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whereserpentswalk · 3 months

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I keep seeing this same thing over and over again where people try to divide up the "good trans people" and the "bad trans people". Useally by trying to claim that the bad group is some combination of over represented or giving the group a bad name. And like, there's always something very racist about what's considered good and bad, specifically very Orientalist.

"Good" transmascs are defined by having facial hair and body hair, having traditionally masculine body types, have extremely western interests and ways of dressing, etc. And the "bad" transmascs are stereotyped as being too slender and hairless, and for wanting to look like anime boys or Kpop idols, and for being somehow both sexless and perverted, etc. Like, there's a very clear trend here with these truscumy posts.

Same goes for transfems. Where "bad transfems" are seen as being obsessed with looking like anime girls, being too into computers, being flat chested and childlike, and being horny in a submissive way.

There's a very clear trend where every trait members of the queer community consider negative in other queer people match up with negative stereotypes the west has about eastasian people. It's why you hear "you can't transition into an anine boy" coming from people who in the past we would call truscum, when fandoms like Dr. Who or Hazbin Hotel which also have a lot of transmasc fans and twinkish characters get ignored by them. It's why the standards for what they consider passing are always bodies that look white and dress very western. It's why femboys are seen as gross and perverted, while drag queens are seen as wholesome and marketable, they're both crossdressing performers, but one has Anglo-Australian origins while the other has Japanese origins, which is why you'll never see a library with femboy story hour.

Just like how people who enforce the gender binary may be bioessentialists, but will also claim being male or female is something one can fail at, the same goes for white supremacy; whiteness is seen as something white people can fail at. So even if the "bad trans people" in question are white, what they're being scolded for is ultimately that they're failing at whiteness, and because whiteness is tied to gender roles they're failing at masculinity or femininity.

Every trait trans people say makes other trans people "one of the bad ones" is just an orientalist stereotype. This truscumish behavior that's getting more and more popular isn't happening in a void.

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yourdailyqueer · 1 year

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Shelley Parker-Chan

Gender: Genderqueer (she/they)

Sexuality: Queer

DOB: N/A

Ethnicity: Malaysian Chinese, white

Nationality: Australian

Occupation: Writer, diplomat, activist

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transenbyconfessions · 10 months

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I went to pride yesterday and at the parade it took all my self control not to just lie down on the ground and cry bc I saw a group of Asian moms and other parents marching in support of queer and trans people. A lot of my community don’t openly support us, if they support us at all, and to see them actually marching in the parade itself was a really emotional experience.

There were also people in the parade with signs like “trans is divine” and whatnot and I’m not even religious OR spiritual but that also almost made me cry. We’re always told our bodies are disgusting, and our bodily autonomy is so heavily politicized that to see these kinds of affirmations was incredible.

Submitted June 26, 2023

#transgender #trans #enby #nb #nonbinary #non-binary #non binary #enban #pride #asian #representation #transphobia

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astrxealis · 4 months

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merry christmas btw i kinda forgot to say it ere at all oopsies >_< i hope you all had/have a wonderful holiday season or week or day or month regardless of your religion and if you celebrate christmas !!!!!

i got 'the end of everything' by katie mack for xmas (i begged my parents lol) bcs i finally saw it in a bookstore after months of looking for it that i just Fell to the ground ..... i love astrophysics i love space i love science. i also love u all

#⋯ ꒰ა starry thoughts ໒꒱ *·˚#:3 :3 :3 meow #urgh. tired! i wish to ignore my responsibilities but i should not cannot #i actually got genshin again yesterday which sounds unreal. i just want pretty blonde girl navia LMFAOOO #but also i've actually been making progress w quests and shit so yay ^_^ also playing again bcs i lov my friends. nini u will not see this #but ily. also u berry even tho we are on wholly different servers bcs i'm on na haha despite the fact i am literally asian & in asia but ok #i miss ffxiv ... :(( i meant to make my theme vincent valentine and reference hit song valentine by hit band mäneskin #but i was like i do not think i can live long w this. and then thought hard. and then. ryne/gaia... my darlings <3 #also idk if i've said but i'm finally. heading and delving more into dnd finally !! tis meant to be lmfao i love my friends wow #and also my dad had his own dnd set back in the day he never used unfortunately and doesnt hav anymore but Yes <333 #bg3 ocs are tasty! you have apollo erebus and thanatos there is an obvious theme in names going on!#funny there is one silly bard (my guy ever. obviously) and then the other two are durges on opposite ends #pretty boy draconic sorcerer who tries to be good but honestly he's romancing astarion too so he's kinda Yeah #and then you have than who is. what a pretty enby he/she ladyman! romancing minthara ofc <3 they are my evil girlie #evil girlies more like. Two of them yay!!! w opposite color schemes (quite intentional but also i Just Love Red)#haven't watched pjotvseries bcs i will cry throughout the whole thing (probably not an exaggeration) so i am obviously not ready #yeah. ^_^ <3

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shimenchus · 2 years

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when nonbinary people try to trip biracials into their nonsense by being like "we're like you! we're neither one or the other! we don't belong anywhere and everyone disrespects us too!" like

#i been seeing it a lot on twitter #enbies trying to fight with biracial women by saying we share the same struggles and oppression #so biracials need to support enbies #like nah #you chose that life girl leave us out of it lol #i had a girl at school last year explain to me that her *~lack of gender~* was comparable to me being blasian because and i quote #''you're not black or asian which means you have no race''#like dang girl that's crazy because people who don't know i'm half chinese treat me like i'm black and #the people at school who DO know i'm chinese sure knew i was chinese when they were saying shit like ''china virus'' to me #what i'm trying to say is enbies be wilding #/rambling

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dysfunctional-transmlm · 9 months

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gender envy gets lethal for trans poc if it's from a person of their race/ethnicity i tell you-

#every time i see a fine ass southeast asian man i enter a coma #im in my ppop era i have been terrorized as of lately #trans #nonbinary #transgender #enby #trans poc #qpoc

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milfhandholder · 1 year

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Today in the Grell Fanclub, each of us will be discussing our personal Grell backstories and then fangirl about it

#I sound like a suburban mother on facebook talking about her fun bookclub #instead I am an asian enby who's just really gay for a literal hell spawn of a woman #kuroshitsuji #black butler #grell sutcliff #kuroshitsuji grell #kuroshitpost

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vizthedatum · 6 months

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Being so autistic in your black-and-white thinking that you debate with yourself for years about whether you’re autistic or not. (Moral of the story: the DSM-5 sucks ass, it’s a spectrum, cultural and racial influences as well as being AFAB definitely affected my masking, and rampant childhood abuse)

Also me: being so trans and autistic in your “it would be cool to have a dick” (like several times a day to the point of driving your friends up the wall with your phallic jokes) and “ugh do people really just like me for my boobs” and black-and-white thinking that you don’t come out as non-binary until you’re done with your terminal college degree and have the brain space to finally be like OHHHHH

#autistic #autism #healing #trauma #neurodivergence #queer #self love #afab #poc #Indian #desi #south Asian #trans #ftm nonbinary #non-binary #non binary #enby #transmasc #trans masc #femboy

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fandomshatepeopleofcolor · 6 months

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So season 2 of the summer I turned pretty got rid of Shayla, a woc and replaced her with a Skye, a white character who is also non-binary. Even if the show wanted to add non-binary representation, it feels like a missed opportunity to have a non-binary character of color

I don't watch that particular show but I hear you on observing missed opportunities to give these kinds of stories to characters of color!

Sometimes I wonder if it's these showrunners/writers trying to be mindful of "doing" representation well, or if it's more like a failure of imagination to realize that their woc character could possibly go through a journey of self discovery re gender and come out as non-binary... 🤷‍♀️

For the curious, here's the actors for Shayla (Minnie Mills) and Skye (Elsie Fisher) --

And like... "non-binary" does not mean "afab person who cuts their hair short" and I'm very much looking forward to the time when the tv/film industry catches up lmao

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#i get that it's a sort of short hand for mainstream entertainment but i wish they would expand enby/gnc rep.........#the summer i turned pretty #gender presentation #queer representation #also p.s. i'm curious what you mean by 'replaced' bc im also side eyeing that production choice #bc isnt the main girl of this show like half asian? ie. did they really decide that two asian girls on a show is too many 😬

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weareamarvel · 1 year

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after the storm

#post-storm sunsets where i’m from are the best #me #my face #selfie #does this count as golden hour #soft glam #white eyeliner #girls #asian girls #cute girls #cute asian girls #wlw #wlwoc #bi #bi enby #enby #afab nonbinary #queer poc

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clipclopcod · 9 months

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I LOVE EVERYONE SO MUCH AAAAA 😭

⚠️OK OK SO LISTEN.⚠️

This might sound like some basic thing where people say their proud of you just because, but I actually love people SO. MUCH. just to be clear: I’m still an introvert, but like-

The gays? So sweet and pretty they make me kick me feet, lesbians? SO beautiful and majestic makes me head hurt, trans people? Either the most knowledgeable confident gods, or the sweetest babies you’ll meet, Enbys? OMG they are so beautiful and smart and crunchy!!!, very squishable 11/10!!!, aroace peeps? They are insane and smart and I love them, the entire lgbt? Literally so loving and kind it’s insane I’d fight for them until I die, poc? DONT GET ME STARTED they are so pretty!!!!, Asians? They are so amazing and confident and sweet it’s hard to describe. Neurodivergents? My fellow friends! They are so accepting and helpful and cool I’d give a kiss on the forehead 11/10, Chubby people? So amazing and grrrtgrerr aaaa pretty!!! Want to bite!!!! (friendly), Slim people? I love them! ,!,,,!,!11! Lil scrawny dudes!!! Very sweet!!!, disabled people? They are so confident and pretty no matter what!!!, you can’t change my mind!!!,!, women? So confident and beautiful I’d can’t comprehend it!!

and everyone in between too! Everyone out there is so amazing and wonderful and I wish I could love y’all so much and make y’all happy UGHHHGGG!!,!!! 😭❤️❤️

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faceclaimbitch · 1 year

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Excel Spreadsheet

I’m going to be keeping a spreadsheet of face claims as well as posting them as posts. This spreadsheet will list the name, gender, age, race and hair colour of each face claim, ordered lowest to highest by age.

The upside of this is it’s much easier to compile and gives you information quickly. It allows you to find what you’re looking for quicker than looking through my blog post by post, however it doesn’t have pictures, which is the downside.

It is linked on my main page, but here is the link for you again.

https://1drv.ms/x/s!AiYX2JV0qNpVozrxc6_VJNxRtp7o?e=LqWEfn