#aromantic lesbian

[dragons-and-cake123]

Happy Lesbian Visibility Week to ALL Lesbians!

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Lesbian Visibility Week includes:

Agender lesbians (me!) 🖤🩶🤍💚🤍🩶🖤

Asexual lesbians (also me!) 🖤🩶🤍💜

Trans lesbians 🩵💗🤍💗🩵

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Genderfluid lesbians 🩷🤍💜🖤💙

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and many, many more!

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[sanyu-thewitch05]

The ace, lesbian, aromantic lesbian, and ace lesbian girlies gathering around to discuss our weekly topic of swords,cake, and how we don’t like men:

@thisismisogynoir cus you’re my lesbian bestie!

#asexual #ace #aromantic #ace memes #lesbian #lesbian memes #ace lesbian #aromantic lesbian

[frogsforthefrogwar]

#lesbian #lesbian pride #aro #aromantic #aromantic pride #aro lesbian #aromantic lesbian #userboxes

[bumblingbee1]

Shoutout to aromantic lesbians!

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💚🤍🖤

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[canonically47]

you ever meet a man and think how glad you are to not be attracted to men

#as an aro lesbian this happens to me daily #lgbt #lgbtq+ #lgbtq community #lgbtqia #queer #pride #aromantic #lesbian #aro #arospec #aspec #aromanticism #wlw #sapphic #aro lesbian #aromantic lesbian

[our-lesboy-experience]

happy aro week to all my aromantic lesboys and any lesboy who falls under the aro spectrum!!!

#lesboy #aromantic #aromantic awareness week #happy aro week #arospec #demiromantic #grayromantic #aroflux #cupioromantic #frayromantic #aromantic lesbian

[amadiorra]

I'm aromantic but I lowkey want a girlfriend

#aromantic #aromantic lesbian #does this make sense #alloaro

[aro-lesbian-culture-is]

aromantic lesbian culture is wanting a girlfriend so bad but knowing that even if a girl liked you romantically you wouldn't be able to reciprocate that love

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#oh this one #so true yeah #culture is blog #lesbian #aromantic #aro lesbian culture is #aro lesbian #aromantic lesbian #sapphic

[etoilesmoon]

aromantic lesbians ily <3

#that's it that's the post #aromantic lesbian #aromantic #lesbian

[violottie]

happy aromantic awareness week to all the aromantic lesbians out there. you are all so amazing and perfect!

💚🤍🩶🖤 ❤️🧡🤍🩷💖

#aromantic #aro #aro pride #aromantic lesbian #aro lesbian #arospec #aromantic awareness week

[maxinwell]

Lesbian Cat + random bandanas | [IMAGE ID: nine doodles of cats colored to look like the lesbian flag, each wearing a bandana made of other pride flags. The bandanas are made of the transfem, transmasc, asexual, aromantic, genderqueer, nonbinary, demigirl, trans & bambi lesbian flags :END ID]

#my art #lgbtq art #pride cats #lesbian #bambi lesbian #transfem lesbian #transmasc lesbian #asexual lesbian #aromantic lesbian #genderqueer lesbian #nonbinary lesbian #demigirl lesbian #trans lesbian #trans #transfem #transmasc #nonbinary #genderqueer #asexual #aromantic #demigirl

[areyouthisidentity-polls]

Are you...

A lesbian who experiences attraction in some way or desires some type of relationship besides platonic friendship, but doesn’t fall in love in a romantic way.

#poll #tumblr poll #polls #tumblr polls #orientation #sexuality #mogai #lgbt #queer #aromantic lesbian #aro lesbian #lesbian #aromantic

[theaquinn-misc]

A-spec Lesbian

I decided to make my own list of things that have helped me realized I'm gay. Disclaimer: I'm not the arbiter of what makes someone an aspec lesbian, however if you experience some or most of these it's something to consider. Disclaimer 2: I've also not had a lot of experience dating so I can't include much of that here. This post will be divided in 3 sections: Men, Women and NBs and media

Men:

only crushing on "unavailable" men: married, in a relationship, much older, gay, fictional, celebrities

"crushing" on men and enjoying fantasizing about them, but not trying to flirt or even get close to them in any way

"crushing on a man" for a set period of time and then and thinking he's the hottest thing since sliced bread, but later (especially after a physical separation) finding him meh or cringey

fantasies about men having more to do with being happy and fulfilled in life and being seen as someone to be jealous of, not so much about the specific person

having a crush/attraction to a man only for him to return it and you realize that you feel uncomfortable

meeting a guy who is conventionally attractive and meets all your standards and telling yourself you are attracted to him but still feeling a weird pressure in your stomach/chest because "something is missing"

liking a guy, until he changes something minor about his appearance (shaves, does his hair differently) and then finding him basic/meh and losing all attraction to him

never understanding what women see in the men they date or like in media, at least looks-wise

finding even extremely conventionally attractive men to be kinda meh and thinking women attracted to men must be exaggerating how hot they find them

being uncomfortable when you find out a man has a crush on you and wanting him to stay away, but with women/nbs it's just a bit awkward and overall no big deal

having to force sexual and romantic fantasies for men and getting bored of them after a while

finding the most aesthetically attractive man in a group and deciding you are attracted to him (bonus points: being relieved when you find out he's taken/ and/or you could never date him for some reason)

being anxious or sad or bored when you imagine your life with a man

only wanting to date men if it's polyamorous (note: this is not to invalidate poly people, but if you can only imagine dating one gender ONLY if it's poly and having no issues to be monogamous with another gender... that might be something to look into)

getting sad/anxious/bored at the idea that your first boyfriend could be your forever partner. thinking "of course i want to experience life before I settle down"

wanting to dress sexy and reveal your body, but wanting to hide it when a man pays attention to you

Men expressing their attraction to men is more relatable than women expressing their attraction for men Women/ NBs:

finding only a few men aesthetically attractive but nearly every woman/queer/nb person (esp more femme ones) being gorgeous to you

wanting to impress and/or be liked by "special" women

going on dating apps and switching to "women only" even though you are (supposedly) bi/pan (note: some people may do this for safety reasons but if you can't even IMAGINE finding a guy off an app, even if you take all possible precautions, well...)

finding the fantasy of sharing your life with a woman/nb person far more rewarding and satisfying than the fantasy of doing those same things with a man

having some inkling of attraction to trans women pre-coming out, but suddenly thinking they are the most gorgeous people ever post knowing they are women(especially if they go on HRT),

really "admiring" masc/butch women and women who break gender roles (women in suits, women with defined muscles etc.)

thinking that everyone thinks women are more aesthetically attractive than men (hint: ask a gay man about this)

having deep feelings about a female actor, singer, teacher growing up etc. that feel special and unique

feeling guilty in locker rooms, not wanting to look at women too long

getting really excited at the idea of having a gf, or being a girl/nb person's gf/ partner but not feeling the same way about dating boys/men

wishing to be a lesbian because you think lesbians are cool and/or to avoid dating men

feeling uncomfortable feelings about the label lesbian, especially when applied to you (but not gay/queer/sapphic/wlw/nblw etc.)

not getting crushes on women IRL often because you're still aspec

getting crushes on fictional women, influencers, celebrities etc. Media:

never relating to m/f pairings even if they have bi/pan characters or the m/f relationships you see in media or around you.

shipping m/f, but thinking "that's cool for them, but I don't want that" (note: this might also have to with gender, if you're nb)

imagining yourself as the "man" in m/f ships never the woman

not relating to f/f ships with two thin conventionally feminine and usually white women (esp if you are fat, gnc, WoC, and/or are attracted to butch/masc women)

seeing posts about the attractiveness of men but relating them to m/m ships, not yourself

wanting every bi/pan character to be in a "gay" or at least, in a visibly queer relationship

only relating to m/f ships if they are more obviously queer. Like say, masc woman with a twink boyfriend (side note, I've never seen that, so if you have recs please send them my way)

only being able to get off on gay/lesbian porn, finding straight porn to be unsatisfying or boring or uncomfortable (note: porn is not a great way to determine sexualaity as most actresses are fetishized and fake prgasms, and most lesbian porn is not made for sapphics. but still) Things you are allowed to do as a lesbian/don't make you less gay:

Have m/f ships you feel strongly about

read/write m/f smut

relate to/write bi/pan characters

joke about liking celebrity men & fictional men

not be attracted to the women the lesbian community has decided are the hottest thing since sliced bread (Kristen Stewart is not everyone's type)

not be comfortable with certain sex acts or sex as a whole

#lesbian #asexual #aromantic #aromantic lesbian #asexual lesbian #aroace lesbian #questioning #am i a lesbian #terfs fuck off #questioning tag #mine #aspec lesbian #comphet

[canonically47]

you are a heterosexual girl

i’m actually an aromantic homosexual girl! you do not know me and you do not get to impose whatever labels YOU want onto ME! you are merely a cowardly stranger on the internet hiding behind a veil of anonimity that does not matter to me! stop being weird to strangers on the internet! you would not be telling me this in real life! get a grip! leave my blog! go away!

- your friendly neighbourhood aromantic lesbian <3

#asks #my asks #anon asks #anonymous asks #anon #anonymous #fucking weirdo #who do you think you are to tell me who i am? #only i decide that #fuck you #aromantic #aro #arospec #aromanticism #aromantic spectrum #aromantic lesbian #lesbian #actually aromantic #actually lesbian

[poppysplace-edits]

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