#bday bug aka love bug lol

[whimsywit]

Hello, I was hoping to get a red velvet truffle...?

I use he/they pronouns and I have no gender preference. I'm an average height and im a minor, I don't know much about zodiac stuff but I think it depends on birthday and my bday is on september 4th.. and I have shaggy/wavy dark red box dyed hair that reaches my shoulders and brown eyes lol I wear neat glasses too. I have pretty cool piercings, I usually wear baggy clothes because I like to stay comfortable.

I'm a very lazy/laidback person and I like getting into alot of playful banter n joking around with people im comfortable with. I am very people dependent and I hate being alone. I don't consider myself all too smart to be honest I'm wistfully ignorant lol. I have a not so good temper. I have trouble putting my thoughts and emotions into words and instead they're more present....physically if that makes sense idk like i said before i have trouble with this shit lol. I try my best to help my friends with any issues they have but I'm kind of awful at it.I am a very passionate person and I think I can be a very good person but I'm just so full of doubt that it makes me wonder if I'm just lying yakno? LOL. I kind of really rather go with the flow of thinks yakno? I'm really easy to fluster/embarrass and I am way too sensitive for my own good.

Random lil things about me, I used to do karate I hated every second of it but I still think fighting cool as fuck, I have awful music taste none of it makes sense I go from nasty screaming music to soft cheesy love pop songs it sucks but im really into singing too, i like playing games any kind of games but I usually suck at them 

I like dark and stormy weather nd hanging out with friends while just doin fun stuff. I really like savory foods as well. I dislike the heat and just being dirty/sweaty, I also have an irrational hatred of naps because i feel like im losing so much time i could be using to do stuff. My fears are being as bad as the people who hurt me in the past, and bugs haha. I really just wanna be successful in my life and amount to something! Have a good job a good house yakno yakno all that good stuff.

Traits I look for is someone who has a sense of humor even if its just a lil bit, someone sweet who will take time to understand me n stuff like that lol.. Someone I can find comfort in without feeling stupid about it. I really admire people who are empathetic since I have trouble being empathetic myself. Traits I'm not interested in are like people who are way too serious and uptight, not that being serious is a bad thing but i just can't groove with it.

Ok thats all, thank you very much :)❤ -👹🍁🌋

Heya! Tysm for requesting, and also in case you were curious, your main zodiac aka sun sign is Virgo (tho that doesn’t really come into play in your matchup mb 😅) Anyway, based on your info, I think you’d be perfect with...

Eijiro Kirishima!

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Gosh you’re giving Tetsutetsu a run for his money with how similar you and Eijiro are! Both of you are passionate yet easygoing people... people (as in people-person but plural? ignore that it was so ineloquent 😅) who are more focused on and inclined towards the physical than anything else. On one hand it means youre unafraid of being close and touchy, and thus very affectionate with one another, which is good news for your dependency trait! On the other hand, you guys do have to study a LOT more than some of your other friends, most often with their help cause its not like you guys are gonna get anywhere by yourselves ffgjsvksdj But being in the same boat and bearing the brunt of it together makes it a lot better, trust! And you throw in plenty of gaming and joint hair-dying dates to balance it out dw ;0

Actually, I could go on and on about all the stuff you two get up to together! Plenty of sparring sessions since he loves a good ol fight just as much as you, hanging out with the bros while sharing savory snacks all around, and singing at the top of both your lungs to anything and everything, since I can see his music taste being all over the place, too. There’s never a dull or tense moment between you, as making you laugh (and occasionally taking advantage of your sensitivity since he thinks you’re the cutest thing in the world when you’re flustered ^w^) quickly become some of his favorite things to do.

Eiji is definitely able to stand your temper—just look at his blond best bud—and always calms you down whenever you rage. He also sees and loves how want to be a good person, help out those around you, and just make an impact. In his mind it’s super admirable that you’re even trying, and effort is half the battle after all! We’ve also seen how he’s struggled with self-image and self-doubt in the past, so he empathizes with your feelings in spades and is more than willing to help and encourage you while you overcome it. ALSO also, thinks all your piercings are manly as hell, and it probably inspires him to get some of his own, which sidenote he looks super hot in so tysm for blessing the world with that 🥺

All in all, you and Eijiro perfectly walk the line between comfortable and intimate. Every moment with him is filled with good vibes as he brings out the best in you, understanding, comforting, and protecting you (at least when any bugs show up for that last one lmfao) like no other while never minding any of your flaws! This guy’s honestly such a perfect sweetie but you more than deserve someone as great as him 💗💞

#order up: red velvet truffle! #bnha #mha #boku no hero academia #my hero academia #bnha x reader #mha x reader #bnha matchup #mha matchup #anime matchup #kirishima eijiro #eijiro kirishima #kirishima bnha #bnha kirishima #kirishima mha #mha kirishima #kirishima x reader #eijiro kirishima x reader

[bubmyg]

Same anon from a while back that gave my thoughts on rythym hive! Am back after a good month so here i am haha

So first thing the game has improved in terms of bugs! I did get one bug yesterday but its more stable. Obviously its known that with a big fandom you will get crashes so I understood, made me laugh a bit because really bighit? XD this fandom crashes everything lol but moving on. The developers are indeed communicating based on the messages I get in the inbox of the game so they do want to make this game fun so I give kudos on that! Im happy they addressed some issues i had like the sidebar with the members or saying they do plan on doing shorter versions of songs. The game is enjoyable, I have gotten the hang of the beat map properly (still feels awkward imo) so playing it is fun, do rage when I miss a note haha so classic superstar moments. They seemed to fix a balancing issue because I recall I qas always paired with bts players that had S or R cards when I had a B card so thats nice! I like how for bdays you get special cards or icons to use

I do have some complaints, like while I do enjoy the full songs playing, I'm not really sure you do play with real life people? Because while the names change, the cards don't if you click "play again" (aka the card levels are always the exact) maybe they are and the game system just repeats the same layout for you the player, to be comfortable with? I do find it a bit blah that they did confirm that they don't use correct lines on who sings who aka going off live performances lines which I understand why they did it but idk, this is me being nitpicky since I find if annoying I see jungkook be used while its jimin's voice in the song. I get it since songs like spring day, hobi doesn't have any so that does make it tricky so thats why the showing who sings concept is one I love/hate. I hope they do add a tournament feature like in ssbts. Hopefully a more friend list as well could be fun because while I do enjoy the game, it does feel a bit empty ya know? This will improve because as said, the developers are working to make the game fun so I do enjoy the game regardless ya know?

Overall it's not a bad game. Honestly better than bts universe/world lolol. Naturally the superstar games are more polished so I do lean more to them but rythym hive is fun as well, let the game improve over time so we can see more stuff added

!!!!!!! nothing to add bc I haven’t had the time to play it lately 😭 but!!! I def think it’ll improve as time goes on :D

#anonymous #long post

[aegyo-chan]

1/4 I had a feeling bulbasaur was Pokemon. The only thing I know about Pokemon is that my brother was obsessed with it when we were little. He had a Pokemon cake on his bday and that there were 3 Pokemon on some of his cards that I thought were super adorable. One looked like red and blue roses with a spiky green head?? Another was a little yellow bell that ran around on like roots for feet? And I cant even remember the 3rd. Ooo, once you finish your aesthetic workstation, you should show me!

2/4 What’s your favorite thing to drink on a hot day? I am unfunny - I love water. LOL. It’s still super cold here - I’m mean it’s getting warmer, but my city tends to have winter or winterish for like 8 out of the 12 months. Smarthouse was a Disney channel movie in the 90s – Idk if it was just played in the USA or not so it’s okay that you haven’t see it :) You are welcome to join me anytime! We could throw a little party.3/3 I grew up watching a lot of sci-fi stuff, too. My mom is a huge sci-fi nerd and I spent a good chuck of my childhood watching Doctor Who because she made my little brother and I sit down at watch it with her lol. What are some of your fav sci-fi shows or movies? I’m more of a horror fan. Whether I changed my icon is for me to never tell you and for you to never find out :) If you want to take Mang as a hint, go for it because you’d be right!4/4 The person who created him does indeed have a very special place in my heart – so special that he’s tried (multiple times) to take Ravi’s spot on my bias list. I have a side blog dedicated to him and another idol from a different band. I’m fairly certain you either haven’t come across my blog yet or you have and you’re not saying anything because there is a spot on my blog that would give everything away. Good luck. -HAF

Aww that is super adorable!! My siblings and I used to watch pokemon when we were young, but mostly while we were waiting for the next anime. Our cartoon network had a 2 hour slot for anime in those days and Pokemon was the starter. (we did slowly develop an interest into the anime it was a fun light hearted anime tbh, we bought dvds of the movies too)  My brother spent idk how much money on those trading cards, it was a trend in school to have the rarest lol It got bad enough for the teachers to actively search bags for cards and he gave me his to keep safe, so that they didn’t get confiscated. I won this Bulbasaur in a BAP Japan care package giveaway by @thediebutterfly and I love it a lot. This is similar to the plushie Daehyun won at the crane game in heyo tv. So it’s even more special, childhood and adulthood favorite things in one. ^^ I got the picture of the 2 pokemons you described in my head but I can only remember the 2nd’s name, bellsprout! :D 

LOL but that’s the best thing!!! Just plain water after coming home on a hot day, because honestly no matter what you drink, thirst is only ever quenched by water. I like fruit juices and soda. I don’t like milkshakes but Ice Cream shakes are great. Winterish for 8 months omg I would die lol I don’t like winter that much. I’m a spring person. We have all 4 distinct seasons plus a rainy season that is pretty humid. I used to love summer when I was a kid because my birthday is in May but now I realize some things in summer aren’t that great aka bugs lol Also I just can not wear layers. I can’t do it I’d rather freeze than wear multiple layers. I don’t like my arms covered below my elbow. I would even cut all my winter sweaters and jackets sleeves if I could. 

I’ve watched a couple of Disney channel shows from the 2005-08 period but not this one. ^^ I loved disney channel. hm… for me it was a mix of animated stuff more than live action stuff. I don’t remember names of those cartoons anymore but they had alien protagonists all of them. One of the earliest live actions that wasn’t exactly for kids I think but a local channel aired it (censoring anything inappropriate but I doubt it had anything THAT inappropriate) was gene roddenberry’s earth the final conflict. I was 13/14 i think and I was obsessed. whatever time it aired and it never had a set timing I watched it. Then I got obsessed with Star Wars (the 3 original and the prequel trilogy) and I even wrote fanfiction! on paper and not online haha it was a cute story about princess Leia, with no ships or anything. This is going to get super long so I’m gonna stop lol I don’t get time to watch much stuff now and my interests evolve with time so I never stick to one genre. I had marvel phase, a power rangers phase, a harry potter phase but never horror. I am a scaredy cat. Buzzfeed Unsolved made me lose sleep for a month so I don’t mess with horror.  I applaud you dear! tell me your favorite horror movies or shows. 

ASGFSGFG TRUST ME I have been looking and I haven’t found you yet. I am really really bad at guessing, even if you were right in front of me I would not notice till you were painfully obvious. it’s okay though lol I like this mystery. haha I always look for you when I’m free. It’s fun searching for you.

#hime anonie friend #anon

[againjack]

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Friday night I got an apology from Colby for being so unresponsive. 

I had sent him pics of me looking hot for the board installation. His response? “Pretty.” A friend drunkenly told me, after seeing the same pic, that his response should have been along the lines of ‘holy wow, I’ll be there in ten to fuck your brains out.’ (I also got a lot of positive reaction at shul that night.)

He did agree to do dinner at my fav restaurant Sat evening though he mentioned he had to be at his shul for 8am Sunday morning. He wanted to see a movie either before or after the movie, but for theaters near me that just wasn’t a decent option due to timing, when the restaurant was open and how late he wanted to be up to. I told him let’s just focus on dinner for now. 

I did flatly tell him, “Please don’t let it slide so long again. I was really worried and upset. Especially since we had talked about the silence thing before.” His response was “:(”.Seriously?

We had a few texts Saturday morning. He then tried to get me to see the same movie (that I really didn’t want to see) nearer to him. When I asked how that worked with dinner near me he asked me to call him. 

Remember how a month ago I was watching his dog who got hurt. The dog had a serious injury years ago that left his back two legs “wobbly” so having one of his front legs also bad is Not Good. His dog got better, sorta. So he stopped worrying. But, part of that was giving the dog OCT pain meds twice a day. Two weeks ago Colby thought he could feel a lump of some sort on the dog’s shoulder - of that same front leg. This week the dog got worse with walking and stairs on that front leg, so he took him into the vet again, this time with xrays. 

After the weekend I watched him, and after Colby found the bump the vet couldn’t find anything, but this time the vet could feel it too. The xrays showed that there was a large calcified mass that was that bump. The only way to treat it is to amputate. Right now the dog is on heavier prescription pain meds; the vet confirmed that the dog is in a lot of pain but hiding it from Colby. There is no way that the front leg can be amputated with two bad back legs. He wouldn’t be able to get anywhere (water, etc) while Colby was at work. So now Colby is facing the hard truth that he may need put his dog down. He loves this dog so much. 

He shared that this is especially hard for him due to another imminent difficult loss in a very important part of his life that is expected in the next few months. He just can’t deal right now. He told me that he wouldn’t be a good dinner companion and just wanted to clear his head and have some time to have fun, so that he could teach his Hebrew school class (which he hasn’t taught this level in 7 years so he really needed to also catch up on the curriculum). This resulted in his asking that we do dinner and movie near him. 

He was sweet in saying he really wanted to see me and spend time with me (since he hadn’t since Monday morning when we parted ways for our respective jobs.) I didn’t feel I had much choice, either see him on his terms or don’t and be miserable myself while also unsupportive of him. 

I had been in a LOT of pain all day. I woke up in the most pain I’d been in since the car accident, and still had to go food shop for a 200 person BBQ. (Aka lots of heavy lifting of bulk foods/meats.) I also drove 1 hour each way to make an appearance at a friend’s kid’s bday party. I actually called while I was at the party, and elicited a funny reaction (I dropped the fork and piece of cake on it when the phone rang.) I made sure he knew that my giving up what I wanted to do, and needed to destress after I was to the point of CRYING on Friday (both due to him and due to a shul political issue), and being in so much pain that I wasn’t really happy to be the one to give up. Again. (Remember the unintended bait and switch from the gardens to the baseball game?) 

I left the kids bday party early, drove the hour home, packed and grabbed stuff I would need for Sunday morning as well as made sure MY dog had what she needed, then headed to him. I arrived and he was going over stuff upstairs. It sorta bugs me that he doesn’t really greet me when I arrive. He expects me to find him wherever he is in his place at the time.

We ended up buying tickets to a nearby theater (not his typical/preferred one) for the movie he wanted to see (and I was very clear that I did not want to see it) then went out to dinner. I had suggested a place we literally could have walked to from his place. Turns out, this place was hopping and we scored a rare walk in table, as normally reservations are needed two plus weeks in advance! But the service, drinks, and food were so worth it. We will be going back for sure! Though, of course we both got two drinks each and the big meals (as opposed to sandwiches) so the bill before tip was $100. I offered to take care of it since I had recommended it, when he looked at it he asked if we could split it. I don’t know if it was that I expected him as the guy to pay, that he made me change our plans to what HE wanted/needed over my wants/needs, that I was in pain and still stressed out, or a combination of those and more, but I was kinda disappointed and miffed that he wanted to split it. 

Getting to the theater was a trip. The way to do so was so round about and through some interesting (and not safe) areas. The theater was also very... ghetto. Nice bathroom and concession stand though. The movie ended up being WAY awesome. We had a lot of fun watching it together, witty comments back and forth, laughing over the same obscure references, etc.

On the drive back to his place, I confirmed how he had to leave early, and commented that I wasn’t sure what I would do since I couldn’t go home then to shul as it would be like 5 minutes at home before I would need to turn around, but it would be way too early to go to shul - never mind I was hurting so bad that I knew I wouldn’t sleep well or want to get up so early. He mentioned that he was ok with my staying at his place longer after he left. That then opened up a very awkward conversation. One that gave me some ugly insight. 

He was shocked that no one had made the same offer to me before. Especially since we knew were each others hidden keys are. But he felt that we weren’t at the having spare keys to each others places yet. (!!!) I did a double take and was REALLY hurt by this. I told him how I was ready to give him a spare key, but didn’t think it was worth it since he hardly ever comes up my way. (Which also is sorta hurtful. It is ALWAYS my going to him.) 

He wanted to stay up to go over his class stuff for the next day. I asked him if I should being my book to read where he was, rather than in bed. He said he would be up soon to not do that. I took more pain meds and showered to help relax my muscles. I crawled into bed and was nearly asleep by the time he came to bed. It was so weird (but not unexpected since he is a night owl) to have him in another room while I just did my own thing and to fall asleep in his bed without him. I was right in that I barely slept due to the pain.

As is typical, he took forever to get up including my having to say his name and poke him to get up and turn off the alarm a few times. I didn’t really wake or start to move until he was nearly done (like 45+ minutes from when he got up.) I ended up reading and eating breakfast when he left. He was very sweet and kissed me (our typical kiss - closed mouth) and wished me luck with the BBQ. Again, as I showered and finished getting myself together and chillaxing before going to my shul it was so weird to do so without him there. I had an emotional good bye with the dog, as I don’t know when, or if, I’ll see him again depending on when Colby makes the (obvious) decision to put him out of his misery. 

That evening as the BBQ was really kicking off he sent me a text, “You got this.” It was funny, I told my VP about it, and she asked if it was X number of minutes ago and when I was standing at Y place. I confirmed, and she laughed because she guessed as much when she saw my face light up and me get a huge shit eating grin. lol 

Colby’s cousin is a member of my shul so he was at the BBQ. Its funny, he and I have definitely formed a bond since I started dating Colby. He is friendlier toward me. It feels like a family relationship as opposed to a friend relationship. I know whenever he asks how I am he is really asking how things are going with Colby. Due to being stressed I slipped. I normally try to be vague and positive, because I know how Colby values his privacy and how careful he is about who/when/how knows about us. Instead, I told this cousin that things were good but slow and frustrating. Still vague, but not so positive.

I just don’t know right now. While he has done some good things and I do take into account his tough situation, I’m still not happy with the balance of it all. I care for him, and know he cares for me; though the fact he isn’t ready to swap keys makes me think he either is scared or feels way less about me than I thought he did. 

Never mind that he still hasn’t made much in the way of moves on me. I had thought I would make some serious teasing and moves on him Saturday night, but between the pain and exhaustion (and emotional hurt) and my other stresses, I just couldn’t. That and being nearly asleep by the time he came to bed didn’t help either. :P I did warn him that I would be stepping things up, I just haven’t been able to yet since I said it. lol

#dating Colby #sweet things #sorta supportive