much about autism - could you elaborate on why you think that? (Also, I think all of your fics are amazing ☺️)

Autism as a word and diagnosis did not exist in ancient Greece, and I have no idea if there would have been a similar concept about it (doubt it) or if more likely people with certain autistic traits would have been considered to have a certain type of personality. So for me to say that Homer deliberately wrote Achilles as "autistic" is a little tongue in cheek.

That said, reading the Iliad I did have a moment of "Ohhhh, dude's autistic I get it." Some people might look at my reasoning and say, "well, that could be a whole other thing with these other reasons," and that's fair. This is just how it came across to me and why.

Sense of justice/fairness. This is one of the more obscure autistic traits (that often gets misunderstood and shit upon by people), but it's how the book begins, so I'll start here. Autistic people are more likely to learn and follow rules to a T. This gets rolled into the trait of "rigid thinking" and has been related to autistic people's preference for solid routines. To think about where you lie with this trait, one example is the "walk" signal at a crosswalk. Some people jaywalk when the road is very clear and no one is around. Some people jaywalk when the road ISN'T clear because they don't give a fuck. And some people will wait for that light to turn white no matter what because that's what you are supposed to do and there are rules (although culture/country of origin will also affect how much relevance traffic lights have in your life).

This is a rule, but it has little do to with justice. So to figure out where you stand in terms of justice sensitivity, another metric is how angry you feel when you watch someone cut in line and not get punished for it. Some of us will sigh and move on with our life because dicks are everywhere, whatever, and some people will have a harder time letting go because this person broke a rule in an obviously unfair way, and they should be punished for that.

This trait does not mean that autistic people have a better sense of what justice is or what rules/laws are "just." That is all very subjective. But this trait does result in a stronger negative reaction to seeing those rules/laws violated.

Such as rage.

Achilles fits the bill here in both in terms of rigid thinking and his sense of justice. His reputation in the Greek tradition is as someone who was very educated. In fact, he is the most educated with regards to law and religion than the rest of the Achaeans thanks to his time with Chiron. More than that, he actually cared about what he was taught and was considered kind of a stick-in-the-mud in terms of believing that the armies should follow the rules and customs of their people at all times and that violating their own laws was bad, even if you really, really wanted to bang a hot chick.

When Agamemnon decides to take Briseis, he is breaking a Rule. The common interpretation of what happens here is that he has violated Achilles' pride and honor in doing so, and Achilles loses his shit. That's valid. To me it read a little differently. I mean, for one, Achilles is 100% correct in the first book. Agamemnon pissed off the gods in a way he shouldn't have bringing plague on everyone, and how does he solve this? By agreeing to do the thing Achilles told him to do to solve it and then immediately violating their customs to steal from Achilles, bringing down a plague of "Achilles is not going to help you anymore."

Achilles cries to his mom that he wants the gods to fuck over the Greeks to prove Achilles right, which is deeply immature, but also really makes sense to me. Like, Agamemnon did this shitty, illegal, rules-breaking thing, and he needs to feel the consequences of that action. Achilles isn't a god who can bring down a plague, but his mommy is, so get fucked, Agamemnon. It's Zeus time.

During the time Achilles is out of the fighting, he is routinely called hard-hearted, stubborn, and other words to indicate he will not be swayed, which again speaks to his rigidity of understanding how things should be done.

The Way Achilles Talks About His Emotions. Achilles very clearly states what he is feeling throughout the book, and he often restates it. We get it, bro. You're mad. And then sad. Really, really sad. While this is almost definitely for the audience to understand his feelings and just how deep they run, Homer also could have just told us outright what he was thinking without having Achilles say it out loud repeatedly. It also felt to me that Achilles talks about his feelings far more often and bluntly than other characters do, but again this could be because the story revolves around his 'rage.'

Regardless, even if it was purely for audience benefit, this is a behavior I have noticed with my adult ND friends, which is basically after a childhood feeling confused by what other people around them are doing or why they are reacting to things in a certain way, they have a strategy of very bluntly expressing themselves and where they are at in this situation. It can be far easier than trying to follow the subtleties of NT culture and just get whatever issue it is out in the open. Saying to someone "I am angry at you" can come off as overly aggressive and blunt depending on context, but it cuts to the heart of the matter. We can compare this with Odysseus, who does not express any very deep emotions at all in the Iliad (other than the fact that Thersites should shut the fuck up, anyway), presumably because that's nobody else's business.

The Embassy. Achilles' point to Odysseus that this entire war was started over a man stealing a woman is so correct and so ignored. He looks at this situation and says: Paris stole Helen, and Agamemnon rallied all the Achaeans to come make war with Troy. Agamemnon steals Briseis, and I'm meant to... keep fighting for him? In what way does this make sense?

Everyone around him sees it from a completely different perspective, basically that Achilles got angry over a girl. To Achilles this is not what it is about at all. And I'm with him on this. If stealing a woman is a sin egregious enough for thousands of Greeks to spend 10 years attempting to sack a city, then it is the same amount of egregious for Agamemnon to take Briseis and he's lucky Achilles didn't kill him immediately and sack Argos. He's getting off easy, which Achilles tells him.

Reading Odysseus lay out his argument followed by Achilles cutting him down with that bit of logic was like, yeah, I'm with Achilles, I don't even think he's being stubborn I just think he's right.

In the embassy chapter, Achilles also has his famous line about despising men who say one thing but mean another. Being very truthful and having difficulty noticing lies is another common trait of autism, and it would make sense for Achilles to find the dishonesty of his colleagues deeply annoying.

Old British scholars called him a sociopath. This might seem like a weird one, but I'm adding it into evidence. When I read the Iliad, I see Achilles as a very emotional person. Given that half the book is about his grief over Patroclus, I find calling him incapable of caring about others incredibly bizarre. But in addition to determining that these scholars who wrote these batshit essays have never once in their life had a friend, much less a friend that they loved, this kind of fits with how a certain type of old-fashioned scholar understands autism. I've actually been at neuroscience talks with crusty old assholes who talk about how autistics and orphans are incapable of empathy, and then use evidence that really just says to me they express empathy in a different way. (Yes, orphans. For real. A real talk I went to in like 2015. Did you know that orphans don't have feelings and don't care about the feelings of others. /s) Add to the old British tradition of their feral private school kids (which I believe they call public school? idk those assholes in blazers, you know the ones) literally caning each other for being smaller, weaker, or just different, and this to me is solid evidence that Achilles is neurodivergent and unwittingly awoke the bloodlust in these old (dead) bastards.

Speech Patterns. Not being able to read Ancient Greek, I can't actually say much about this one, but multiple scholars have commented that the way Achilles speaks in the Iliad is different to all the others. He has a unique way of speaking. Again, this is not necessarily an autistic trait, but it is common for autistic people to have different speech patterns than NT people, so it's more just a "hmmm, maybe" than actual evidence.

I feel like I'm forgetting other little things, but I'd have to fully reread the Iliad with this in mind to jog my memory, and maybe one day I will. TLDR; Achilles has a very rigid way of thinking and an uncommon way of expressing his emotions.

And as always, autism is a spectrum. Anything I've written about here isn't necessarily true of any autistic person out in the world.

#iliad posting #tagamemnon #man do I want this in the tags? I feel like... #listen I am not autistic I just believe in their beliefs #aka I'm related to autistic people and have ADHD and we got that overlapping vibe you know #anger outbursts are also a known trait of autism #there's also more subtle stuff #achilles gets really upset that despite being the best warrior he's not being appreciated #and sure that could just be pride or an obnoxious personality or whatever #but I've also seen this in my ND friends where maybe they are the best at tennis #but someone else is made team captain #because that person is more likable #and the ND friend is like but I'm better and I deserve that honor #and it really frustrates them #like Agamemnon sucks and everyone at that meeting knows it #but nobody sided with Achilles because conflict at this point is just like... can we not #okay rambling incoherently in the tags now I guess #achilles #old crusty scholar: as we see by the embassy chapter achilles is evil and awful #ND me: okay but he was 100% correct tho so I don't see the issue #people might be dying but he won that argument and that is the important part

[numericalbridge]

🔥 every time darius is shown to use his abomination form he is using it in a very deliberate and calculating way, and not because he is supposedly so angry/furious

meanwhile every time he shows real strong emotions, whether positive or negative, he is not in the transformed form (though his abomination powers are clearly important to him with how he uses them for affectionate gestures, etc).

and, imo, both times he is seemingly very outwardly furious - with Raine in ER and the kids in the ASiAS - he is playing the role, possibly playing up the real annoyances (because he is more often shown to be annoyed than angry in actual canon). and compare to how he reacts to other coven heads who are his real enemies: focused fighting with Vitimir, concern over Eber AND over failing to stop the spell in KT, and disdainful and stern expression in the finale. It's concern, hurt, or pettiness, annoyance rather than explosive anger.

[added more ramblings in the tags]

#darius deamonne #toh darius #the owl house #obviously there might be situations when he would transform out of anger - like fighting belos in an au #but it would take much more than what fanon prescribes imo #and i think being very deliberately in control of the abomination form (doesn't mean always but most times) #makes a more interesting take on the abomination magic being like his second nature while also being a science or art form he perfected #and i don't think it takes anything out of the supposed parallels with belos either since it doesn't need to be one-to-one comparison #and its not like he doesnt have little outbursts sometimes - just like most characters would get angry when someone flings dirt at them #or his impatience when eda doesnt understand that he is talking about her curse - but i see it as frustration and impatience and not anger #and i agree that when he was a teenager he would have more teenager-y reactions #and the way he had to hide or redirect his emotions during the coven head time is something worth of exploring too #but i dont agree with the way certain parts of fandom flanderize his emotions into this constant outbursting fury #when it is clearly not even to explore his character but to flanderize him solely for the sake of other characters

[gutfilledeggs]

Back on my bullshit.

Personally speaking, I think Enrico Maxwells whole "I'm a big, domineering man" is a big facade.

He wants his bio father to be proud, to regret giving him up; how else to do that than putting on a mask? Yes, you totally know what you're doing, you're a leader, you're so very dominating and important and you totally believe that! It's not an easy task to literally become *your teachers boss*, aka your FATHER FIGURES BOSS. Imagine the power trip of being able to order around your own father figure. The man who did his best to raise you lovingly, to help you see you don't need to rely on people who don't care about you. And now you get to boss him around.

Has anyone actually told him they're proud of him? That they're so happy he's still here? That he's done so well to get to where he is? Probably not. Hell, let's be real, the only person who's probably said that to him is Anderson; would he even believe Anderson means it? His perception is so messed up of others, how would he?

A dominating narrative at the final battles is that demons don't cry. That when a human runs out of tears, they lose humanity or that it is their final cry for death.

Alucard cries because he still has humanity. Anderson doesn't cry because he is ready to die. The major doesn't cry because he is a demon, he is purely evil.

Maxwell does a different kind of cry- he cries out that he was born alone, he does not want to die alone. Underneath all of these layers, he's still a human. He doesn't want to die yet, nor has he become a demon.

Inside, he is still that same small child begging for the care and reassurance he so desperately needed. But if he knew that, then we wouldn't have such a tragic tale, would we?

#hellsing ultimate #hellsing #enrico maxwell #character analysis #alexander anderson #alucard #hellsing major #hellsing manga #this was sparked over the ao3 fanfictions with him in it #the sheer amount where he is a cruel sadist 24/7 is baffling #as if his anger outbursts aren't equivalent to a childs tantrum #he's not a big sadistic dominate top either let's be real #he would probably sob if he was given real affection from outside his immediate family #hes literally a sad wet cat #a pathetic babygirl

[thestarlitnights]

i would like to thank eurovision 2023 for introducing me to new artists but also fuck you for screwing them up down in out and sideways ._.

#esc 2023 #eurovision #my anger is now turning into seething #my flatmates witnessed my outburst at serbia's total points #i was ready to leave the kitchen at that point