#bc when it comes to george dream is a stalker (affectionate)

[dnfshmeeneff]

“quite literally stalked” is such a weird phrase to use about friends lmao

coming for me now, huh? i am only going to answer this one ask so don't bother sending any more, i'll just delete them. (unless you want to have a genuine conversation, in which case i’m totally open to discussing more, but you’d have to come off anon.)

stalking is not only done by evil creepy people who mean harm. fans can stalk celebs. people in relationships can stalk their partner. friends can stalk friends. sometimes it's serious and dangerous and that’s when it is said with the legal definition in mind. and sometimes it's said in a less serious, joking/harmless or even affectionate way in casual conversation.

for example, you are fixated on this one user and you scroll through their account, and they have their other socials linked/mentioned so you go and look through/follow their other accounts. if you did this with malicious intent to gather info, or did it despite them blocking you, this is absolutely stalking (aka harassment). if you did it just because you really like them/their content, i would still call that stalking, bc it is in a way, albeit more jokingly since it's pretty harmless. if you’ve ever had a crush and searched for their social media and then looked through pictures they’ve posted or something: again, stalking. but again, usually pretty harmless.

obviously when i said dream stalked george and ponk i meant it in the latter harmless way, but i would still absolutely classify it as stalking. he spent hours looking through random footage to find his friends in the background. that's not something your average friends do. : )

#harmless does not equal healthy though #so while i would say what dream did was harmless i wouldn't necessarily call it healthy ahaha #it was definitely a weird thing to do #friends or not #but again no harm done #look anon #i love dream #i really really do (slash parasocial and all) #i'm not saying any of this with any kind of malice #but because i love dream i think it's important to view him critically sometimes bc he's not perfect #he's susceptible to doing weird/unhealthy/immature things just like you or me or literally any other human on this planet #but he obviously loves his friends very much and doesn't have bad intentions. if ponk or george were genuinely very uncomfortable with #what he did they would've talked to him about it in private so no harm no foul and i don't dwell on it bc idc and it's their business #i just find it funny tho #bc when it comes to george dream is a stalker (affectionate) #this stems from you (or on the chance you're not the same person: another anon) going at blair over people counting the amount of times #george said 'dream' in his stream yesterday #take a step back and ask yourself if this is really worth getting upset for dng over #i assure you they would not care #and if it's because You care then why are you stalking (lol) our blogs in the first place? #i mean this genuinely and absolutely /nm anon: get over it and move on #block people whose posts make you uncomfortable/upset or blacklist stuff you don't want to see on your dash #you are fully in control of curating your experience here. do yourself a favor and stop interacting with people whose opinions or content #frustrate you or you disagree with this strongly #enjoy the rest of your day and weekend! #anon #ask #answer