#aroace positivity

[dragonsarecool123]

Aspec representation is important because kids are still told in health class that everyone feels attraction

Aspec representation is important because somewhere in the world there’s a 12 year old crying because they feel broken

Aspec representation is important because I still get told “that’s not real” when I come out

Aspec representation is important because people still think the A in LGBTQIA+ stands for ally

Aspec representation is important because everyone deserves to see someone like them on screen

Aspec representation is important because people still think that asexual and aromantic are the same thing

Aspec representation is important

#lgbtqia #aromantic #aroace #asexual #aromaticism #aro positivity #ace #ace positivity #aroace positivity #aroace moment

[aroninshonour]

As an aroace I sometimes will look at fictional characters or an actual person and think "Woah, hey, they're pretty/handsome" and then I'll start to question if I'm actually aroace over one person... and I am.

Whenever I start to question it I will ask myself two questions: Would I wanna be romantically involved with them/would I want to be sexually involved with them? And my answer is always no. I just find them aesthetically pleasing

Now of course these questions may not work for every aroace person, but it works for me.

Basically this is post saying that if you're aroace and find someone you think looks nice, that doesn't mean you aren't aroace, you just think they're neat :]

#aroace #aromantic #asexual #lgbtq positivity #aroace positivity #You are aesthetically pleasing :> #<33

[aroace-and-has-a-mace]

shoutout to aromantics who feel sexual attraction

shoutout to asexuals who feel romantic attraction

shoutout to aromantic asexuals who don’t feel either but are in sexual/romantic relationships

shoutout to aromantic asexuals in queerplatonic relationships

shoutout to aromantic asexuals who don’t care for romantic/sexual relationships

shoutout to aromantic asexuals who are disgusted by romantic/sexual relationships

basically, shoutout to asexuals, aromantics, or any a-spec people

#ace #asexual #aro #aromantic #aroace #aromantic asexual #ace positivity #aro positivity #aroace positivity #i just fucking love you guys #lgbtqia+ #pride

[batri-jopa]

I love my life highly satisfied just being myself

(Female version here)

#okey so as my 'I love myself' post is the most popular thing on my blog (500 notes already yet still growing and it's wild😆) #I decided to make a male version just in case anybody needed it😉 #anyone having more idea - pls go ahead and tell me I'd love to make it a happy queer series! it doesn't need to be aspec only😉 #aroace #aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #aromantic asexual #aromantism #asexuality #aspec #a spec #a spectrum #aroace positivity #aro ace #queer #queer positivity #(I'm most probably only shooting myself in the foot giving two similar pictures but who knows where it may lead) #2K

[wonkyducks]

All the people erasing ace and aro rep because "asexual people can have sex"' and "aromatic people can want romantic relationships" is giving the same vibes as "they just haven't met the right person yet" or "I can change them"

(Quick edit: I want to make it clear that I do support ace and aro specs I just hate non-aroace specs who are just aroace being erased)

#asexual #aroace #aromantic #aro pride #ace pride #ace positivity #aro positivity #aroace pride #aroace positivity #stop erasing aromatic rep #Stop erasing ace rep

[aroacesse]

i’ve seen a lot of aro, ace and aroace people not sure if they should or not use microlabels and my simple answer is: do what feels best for you. you’re valid anyway.

general labels might look black and white, and sometimes people who fall into grey areas may feel the need to explain better their experiences, even people who do fall into black/white may like it.

being aro/ace/aroace is a huge part of us because it determines how we see ourselves, the world, how the world sees us and how we interact with the world. if you wanna label yourself only as aromantic/asexual/aromantic asexual, awesome! if you wanna use microlabels, let’s go! if you don’t wanna label yourself at all, it’s totally fine!

that’s totally up to you and how you wanna view and experience your aromantism/asexuality.

#aromantic #asexual #aro #ace #aromantic asexual #aroace #aromantism #asexuality #asexual pride #aromantic pride #asexual positivity #aromantic positivity #microlabels #ace pride #aroace pride #aroace positivity #aspec #aspec stuff #aroacespec

[disbestyx]

Memes based on my own awkward Arospec life, who doesn't love that?

And I promise more of my fantastic wit will be coming to your screens very soon!

#aromantic #aro positivity #aromantism #arospec #aro culture is #aro memes #platonic #friends #advice #actually aro #aroace positivity #aroace #humor #genius #acesexual #ace pride #asexual #acespec

[risesthenight]

who let alastor on reddit

#hazbin hotel #alastor #aroace alastor #aromantic #asexual #aroace #aroace positivity #vivzieverse #vivienne medrano #hellaverse

[swords-and-chaos]

Shout out to all of y’all who are happily or unhappily single for this upcoming Valentine’s Day! Society is gonna try to tell you that it’s wrong, or something to be sad about, but this is your reminder that you don’t need another person to love you to be loved/worthy of love! Special shout out to all of you aro and/or ace spec folks! Just because you don’t/don’t want to have someone to spend the day with doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy it! Chocolate is going to be cheap in the following days! Do something nice for yourself.

#aro/ace exclusionists I am exploding you with my mind #amatonormativity #ace #aro #aroace #queer #valentines day #this is half written to myself tbh #aroace positivity #asexual #aromantic

[sirenium]

This post is to remind every aroace being that they are cool and fine just the way you are. You are not less of a being for being romance and/or sex repulsed (if applicable), and you're not less aroace for being romance and/or sex favorable (if applicable). You deserve a space in this life, in queer communities, and aroace communities regardless of the amount of attraction you feel, if you're favorable, repulsed or something else, or if you seek/don't seek relationships with anybody.

This post is also for aroace systems with aroace fictives! Reminder that a fictive is their own person and, even if they are aroace like their source they may or may not be the same *kind* of aroace.

#aroace positivity #aroace #aro positivity #ace positivity #system positivity #endo safe #sysblr #aromantic #asexual

[nashtra]

you are allowed to be aro / ace and still want relationships or sex btw. aspec just means you don't feel attraction to them.

people are complicated, everyone will feel different levels of attraction, and just because you want to do something doesn't mean you want the thing.

you are allowed to be aro and still want to partner

you are allowed to be ace and still want sexual experiences

it's fine to call yourself aro/ace even if you feel a little attraction and are with someone

aro/ace are labels to describe your feelings, to communicate them, find people like you. you are aro/ace as long as you think it's nice

#aroace #aspec #asexual #aromantic #queer #positivity #fablog #aroace positivity #aroallo #graysexual #acespec #aroace community #queer positivity

[dragonsarecool123]

”Your too young to know you’re aroace”

So what! Sexuality is fluid!

LET ASPEC TEENS LIVE THEY’RE LIVES

#lgbtqia #aroace #aromantic #asexual #aromaticism #aro positivity #ace positivity #ace #aroace positivity

[arofulboyfriend]

I feel like sometimes, aro/ace/aroace positivity posts can accidentally exclude us non gold star holders, so reminder:

if you are ace and have had consensual sex in the past but don't want it anymore, you are still ace

if you are aro and have had a romantic relationship in the past but don't want one anymore, you are still aro

yes, even if the "past" was last week, yes, even if these things happened while you were already identifying as ace/aro/aroace, yes, even if you enjoyed them, yes, even if you didn't, yes, even if you're neutral, yes, even if you'd be willing to try again. (and of course, aces/aros/aroaces who still do those things/have those relationships are just as ace/aro/aroace as the rest of us)

and especially

yes, even if you are sex and/or romance repulsed now

#aromantic #asexual #aroace #aspec #arospec #aroacespec #aromantic positivity #asexual positivity #aroace positivity #seren yaps #im not a gold star holder and have had sex and romantic relationships but im sex repulsed and romance neutral now #and sometimes i feel very much like a faker because of it #gold star rhetoric is hurtful and dangerous #so this is as much a positivity post for me as it is for all yall #i love u (platonically) #i appreciate you (for the loveless among us)

[kruxband]

shoutout to aro, ace, and aroace selfshippers. we're the coolest and most awesome people ever btw 🫶🫶

[pro/comshippers DNI]

#self ship #selfship #self shipping #selfshipping #self ship community #selfship community #self shipping community #selfshipping community #self ship positivity #selfship positivity #self shipping positivity #selfshipping positivity #aromantic #asexual #aro #ace #aroace #aro positivity #ace positivity #aroace positivity

[batri-jopa]

I love myself looking sexy for the sheer pleasure of it

#me myself and I #my art #aromantic asexual #aromantic #asexual #aro #ace #aro/ace #aroace #this time the 'rough cut paper' effect was on purpose #my cap is a little darker. I'm already too fat for my only grey trousers. and the old turtleneck have its colours reversed #only the sunset flag is true🙃 #sunset flag #just me #aroace positivity #aroace artist #oh and it was like dicussing the idea of 'looking pretty to be liked by someone' that I guess I almost believed for some time in my life #so maybe it's beyond aspec actually #all the guys look good for yourself always!✊️

[hoarder-of-stories-27]

Aspec people who use the label “queer”, you’re so important. I’m glad you exist.

Aspec people who would use the label but feel they can’t because of aphobia, I’m so sorry. I wish you safety and peace.

Aspec people in general, I hope you’re having a good day. You deserve a community that accepts you.

#queer positivity #aro positivity #ace positivity #aroace positivity #aspec positivity #demi positivity #demisexual positivity #demiromantic positivity #asexual positivity #aromantic positivity #acespec positivity #arospec positivity #encouragement #my posts #/aphobia mention