#anti split attraction model

[lilacbestpurple]

“biromantic homosexual” 🤝 “homoromantic bisexual” 🤝 “heteromantic bisexual” 🤝 “biromantic heterosexual”: feeding into the belief that bi people have a straight side and a gay side

#my words #lgbt #lgbt+ #lgbtq #lgbtq+ #bi #bisexual #bisexuality #biphobia #anti mspec gay #anti mspec lesbian #anti mspec straight #anti sam #anti split attraction model

[bisexualsdeservebetter]

So as a someone that used to identify as heteromantic bisexual (i outgrew that term), I’m still confused why it’s wrong to identify as such but other can totally id as homoromontic bisexual?

I mean if being heteromantic reduces bisexuality just to sex... doesn’t being homoromantic do the same?

The term homoromantic doesn't come with the same internalised homophobia that heteroromantic can/sometimes (often) does. But it's still not a good way to view or describe one's sexuality, and it's still harmful. I think both homo/heteroromantic labels are completely unnecessary and harmful.

#anti split attraction model

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

posting this on it's own

#max squawks #critinclus #mspec mono #mspec lesbian #mspec gay #mspec straight #bi straight #bi gay #bi lesbian #sam #split attraction model #anti exclusionist #anti exclus #anti exclusionism #contrapunk #contradictory labels #heteroromantic homosexual #homoromantic heterosexual

[demonic-shadowlucifer]

hi not so friendly reminder that this blog is inclusive of aros and aces. yes, even cishet aros and aces. I really hate how I have to make a post like this. cishet aros and aces are still queer *because* being aro or ace (or aroace) is queer. queer is not the same thing as "not cishet". and if you think otherwise get off my blog and never come back until you've unlearned your aphobia.

thanks. (OP is a minor. Don't be weird)

#asexual #aromantic #yes this is in reply to that one poll (in which i will *not* be reposting for obvious reasons) #aspec #non sam aro #non sam ace #split attraction model #anti-exclusionist #EDIT 2: it's been a while so reblogs are on again!

[valkylander]

What is even "non-split" people make up so many stuff that idk what half of this nonsense means.

Man, first you guys hate people with a split orientation. Now you hate people with a non-split orientation? There's just no winning with you, is there?

Anyway, it means that "Asexual" is my full orientation and describes both my sexual attraction and my romantic attraction. I could use "Aroace" to describe the same thing (and do sometimes), but there's a common idea that asexuality is inherently split and "asexual" only refers to a person's sexual attraction. This contributes to the perception that asexuality is not an orientation the way "gay" or "bisexual" are, but just describes the type of attraction one feels rather than to whom. This perception irks me, and one of the ways I fight it is by deliberately treating my asexuality as my full orientation, describing who I'm attracted to rather than how much or in what way.

And then I have to point that out in my bio because if I just say "Asexual Lesbian" people will assume I mean something like "Homoromantic Asexual", which I very much do not. I experience no attraction to anyone, sexual or romantic.

#Ace Discourse #Anon Discourse #Split Attraction Model #Please be aware that this is not anti-SAM #The split attraction model is very good and accurately models many people's attraction schema #What I resent is the way it is applied to asexuals automatically #Not all a-spec people are split-attracted #Not all split-attracted people are a-spec.

[general-fanfiction]

Hopes And Fears. (Wally Clark x Reader)

Summary: Y/N’s death is traumatic. So traumatic in fact, she can’t even look at Wally without reliving what happened to her.

Word Count: 3,073

Gif Not Mine. Requests are open!

Warnings: Violence, Swear Words, Hints Of Rape?

I’m not too sure how I feel about this to be honest but it’s my first fic since coming back and I would love to write for Wally more so please send requests! I might continue with this if people like it, I’m not sure yet though.

“Homecoming game tonight. Are you nervous?”

Closing my locker, I look to my left to see Abby, my best friend since elementary school. We’re inseparable. People find it odd that we look like we are complete opposites and yet we are the platonic loves of each other's lives. She’s a very loud and extroverted theater kid, I’m quiet, shy and introverted. Though in a weird turn of events, I became head cheerleader. Kind of ironic right?

“I’m not too worried. We’ve been rehearsing everyday, sometimes twice a day. I think we might actually have our best routine yet, I just hope we can pull it off.”

“You’ll be great, you always are. Besides I heard Spencer is going to ask you to be his date for homecoming.”

Abby’s words catch me off guard. Spencer is the Split River High quarterback. While typically the head cheerleader and quarterback are perfect for each other, I’m way below his level that the thought of us being together is ridiculous. I couldn’t even imagine it, that’s how ludicrous the idea of us is. Not that I would complain, Spencer is model level attractive, an academic genius and of course, insanely popular. Any girl would die to be his homecoming date. Me included.

“Don’t be stupid.” The blush on my cheeks is a vibrant red as I speak, leaning against my locker with my books clenched against my chest.

“I’m being serious. Some of the other football guys were talking about it in study hall. Apparently he’s got some sort of big surprise planned.”

Her grin is wide, clearly happy for me, though I can’t match it. I still don’t believe it, that sort of thing does not happen to girls like me. Guys aren’t interested in girls like me. That’s just the way high school works, maybe I’ll blossom when I head off to college at the end of this year but for now, guys keep their distance. My mom always told me that high school guys like girls that are easy and that because I know my worth, guys don’t even attempt it. I’ve always hated that idea though. If nothing else but for the slightly sexist and anti-feminist ideals that it pushes.

“Not to alarm you Y/N but he’s walking down the hallway.” Abby tells me, grabbing my forearm tightly, obviously excited. “I think he’s headed this way so that’s my cue. Have fun, text me all the details!”

With that she scurries away, flashing me a cheesy smile over her shoulder as she speeds down the hallway. Almost bumping into several other students as she does so. I laugh slightly, always entertained by her antics before hearing the metal of the locker next to me clang at the sound of somebody leaning against it.

“Mind if I steal you for a second Y/N?”

Spencer’s voice is charming and smooth, a relaxed smirk on his face as he stares down at me. His eyes are intoxicating and I feel as though I’m drowning in them. There’s no way Abby could be right. God, if she is I’ll never hear the end of it. Maybe I could live with that though, especially if it does result in Spencer potentially being my boyfriend.

“Sure, yeah, okay.”

Spencer’s smirk grows wider, and as he leans in to take my hand in his, I catch a whiff of his cologne. A dark musk that matches the darkness of his eyes and hair perfectly, it takes everything in me not to collapse right then and there. My senses are completely heightened and I can feel the roughness of his hand against my palm. The butterflies in my stomach make me feel as though I’m about to explode from my nerves and before I know it we’ve made our way to the old block of showers that were closed in 2004, following an incident involving an inappropriate relationship between a student and gym coach. New showers were remodeled and these were left to decay.

Spencer takes my books out of my hands, placing them on the bench that sits in the center of the room before turning to face me. His hand gently cups my cheek and although his smile is soft and loving. His eyes hold a mischievous glint. Without saying anything he leans down to kiss me, unprepared and a little shocked I step backwards.

“I didn’t know you wanted to kiss me. I didn’t even know you liked me.” I tell him, shuffling backwards again as he continues to approach me.

“Everybody likes you. I’ve just been wanting to save this for a special occasion, and what better time than homecoming?”

With my back pressed against the wall, a soft smile forms on my face as he cages me in. Though it doesn’t feel threatening, it feels new and exciting and my insides are on fire waiting to see what happens. I feel as though I finally understand what the cringey teen movies are talking about when they discuss sex and love and passion.

“I really like you Spencer.” I whisper, voice barely audible, gazing up at him through my lashes.

He laughs, pushing his hair out of his face before leaning down once again. This time his lips do touch mine and it’s nothing like I imagined. He’s rough, hands moving down to grab my breasts , almost painfully. The softness from before clearly disappeared. As much as it is a dream come true to be making out with the guy of my dreams, I’m still disappointed that this is how my first kiss turned out. His tongue forces its way into my mouth and its uncomfortable, I know this isn’t how it is supposed to go. As I try to pull away, to allow myself some air, his hand grips my throat, holding me in place. Continuing his almost aggressive movements.

“Yo Spence, did you get the bitch?”

Finally, he pulls away. I manage to take in some air despite his hand still wrapped around my neck. He’s looking over his shoulder, nodding his head. The rest of the football team stands in the doorway, menacing looks on their faces as they see me in such a vulnerable position. I hear the click of the door lock, and the butterflies in my stomach don’t feel so good anymore. The energy in the room shifts to one of darkness and evil, no trace of kindness and love.

Spencer looks at me, and for the first time in my life, I fear for my safety. This is not the same guy that I was obsessed with. There is no sign of human emotion on his face, no sympathy or pity. Gripping his hand to try and pry it away from my throat, I feel the tears begin to prick in the corners of my eyes and upon seeing my reaction, he smiles. My pain is his pleasure. Despite my attempts at removing his hand, his grip only gets tighter and I’m pushed further against the wall.

“Let’s have some fun boys.”

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A dull ache radiates through my body, pushing through the pain, I force myself to stand up. Staring at the room around me, I wonder if I was dreaming. However, with no sign of my books on the bench, I take that as confirmation that what I experienced did truly happen. Blood splatters the walls and floor but with no sign of injury on my body, I refuse to believe it’s mine. Sure, what happened was bad, but not that bad.

Not wanting to stay in this room any longer, I quickly make my way to the exit, pushing open the door with more force than necessary causing it to slam against the outside wall. Making the shy looking boy who happens to be standing outside jump. I smile apologetically, about to make my way past him when I notice what he’s wearing. Clad in double denim with round glasses, he looks straight out of Friends.

“I’m sorry, I didn’t want to come in because I thought you might feel kind of exposed but I wanted to introduce myself.” He says quietly, holding out his hand for me to shake. “I’m Charlie.”

Shifting my gaze between his hand and his face, my mind can’t really comprehend what is happening. Why am I suddenly meeting someone new? By the old shower block of all places, especially after what has just happened to me. The confusion on my face must be obvious as he smiles before revoking his hand.

“You haven’t worked it out yet have you?” He asks, almost as though he doesn’t want to push me.

“You’re dead, cherry pop.”

Looking to my right, I spot a girl sat against the wall, blue lollipop between her lips that has stained them ever so slightly. Wearing a black turtleneck with a matching cap and pinstripe pants, she’s the kind of girl that would intimidate me had I seen her walking down the street. Who am I kidding? She still intimidates me.

“Rhonda, Mr Martin told us to be gentle with her!”

“I’m sorry, I actually have somewhere to be but you two look great.” I tell them, beginning to walk away and head towards the main school building.

“Did you not hear me? You’re dead, you don’t have anywhere to be.” The girl, I’m assuming Rhonda, shouts after me, causing me to stop in my tracks.

“Look I don’t know what sort of joke this is, but it’s not funny. Seriously, go find some other kid to pick on.”

As I walk into the school building, I begin my mission of searching for Abby, hoping I can find her in the auditorium or even the costume department. My search doesn’t take too long, as my assumptions proved correct. She is sitting on the stage, the theater club’s newest script in one hand and her phone in the other. Our text thread open on her screen, as I sit myself beside her, she doesn’t even acknowledge me, eyes flicking between her phone and the script.

“Abby, I need to tell you something but you have to swear you will not tell anyone.”

She completely ignores me, flipping the page of her script. Its as if I’m invisible to her, a joke that isn’t funny. Waving my hand in front of her face in an attempt to get her attention also proves futile as she doesn’t even look up. Glancing at her phone I notice she’s messaged me multiple times asking me of my whereabouts, telling me she’s seen Spencer but she didn’t see me with him, asking me if I am his homecoming date.

“Abby, seriously? This is important, your show can wait.”

“She can’t hear you.” Charlie says, him and Rhonda standing in front of me, arms resting on the edge of the stage. “Or see you, we’re invisible to them. Nothing you do is going to change that.”

“I don’t get it, why isn’t she answering me?” I ask, panic starting to set it as I grow more and more confused at my situation.

“Oh my god, do I really have to tell you again? Are you that fucking stupid? You’re dead. D-E-A-D. Deceased. Not living.” Rhonda speaks slowly, using a voice you would use for a child.

“I can’t be dead. There’s no way, it’s just not possible.”

“Yeah it takes some getting used to, but we’re all friends and you’ll come to terms with it soon enough. Mr Martin’s support group helps too.” Charlie tells me, smiling encouragingly as I watch Abby walk away with some of the other theater kids.

“Support group?” I ask, hopping off the stage to stand with the only two people that can see me.

“Come on, we’ll take you.” Rhonda states, almost as if it's more of a chore and not like she offered to take me.

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Sitting in a circle with the rest of the group, I can’t help my heart racing as I spot the football player sitting amongst everyone. He reminds me of Spencer and that’s what makes me nervous, or maybe it’s just the fact that he plays football. Either way I can’t help but feel on edge, hence why I placed myself in the furthest seat from him.

As I take in the rest of the room, I notice the basketball team playing further down the court. Not aware of the existence of the group of ghosts sat in a circle like they’re in an AA meeting. It feels so surreal, almost like an intricate nightmare that I will wake up from at any moment. Yet everything I’ve seen so far has been pretty real.

“We have a new student, would you like to introduce yourself?” The only teacher, who I am guessing is Mr Martin asks, as I feel all eyes divert their attention towards me.

The football player has a gentle aura around him, smiling at me as he waits for an answer to Mr Martin’s question. I look away quickly, unable to face the feelings of sickness in my stomach that I get when I look at him.

“I’m Y/N.”

The group mumbles a chorus of welcomes as I stare at the floor, still struggling to come to terms with the fact that I am actually dead.

“It’s hard at first, but I’m grateful that you decided to give the group a shot. It helps us all to move forward instead of focusing on our deaths and the past.” Mr Martin tells me, offering a look of sympathy. “Charlie, Rhonda, thank you for being Y/N’s guide, I’m sure it was very helpful.”

“So how did you die? In the old showers clearly, but that’s gotta be an interesting story right?” Rhonda asks, her eyes piercing into me as she places the lollipop back between her lips.

“Rhonda, you can’t just ask people that. Let her get used to us at least.”

His voice startles me, it’s as gentle as his aura. Soft and ever so charming. The protection in his tone is obvious as though he doesn’t wanna frighten me away and I glance at him for a moment. His football shirt sits perfectly against his toned chest and a gold chain hangs delicately from his neck. He’s beautiful. Truly beautiful.

“I’m Wally by the way, Wally Clark.” His voice is directed at me, staring at me intently.

At that moment, I can’t help but be transported back to before. Remembering my screams and pleads for them to stop. Praying someone would hear me and come to my rescue. They never did. They never stopped.

Jumping up from my chair, I feel myself getting worked up as I sprint out of the room. Terrified of reliving the past. Finding myself in an abandoned hallway, I slide against the wall until I’m sitting on the cold linoleum floor. Staring at the lockers as I try to calm my breathing.

“Hey, hey, are you okay?” Charlie asks, crouching in front of me with a concerned expression on his face. “Wally’s shitting himself thinking he did something wrong. I told him to hang back while I spoke to you.”

I let the tears fall down my face as I stare up at Charlie, feeling guilty that I’ve potentially upset an innocent boy because of my own trauma. I can’t go back to the group, I know I can’t. It would be in the best interests of every other ghost if I do my best to simply avoid Wally. That way nobody gets hurt.

“I’m sorry Charlie. I can’t do it, I can’t go back to the group. I can’t see him in that fucking uniform. I just can’t, I’m sorry.” My sobs are uncontrollable and I feel bad even just for putting Charlie through this when he’s known me for all of two hours.

“It’s okay, you’re okay. Is it the uniform, we can get him to change I’m sure, I know it’s not the best look but it is all he had since he died in his shoulder pads and all.”

I can’t help but let out a small laugh, wiping the tears from my face with the sleeves of my jumper. Charlie offers me his hand to help me stand up which I take graciously. He places a hand on my shoulder as a sign of encouragement, along with a gentle smile.

“I mean it Charlie. I can’t go back to the group. I don’t want to relive the memories.”

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“She’s adamant she’s not coming back.” Charlie tells the group, all of them awaiting the answers he has for them as to why the new girl ran away. “I don’t think it’s anything personal Wally but she said she can’t see you in that uniform and I think she may have had something happen regarding the football players. I don't wanna speculate though.”

“So, what? Her footballer boyfriend cheated on her and now she can’t look at poor, innocent Wally because it reminds her of him?” Rhonda asks, unimpressed by the lack of answers Charlie has.

“No, I think it’s something more than that. Something deeper. I’m sure she’ll tell us when she’s ready but for now, I would stop wearing the uniform Wally.”

The footballer didn’t need to be told twice, he instantly pulls the shirt over his head leaving him in only a tight, white tank top. Charlie smiles in appreciation, while Rhonda scoffs slightly upon seeing his muscular arms.

“Okay, so I’ve ditched the uniform, should I apologize or what?” Wally asks, looking at the group to gauge their reactions.

“Maybe now isn’t a good time Wally.” Mr Martin states, trying to think rationally. “I’d give it a day or so.”

“Or maybe just leave her alone for a while. Let her come out of her shell a bit first.” Charlie interjects.

“Yeah, let's not hurt cherry pop’s feelings.” Rhonda replies sarcastically, staring directly at Charlie.

As the rest of the group session continues, Wally stays silent, playing with the football uniform in his hands as he attempts to figure out different ways to apologize. To help her feel more at home in her new life, and potentially help her overcome the trauma of her death. Despite not managing to come up with a good idea, he does decide one thing. He will do whatever it takes to make her feel safe and become her friend.

#wally clark #wally clark x reader #wally clark fic #wally clark imagines #school spirits #school spirits fic #school spirits imagines #wally clark angst #wally clark fluff

[eldorr]

Cosmicqueer

With symbol (left), Without symbol (right)

Cosmicqueer is a Queer Stance where one is highly opinionated, aka me. Similar to Critinclus and other such terms. I just wanted a term for my beliefs because I saw some stuff that REALLY annoyed me the other night so here we are.

Cosmisqueer is PRO:

Non-traumagenic systems (aka systems of any kind)

Any "contradictory" or complicated queer identity (within reason, such as Turigirls and Lesboys, Cis Nonbinary Woman/Men, Gaybians, Tulipians, AMAB Transmascs, AFAB Transfems, etc.)

Split Attraction Model, such as Mspec Gay, Mspec Lesbian, Alloaro, Alloace, Alloallo Apl, etc. (Essentially inclusive of any non-rose attraction terms such as Alterous, Queerplatonic, Exteramo, Familial, etc., provided one's form of attraction with those is non-normative.)

Aldernic and Altersex

Terms to describe complicated forms of oppression, such as Exorsexism, Treimisia, and Transandromisia. Cosmisqueer also stands to uplift discussions on general transmisia, transmisogyny, homomisia, amisia, etc. (I personally prefer to use the suffix of misia over phobia.)

Neurodivergent, Race, Nonhuman, etc. exclusive genders/orientations/terms

Nonhumans, Otherkin, Alterhumans, etc.

Reclamation of slurs

Informed Self diagnosis

Kink

Objectum, Conceptum

Polyamory, Non-partnering, any non monoamory identity.

Any non-normative being describing oneself as Queer. (Within reason, should only be done if it's an aspect that defines one's identity a decent amount imo.)

Comsicqueer does NOT support:

Radqueer or other similar queer stances

Safequeer

Transid/TransX (Diaracial, Transage, Transabled, etc.)

Pro-Contact or any not anti-contact stance for non-consensual paraphilias (The big 3, and others)

Terms related to the big 3, non-consensual paras, highly dubious concepts. (Minus MAD flags, depending on the nuance of the subject at hand.)

Pro-ship ideology, non-critical fiction stances.

Pro-Incest, Pro-S/H, Pro-ED.

Emojis I'd associate with Cosmicqueer are: ✨☄️🌈. (Sparkles, Comet, Rainbow.)

I already pretty much ID with a couple queer stances, I just wanted a stance where one's Queer, and feels the word Queer can apply to any non-normative identity relating to gender, orientation, presentation, etc. while feeling Queer is inherently connected to the kink community, and can apply to nonhumans, plurals/systems, non-monoamorous beings, etc. as long as their internal identity affects their external expression in any shape and form, being visibly or socially "non-normative." (Within reason, hence the exclusion of actual harmful identities, actions, stances, etc.)

Essentially using the old definition of Queer to cover "strange" and "odd" identity, and blurring the boundaries between the old use of the word Queer, and the current use of it. Essentially I dislike people reducing Queer to just gender identity and sexual orientation, when Queer has always covered much more than that.

#coining #queer #lgbtq+ #mogai #liom #queer stance #queer stance umbrella #term coining #discourse related #technically #long post

[genderstarbucks]

this is just s small rant but i hate how anti mspec lesbians (and also anti mspec gays) are like you cant call yourself a panlesbian you have to call yourself a panromanitc homosexual cus thats what you really are like no dear stranger thats not what i am and im sick of you forching me to be that i am a panlesbian and thats the term that i prefer like calling myself a panromanitc homosexual doesnt make change the fact that im a lesbian but you just all dont want to akwoldige that becasue of how you view lesbians and also because you think that they word lesbian is a dirty and sexual term and termfore think that terms like homosexual and homosexual are better

DUDE LITERALLY, they're like "no you can't say you're a pan lesbian or panromantic lesbian, you HAVE to specify that you're panromantic homosexual"

Also do they not realize the split attraction model is a very common reason why people identify as mspec mono

"You can't be bi gay! Oh but you can be homoromantic bisexual or biromantic homosexual"

They're literally just trying to control how we identify our attraction

Like saying bi gay is much easier to say / type than biromantic homosexual or homoromantic bisexual

[subnivean-indigotin]

Intro post

Hello my name’s Indigo! -Im a minor, no nsfw messages or asks -They/lumi/ne/he -Angled Aro/Ace,Polysexual,and Aro/Aceflux -Alterhuman+Void punk  -Neurodivergent  -My partner is @1nt3rn3t4ng3l <3 I mostly post random shit about my interests

KINTYPES: Deer Ambikin

INTERESTS: Object Shows (rn mainly Animatic Battle and NUMBERS) Rain World  Rhythm Heaven Lemon Demon Femtanyl [the music artist] Vocaloid Pokemon

I’ll talk mostly about the ones in italics!

Basic dni Radqueer Transid Truscum/Transmed Pro Israel Pro ship/Comp ship/Anti ship Anti-MOGAI Anti nonhuman Against multispec labels/varioriented labels/split attraction model Pro-cop/Pro blue lives matter/anti-ACAB Post Fetish related content/super duper NSFW content Anti Agrere/Pet regression/think it’s a kink/fetish

EXTRAS: I’m fine with Ask games and Asks with questions! Please ask me about Lemon Demon or object shows

#intro post #blog intro #introductory post #pinned intro #pinned post #introduction

[colorisbyshe]

People within and around the LGBT community have always had dumb, harmful, and ultimately anti-LGBT takes

but I do think the argument of cisgender, straight ace inclusion into the community (and thus the inclusion of all of their rhetoric including the split attraction model and conversion therapy-lite rhetoric like “you can desire sex with someone without it being sexual attraction”) is emblematic and the peak of bad takes being seen as acceptable and even progressive.

And I don’t think it’s a coincidence that cisgender, straight ace inclusion started to be argued for around when gay marriage was legalized and it became more acceptable for people to be LGBT. With that, LGBT rep in media has increased, LGBT people were seen as ~cool in certain spheres, and talks about privilege increased, making a lot of people panic and look for ways to seem both cool and Not An Oppressor.

Imo, this shift around privilege/oppression can be tied to the erosion of a lot of identities, where they’re simultaneously revered and watered down (See: everything is a symptom and can be diagnosed, everyone is a victim of narcisstic gaslighting, etc), but I think with the LGBT community it’s kind of easiest to draw a straight line to where it has become the most blatant.

The second people started arguing that cisgender, straight people are LGBT, should have access to LGBT resources, can reclaim anti-LGBT slurs, and have a more profound understanding of sexuality… we opened the door to bisexual/straight lesbians, lesbians being mean oppressors, and every other piece of funkiness we’ve seen around who can call who/themselves queer.

[subniveanindigotin]

intro post

Hello my name’s Indigo!

BASIC STUFF: -I’m a minor, no nsfw asks. -They/lumi/ne/he -Angled aro/ace, polysexual, aro/aceflux -Alterhuman + voidpunk -Neurodivergent -My partner is @1nt3rn3t4ng3l <3

KINTYPES: -Deer Ambikin

INTERESTS: -Object Shows (rn mainly Animatic Battle and NUMBERS) -Rain World -Rhythm Heaven -Lemon Demon -Femtanyl [the music artist] -Vocaloid -Pokémon I’ll talk the most about the ones in italics!

DNI: -Basic dni -Radqueer -Transid -Truscum/Transmed -Pro Israel -Pro ship/Comp ship/Anti ship -Anti MOGAI -Anti nonhuman -Against multi spec labels/varioriented labels/split attraction model -Pro-cop/pro blue lives matter/anti ACAB -Post fetish related content/super duper NSFW content -Anti agrere/Pet regression/think it’s a kink or fetish

EXTRAS: -I’m fine with ask games and asks with questions! -please ask me about my opinions on Lemon Demon songs of object shows,,

[stimsandcrims]

oh btw you guys can always request stimboards. if you wanna. since i wanna do em and stuff.

explanation of my dni! under the cut

terf= trans exclusionary radical feminist. simple enough, i am trans

anti-endo has to do with system stuff, basically endogenic systems are systems who develop without trauma. mostly i am just on this side because i know people who are endogenic who are perfectly nice and a lot of anti-endo people that i have met are just mean spirited and stuff

anti mspec monospecs refers to people who think that bi lesbians for example aren't valid. i could go through a whole explanation but i mean at the end of the day, the fluidity of sexuality in addition to stuff like the split-attraction model mean.... i don't know why people think it's invalid

trans-id refers to a group of people that are trans___ and the blank is usually something like racial (believing that they can transition to another race), disabled (believing they can transition to be disabled), etc. while some of these do have non-harmful counterparts, i feel as though the people who do identify as trans-id have usually been unpleasant and i don't want them around

etc just basically for me means that if you interact and you're something else that i forgot but i don't want you around (like. idk. pedophiles.) then i will probably just block you. i just didn't have the time to write out an itemized list honestly

#pinned

[genderqueer-frog]

people who are anti mspec lesbians genuinely confuse me bc like. are they against the split attraction model?? bc the split attraction model and mspec lesbians are mutually inclusive. you can't have one without the other

#ace speaks #I can elaborate if y'all don't get what I mean #but also I am genuinely asking this I am so confused #pro mspec lesbian #mspec lesbian #pro mspec gay #mspec gay

[profiction-anomalocaris]

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He/him Seth or Set or Setka or Jean-Set. I have a lot of nicknames ADHD haver/survivor (depending on your POV) Over 18 Linguistics + Religious Studies double major, on accident In order to answer the "are you white or not" question we need to discuss the construct of whiteness as it applies to Central Asia in your country of origin and frankly neither of us has time for that

DNIs get ignored but for the record, I'm pro-MOGAI, pro-endo, pro-trans, pro-intersex rights, pro-self diagnosis (even if you don't get it right, turning to your provider and going 'I have the following symptoms' is useful), pro-whatever group of lesbians is getting dragged on tumblr today be they split attraction model users or ace or bi lesbians or what have you, radical inclusionist, you don't need dysphoria to be trans, respectability politics are worthless, men aren't inherently evil actually, pro-interracial couples because no matter what antis say people are equals actually, and pro-kink.

Sometimes I'm ignoring you. Sometimes tumblr genuinely eats asks. I have asks on my main that have been there, hovering, invisible, for a year. I don't know why.

If you start a conversation, you do not get to cry about people replying to what you posted publicly where anyone could reblog and reply. Pretending people are "harassing" you for replying is sad. Some of us have real problems.

If you use the "haha me no read reading iz bad lmao" excuse, you have forfeited all right to being taken seriously, not just by adults, but by children.

Depiction isn't synonymous with endorsement. Shipping isn't activism. Fandom isn't activism. One real person is worth the death of every blorbo you and I hold dear put together.

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Hiiii! My name is Jessie! I’m a Sapphic Demisexual Demigirl, and my pronouns are She/They/Heart!

As the blog name suggests, I mashup flags together to create a whole different flag! All flags that I create are completely free to use! You may suggest any flags that you want to be mashed up together, and I will do my best to give you a new flag to use!

I hope you like my work! <3

DNI:

Proship

MAPS/Pedos

Pro Lolicon

Pro Shotacon

Pro life

Anti Mspec Lesbian/Gay/Straight

Aphobic

Biphobic/ Panphobic/ Omniphobic

Polyphobic

Transphobic/Enbyphobic

Lesbphobic

Any sorts of LGBT-phobic

Anti Age Regression

Anti Furry

Anti Neopronouns

Anti Xenogenders

Anti Therian

Anti Split-Attraction Model

Ableist

Racist

#lgbtqia+ #lesbian #gay #bisexual #transgender #queer #intersex #aromanitc #asexual #pansexual #omnisexual #polysexual #polyamorous #agender #nonbinary #bigender #demigender #demigirl #demiboy #librafeminine #libramasculine #girlflux #boyflux #acespec #arospec #aspec #queerplatonic #qpr #sapphic #achellian