#bc women shouldn't need to know everything or be specialists on a thing to be taken seriously by men

[softesthobi]

love it when sexism :)

#it's been a while since i've felt this belittled as a woman wow #so my car is broken and i text this dude who fixes cars and who my parents mostly use when we have car issues #so as my parents are away i got his number and my dad was like text him and tell him you've got this problem #and my dad messaged the dude as well around the same time as i did #so now my dad tells me that he told him that yeah lol the car works normally starts just fine #which it ummmm.... did not when it stopped and didn't start right in the middle of traffic lights #and my grandpa had to tow it away with his friends (mind you he couldn't start it either) #but it does randomly work yes if you give it 30 mins... 3 days... yeah it might start #but it's not fun when it decides not to jskdfksdf #and this car fixer dude literally did not reply to my texts..... in no way implied he had seen them #and apparently he's been checking it today???? without telling me????? but telling my dad who's abroad and can't call from there #and messages me on whatsapp to tell me that yeah the fixer dude tried the car jskdjfksdk #my dad's just telling me to text the fixer dude and give him the details on the issue but if the dude doesn't take me seriously... #what's the point going through my dad who doesn't know the issue and hasn't seen the car instead of me who was literally there #he just thinks like oh a little girl can't start a car wow #like bitch........ i've been driving that car for 6 years #(3 years on the road since i got my license) #ig i have to text him but i'd prefer to call or meet up so i can explain it better and i won't be limited to the letter amount of texts #i kinda wanna learn how to explain the issue perfectly in technical terms to show his ass but also i don't wanna have to do that #bc women shouldn't need to know everything or be specialists on a thing to be taken seriously by men #my thingies