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[theseasonofnow]

Conscious of Our Conversations

Conscious of Our Conversations

Your conversation topics are a choice. Every day you have a chance to raise your vibration by eliminating some negative tones in your conversations that can cause a person to vibrate at a lower level. These things should surprise you because they have continually made you unhappy and unmotivated for years. Each topic we decide to engage in will create our mood, energy, and personal vibration. The…

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#Avoid gossip #avoid judgment #Be Positive about people #complaining does no good #Conscious of Our Conversations #Don&039;t Judge others #don&039;t make excuses #don&039;t put others down #don&039;t talk behind other people&039;s backs #increase vibration #lying is wrong #never exaggerate #speak positively #Speaking of Positive....... #what you focus on grows #worry about yourself

[oneofthosenightbees]

Hc that leshy often clings to his siblings to get around the cult and avoid others

#cult of the lamb #cotl #cotl narinder #cotl leshy #cotl heket #cotl kallamar #cotl shamura #leshy hangs around heket the most since she’s super protective of him which leshy gladly uses to avoid talking to literally anyone else #if she’s not available then he goes to kallamar to either complain gossip or both #then if he’s not available then shamura but he finds it annoying how social they are with the others #esp the lamb #and then Narinder is like a last resort #it’s complicated but it’s better than asking the lamb for literally anything #so he’ll tolerate the awkwardness a little bit before getting to his destination

[anastasial0vesy0u]

“she’s so me!” and it’s just a bitch with a severe avoidant attachment style who thinks she’s unlovable

#female hysteria #hell is a teenage girl #female manipulator #girlblogger #girlblog #girlblogging #gossip girl #serena van der woodsen #meredith grey #greys anatomy #little women #jo march #littlewomen2019 #lorelai gilmore #gilmore girls #luke x lorelai #tv shows #film #greta gerwig #im just a girl #relatable #i am meredith grey #actually avoidant #avoidant attachment #actually narcissistic #fearful avoidant #unlovable

[nerosdayinanime]

giyuu doesnt realize hes doing it

(edit: reblogged w more stuff check it vv)

#tomioka giyuu #sabito #giyuu tomioka #kny sabito #giyuu #loserboy giyuu posting #fratboy sabito posting #kny x sdv au #neros art tag #giyuu moves in a little over a year after sab did #giyuu practically went his entire life without dating anyone bc he was fine with just his sister & best friend sabito by his side #he always greatly disliked whoever sabito was dating but that was easy to miss bc sabito has shit taste in partners and always got with ppl #who hurt him. his last devastating relationship was the final straw in his life & he packed his shit and left #giyuu was super supportive of it and him & tsutako even got him some stuff to get started but after he left giyuu realized he felt Extremel #Fucking Hollow all the sudden- pretty quickly realized he missed seeing sabito almost every day like he had most their lives #texting & calling him became the highlight of his day. he staked it out w/o him because he was scared of not having a stable life but after #a year sabito was pretty well off & he finally said bye to zuzu city and moved in w him #halfway through the year giyuu subconsciously starts acting really possessive while sabito's hopeless romantic bullshit is starting up agai #the older adults gossip abt it and sabito's friends kinda try to avoid ticking giyuu off too much. giyuu notices that they avoid sabito whe #hes with him so he tries to stop shadowing him like he always did as a kid. wanders around on his own. shinobu thinks hes a bit pathetic #and takes to playfully bullying him. they become friends after giyuu realizes shes not being malicious & now he has someone else to #awkwardly hover around. she loves having someone to always poke fun at and giyuu finds her insults creative & amusing #sabito however notices giyuu kinda avoiding hanging out with him around town & he thinks he fucked up again #anyways im not as active bc im playing stardew valley and thinking of Themb #edit: actually scrap all that sabitos a massive hopeless romantic & hes being protective over him bc he doesnt wanna see him get hurt again #he doesnt realize he looks like hes trying to kill them with his stare tho lmao #he thinks hes being subtle #he does notice how hes making ppl avoid sabito entirely and thats the Opposite of what he wants so he backs off #& then sabito starts to think he fucked up again

[charleslebatman]

i said this already but we were talking about him not liking her post on art account at the beginning of their relationship later the topic went quiet and it was brought up again this week and somehow he liked her two newest post, carla liked them even though she’s not following this account, arthur followed her after a year

it’s too much coincidence for me personally, nothing in this relationship seems genuine and real to me

Someone mentioned on a gossip page, how we can have many pics of Lando in Monaco with Magui, but none of Charles.

I think we really need to stop with the coincidences, since the beginning of this relationship there's been nothing going on. From beginning to end.

When you're authentic and you want to be discreet, it shows and the fans feel it. Period.

I’ll always despise this girl for her convictions and moral values, her disgusting plagiarism, on of person who breaks their head (qui se casse le cul comme on dirait en français) to write incredible descriptions, to describe a work and summarize it as best as possible and she with poor quotation marks think it's quotable and sufficient. Knowing that, just putting «…» isn’t quoting someone and will never. I’m dépitée when people think they can learn about art like that, and especially when they consider her a specialist and treat her as such.

In short, I'm going to be hated (for a change, and even some besties aren't going to be very happy, I apologize in advance but that's my feeling with what we're seeing), but Charles seems to be regressing in his marketing approach, in his mentality. I almost don't see authenticity anymore, I see a forced image and it makes me very sad to feel that way and to perceive things that way. Told you being a fan isn’t a linear concept for me, I’ve this phase I hope it’ll change soon and tomorrow I’ll have another speech. 🫶

Sorry besties if I’m hurting you by saying this, but I want to be honest in my view. I’m tired we can’t say what we think as a fan, we must to shut our mouth every time we’re not confortable with something and forcing this 🥹 fan attitude without break.

#f1 gossip #you can block the tag to avoid seeing this by the way 🙃 #charles leclerc #alexandra saint mleux

[dragonsbluee]

I see your gay uncles of the straw hats Jimbrook and raise you old, gay, heartbroken, pirate captians who find a loving, romantic relationship in each other as they watch over a group of chaotic youngsters.

Because Brook and Yorki had a heartbreaking goodbye, and Brook spent 50 years mourning, but now he has a second chance. He wasn't expecting anything, but then, lo and behold! A handsome, kind, capable fish man enters stage right, and Brook is smitten. Here is someone who understands the grief of losing a captian and partner, then having to take their place to hold the crew together, but ultimately watching thier crew fall apart or suffer due to factors outside their control.

For Jimbei the last few years have been a whirlwind of chaos. He was looking forward to a new adventure full of chaos of his own making and choices. Now, enter stage left, this fantastic, enigmatic, adorable skeleton (and he's a musician!), who is a wonderful presence on a ship full of younger pirates. Jimbei never really moved on from the loss of the Sun Pirates, and hasn't had time to mourn all the friends he's lost in the past few years. But now he finds companionship and comfort in Brook. Someone who doesn't expect him to move on, let's him reminisce, but keeps him from getting stuck in his mourning. He's never thought of romance seriously before, but now he finds himself wanting.

The two meet in the middle, center stage on a ship of dreams as they forge a new one together. They still keep and work towards their individual dreams but find pieces of each other in them. Brook looks forward to the day he can introduce Laboon to Jimbei, and Jimbei has promised to translate the whale's words for Brook. Jimbei will see freedom for his people and finds motivation in every new song Brook writes and story he tells. Together, they find peace, calm, and rest. They find excitement, companionship, and a harbour in the other after years of storms.

#jinbrook #i present to you my late night ramblings #i love them #jimbrook #jimbei #jinbei #brook #one piece #soul king brook #straw hat pirate headcanons #straw hat pirates #mugiwara no ichimi #the other straw hats are a little shocked but ultimately very supportive #luffy is over the moon with joy #robin and franky love to insist on double dates and the four become a group that basiclaly liunge around and gossip on sunny days #brook helps jimbei build a relationship with nami and move on from his guilt #They're always willing to give comfort and advice to the younger crew mates. #both have a soft spot for zoro because they never want him to experiance what they did #jimbei is the one who will try to “ground” crew members - especially if they are injured - and brook is who everyone goes to to avoid that #jimbei flirts wayy more than brook but blushes far more easily than brook does. #They're very much old married couple vibes with a spark of chaos #so they do their own thing most of the time but always keep a spot for each other in thier day #i think they would kinda stroll into a relationship without even realizing it #they just wake up and realize they're in a romantic relationship and move on with their day #They're too old for this pinning nonsense #FOREHEAD KISSES #brook loves receiving them and just shoves his forhead against jimbei's in return #this is who i am now

[chappellrroan]

some of these men should never be allowed to be a husband or a father

#you mean to tell me that bitchass of a man not only failed to do the one thing sophie has been trying to that is to protect their girls #but also he couldn't even give her the divorce news directly #she had to know it from a news outlet #and then him and his pr team tried to turn it around on sophie and how she's a bad mother and “parties” a lot #when he selfishly blew away the future plans they made #i usually just avoid celeb gossip but this makes me SO MAD because how can you fail so badly and yet have no ounce of shame #sophie turner #tw joe jonas

[the-burgundy-on-my-shirt]

I noticed Jimmy G’s cakes when I saw a video of him lifting weights (back when he was with the 49ers) one time. Very nice hehehe

Side note: I wonder if he or his brothers know about Deuxmoi

I would imagine they have to. DM is huge now and I feel like if you’re getting covered by them you have to have some awareness of their existence. But honestly gossip sites/accounts have existed since the beginning of the internet so it’s just part of the deal at this point

#ask #jimmy garoppolo #brock purdy #football #gossip #offseason #49ers #nfl #to jimmy’s credit he clearly knows how to avoid the spotlight when it comes to his personal business

[werebutch]

WSBH chara q’s: (you don’t have to answer all the numbers, just whatever you want to 𖢘)

16/35/51 for Scotch

1/6/55 for Atlas

I LOVE YOU

16. What kinds of people do they have arguments with in their head?

okay i truly think scotch argues with seraph in his head all the time. ALL the time. scotch largely ignores them, and vice versa, because he dislikes them and they know it. seraph is very conflict avoidant lol, and as long as hes not a "threat" they dont care to talk to him about their problems. he probably argues with atlas and jacob (his older brother) too, atlas about more stupid small stuff, and jacob about childhood and life stuff :p

im trying to think of more general groups he would argue with but i cant come up with anything BAHAH. hes not exactly conflict avoidant in the annoying libra way that seraph is, he more just ignores conflict for his friends’ (mostly atlas’) sake. idk if that makes sense LOL

35. What is the smallest, morally questionable choice they’ve made?

hmmm.. smallest? i mean scotch strings eloise along for most of the time pre timeskip. its not a main focus but its definitely important in order to understand scotch as a whole. she and scotch go out for a while, and mid way through that he realizes hes GAY gay. lol. and obviously lying to her about that is pretty questionable after a while. especially since he and atlas have been 👉👌 like the whole time. but she kind of knows. well

something a little bigger would be him encouraging or otherwise turning a blind eye to all the weird stuff atlas is up to. he doesn't know what it's like to be a werewolf, he can't say anything, right? lol.... murder is okay if its a talking dog doing it. scotch enabler supreme. actually when seraph is introduced, he and atlas have a 'joke' (kind of starts being real) about luring seraph somewhere to kill them. obviously doesnt happen and gets abandoned. but i think its important to know about their dynamic LOL

51. What’s a phrase they say a lot?

this guy is kind of goofy. i cant think of phrases rn but he has a specific way of speaking.. you could watch pretty much any old pop punk band interview and kind of get the idea. HAHAH

1. What’s the lie your character says most often?

atlas is a big fan of saying 'its fine' for all situations ever. family in mortal danger? its fine. completely splitting? its fine. arthritis excruciating? its fine. hes one of those people that dont like to deal with the fawning of others unless hes feeling real special. Ends up putting people in more danger a lot of the time. i think eloise is the only fan of communication in this friend group to be honest. i should have made her the main character

he tends to make promises he cant keep as well, but thats more general..

6. What’s their favorite [insert anything] that they’ve never recommended to anyone before?

i have NO idea. i feel like atlas would be a music snob, so maybe his favorite 'super underground' bands. otherwise he'd probably never recommend raw human meat to another human (no matter how much scotch asks -__-).. (he would chicken out anyway)

55. What’s something they’re expected to enjoy based on their hobbies / profession that they actually dislike / hate?

um. so atlas hates working out. he especially hates running, you know, the thing that wolves are known for doing a lot of? unfortunately the lycanthropy came with a side effect of pretty bad arthritis, so that doesnt exactly encourage him. he DOES exercise, a lot since hes pretty much required for his ermm "side job", but he hates it 😸 besides the arthritis it’s mostly because I think it’s silly that he hates it. yay

#ummm a lot of what i talk about with my ocs are the character relationships but thats why i write. i like gossip. its fun. LMFAO #im actually having trouble deciding whether i want atlas to be a killer or not. like regularly killing i mean. hes definitely killed SOMEON #im really inspired by ginger snaps and scream. i dont even like scream that much but it reminds me of how they are. lol #scotch and atlas are pretty different but theres two things i see as themes. they both hate communication (and that causes conflict; so mor #avoiding). and the fact that scotch lives vicariously through atlas. atlas is doing #what scotch thinks is interesting. for pretty much the entire time; scotch likes to beg atlas to turn him. i think scotch sees the lack of #control he has over his life and sees lycanthropy as power. arguably thats why scotch is so attracted to atlas. lol #idk. thats not canon. im just thinking out loud here. #and yk it is power but not freedom. atlas would much rather just be a regular wolf. hunting and shit. but hes got these damn people here lo #but he sees what his life is like being a lycanthrope and hes kinda like. no. im not bringing that onto you. you dont know what youre askin #YOU KNOW? its goofy. i know. but its fun. LOL #if you (a general audience you but it can be you too grins) want to talk about scotch's confusion about his attraction to eloise we'd be #here all day. i think scotch is an egg. i dont know. i truly think theres some vicarious living (again) through her femininity. #and el is trans so he doesnt see her femininity as unattainable to him. you know? i hope that makes sense lol and im kind of projecting on #to him wif dat. to be honest. but obviously in the other direction. BWAHAH #asks #eucyon #thank u for da ask jesse this is so fun ^__^ and exciting that someone remembers their names HAH #after all this talking in the tags what I meant to say is that scotch and atlas both have sick intentions. it’s just that scotch doesn’t #act on them. and atlas does. so. living vicariously. ok

[laniemae]

We need to talk about Nilovalentine’s behaviour in this whole situation (NOT A HATE POST JUST EXPLANATION)

[IMPORTANT PLEASE READ]

To say it once again, this is not a hate post of any kind, I just want to talk the specifics of what has happened the past month.

I know this is a very risky post to make, for me and for everyone involved. But to properly tell the truth about everything that’s happened I believe is the best for my mental health and to learn and recover from this situation, and to hopefully never get caught up in something again.

Before you hate on me for saying this, please don’t instantly assume the worst of me for speaking up about this sort of behaviour. I don’t want any sort of anchoring bias to be at play here and am trying my best to simply explain what has happened without any bias, and I please want everyone who reads this to understand this and to at least understand where I’m coming from, ok?

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So to start off, this post is not in any way justifying my actions. I have already talked about what I have done and what I did was bad, I explained that in another post. But I feel like if you guys understand Nilo’s behaviour in this situation hopefully this can be of benefit to us all. And please don’t attack any one mentioned.

Basically it all started with my first breakdown from the second new years gartic phone game. It’s hard to remember as I often forget stressful things but when I first got upset Nilo commented on my post saying how 0709 was “ok because…” instead of acknowledging how uncomfortable I was with it and trying to reason with me. I stated before in my apology post that sort of attitude gives me really bad memories, but in his benefit at that time he wouldn’t have known that.

I got really upset at the post and told him how that just made things worse. Then not too long later Nilo proceeded to joke about it on his account and completely disregard how uncomfortable I was in the situation. Now, just to make things clear, from this point it could’ve been a misunderstanding where he thought it was some silly ship hate and didn’t notice my discomfort, but things just proceeded to get worse as time went on.

I ended up talking to someone who tried to help me in all of this. They went on to try and ask for an apology/more notice on the situation. I don’t know what exactly happened from their perspective but Nilo had taken over a week to even respond and the apology did not mention anything about my discomfort and feels redundant over what has happened recently.

Things were quiet for a while until the Valentine’s post last week that set me off. To say it once again, I acted brash and overly violent in that situation and I am not justifying what I did, I was just at my nadir at that time and couldn’t see anything else in sight and thought it was the end. What happened afterwards is what made me really worried about Nilo’s attitude towards my situation.

He proceeded to go on and joke about the situation replying to an ask with some joke about this being like a war or a game to someone who supported him with some silly soldier image telling them “god bless soldier”, completely disregarding how uncomfortable and a dark mental state I was in treating it like it was just some game.

Nilo replied to my reblog when I got incredibly upset about it saying that he didn’t hate me only to say that he didn’t care. He blamed everything that happened on me while again, very clearly not acknowledging my mental state at the time or that had ignored any sort of reasoning I had before I became violent. He claimed that I could move on like it was no problem implying that my whole behaviour was stupid and proceeded to make way too many assumptions about me and my behaviour.

Even though I reacted violently and inappropriately in this situation Nilovalentine’s ignorant behaviour should not go unnoticed. With me, I’m trying to learn from my mistakes and become a better person. I don’t want to make any assumptions or anything but I don’t think anything has changed with Nilo.

He’s repeatedly ignored my situation and discomfort, joked about my situation and had put no efforts to reason with me and literally said he did not care and put all the blame on me. Yes, a lot of it was my fault but the ignorant behaviour is what spiralled it out of control in the first place.

Again, this is a very risky post for me to make but I feel like the only way things would ever move forward is by saying this. I can’t bottle this up and keep it all to myself as that’s probably what caused me to act so badly on Valentine’s Day last week.

And to say it, since I’m only me I don’t know every perspective from this situation so there would be more to this, this is only my experience and the behaviours I’ve had to deal with. We’re all human after all, so there’s so good or bad here, just choices and mistakes.

Please, do not hate on either of us for everything that’s happened. This post is only intended to be a stone for my recovery and subsequent efforts to rejoin this fandom once more, even if I have to get everything of my chest and risk a lot as I know lots of you are mutuals with Nilovalentine. So please, take this post to heart and consider things from a wider perspective from now on out. I only want to make things better for everyone and after hitting rock bottom I’ve started to understand this situation more clearly, and the acceptance that comes with moving on. 

I’m sorry for posting this as it’s a hard topic, but we all need to move on at some point and not get stuck in a cycle of stagnation.

Please treat this situation with respect and don’t rush to any sides

If you haven’t read it, this is my original apology post detailing the situation and why I responded as I did in greater detail https://www.tumblr.com/laniemae/742434928724164608/about-the-situation-at-hand-and-why-i-responded?source=share

#milgram #I’m very sorry for maintagging this #I guess this is an important post that needs to address everything #I’m scared of the reception this may get #I don’t want anyone to get hurt anymore because I’ve had enough of that #The only way to move is to move forward if we all try it’s not that hard if you clear your mind #I am truly sorry for my behaviour I exhibited during this whole situation #Like I said I was at my lowest and could not make sense of anything that was happening and was too overwhelming #I hope this comes as a learning experience to me so I can avoid making mistakes such as this in the future #It feels so bad for talking about someone so specifically about this and I know I’ll probably get gossiped about alot #But I feel that this is necessary to move on #Tag to find later

[alliswyattonthewesternfront]

the less i know about celebrities, the better. stop trying to make me learn more about their lives than i already do.

#can't stress enough that i don't mean this in a: don't ruin my favorite millionaire for me uwu way #i do not have a favorite rich person i don't think the wealthy are my friends #but the less i know about what anyone in a mcmansion is getting up to the happier i am #i avoid the constant diet of tabloid gossip as much as is humanly possibly #blog

[catominor]

rattling lfc around in myhead really hard rn. hes so strange and unusual babygirl... i think he has a lot of artistic/scholarly pursuits he does when he isnt politicking/getting lawyerly with it. obvs he writes his philosophy but he also writes really technically well done but boring poetry (perhaps plays too?) & plays the cithara quite well. other than that he spends most of his time reading its his favorite thing to do. he doesnt go outside at all if he can avoid it hes an indoor creature truly

#ficposting #hes very much seen as strange by society people because of how he avoids social engagements/prefers to spend his time alone w his pursuits #but by virtue of his social position he has a circle of people in that social echelon whove known him since he was a child #so hes like. a subject of occasional gossip

[wiirocku]

Proverbs 20:19 (NIV) - A gossip betrays a confidence;    so avoid anyone who talks too much.

#Proverbs 20:19 #gossip #betrays #confidence #so avoid #anyone #who talks #too much #wisdom

[thestarsys]

being overstimulated sucks

most of us are pretty sensory seeking and often deal with overstimulation with loud music in earbuds, because its "on purpose noise" so it helps reduce overstimulation i do *not* work like that, i am sitting in complete silence because today was Too Peopley and Too Artificial Light-y and Too Noise and Too Temperature for my liking

both ways of dealing with it are valid ofc, im just annoying that i may very well implode if i listen to my music rn lmao

-gerard

#gerard's gossip (pronounced “joh-sip” /j) #actually did #system stuff #system #plurality #did/osdd #traumagenic system #osdd #did #traumagenic #actually autistic #actually adhd #neurodivergent #autism #overstimulation #sensory meltdown #sensory avoidant #sensory seeking

[vio1315]

Gotta say, telling people about my issues helps put things into perspective and make me more sane about things

but good luck getting enough trust out of me to talk about anything

#Vio's Personal #Maybe I lose enough sleepy to rb things tomorrow jknjk maybe not #Anyways. Big thinks I'm having in the meantime #I like to not tell anyone anything for 8 months at a time and then be impressed that when I finally do I #am like 80% less ready to tear my life apart #This is because 1. I trust like 2 people enough to talk to about life #2. If I say a negative thing this is clearly a detriment to everyone I love (by making them sad) #But being Forced to come to terms with the ol idea that an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure #that said I still can't discern what's gossip and what isn't #I have been deciding lately that on top of avoiding it for being sin #I actually am coming to hate it myself #which is good but also hrm. What to do when you're seeing it... idk #The inciting incident for this realization was awhile ago btw #don't think you can pin down a timeframe. I'm intentional about those kinds of things