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indecisiveenby · 7 months

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~~Rant~~

I hate the argument about how queer is a slur and an off-limits word/label. because like it's the only label I've found that really truly resonates with me. I'd been trying to find something that fit right for about three years when I started using queer.

first I was bisexual, bc I was very new to queerness, in the sense that I knew about binary trans people, gay men, and lesbians, and that was like it. and my close friend had just come out to me as bi, and I was like "holy shit, there's a word for being into both genders? that's allowed??" something deep in my being snapped, and it was like I could see the world correctly for the first time. bc this was how I had felt my whole life. I was crushing on girls and either suppressing it or mistaking it for a platonic love. and I was making up extra crushes on boys, to overcompensate.

so then I dove deep into queer culture and learned about all these orientations, but also found out about the gender spectrum and fluidity. so here was this huge gender thing crashing down on me with the realization that "wait, I can be feminine, but I don't have to be a girl? and I can embrace my masculinity without being a boy?" and I was a little in denial for a bit and said I was gender fluid bc I think I was too nervous to admit that large of a change to myself, that I wasn't what I had thought I'd been my whole life, so I decided to just pretend I was a little bit that. (THIS IS NOT TO SAY THAT ACTUAL GENDERFLUID PEOPLE ARE IN DENIAL ABOUT THEIR GENDER. THIS IS JUST WHAT I DID. ILY GENDERFLUID PEOPLE, YOU'RE COMPLETELY VALID <3)

and this gender thing took for-fucking-ever to figure out, but I'm settled on transmasc nonbinary. so where did that leave me for orientation? I kept thinking things like "maybe I'm a lesbian. idk if I like guys all that much," or "well actually idk if I like girls," or "what if I don't like anyone. I think I'm aroace." and eventually I said omnisexual/romantic, but I was still thinking these things.

because here's my deal: if I find myself attracted to a girl, I'm like "this is a gay ass feeling." and if I find myself attracted to a boy, I'm like "feeling real fruity rn." and any other gender, I just feel gay if I am attracted to someone. never do I look at someone and think "wow I wanna spend so fucking much non platonic time with you in a fully heterosexual manner."

at the same time, I often think about all those crushes I made up, and the way that I go so so long without having a crush and how I am content with not having a romantic relationship and how my past romantic partners never clicked right. and I think "perhaps I really am arospec."

and I think of how I've never been sexually attracted to someone, with like two exceptions ever, and those two people were people I knew very well. and how the idea of having sex seems like something I could participate in, but only probably for someone else's sake, not something I'd initiate. I think of how sometimes I feel like I never ever want to have sex ever bc I just don't want someone to touch me like that, or to touch someone else like that. I think of how sometimes I actually am really into the idea of sex, hypothetically. and I think "is there a spot on the ace spectrum for that?"

and so I look at all of this and I am faced with the question: "how the hell do you put all of that under a label?"

there are two answers here; 1. I don't, and I go unlabeled. I hate this answer. my autism loves to sort and label things. (of course there's an exception for other people. if someone else is unlabeled I'm not gonna say "actually you're this." this only applies to myself and my own things) 2.

Queer !!!

queer is the only label that can encompass all of that, for me. obviously, I could use a bunch of microlabels, and I love microlabels, really, I just would probably lose track of everything quickly.

so yeah, I have a huge fucking issue with people saying that I am not allowed to use the only label that's ever felt like a home to me, the only label that's ever fully covered everything that I am and everything that I feel.

if you don't want to be called queer, good, I won't call you that. but I will not stop calling myself queer. if you have a problem with that, then like actually fuck you

#queer #queer is not a slur #bi #omni #arospec #acespec #aroace #gay #lgbtq #rant

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genderstarbucks · 7 months

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Mspec Lesbian + Aromantic Flags!!

Mspec Lesbian Aromantic | Bi Lesbian Aromantic

Poly/ply Lesbian Aromantic | Pan Lesbian Aromantic

Omni Lesbian Aromantic | Abro Lesbian Aromantic

#xenogender #xenogenders #mogai #pro mogai #xenogender coining #xenogender community #mogai safe #mogai terms #mogai friendly #mspec lesbian #bi lesbian #poly lesbian #ply lesbian #pan lesbian #omni lesbian #abro lesbian #aromantic #arospec

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flag-mashups · 1 year

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Demiromantic + Omni + Demisexual + Genderfluid =

(Please read pinned post before interacting! <3)

Demiromantic - Someone who needs to form a deep emotional connection to someone before developing romantic attraction towards the person.

Omni - Someone who experiences attraction towards people regardless of gender with strong preferences.

Demisexual - Someone who needs to form a deep emotional connection to someone before developing sexual attraction towards the person.

Genderfluid - Someone who’s gender changes fluidly.

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miaulogy · 2 years

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☆ mspec aspec lesbian flags!

for mspec lesbian awareness week

arospec mspec lesbian | acespec mspec lesbian

arospec bi lesbian | acespec bi lesbian

arospec pan lesbian | acespec pan lesbian

arospec ply lesbian | acespec ply lesbian

arospec omni lesbian | acespec omni lesbian

i just added a few stripes to @kenochoric's mspec lesbian and bi/pan/ply/lesbian flags!

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thepokedexisgay · 5 months

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May I get an omnisexual + aromantic sableye?

#icon #pokemon icons #sableye #mega sableye #aspec #arospec #aro #aromantic #omni #omnisexual #anon

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fallenrain40 · 1 month

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being aroflux is so annoying sometimes but particularly when you are romance-averse. cause i'll start feeling my identity slide away from loveless and i'm just like... no... stop... i dont wanna love pls... it sounds so complicated i dont wanna... pls stop it...

#aroflux #aro #arospec #and dont get me STARTED on tryin figure out what my orientation would be in those moments. lithromantic PERHAPS but like is it bi?? pan??#omni??#idfk #sobs

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mogai-headcanons · 7 months

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King Sombra from My Little Pony is an autistic vesixeno polyamorous queerplatonic omni gay dusk gay omni fag arospec narcaro aldereyehor unholyfreak NPDfreak sataniclexic deadbitch radbloodic raddeitoxic infectedgender man with NPD, ADHD, and sensory issues who uses he/him, gore/gores, rot/rots, riot/riots, and ink/inks pronouns!

Celestia is an autistic polyamorous gay arospec dawn gay knightcenic obsessrotic bruiseman voidwound horreuria temptworship goredreamic trans man with ADHD and depression who uses he/him pronouns!

Sunburst is a monoflexible greysexual genderfluid man with ADHD who uses any pronouns!

They're all dating!

dni link

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aroaceconfessions · 1 year

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I identify as an Omni Orientated AroAce and I think having a romantic relationship would be nice but whenever I think about actually kissing or cuddling someone I just feel like I wouldn't know what to do or that it would be weird

also I want a relationship but I'm Christian as well and I don't think I'll be able to find some who is Christian, isn't homophobic or aphobic (i think that's how it's spelled) or transphobic and who I actually like and sometimes this just makes me feel really lonely and sad

#aromantic #asexual #aroace #aspec #aro #ace #arospec #acespec #arose #oriented aroace #omni #romance favorable #dating #relationships #christian #christianity #aphobia #homophobia #transphobia

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warriors-pride · 9 months

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happy disability pride!!! may i get disabled npd trans man omni lesbian swiftpaw, disabled ptsd loveless bi ace adhdgender brightheart and hopeless romantic aro lesboy cloudtail!

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palatteflags · 1 year

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greyomnimoirallegic (gray/omni/moirallegic combo flag) ^^ For @coreplush c: Hope you like! The left is without the pinks of the moirallegic, the right is with the extra pinks, I did both!

Want one? Send an ask~ -mod Jay

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mspectral · 2 years

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happy butch appreciation day to all butches!

#not just the butches who are lesbians!#not just the butches who are women!#shoutout to bi and pan and omni and other mspec butches!#shoutout to acespec and arospec butches!#shoutout to gnc straight butches both trans and cis!#shoutout to literally all butches! it’s an appreciation day for all butches!#spend today learning about the history of the butch label :)#read about ball culture :)#learn about more than just butches who are women and butches who are lesbians :)

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thatonekanade · 2 years

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does it count as valid if you are platonicly omni oriented and aestheticly lesbian oriented aroace???

#question #oriented aroace #aromantic #asexual #acespec #arospec #aspec #lesbian #omni

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genderstarbucks · 7 months

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Mspec Gay + Aromantic Flags!!

Mspec Gay Aromantic | Bi Gay Aromantic

Poly/ply Gay Aromantic | Pan Gay Aromantic

Omni Gay Aromantic | Abro Gay Aromantic

#xenogender #xenogenders #mogai #pro mogai #xenogender coining #xenogender community #mogai safe #mogai terms #mogai friendly #mspec gay #bi gay #poly gay #ply gay #pan gay #omni gay #abro gay #aromantic #arospec

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flag-mashups · 1 year

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Cupioromantic + Omni + Rosboy =

(Please read pinned post before interacting! <3)

Cupioromantic - Someone who does not experience romantic attraction, but desires a romantic relationship.

Omni - Someone who experiences attraction towards people regardless of gender with strong preferences.

Rosboy - Someone who considers themselves a boy and has some significant connection to femininity, either in their gender or expression; a feminine aligned boy; an umbrella term for all identities that involve being both a boy and feminine.

#cupioromantic #cupioaro #aro #aromantic #arospec #aspec #Omni #omniromantic #omnisexual #mspec #multiromantic #multisexual #roseboy

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jiabeewrites · 2 years

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I have a theory

So in my English class we're learning about overpopulation and shit.

And so the teacher's like "oh yea y'know we need to spread the use of contraceptives and control the number of children and stuff"

and i'm just sitting here like:

"wait but what if... what if we just... y'know... SPREAD THE WORD ABOUT LGBTQIAP+ RIGHTS?!?! LIKE?!??! SPECIFICALLY ASEXUAL/AROMANTIC RIGHTS?!?!?

YES, SOME ASPEC PEOPLE ENJOY ROMANTIC/SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS OR ARE IN SOME BUT LIKE... there are still a good amount of us that aren't. The cool thing is that the aromantic/asexual spectrum is an umbrella, and we have people who do and don't want/like romantic/sexual relationships. I'm sure that there are ASPEC PEOPLE OUT THERE that don't know that there are people like them. People who aren't alloromantic/allosexual. There are probably people all over the world RIGHT NOW that feel that they don't belong because they don't fit into the neat little box of cishetallo that their culture tried to smush them into.

I've been asked if I had a crush, and so my response was "I don't like people." And I can't count the amount of times I've been asked "Oh, so are you asexual?"

AROMANTICISM IS VERY, VERY DIFFERENT FROM ASEXUALITY. I FEEL LIKE PEOPLE NEED TO SEE THIS.

(To clear things up, I'm Omni Aroflux Asexual. I'm afab genderqueer, and fall under the term "demigirl." I use she/they/xe pronouns.

But the community that I live in won't accept me for who I say to be. Because they're all devout Christians. And yes, I do respect that. I'm still a Christian, I just don't believe that God would allow all these different kinds of love to exist and yet say that they're wrong. After all, it does say that "God is Love." Sadly, I'm still in the closet, and I don't think I can ever come out ;-;)

TLDR:

Aromantic/Asexual Visibility is important. We're here. We're queer. We are part of the LGBTQIAP+ community. And we need to be heard. We need to be seen. PROMOTE AROMANTIC VISIBILITY. PROMOTE ASEXUAL VISIBILITY. Just because people don't know we exist doesn't mean we aren't here.

Love, Jiabee

#aromantic #aromanticism #asexual #asexuality #aromantic asexual #AROACE #arospec #aspec people are queer #yall need to respect that #acespec #jiabeespeaks #jiabeerants #LOVE YALL IN A PLATONIC WAY #<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3 #lgbtq #lgbtq representation #lgbtqia #lgbtqiap+#omni aroflux ace

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thepokedexisgay · 8 months

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Can you do a agender + omnisexual + demiromantic shiny Sylveon icon, please? :3

#icon #pokemon icons #sylveon #shiny sylveon #aspec #arospec #demi #demiromantic #omni #omnisexual #agender #anon

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