Okay i have something to say!
Nothing has ever made me feel understood and valid like finding out my MBTI personality.
Like nothing really happened when I found out I was agender non-binary, like yeah i really don’t care about gender sometimes I even loathe it but it’s not something important in my life.
Finding out i was asexual was nice because hey I’ve never felt sexual attraction so that is me, and also the split attraction model helped me realize that me liking people based on their personality was not me being pansexual but panromantic and that was cool but still not ground breaking because again my sexuality is not a big deal, I’m still me i just now know what I am.
To be honest the closest i got was me learning about neurodiverse people and realizing I’m one of them, because even when I grew up knowing I have dyslexia and got professional help for my school problems at a very early age, nobody told me my brain worked differently than most people!
But doing the MBTI test, getting INFJ and getting scared by how accurate the description was but also relieved that there was nothing wrong with me, it’s just how my personality is, it’s just part of me, THAT was a great moment of self discovery!