Happy Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week!! All aro-specs are valid and belong in the queer community! If anyone tells you otherwise, then they're WRONG and they can answer to us. We've got your back!
[image description: the aromantic flag colors (dark green, light green, white, gray, black) in the background with green text on top that reads "Happy Arospec Week! 2024", and the AVEN logo in the lower right corner]
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Aromantic Adult Books - High Fantasy (mostly)
ARO WEEK 2023
KAIKEYI / historical fantasy/retelling / aroace MC
MOONSHINE / 1920s-ish fantasy / major side character who has some POV is aro bi
THE LANGUAGE OF ROSES / fantasy novella / aro MC
AN ACCIDENT OF STARS / upper YA/adult portal fantasy / secondary MC is a polyam married aro woman
A DAY OF FALLEN NIGHT / high fantasy / apparently one of the MCs is aroace, haven’t read it yet!
CITY OF STRIFE/ISANDOR SERIES / high fantasy / last cast includes multiple aroaces, demiros & greyros
THE WOLF AMONG THE WILD HUNT / fantasy novella / centres a QPR between and aroace & enby
THE ORACLE STONE / NA high fantasy / one of the three MCs is aro pan
THE BRUISING OF QILWA / fantasy novella / MC is aroace
*as a note, some of these only briefly explore aromanticism, and/or explore the ace part of the aroace character more. If you want more details on how much things are explored, see my database!
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💚 a zine on aromanticism 💚
^an informational zine on aromanticism I made for Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week
feel free to share/print!
(pages and image IDs after the break)
Image ID 1: the front and back cover. The front cover reads, “informational zine — Aromantic: What Does That Mean? — by Peter Z.”
there are two simple arrow shapes between lines of the text pointing in opposite directions.
The middle of the page has a long stripe with the colors of the aromantic flag, which extends to the back cover. the back cover side lists what each of the colors represent: green — aromanticism; light green — the aromantic spectrum; white — platonic and aesthetic attraction; gray — gray-romanticism and demi-romanticism; black — the sexuality spectrum.
The back page reads, “more resources!
TAAAP.org
Aro Spec Week.com
gsrc.princeton.edu (SAM)
aromanticism.org (AUREA)
Elizabeth Brake (aromanticism)
Aggressively Aro Spec Tumblr
Aromantic Guide.com”
End text. Two gray silhouettes of lily flowers act as embellishment. End ID 1.
Image ID 2: pages 1 and 2 of the zine.
Page 1: “Aromantic — or just ‘aro’ for short — refers to someone who experiences little to no romantic attraction to anyone — or experiences it in a different way than others. Alloromantic is the opposite — one who does have romantic attraction.” The text is green and dark teal with light green boarders around the sections.
Page 2: small letters says “this might help to understand” and arrow points to the title “Split Attraction Model” — “a way of understanding attraction by separating it into types: sexual, romantic, platonic, alterous, aesthetic, etc.
“Sexual Orientations: bisexual, heterosexual, asexual. Romantic Orientations: biromantic, heteroromantic, aromantic. — sometimes they match, sometimes they don’t! Words like biromantic and heteroromantic commonly refer to both S. O. and R. O.” End ID 2.
Image ID 3: pages 3 and 4.
Page 3: titled “A-spec Community”. Below is a Venn diagram, the left circle labeled “aro”, the right circle “ace”, the overlap space “aro ace”, this is all within a larger circle labeled “a-spec”.
“Aromantic is not the same as Asexual (little to no Sexual Attraction to anyone at all). The identities and communities are related but distinct”
Page 4: titled “Myths” with dark teal flower silhouettes on either side. Myths include “hates all romance, childish “late bloomer”, not LGBTQ+, unemotional, wants to be alone, can’t be in a relationship, afraid of commitment, can’t also be gay/hetero/etc” End ID 3.
Image ID 4: pages 5 and 6.
Page 5: “Are you aro? some common experiences: made up crushes, flirting doesn’t make sense, hard to identify romantic feelings, dating isn’t a priority, don’t like romance heavy media, dating because you’re “supposed to”, rarely if ever “fall in love”, don’t have celebrity crushes. *these are not exclusive to aros though!”
Page 6: the top of the page has the shape of an umbrella, the text inside reads “the Aromantic umbrella”. The body has four microlabel examples;
“Gray-romantic — romantic attraction rarely or weakly.” Next to it is a small rectangular flag with 5 horizontal stripes: green, gray, white, gray, green.
“Demi-romantic — romantic attraction only after a bond has formed.” Rectangular flag with a wide white stripe, narrow green, and wide gray stripe, and a black triangle on the left side.
“Allo-aro — allosexual and aromantic, no romantic attraction, has sexual attraction.” Rectangular flag with even horizontal stripes: green, light green, white, yellow, dark yellow.
“Aro-ace — aromantic and asexual, no romantic or sexual attraction.” Rectangular flag with even stripes: orange, yellow, white, light blue, dark blue. End ID.
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Here’s to the aros:
Here’s to the aros who love. Here’s to the aros who don’t.
To the aros who desire relationships, those who don’t care for them, and anyone who is undecided.
Younger aros, older aros. Aros of every race and gender.
Here’s to the aros who like labels, and to the ones who choose not to label or label further.
To the aros who like romantic things, in concept or practice, to the aros who are just really not into that, and everyone in between.
Here’s to the aros that have conflicting feelings about aromanticism, and to those that fluctuate between feeling great and not-so-great about it.
To the aros who love their identity and wouldn’t want it any other way. To those that feel grief. To all those who celebrate aro joy, in any form.
To the aros who are out and proud, and those who potentially aren’t quite in a space for that yet.
Here’s to every aromantic person, each who contributes to our wonderful and diverse community, and all of whom are valid and valued.
Here’s to the aros.
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Aromantic YA contemporary books!
ARO WEEK 2023
OTHER PEOPLE’S BUTTERFLIES / aroace MC discovering her identity
IF IT MAKES YOU HAPPY / MC has an aroace qpr/best friend, and is also starting a new (romantic) relationship
TAKE ME TO YOUR NERDY LEADER / aroallo girl moves to a new town and makes friends and a friends w benefits
LOVELESS / aroace MC discovering her identity
THE RHYTHM OF MY SOUL / two aroace partners at an intense dance company
IMMORAL CODE / high school heist, one of the 5 MCs is aroace
IT SOUNDS LIKE THIS / high school marching band, grey-aroace major side character (/potential future love interest)
SUMMER BIRD BLUE / questioning aroace MC
*as a note, some of these only briefly explore aromanticism, and/or explore the ace part of the aroace character more. If you want more details on how much things are explored, see my database!
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