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bifflesnitch · 5 months
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The late diagnosed neurodivergent experience of being told you're wrong your entire fucking life.
You're too sensitive,
it's not too loud,
it's not too bright,
it's not overwhelming,
you're just overreacting,
it doesn't smell weird,
the texture is fine,
just eat it,
just wear it,
plans change get over it,
stop being so dramatic,
why are you so argumentative?
I was obviously joking,
why do you take everything so seriously?
I'm not yelling,
It's not a big deal,
stop nitpicking,
stop jiggling/rocking,
stop fidgeting,
stop humming/whistling/clicking,
stop talking about that,
no one cares,
you're annoying people,
you're so high strung,
just relax,
stop worrying,
stop overthinking,
just be normal
and then people act all surprised that you grow up to be an insecure, indecisive wreck. What else did you expect me to be when you spent my whole life teaching me my own perception was faulty and couldn't be trusted?
Grooming me to seek approval and validation from others for every decision I made because whenever I made them myself, they were always wrong.
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Good VS Bad Autism Tattoos
Many people in the autistic community view the puzzle piece as a hate symbol because it implies we're not whole people. We're missing pieces and we're problems that need to be solved. Which is why a lot of us gravitate towards the infinity sign instead! It comes in both rainbow (for neurodiversity) and gold! As the chemical symbol for gold is Au.
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auntbibby · 2 months
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neurotypicals: hmmm if i state what i want plainly, it might get criticized as rude or selfish
neurotypicals: hmmmm
neurotypicals: i know!!!!! ill hint at it ambiguously, so if my target picks up on the hidden meaning and finds it rude or selfish, i can deny i ever meant any hidden meaning!!!!
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umaescritoraautista · 4 months
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autism x aromanticity
hello, autistic and aromantic person, i have some genuine questions for you.
how do you know the difference?
how do i know if the discomfort i'm feeling is something related to autism or something related to the fact that i don't want/feel the need to be in a relationship?
or, whatever? it doesn't matter if it's autism or aromanticity, the important thing is that you don't want a relationship.
i'm asking because i was very afraid to say that i'm an aromantic person, since it could be something about me being autistic. but genuinely, i don't know what are the differences and if i can consider myself aromantic in any way.
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that-strange-artist · 13 days
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Not feeling very sociable atm, but just thought I'd say hey to everyone out there.
Been getting arty party creative lately, surrounded by stuff, creations and works in progress
Still not sure how I feel about being on another platform where I fail at being sociable or feeling like I have to post.
But I'm trying.......
Really trying in life.....
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How to run a social media account without being sociable?
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quejicadelapulpa · 1 year
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I discovered today Lazlo has a daughter, I’m not a CrystalxLazlo supporter but their daughter is cool as hell and I couldn’t resist to do a quick pic of hers 
Hope you like it :)
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bifflesnitch · 10 months
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Me: I can't be Autistic because I use analogies and similies all the time to describe my feelings and ideas.
Also me: uses analogies that make perfect sense to me because I can see the pattern but which baffle everyone else because I think so differently from them.
Also also me: takes literally everything everyone says to me at face value and cannot for the life of me recognise sarcasm.
Also also also me: *thinking I'm absolutely nailing this whole socializing thing* 😊
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elfwink · 1 year
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Whether or not you disclose your autism diagnosis is a tricky subject! In this video, I talk about my thoughts and experiences on the matter.
If you’re ever unsure or uncomfortable about this sort of thing, I want you to know that you’re not alone! Many people out there worry about this. I hope that by sharing this content, that you feel a little less alone.
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profoundgardenfun · 2 years
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https://etsy.me/3UGpbrQ
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raepritewrites · 1 year
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so yeah turns out one of my best friends apparently knew I was aspie from the moment he met me and NEVER SAID ANYTHING LIKE SIR WEVE BEEN FRIENDS FOR SIXTEEN YEARS IT TOOK A PANDEMIC FOR ME TO FIGURE IT OUT
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umaescritoraautista · 4 months
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autism x work
so, do you guys recommend saying that i have autism in my work place?
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that-strange-artist · 22 days
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Wanting to blow the asperges away.....
Along with all of the other fucked up mental health problems.....
Just be normal.
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quejicadelapulpa · 2 years
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Heyyy
Here’s my poke stuff and this time Tycutio time!!! :D
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I once had a coworker who would always ask me how my weekend was when we'd run into each other in a common area. So I'd always give what I thought was a simple answer and she'd make a comment and by the time (maybe 2-3 mins tops) we'd both be leaving back to our own areas. And EVERY time I would immediately have a moment where I realized I never asked her how her weekend was and have the following internal conversation:
"I must seem so self-centered. Do I come off rude? How am I supposed to answer her and still ask her? Do I just give the "good. Yours?" response? Why I do this literally every Monday? Why am I so bad at this? Should I try to ask her later how her weekend was?" ....
I finally have my WHY.
Still have no idea how to handle such situations without feeling socially inept...
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