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purpleflameb0i · 7 months
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Being trans is about being who YOU ARE, not conforming to some silly gatekeepers on the internet !!! Use neopronouns, use xenogenders, do whatever !!! Just make sure not to hurt anyone :333
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bish-bash-dash · 2 years
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One thing I fucking hate about terf rhetoric is how trans and nonbinary people "feel like" a gender.
I can tell you now, I've "felt like" alot of things. I've felt shocked to know being feminine didn't make me a woman. I've felt scared to accept that any of the many faces of womanhood staring at me weren't my own. I've felt naked and vulnerable once I learnt I didn't belong to anything I was taught I was. I felt so low to know I was something everyone denied and couldn't love.
Yet, my gender is more that a "feeling".
I am more than my suffering, more than your anger, more of the love I had to find in myself and even more of the kindness from others like me. I am more than you could ever think of me.
You can hate me until you've burned to nothing, you can feel as venomous as you like till everyone around you is sick. But I will always be more than you and your petty feelings.
I am not going away. I am still alive despite everything and everyone. I am stronger than I have ever been.
I am non-binary and I am queer. Not as in 'odd', but as in greater than fear.
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404shcats · 1 year
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God I fucking hate sysmeds, I’m trying to figure out if we’re a traumagenic system but ofc I have to deal with anti-endos all the fucking time. I swear if I have to block one more sysmed I’m going to cry. I spent years of my life conforming to truscums standards and now after all this time anti-endos are setting more standards that I have to reach. I can’t deal with this today, I’m already thinking about detransitioning just to get away from truscums. I’m so tired. Fuck your “we’re so inclusive” bullshit. -Bones
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I think this is an incredibly important video to watch
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hadeantaiga · 1 year
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I would like every transmed to know they are wrong.
Non-dysphoric trans people are trans, and they can go on hrt. It will not "prove you're actually cis" or "cause dysphoria". It has only made me happy.
I have to shave twice a week now. If I was a cis woman who cared about facial hair, I think I'd be pretty upset about this change, but I'm not. I love it.
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friedloverballoon · 2 years
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Xenogender kids are the gift that keep on giving
Look at this. Anti-trans bills popping up everywhere, plenty of them being passed and written into law. One state (Arkansas) literally cites a cat xenogender as the reason for their anti-trans law.
And you mogai-using narcissists still can't pull the freaking redwood tree out of your eye and you continue to call transmedicalists "bullies".
Look at what the hell you've just done. We have regressed back years and years because of you. We were so close to a widespread acceptance of transgender people in America, non-binary not even that close behind. And now, only six years later…people are grouping transgender people with "transspecies" lunatics.
I know you'll pull the excuse of "but they were transphobic to begin with!!!!!!1!!1!!!!". My dad was accepting of transgender people, genuinely curious about the topic, and then became horrified when his friend's daughter came out as a non-binary void. You can say it all you want, but gender is not a social construct. And this is not going to last forever.
Looking at the bills and how so many adults are starting an uproar against transgender people, I can guarantee that you mogai people are going to face laws in the way of making people accept your insane identities. You should be ashamed of yourselves for speaking over actual, real, dysphoric transgender people. Especially dysphoric teenagers, the ones you claim to be helping.
Of course, the amount of detransitioners and anti-trans bills will be incredibly high, so dysphoric transgender people will, of course, have to work around that and try once again to make themselves seem normal in society.
Xenogender kids. You are making things worse.
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receivingtranny · 4 months
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just saw a post saying that men shouldn't be allowed to become therapists because they *will* rape women/girls or at best... mentally ill women and girls *will always* catch inappropriate romantic/sexual feelings for a male therapist (not even gonna touch the flaming pile of internalized misogynistic shit lying within the later statement) and just...
what the fuck you guys.
like yeah fuck the "not all men" attitude that's just a fucking scapegoat abusive men love to say for why they never hold themselves or other men accountable, but actually *genuinely* saying all men will rape and abuse if they became a therapist does nothing to offer solutions that will actually make therapy safe for people.
because i'm sorry but i've had nearly 40 therapists in my life and unfortunately i've had a mix of really harmful experiences from both male and female therapists. the best therapist i had was actually nonbinary. the second and third best were male.
i've had both male/female therapists try to convert me to christianity and say my illness was god punishing me for sinning. i've had female therapists enable my father to continue being sexually/psychologically/physically abusive under the guise of "you're probably just being a dramatic teenage genderfuck" they didn't say genderfuck but they definitely thought my queerness had given some reason for why my dad should be the one to help "get me on the right track".
so i ask you radfem bioessentialists, in your utopia without male therapists, what's your solution for people like myself? multigender/nonbinary people who are seeking therapy, or *gasp* perhaps even schooling to become a therapist? do i get a female therapist because i was AFAB? or no since i identify as a man and have a penis now I must be planning on raping her so i'll need a male therapist. but wait, i'm AFAB and i identify as a woman so he must be planning on raping me. so another multigender AFAB person i'm guessing? wait but if i identify as a woman and a man... and they identify as a woman and a man... who's the one planning on raping the other in this situation? I just wanna make sure I know what to do here, being part man and all, is it in my nature to rape her? or is it his nature to rape me? or do we just rape ourselves all the time since we're both men and women simultaneously.
sorry not to sound like an asshole there at the end with the sarcasm, but like, i was human trafficked for several months and am now severly agoraphobic and even i'm not this terrified that everyone i meet is going to rape me. so idk man. get a grip? have some compassion beyond yourself? some critical thinking skills maybe?
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transmeds when they realize invalidating and being transphobic towards other trans people won’t make transphobic cis people accept them
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"if you could be cis, would you ?"
not i fucking wouldn't. not at all. that shit is not me. sure you can be trans and wish to be cis but simply not all trans people want to be cis. if i was a cis man i wouldnt have the life and experience i do. i see nothing wrong with being trans and neither should you. i actually did want to be cis. when i was a trans med. i only felt this way because i had self hatred and hated being trans. trans medicalism is harmful to every trans person, even trans meds themselves. a lot of trans meds have some sort of internalized transphobia. when i first came out at 15 i was shamed and basically told i wasn't "really trans" because i was feminine and not masculine. that shit is harmful. gender dysphoria isn't even exclusive to trans people. some cis people CAN have gender dysphoria. this is not a requirement to be trans. when i was a trans med i also thought there was only 2 genders. but i had to unpack that shit and so should you. because the statement that "there's only 2 genders" is rooted in colonization. you are supporting a colonizer idea. i love being a gay transsexual, i would not want to be cis. i am who i am because of things like being gay, trans, autistic, etc. and no i am not "making things my whole personality." taking pride in all of my identities is not me "making it my whole personality." there's trans people without gender dysphoria. just like theres cis people with gender dysphoria. and no, medical transition is not a requirement. trans does not mean transition. plus not everyone can afford such things. trans meds please rethink your ideas and see how harmful they actually are.
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romanananan · 2 months
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"we need more trans representation!! except when it comes to nonbinary trans people. and intersex trans people. and people who are agender. and people with more than 1 gender. and people who are genderfluid/flux. and people with xenogenders. and people who don't look like their gender. and trans people who don't fit in the gender binary."
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foxfairy06 · 1 year
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TW: mentions of molestation, beating, abuse, grooming, etc.
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404shcats · 1 year
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Damn, truscums really took “gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss!” a bit too seriously. Like y’all know that was a joke, right?
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sirenium · 5 months
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'You need dysphoria to be trans' motherfuckers when they realize the 'trender' they 'called out' for having xenogenders is a dysphoric trans person: erm actually you're still not trans cuz I don't understand you! >:(
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queer discourse tumblr will be like "this group of queer people face hate crimes and this is obviously the fault of this other group of queer people and not the perpetrators" and not see anything wrong with it
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stormy-mogai · 2 years
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"ew no REAL nd person would be that cringe"
Gee, it's almost like neurodivergent people are autonomous human beings who can make their own decisions, and not little robots that solely exist to perform their disability Well Enough for NTs! /s
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