#anti beremy

[cancerian-woman]

I think Jeremy as the father of Bonnie’s children is the best option for canon in Legacies they made him guest star with barely any mentions of Bonnie.

Jeremy was the worst boyfriend Bonnie had. She was practically his parent with how often she had to look after his wellbeing. Bonnie shouldn't have to mother the father of her children. Jeremy didn't even do anything to make up for the emotional abuse of cheating-season5. That's why Bonnie still carries the weight of his infidelity around even when they get back together. Tbh, a big reason why I’m anti-Beremy outside of cheating is that it is mainly about Elena not necessarily Bonnie and Jeremy. A lot their moments are Elena-centered discussions. Bonnie deserves far better and so does the Bennett line.

JP mentioning how Bonnie’s permanent death was supposed to be for s5 on Twitter. How she said Kat “begged” for her job mixed with the discrediting and ignoring the Bennett’s in TO/LGCs. Bonnie was never going to get anything after 2017. She couldn’t wait to be free of Bonnie. She hoped Kat would give up and quit the way Trevino did.

LGCS writers bluntly said Bonnie wasn’t an important character for their musical but we all know what that double entendre meant. Bonnie’s not important at all once Elena/Caroline got their happy endings and families. We don’t even have the luxury of seeing Bonnie at peace in the finale scene or reconnecting with her family after all those years. The only time we see multiple Bennett’s at once is when they’re saving the day.

Bonnie barely gets mentioned at all. Bonnie not ending up with Jeremy is truly a miracle considering how much JP hated Bonnie stans and Bonnie herself. There’s ZERO respect to Bonnie given how much Bennett blood the Salvatore Boarding School has and the ascendant in order to send children into prison worlds. Plecverse didn’t even respect the POC characters they had on LGCs. Bonnie wouldn’t have been the exception.

Thank you for the ask! 💜💜💜

#JP doesn’t know how to mention or talk abt Bonnie without saying something derogatory. #in her Entertainment Weekly vids she says very little on Bonnie and even when she did she attempted to put the blame on Kevin Williamson #that the Bonnie problem was bc she was a witch and a loophole so they had to hinder that loophole. #those POC actors was chosen for LGCS to clear up those arguments about race and didn’t do right by them either imo. #i do think after Kat’s mistreatment blew up again they tried to play it safe in how she treated them. #used to make jokes abt how much Bonnie was locked away in that basement of the school bc ain’t no way in hell #bonnie bennett #kat graham #anti Julie Plec #anti the vampire diaries #anti tvd #dria responds #anti beremy

[userlaylivia]

MY JERANNA HEART HURTS!!!!!!! I SHIPPED THEM SO HARD AND THEY DESERVED SO MUCH BETTER! I never shipped beremy like I've softened towards them my last rewatch but I still don't ship them, they happened out of nowhere!! jeranna were so perfect together and I think S3 showed he never got over her and if she didn't die they'd still be together imo they were soulmates!!

#beremy would've never happened if anna didn't die and that's a fact! #my jeranna babies I just loooooooved them so much okay??!? #jeremy gilbert #anna zhu #jeremy x anna #jeranna #tvd #the vampire diaries #anti beremy #just to be safe lol

[hydesjackiespuddinpop]

Here’s my tvd ship tier list

#tvd #otp: we have history together #otp: i think he kinda loves her #otp: until we find a way #damose #maroline #mabekah #stebekah #jalaric #bonkai #eliam #bonora #jolaric neutral #datherine neutral #noralise neutral #stalerie #anti calaric #anti beremy #notp: you and me is not gonna happen #notp: people who do terrible things are just terrible people #notp: worst choice #notp: so this is how our love story ends #notp: i would never burn myself alive just so you won’t feel abandoned

[klonnieshippersclub]

How would Elena and Caroline react to Klaus and Bonnie? Bonnie’s their bestfriend.

Negative at first. This isn’t an anti-Elena or Caroline moment at all. I do think they'd warm up to Klonnie in their own way. Let me explain.

Elena’s arc is about grief, keeping those close to her and finding a way to be happy again after lost. So, in return Elena grows attached to people that essentially wouldn't leave like vampires or Bonnie. I'm going off S1-2 was the strongest that Bonnie and Elena were. They shared secrets with each other, texted every day, did cheerleading, sleepovers, and viewed each other as sisters. Elena wanted Bonnie to be close with Stefan because they both were important to her. When Elena is upset, she goes to Bonnie for comforting. When Bonnie is hurting Elena wants to be there for her. The writing doesn't allow that though. Elena certainly doesn't like being cut off from Bonnie or finding out she's hurt. Elena loved that Beremy was a thing. It kept Bonnie close and her brother happy. Now include everything that goes on in S1-3. My point is Elena is very dependent on Bonnie.

Caroline's issues with Elena were insecurities and projection but even then, when DE became a thing, she didn't mind frequently bashing their relationship as she saw fit. Keeping Elena informed on who she was dating context does matter because the series ignores how Damon treated her. But with that in mind, she'd do the same about Klaus just venting about how terrible he is and how much of a problem he creates for everyone. The series doesn't consider Bonnie someone Caroline has to be jealous of for obvious reasons but if Bonnie was being given a great amount of attention, I do think those patterns could repeat with Bonnie. In general, Caroline does exist in her own world but still depends on or expects Bonnie to be there. We've seen Caroline venting to Bonnie often.

Klonnie would be a lowkey thing for a while. Bonnie would feel conflicted in her feelings and trust for Klaus, she wouldn't take him seriously while keeping up the mentality that she has to be there for everyone. Klaus have to do way more than giving her gifts to win her over. Bonnie wouldn't try to make Klaus suddenly like her friends either. She wouldn't allow a relationship to persist if he's harming them. Klaus would be so determined on making Bonnie believe him. Adding in Klaus will claim he doesn't care if Bonnie bonds with his family but he's lying. She'd get closet to Kol and Rebekah in the meantime since they wouldn't go tell the MF about Klonnie imo. Bonnie would want to confide in her friends about her relationship as it grows. When it all does come out, I do think Elena would only once mention Jenna's death in an argument out of being hurt that Bonnie kept this secret for so long. Or not knowing where their friendship stands if Bonnie continues to be separated from her since she's been holding onto that secret relationship for who knows how long. Same, for Care completely I do think she'd slip up and imply once why would Klaus take an interest in Bonnie, that he's using her for magic or how it all is some bad idea. Which would be all fears Bonnie has had and wanted to share more than anything else, but I do believe once Elena and Caroline see how happy Bonnie is and lets her confide in them about her relationship, they would love that Bonnie is happy that's all that would matter to them. If she was happy, and getting the love back she was given then they're okay. Would they like Klaus for her? Nah, and certainly not going to enjoy getting used to not being so dependent on Bonnie cause Klaus would break that up.

To sum it all up they'd be negative and very critical at first still wouldn't like Klaus for Bonnie long-term. They may say the wrong things initially but they'd both apologize talk out why they said or feared things with Bonnie being with him. Most of the hurt would be not understanding why Bonnie didn't come to them about Klaus. Then they'd go interrogate Klaus demanding he'd treat her right. I can see Carolena stalking Klonnie on their dates just to see how this relationship was going. Bonnie would just have to catch her bestfriends up at a sleepover that's all.

Hope this helps!

-Rikki

#klonnie #bonnie bennett #klaus mikaelson #bonnie x klaus #klaus x bonnie #the vampire diaries #tvd #anon ask #elena gilbert #caroline forbes #barolena #bonlena #baroline #rikkisinbox

[laufire]

4, 6, 12, 16 for Bonnie Bennett, Davina Claire, and Josie Saltzman?

How many people I ship them with

For Bonnie... hmm. This post goes through each of them in a way that pretty much reflects my own view (I never ever otp-ed Bamon and I enjoyed Bonkai's dynamics, but otherwise pretty spot on). So I wouldn't say I shipped-shipped her with anybody, at the end of the day, but I appreciated Bonkai, Bonenzo and Beremy, with caveats.

I only shipped Davina with Kol, especially in season 2. They were outstanding.

For Josie: Penelope, of course (exes! back together!), Finch, Rafael, and Jade.

My least favorite ship of them

Bonnie-Elena........ were there ever alternatives for Davina lol (I mean, she liked that other boy in season 1 but that was cute). I'd seriously side-eye anyone who shipped her with the other Mikaelsons, fuck them xD.

And Josie/Landon was mortifying.

Sexuality hc!

Well, I remember my mixed feelings when it was rumoured Bonnie might be written as bi in season 6 (otoh, character I love! and find very attractive! a possible queer lady!! on the other... this could cast her dynamic with Elena in a very complicated light). And again, you have to be very straight to like some of these guys lol. But if we accept the premise that she found Nora physically appealing, if nothing else, bi?

I could see Davina as being into women, easily. She actually likes their company, it seems xD. And Josie was canonically bi, so.

Bi women everywhere, yay.

A childhood headcanon

Bonnie never replaced Ms. Cuddles with any other comfort object.

Davina had a bees phase.

Josie really hated The Wizard of Oz. Anti-witch propaganda xDD

#mariedemedicis #thank you! #replies #talking to the void #my thoughts #plecverse #the vampire diaries #the originals #legacies #bonnie bennett #plecverse thoughts #davina claire #josie saltzman

[jazzywazzy89]

Do you remember the scene in s4 when Rebekah makes a deal with Elijah that she can live like a human for a day so that he gives her the cure and she goes to prom and has to save April with her blood and lose her chance to become human. When Klaus mocks her and says that a real human would just stand by and watch things happen and say "god what a terrible thing!" but not do anything to help. I think about that in regards to the way the MF gang always talk about Bonnie's problem but don't save her

Hello Anon,

So, in all transparency, I didn't watch much of TVD beyond Season 3 and so I don't know the moment you're referring to. However, if I am going by dialogue alone this is a complete accurate representation of how Bonnie has been treated since Season 1. I will just go through a few examples of this happening from the start of the series to around Season 3 off the top of my head.

So, in Season one everyone rallied around Caroline when Damon was abusing her and Stefan and Elena commented on it (which is a good thing, not saying they should have left her hanging, even though Damon's treatment of Caroline was completely glossed over on the show afterwards but that's another post). But when Damon starts harassing Bonnie, Elena basically tells Bonnie to just stay away from him and when Bonnie says he keeps showing up Elena offers no solutions and Stefan doesn't really actively work to get him to stop.

Then the night that Bonnie is attacked by Damon when she's possessed, afterwards, yes Stefan saves her, but a) he was too busy standing guard over Elena when she wasn't even the target, to stop the attack from happening and b) afterwards Stelena has their first breakup with Stefan siting danger and so the night of and the morning after Bonnie isn't given any room to address the trauma of being possessed, almost dying, and learning of the existence of vampires but instead has to listen to Elena vent about Stefan and everything that's been going on that Elena was formerly lying about to protect Stefan's secret. The only thing Bonnie is allowed to verbally express when Elena asks off handedly how she's doing with everything is gratitude towards Stefan so that Elena has a chance to moon over him again.

Which brings me to Ben and Bonnie's kidnapping. When Bonnie is taken by Ben she is humiliated and treated worse than Elena, but Stefan comes to the rescue largely because Elena was involved. Elena makes a show of checking on Bonnie when she finds her in the tub but afterwards when Bonnie is returned to Sheila's house Elena basically says they have to give Damon what he wants and open the tomb and even when Stefan argues and Sheila expresses concern for Bonnie's wellbeing Elena presses the issue.

Which brings me to the damn tomb. Now....sigh....people when it aired and afterwards said it was Bonnie's own fault that Sheila died and got big mad when she blamed the vampires in the situation which is just bullshit. Because a) they shouldn't have been down there in the first place but whose idea was it to do it in order to appease Damon, Elena's and b) Stefan knew about the double cross and that once he went into the tomb he couldn't get out, Elena as a human could have gotten out even with Damon holding her hostage, and yet he went in there anyway. Even if you take into account Bonnie asking Sheila to save Stefan's life (which is the first example of Bonnie doing something to help when no one has done shit for her) she did so without knowing the consequences of that, while Stefan entered the tomb knowingly. Also, even if you take into account them planning on trapping Damon in there, at that point Damon had been responsible for so much death and mayhem and on a personal note he'd attacked Bonnie and harassed her prior so Sheila in that sense was not only the only one actively protecting Bonnie but the only one actively protecting all of Damon's victims.

Then after Sheila dies, it's mentioned that Elena calls Bonnie a couple of times but we never actively see Elena seek her out. She never helps Bonnie deal with her grief which is largely handled offscreen. When Bonnie comes back, and is understandably grieving, different, and not trying to fuck with vampires including Stefan, who she attributes in part Sheila's death to, Elena is basically like I'm sorry your Grams died but why won't you play nice with my vampire boyfriend and is acting more hurt about Bonnie not talking to Stefan and not wanting to be around her while Stefan is around than about what Bonnie lost and doesn't try to help her through her grief at all, yet, Bonnie is once again expected to help when Stefan goes off the rails, and once again if I remember right, forgive and forget when Elena finds out about her biological family and Elena needs comforting.

Bonnie doesn't deactivate the Gilbert device and though it had some unintended consequences she honestly saved a lot of damn lives that night in spite of the mess that followed. Like literally most of the stuff that went wrong could be tied directly to the Salvatore, including Caroline getting turned by Katherine to get their attention.

Bonnie runs into Lucy and loses her the same night and they're like that sucks but we need this cousin you just found out about to help us trick and trap Katherine so can you manipulate her so we can use her like we do you?

Bonnie gets tricked by Luka and they're like that sucks but we need you to trick him so we can lead him to his death and then btw can you channel all this power and kill this thousand year old dude with like dormant hybrid powers, and witches and minions at his disposal that's after Elena even though you've never killed anyone before and you barely even have a handle on using your own powers without passing out and getting a nose bleed let alone the power of a hundred witches who likely died in servitude just like you're living. Oh shit, you're feeling their deaths while you're channeling said powers. Our bad. But how them powers working though, can we get a demo?

Even though, Bonnie is literally like passing out from over excerption and her nose is bleeding every episode almost, somehow it's supposed to then be a huge shock that the power could kill her. And everyone is more pissed that Bonnie didn't tell anyone and at the prospect of Elena losing her "best friend" than Bonnie actually dying. Bonnie then fakes her death after going up against Klaus which again is traumatic for her but then she ends up having to apologize to Elena for not telling her the plan that she basically had to come up with on the fly to save her own life, and yeah Damon helped but then the same damn episode says that he'd gladly let Bonnie die if it was between her and Elena and what does Elena say....*crickets*

So, she fakes her death and has to hide out in a house where a bunch of witches were slaughtered after channeling and feeling all their deaths and there is literally no acknowledgment and they're like ....cool cool we know that's a lot going on but we still need you to kill this dude....

So, she goes after Klaus, and yes Elijah is called in so Bonnie won't die but again that is less about helping Bonnie and more about making sure Elena doesn't have to grieve anyone else. The double cross happens. Jeremy's dumb ass get's shot by Liz's dumb ass and then Bonnie bring's him back from the dead calling on her ancestors all bloody and snotty and shit declaring her love for a dude who wasn't even pressed enough when her death was eminent to tell nobody until the last minute and loses the power she's channeling on top of it. Then this fool frolicking with ghosts all summer and shit and by the time Bonnie actually finds out the truth of him even seeing Anna and Vicki all summer she's had to save Matt's dumb ass without using her powers so they can both save Tyler's ass because Klaus' crazy ass turned him and they gotta figure out how he can safely transition. Then she gotta deal with banishing Vicki's vengeful ass and then banishing a whole ass town full of ghosts that wouldn't be ghost if Damon's trigger happy ass wasn't killing everyone who breathed in his direction while her man is somewhere slobbing a ghost down. While she dealing with a cheater, Damon yelling about people not staying dead. Elena sees Jeremy with Anna but she's more worried about Lexi doing her dominatrix rehab on Stefan than on actually fully holding Jeremy accountable. Bonnie saves the day again and has to say goodbye to Sheila a second time while doing it and ends up breaking up with Jeremy. And Alaric is just like...well you know Jere, typical teenage boy right....can you help me translate this weird shit on these walls though?

And it keeps going when Bonnie tracks down Abby, everyone but Bonnie gets invited to the ball even though Esther is channeling her line (which, how, when Bonnie got cut off for less). Abby gets turned at the flip of a damn coin and Damon makes a lasagna joke. Klaus holds Bonnie hostage for the unlinking spell and the list goes on and on. That's just up to season three and then they do five more seasons of more of the same damn shit. The only harem these writers ever gave Bonnie in terms of ships were shipping her with three things, PAIN, SUFFERING, and DEATH. And yet we rarely ever see anyone lifting a finger to help Bonnie when she's in distress or in need when it doesn't fit their own purposes.

Like they literally be like “It’s terrible what Bonnie is going through,” then next scene be in her face like “Sorry, to bother you but we need....” But they ain’t really sorry because even when she’s suffering her work is never done. But then when people point to racism, mammification, and misogynoir, JP and CO, and this dumb ass fandom are always like....

The fucked up thing about it all when it comes to this is that even while Bonnie suffers virtually alone again and again and again from Season 1 forward and everyone has that "god what a terrible thing!" reaction without lifting a finger to help or comfort her, she's still expected to drop everything and go above and beyond even risking her life to save everyone else when they so much as get a damn hang nail and do it without expecting anything in return, even a damn thank you. Sometimes even doing it while she's being blamed or demonized and not allowed to voice any of her own feelings on the matter. And yet, we as the audience are supposed to believe that these people she is willing to sacrifice everything for are worthy of it, are her friends, and love her. Bitch where?

#anons #replies #bonnie bennett #anti tvd #anti julie plec #anti belena #anti baroline #anti beremy #anti bamon #a rant #all these end up long ass vent post #racism #misogynoir #fuck tvd

[scorpio-karma]

How was Jeremy useless?! So tired of that lame ass narrative. Just because he wasn't a Damon/Stefan/Klaus. At some point he was given character development with the hunter storyline & he actually had more involvement in the storyline with other supportive characters like Matt & Tyler, unlike Bonnie. The writers just neglected their relationship. Plain & simple. You're delusional.

Because I don't have time to rewrite this all I'm just going to post a convo between me and @leianaberrie about your ask. And yes, I talk to the BKers in discord about your anon asks, especially when I'm trying to process how I feel about the ask. Yes, we occasionally laugh at them, but mostly we just share frustration especially with racist anons (you know who you are). TBC, that's not you anon, but you should see the crap I've gotten in my inbox.

P.S. @leianaberrie if you have any issues regarding things you said on discord being posted on my tumblr I will gladly delete this.

#bonnie bennett #anti Beremy #anti bonenzo #anti benzo #anti plec #anti tvd #asks

[awesome-bamon]

Jeremy didn't rape anyone or violently assault any woman tho yet in ur opinion, he's more "useless" than your fave white male rapist . Stayclassy.

Jeremy cheated on Bonnie with a ghost and broke her heart.  Jeremy  was indeed useless as he just went along with Bonnie’s plan to keep her death a secret for four months and did nothing at all to attempt to bring her back until Damon came up with a plan to do so.  While Bonnie was in the prison world, Jeremy was around just screwing a bunch of women, because he didn’t want to have hope that Bonnie was alive or could be brought back to be let down.

Yet, Bonnie didn’t give up on him and died to bring him back to life.  Just showing how unequal their relationship was.  As Bonnie did most of the heavy lifting and the work.  Sacrificing herself for the Gilberts.  He didn’t even bother to try to save her from the prison world until the last minute.  Then did not even stick around to make sure that Bonnie was alright or okay once she got out of the prison world. But, at least she had Damon who was there for her, the first one she ran to when she came back.

Jeremy also killed thousands of vampires which included some “innocent” vampires when he and Elena killed Kol’s sireline.  Yet Bonnie had to be left behind with an angry Klaus once again to clean up the mess the Gilbert’s had made.

Jeremy may not have been violent with women the way that the other vampire and supernatural male characters have been.  Yet, was bad and toxic for Bonnie in his own ways.  His relationship with Bonnie wasn’t healthy because she was a martyr for him.

He is as useless as Enzo is in how Bonnie was suppose to be his girlfriend yet Damon has to be the one to come in and come up with a plan to save her life.  Because both of her canon boyfriends were just willing to enable her unhealthy habit of sacrificing herself and putting her life and well being on the back burner for the sake of others or because of morals.  Or whatever reason she comes up with not to fight for her life or accept death. 

#Anti Beremy #Anti Jeremy

[thefudge]

you prefer Jeremy with Bonnie or Enzo with Bonnie, and why?

bonenzo, no contest 

b*eremy is the worst tvd ship, in my opinion. yeah, even worse than d*elena. it’s that poorly handled and written. even the tiny spark of potential it had in s2 was guttered by the racist choice to have bonnie constantly put herself in harm’s way for him and his family. 90% of their time together was him weakly fretting over her welfare while she soldiered on without even listening. it’s like…replace jeremy in that scenario with any random dude and it would be the same thing. she clearly did not care for his opinion and i don’t blame her. i mean she kept insisting she loved him by doing these reckless things for him, but she hardly ever consulted with him about her thoughts and feelings. 

meanwhile even tho i have my gripes with bonenzo (namely that it could’ve been better developed, starting from an earlier season and without OOC-ing bonnie in the last season), it’s miles ahead in terms of chemistry and actual romantic content. bonnie and enzo have actual scenes where they enjoy and love each other, as opposed to jeremy making mopey faces while bonnie bleeds her nose out for elena. 

#replies #anti beremy #bonnie bennett

[dontbeallupinmyfriesdawg]

What is it about Bonkai that you like?

The have an undeniable amount of chemistry. Kat and Chris work well together.

It is Bonnie’s first fleshed out romantic arc since Jeremy (which spawned for most of her time on the series and frankly -even though I love Jeremy - he was a shitty excuse for a boyfriend and the romance was flat).

The Kai storyline in season 6 gave Bonnie agency and allowed her to be powerful while centering a plot around her magic that wasn’t a result of Bonnie sacrificing herself or helping someone else.

Bonnie called Kai out on his shit.

Bonnie got to exact revenge on Kai.

Bonnie defeated Kai twice.

Banter

It’s one half Kai

It’s one half Bonnie

erotic spell casting

It’s hot

It’s complex

Intense stares

It’s was the most interesting romantic Bonnie storyline.

Before that whole Enzo thing (which was lackluster tbh - although I didn’t hate it) it was rare that Bonnie was presented within the narrative as sexy/attractive/the object of desire etc… Damon was fixed with Elena (as were Matt and Stefan but with less intensity), Klaus was fixated with Caroline. Dangerous mysterious men having a desire for the innocent girl is kind of a running theme throughout the show. You can debate the misogyny within that writing but that considered; it does present the image that Bonnie is less desirable and attractive if she doesn’t receive that same treatment as her white counterparts. Sure Jeremy had feelings for Bonnie and expressed as much but he took her for granted and the relationship had a large focus on him and not Bonnie. Bonkai is the opposite in that many of Kai’s actions reflect his infatuation with Bonnie.

It had so much potential

That’s just a few things. (Feel free to add)

#bonkai #kai x bonnie #kai parker #bonkai shippers club #bonnie bennett #bonkamily #tvd #Anonymous #meta #bonkai meta #anti beremy #grahamwood

[cancerian-woman]

i said on another platform that it would’ve been nice if Bonnie separated herself from Elena after she tried to kill her in s4. Someone replied with how stupid my idea was and that it doesn’t make sense. Yes, Elena’s humanity was off, and she didn’t have a choice in turning that switch. I do agree! however, that didn’t change what she did try to do with the switch off. It only took her emotions out the situation not the action at hand. Elena in s6 even tells Caroline that turning your humanity switch off is a mistake.

But why is that idea of Bonnie having separation and agency in her own feelings so negative? It never should’ve been a point where Bonnie is the only one giving while the others aren’t doing the same. Elena just gives a quick apology and Bonnie says she understands it wasn’t her and she herself hasn’t been who she is in a long time. But, frankly that isn’t enough. If Bonnie took some time to step back and reflect this also could’ve kept her from dying later on in s4. She wasn’t fighting to bring Jeremy back for herself, as his girlfriend. She only did it for Elena, there was no input in on Bonnie’s emotions and that’s the problem there!

s1-2 Bonnie is deemed annoying, and judgemental by all for her thoughts with vampires. Not only do fans ignore her trauma then… but I can’t stress enough how many times I’ve seen people claim they never liked Bonnie after how she stepped away from Caroline during her transition. Then argue that Bonnie never would’ve treated Elena the same. Bonnie gave Caroline a promise, and never had to fulfill that promise yet she certainly didn’t mind fulfilling what she told to Caroline to Elena AFTER Elena attacked her first. It was not expression then, Bonnie said she knew what she was doing. She referred to Elena then as a shell of her bestfriend meaning she didn’t see her as Elena anymore.

This goes back into s3 and how heavily the plot goes to push the idea that Bonnie’s life and or feelings is always secondary to everyone else. We get a line about how she’s always the one hurt but never an emotional moment from Bonnie herself. Tbfh, Bonnie should’ve stepped back in s3 then but carrying on. Anyways having Bonnie step away and letting others actually apologize or try to fix things with her would’ve been great.

The only reason people are so quick to attack Bonnie fans for saying she should’ve stepped away or Elena/Damon/Stefan/Caroline whomever should’ve apologized or worked for her forgiveness, treated her the same…is because a lot of you don’t want to picture Bonnie in a space where she is not benefiting everyone else. It’s suddenly OOC for you to fathom that maybe other people should treat Bonnie with the same respect. I love Bonnie’s loyalty and protectiveness over her friends, but she deserves the same.

Seeing how Elena could’ve made her own amends would’ve been much better than a quick apology.

#bonnie bennett #tvd #the vampire diaries #this is from somebody that wished we did have more girlie moments but with some reflection #anti beremy #Caroline Forbes #Elena Gilbert #barolena

[userlaylivia]

legacies + tvd

ILY 💕 (jsyk my fave male/female for tvd will be tied and it's funny because together they make two of my otps lol)

legacies:

favorite male character: landon

favorite female character: hope

least favorite character: alaric

prettiest character: hope and lizzie

funniest character: Kaleb

favorite season: s1&4!

favorite episode: a lotttttttt tbh but I'll narrow it down to.like 5 lol 1x13, 1x14, 2x05, 4x03, 4x15!

favorite romantic ship: hope/landon though I ship hope with everyone pretty much lol

favorite family ship: josie/lizzie, rafael/landon

favorite friendship: hope/lizzie, mg/hope, hope/lizzie/josie

worst ship: josie/landon, hope/josie i.like them but no longer ship them romantically because of their shippers!!

tvd:

favorite male character: damon and tyler

favorite female character: elena and caroline

least favorite character: klaus (love him on TO hate him on tvd lol) and alaric though I actually liked him on tvd lol

prettiest character: elena and caroline!

funniest character: damon ofc lol

favorite season: season 2!

favorite episode: too many but to name some 1x22, 2x08, 2x21, 2x22, 3x05, 3x10, 3x19 and etc!

favorite romantic ship: damon/elena (who's surprised lol)

favorite family ship: jeremy/elena, caroline/liz, damon/stefan

favorite friendship: elena/caroline, bonnie/elena, bonnie/caroline, bonnie/elena/caroline, damon/alaric

worst ship: klaus/caroline, stefan/elena, damon/bonnie (romantically!!), jeremy/bonnie

#ty for the ask <3 #answered #ask game #madscline #anti klaroline #anti stelena #anti bamon #anti beremy #just to be safe lol

[hydesjackiespuddinpop]

Bonnie and Tyler definitely lost their virginities to each other

#poorni speaks #my headcanons #ship: hungover till thanksgiving #tonnie #lockett #I refuse to believe that she lost it to the douchebag who cheated on her with a ghost and admitted to being in love with said ghost #the entire time they were together #notp: last resort #anti beremy

[zalrb]

FOUR MASTERLISTS BELOW. 👏🏾READ 👏🏾THEM

Two are about TVD, one is about chemistry in shows in general, the other is about miscellaneous TV shows.

Pro-tip. You can search tags: zalrb.tumblr.com/tagged/_____so if you want to see posts about stelena or bonkai or bangel etc in particular episode like 3x05 just type: zalrb.tumblr.com/tagged/stelena 3x05 etc. etc. just put the ship name before the episode number.

Stelena et al. Masterlist

I’ve been getting a lot of asks recently about my opinions on things I’ve spoken about before at great length, usually anons asking me to respond to what DErs have said. It’s fine, I’m flattered, but I’m going to post this masterlist and will ask you all to refer to the list before sending certain asks like, what do you say to DErs who say Stefan doesn’t challenge Elena, what do you to say to DErs who say Stelena is abusive etc., it’s all in this list. There are also posts on Stefan, Damon and Elena as individual characters and posts on friendship dynamics and how TVD deals with vampirism. I will be happy to do any follow-ups or discuss if my views from a particular post has changed (which is bound to happen at times, people’s opinions change or evolve). Please reblog so it can circulate.

Chemistry Masterlist

A good chunk of my posts about chemistry such as, which ships I think have chemistry, which ships I think don’t, what platonic chemistry looks like, how to observe romantic chemistry etc. can be found in this list. Please reblog so it can circulate.

Bonnie Bennett et al. Masterlist

This is a masterlist of all my noteworthy Bonnie Bennett posts --- about her antiblack treatment (if you feel the urge to ask me ‘why did the writers have Bonnie’ the answer is antiblack racism, read the posts in the list), about why I ship Bonkai, about why I don’t ship Bamon and why I don’t ship Bonenzo, what I think of Beremy, what I think of Stefonnie, it’s all here. Please reblog so it can circulate.

General TV Masterlist

(a semi-regularly updated list of my OTPs)

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There are posts about various shows including Merlin (Merthur posts mostly), The Borgias (Cesare and Lucrezia), Game of Thrones (Sansa Stark Defense Squad, Jonsa, Anti-Daenerys, Anti-Jonerys and general GoT stuff), The Handmaid’s Tale, Gossip Girl (Dair and anti-Chair, plus other posts), Teen Wolf, The OC, Star Trek Disco, FRIENDS (everyone is trash not just Ross), The Office (pro Pam and Jim FYI), Parks and Rec, and Kdramas in this masterlist as well as posts like “favourite quotes from OTPs” “favourite comedic roasts” etc.

These lists will all be updated regularly to semi-regularly.

#stelena #bonnie bennett #the vampire diaries #bonkai #chemistry #stefan salvatore #elena gilbert #dobsley #beremy #stefonnie #kat graham #paul wesley #nina dobrev #kai parker #jeremy gilbert #stefan x elena #elena x stefan #anti-tvd #anti julie plec #anti caroline dries #bonnie x kai #kai x bonnie #jeremy x bonnie #bonnie x jeremy

[hinasho]

people be like “i hate beremy!!!” and then ship bonnie with people that either hurt her and her loved ones, violently threatened her on numerous occasions, put her in a horrible position purposely knowing it would give her PTSD, or all of the above

#tvd lb #even beremy isn’t a Saintful Ship™️ bc jeremy had that weird ghost cheating arc #but other than that. that was still her least toxic and harmful romance #and yet... the fandom hates it the most #anti bonkai #anti bamon #i like b*mon as friends but never as romantic partners BECAUSE of the horrible shit damon did to her fam/her in the past

[jazzywazzy89]

Speaking of the whole mess of Bonnie resurrecting, I get that she loved him, but I don't see the logic in Bonnie taking it upon herself to ressurect him. She wasn't responsible for his death, she was bleeding out after being stabbed (which made 0 sense for Vaughn to stab her but the writer love seeing her in pain so whatevs) The first person who should have been blaming herself was Elena and the Salvatores but of course, they never face consequences. I would have liked for him to stay dead tbh.

Hey anon,

There is no logic about Bonnie taking it upon herself to resurrect Jeremy either time aside from the writers loving to see Bonnie in distress and in pain and using her powers for the sake of other people. She wasn't responsible for his death even the first time when Sheriff Forbes', Yosemite Sam trigger happy ass shot him, either. But they had her resurrect him, declare love, and lose a shit ton of power only to be cheated on with a ghost and even they made that somehow her fault because the ghosts were a "consequence" of her resurrecting him.

Elena and the Salvatore caused a lot of deaths they never had to take responsibility for and Bonnie had to take responsibility for a lot of deaths and lives she wasn't responsible for so what would make this case any different under the pen of these writers?

If you really want to know the real real of it, Jeremy should have stayed dead the first time he died. He served no purpose. All he was was a containment pairing for Bonnie to appease her fans and even that was turned to shit after the ghost debacle, and Elena's tagalong. By the time they even got to the whole storyline with Silas, Bonnie should have been the focal point anyway. The Five were a disappointment as a whole because everything that could have made them interesting was negated by them being completely ineffective and Jeremy's whole hunter storyline was a ploy to give him a plot and that even failed.

As for Bonnie bleeding out and still being expected to save the day, like Bonnie was expected to save the day when she was literally dead. Like Bonnie was responsible for saving the day for her damn self because no one could be bothered. But what else should be expect from "I believe black women will save the world", Julie Plec who apparently believes that black women are responsible to carry the universe while no one else has to carry any responsibility or even show gratitude. Meanwhile Elena gets the "you is smart, you is kind, you is important," treatment without being literally any of those things.

#lmao #bonnie bennett #fuck tvd #anti tvd #anti beremy #anti julie plec #anti jeremy gilbert #anti elena gilbert