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#antinatalism
ein-kleiner · 1 year
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I’m like the opposite of a catholic. all sex is fine except sex for reproduction
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moidhaterxxx · 2 months
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Where are my women with zero maternal instincts
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narcoterrorista · 1 year
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Emil Cioran, The Trouble With Being Born
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radsplain · 11 months
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I’ve always hated hearing men so audaciously utter the phrase “I want kids.” Like even if it’s just said in response to someone asking them the question of “do you want kids?” Something doesn’t sit right about it to me. It’s just so presumptuous. Like what do you mean you want kids? Will you be the one carrying these hypothetical children around for 9 months and be forced to put your body at all types of risks and complications that come from carrying a child and giving birth? Will you be doing the lion’s share of the domestic and emotional labor that it takes to raise a child and fulfill all of their mental, social, emotional, and physical needs? Where do you come off saying things like “I want kids,” as if it’s just a forgone conclusion that some poor woman will ever be willing to have children with you specifically. What makes you so special. You’re literally just some guy. You likely don’t even actually want kids and all of the responsibility that comes with. You just want the social capital of having a ‘legacy’ and a name to pass on. As if your genes are even worthy of preserving. As if you’re that important. “I want kids.” Fuck off.
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yulia-inferis · 3 months
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(Im Agnostic)
Heinrich Heine
"Sleep is good, death is better; but of course, The best would be never to have been born at all"
David Benetar
"Each one of us was harmed by being brought into existence. That harm is not negligible, because the quality of even the best lives is very bad—and considerably worse than most people recognize it to be. Although it is obviously too late to prevent our own existence, it is not too late to prevent the existence of future possible people"
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insaniquariumfish · 7 months
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Some people have love for humanity, but no compassion for it, no real empathy for human beings that goes beyond the surface level and superficial. Being a misanthropist with compassion is better than being a philanthropist who thinks that there is ultimately nothing fundamentally wrong with the world, who thinks it's okay if all the horrors that humans are subjected to continue to persist, because they think "everything balances out in the end" or because "everything happens for a reason" or some shit. Like I'm sorry, but we definitely tolerate toxic positivity and allow it to masquerade as healthy optimism out of a fear of ever validating anything that seems "too edgy" way, way too much. At some point a desire to only think normal thoughts that aren't cringe turns into intellectual cowardice and moral laziness, and you've definitely reached that point if your attitude towards the abundance of heinous suffering in this world is just, "oh gee well that sure is unfortunate, but you know, ultimately life is beautiful and everything is okay, and none of that stuff really matters in the grand scheme of things, life is still inherently good, etc. etc."
If there is no form of suffering so heinous to you that you would rather vaporize the planet than allow it to continue for one more day, then I'm sorry but you are someone with a hollow and performative affection for your species. Valuing the mere presence of human minds over the actual experiential quality of the lived realities of real humans will always be oonga boonga brain shit to me, I'm sorry. Like your primal drive to support the species' survival is dampening your higher moral functioning. I would rather live in a world where there's just three clones named Sally who are immortal and always happy, than live in a world where millions of people are enduring unspeakable horrors every single day, sorry. "The beauty of life" and "the wonderful tenacity of the human spirit" mean nothing to me when there are people living their entire lives in slavery and little girls are getting gangraped to death. The fact that people regularly take their own lives because their pain is so unbearable that they'd prefer to just cease existing should tell us all we need to know about the value of quantity vs. quality on this issue. Life itself is not inherently good any more than anything else is, and more life does not automatically equal more value and goodness. If you see nothing wrong with throwing new people into this world despite knowing what it could have in store for them, what potential fates they, or their children, could endure, then you only love humanity in the way you love coffee or a good book. You love the idea of humanity. The ideal of humanity. What humanity represents to you. You love humanity as a concept, not as a collection of individual human beings with thoughts and feelings.
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swagging-back-to · 4 months
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it is not controversial to say that if you cannot finacially, emotionally provide for a child and/or your genetics would lead to them suffering then you should not have said child.
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eminjbrylv · 8 months
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onceagwen · 9 months
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how you gon be suicidal and have a baby. bitch you don’t even wanna be here.
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bloughjobs · 1 year
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moidhaterxxx · 1 month
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Idk a single woman over 30 who is single. Not a single one of them is happy. It's either cheating husband, abusive husband, drunk husband, useless husband and even if the husband is good, they work like a dog outside the house and are tortured inside the house too. If they have kids I have never seen a male even look at them, much less take care of them.
I'm going to break the cycle somehow even while there is so much pressure on me to capitulate.
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brutalistemple · 1 year
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I love childfreedom I love antinatalism I love sterelization I love childfree people I love childfree spaces I love childfree media I love sleep I love freedom I love hedonism I love being the center of my own life until I die
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onesaltysir · 9 months
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nirivenova · 4 months
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Friendly reminder that if your life is fucked up, having a kid will not fix it
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ssnake-party · 4 months
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I am so so tired. Popular media is spewing queerphobic bullsh#t and my parent is eating it up.
Today, I tried explaining that those media are not giving accurate information. I tried to explain what LGBTQ+ is, and how it's totally normal and valid, and that my parent shouldn't be learning things about this community through the mouths of straight and cis people.
I just want to come out, and have some support. I just want to tell someone I know. My parent is always like they'll support me no matter what, but if they have such a misguided view of queer people- how can I tell them that I am queer as well. That's why I care SO much about this. Just please understand me.
My parent is not so accepting wherever I say something they don't want to hear. When I said I will not be having children, they see it as something sad. When I say I'm autistic and I have ADHD (my doctor literally told me), he again looks hurt. And says, no way don't say things like that.
I can't tell him I'm queer now, I just don't want to explain to someone who doesn't want to understand. I'm so heartbroken. My head hurts, and I want to cry.
And he just says everything while acting like he's not queerphobic like what? And the media he follows is supportive when they are perpetuating harmful stereotypes..? Why is he always like this.. if you say you're gonna support someone no matter what, then you should. Like what exactly should I expect from you when your words don't match..
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