#arohace

[flippingpancake]

[ID. Three almost identical flags. 6 stripes, top to bottom, 2 variations of indigo, 2 almost-identical shades of magenta, 2 shades (orange and yellow) making amber. The first has a turquoise greek symbol of v inside a white circle outlined with the same turquoise, the outline continues into a thin stripe for the middle of the flag. The second has only the turquoise v symbol without the circle or the thin stripe. The third has only the turquoise middle stripe without any symbol. End]

Nonamory - a lifestyle choice that does not include intimate, long term partnerships

I wanted to try my hand at a redesign of the nonamorous flag cuz i was bored rlly like the original color meanings n wanted it to better match the description ^___^

Original meaning still applies (with a few changes) :

Indigo - Integrity of nonamorous folks shown towards ourselves in spite of social pressure to enter into monogamous relationships

Magenta - Compassion and solidarity with members of our own community + others who struggle against the pressures of an amatonormative society, and the harmony we can achieve outside of "traditional" long-term partnerships

Amber - The joy, independence, and confidence we harbor both in non-monogamous relationships and with ourselves, freedom in the self

Turquoise - Healing and self-sufficiency we find in, and as, a community despite living in a world that treats us as "incomplete" for not seeking out a monogamous partnership

Greek symbol v - Adventureousness and creativity in how we relate to the world, to represent how nonamory has long been in "uncharted waters" in terms of general awareness, and also acceptance of how we choose to approach our close attachments

(Also some other things)

Ratio of the simplified one - 8 : 8 : 7 : 2 : 7 : 8 : 8

Symbol font - Bodoni MT italic (with added thickness by bucket tool)

Original flag that was the inspiration

#how do i tag this #nonamory #nonamorous #pride flag #queer #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtq+ #lgbtqia #mogai #someone tell me what to tag this as i have no idea what im doing #arohace #i need another identity tag #also the reason i changed the font of the symbol is bcuz i couldnt find the orignal font so. </3 #i actually originally planned to like. remake the black n white one but well. this happened so #my flags

[flippingpancake]

if aspecs came to you to tell you that you reblogged a post from an aphobe and your response is "don't involve me in discourse" i'm breaking into your house and eating all your food

#aphobia #aphobia mention #ace discourse mention #arohace #ramblings of a long forgotten god

[flippingpancake]

color coded attire :p

#aromantic #nonamorous #asexual #digital art #art #my art #original art #pspspsps gimme some notes n validation #me #arohace #finallyyyyyyy finished it hhh #i really do wish i have all of these #especially the nonam one >:3 #tho mayyybe not in that exact colors asnjodijwq #oh fuck shit hell forgot aro + ace rings missed oppurtunity noooo!!!!! #oh whatever its finished!!! #also i miiight make anotha one for gender who knows!!!! #oh i forgot to make the hijab version :( *cleches fist* damn my inability to draw in long sessions

[flippingpancake]

honestly idk why people are so confused abt SAM allos, if an alloace lesbian can realize they experience romantic attraction to woman-and-adjacents but not sexual attraction to anyone, how is it too much of a reach a SAM allo like a homoromantic bisexual can realize they experience sexual attraction to 2-or-more genders but only experience same gender romantic attraction

#honestly -_- #or maybe this is kinda pretty influenced with me being aroace n thinking abt favourable aspecs #and sam aspecs #also this was kinda from seeing an aspec saying allos cant use the split attraction model and SHUT UP shut up shut up #i hate hate HATE aspecs who r exclus fucking HYPOCRITES no goddamn SELF AWARENESS #'dni if u think x identity is real' you dont even know what it means!!!!!!! ur in an exclus echo chamber and u cant even see it!!!!!! #you cant even be bothered to actual google stuff instead of echoing exclus rethoric??????? you cant even be bothered to actually do some #research???????? fuck you i hate you #that turned rant-y huhm #n e ways that got away #arohace #ramblings of a long forgotten god

[flippingpancake]

what is with tired long black haired men being ace im not mad i think its hilarious i just wanna know

granted its only two ive seen but nickles and whatnot ya know

#this is abt canon ace jon tma and aizawa from bnha being hced as ace #i think its funny #and i also had a throwaway long black haired guy oc a few months back and i wouldnt have wasted my time in turning him ace #hmmm thoughts to consider #dont mind me its 10 pm and im feeling the gradual effects of manic ism #onset. something #drops dead #ramblings of a long forgotten god #arohace #wait i *am* the tired long black haired guy+ #the plus is there becuz im also girl. guy girlguy #guygirl. also i switch around tired head empty and manic so

[flippingpancake]

at this point im just gonna start obnoxiously copy pasting aspec terms definitions into aphobes askboxes

#ramblings of a long forgotten god #arohace

[flippingpancake]

i wish i could filter a universal tag of every shippy stuff ever

#feeling especially romance repulsed int his chilis tonight (thumbs up) #okay the same amount of romance repulsion as normal. which is still p repulsed #i wish me filtering out romance and shipping actually does something #ramblings of a long forgotten god #arohace

[flippingpancake]

do people really have to be useful for you to even have a slight chance of them being respected? do people have to have any use to you for you even give them the decency to admit they exist? they belong?

#this was abt abt some . posts. that talked abt how 'its not abt if ace people belong its abt how they have contributed to the community' #they just. leave a bad taste in my mouth #we dont need to be fucking USEFUL to you. to admit we belong here #god the fucking . wording the fucking #arghh #arohace #ramblings of a long forgotten god

[flippingpancake]

hahaha what if we destroy the amatonormative idea of relationship hierarchy by being friends with benefits with our friendship not being any lesser nor less important than other relationships nor we are any other than friends

and we were both non amorous alloaros 😳😳😳

#this is abt jane and jasprose :] #i have my hcs :]]] #they cool and kiss (and more *wink*) #actually i think i *will* post this one on my main :] #you may see a snippet of my aspec hc. once :] #the post is vague enough and the character im talking abt is only mentioned in the tags #ramblings of a long forgotten god #anyways *holds non amorous jane in my hands* comfotr... #arohace #hacecanon #aro prospit kids do be giving me unlimited serotonin and comfort #:]

[flippingpancake]

aro fics my beloved <3

#found some good ones on ao3 with the search function :] #even got one of my fav character #(it was aro kakashi with qp kakagai) #it was nice #also teared up once from reading a tma aro martin one #ramblings of a long forgotten god #arohace

[flippingpancake]

Getting another blog so i can word vomit about my aspec headcanons (and complain abt allos) was the right decision im having so much fun <3

#i can now be a mean aro(ace) now >:) #love loses <3 #but in a fun way where i win #arohace #ramblings of a long forgotten god

[flippingpancake]

romance is real?????

#/J /J /J #okay i joke but JAKFNODL #I ALWAYS GET SO SURPRISED WHEN PEOPLE LIKE. #FLIRT. AND PDA. LIKE AJNDKFLD #NOO IT IS NOT JUST A FICTIONAL THING PEOPLE ARE REALLY INTERESTED IN ROMANCE AHSJXKOR #Ahahajsjdjfkkwk god ahshfkfod #like. realistically romance is a real thing people irl do #realiztically i know* #but. i just go ??????? everytime i see with my own two eyes its shajzmfopskw #like ''wait its real??? you guys r doing the flirting thingy??? no joke???'' #''for real for real???'' #''romance real????'' #aksjdkozjslxjosjw #arohace #ramblings of a long forgotten god #god ahsbxkaanso

[flippingpancake]

it is very simple :] i do not understand sexual or romantic attraction. i make the characters i like also not understand sexual or romantic :]

#this is about. every character i like. everyone. everyone is not spared. #actually even characters i *hate* r also aspec. like reaver ! i hate reaver yet i still give him the juno special aromantic experience akfnc #reaver = alloaro. hammer = the cooler alloaro #everyone is aroacespec.... unless i find it funny they experience attraction in which case ill give them this allo experience... #qhskxllakap #arohace #ramblings of a long forgotten god

[flippingpancake]

I think the non amorous aro community has done more for my internalized arophobia and amotonormativity than anyone in else the aspec community

#to the loveless the aplatonics the non pertnering #u guys r the coolest :] n i hope someday people can see it n i hope someday u guys get to live how u want to live :] #arohace #ramblings of a long forgotten god #aphobia mention

[flippingpancake]

*gets my flight or fight instinct activated but my flight instinct is just me trying to leave before i bite your fucking fingers off*

#sometimes. i would really like to go fucking feral n just straight up bite someones fingers off #its hhhhhhhh i hate hypocrites on the queer community so much #sometimes i wish being ace was enough #hhhhhh so turns out i actually HAVE internalized acephobia HUH #not just arophobia godd #i hate aphobes so much i hate aphobes i hate i hate u guys so much why cant ut be enough why cant being ace be enough why cant i be enoughsk #godd. ghhghhh #vent #violence mention #arohace #ramblings of a long forgotten god

[flippingpancake]

at what point does the squish becomes a plush

#this is probably incomprehensible outside of the aspec community ajdkozjsla #plus idek if its plush or swoosh #but if u know u know 😔 #arohace #ramblings of a long forgotten god #yea my squish turned from oh theyre so cool i wanna be their friend woww to i want to fly over to their country n talk abt gender n ocs #n listen to their ramblings...