#because they can kindly fuck off

[fefairys]

i know ive basically said this already lol but a lot of ppl have been like "oh man i should reread homestuck with the commentary!" and i do want to warn yall it is an extremely mixed bag of genuine insightful stuff and good writing advice and then just like. terrible writing advice, and weird off-kilter bad-taste jokes. i've just been posting the stuff i think is good and interesting or particularly funny, but it's not all top tier commentary lmao

if ur doing a reread with book commentary get ready to be annoyed. and put on ur critical thinking helmet lol because you have to parse through so much of hussies bullshit. u have to ask urself CONSTANTLY "are they serious, or are they being satirical right now?" and i genuinely do not know the answer for some of the shit they say.

#i generally try to interpret everything as kindly as i can #just for my own sake if nothing else because i dont like getting mad about it #i just ignore the weird fucked up remarks and roll my eyes #and pay attention to the actual good stuff #next read i need to turn off the commentary and read it in its pure form #bc sometimes it does get distracting #homestuck

[girlgerard]

mommm white people on tumblr are misconstruing my posts again despite the post being entirely about how important wording is + how i don’t feel comfortable posting large statements when i haven’t fully processed them yet.

#if you want to put me on a blocklist for loving netanyahu you can! i don’t! and no matter how many times i get told i do #i still don’t! #i literally said i hope his balls get cut off IN THAT POST #i don’t know how that read as unclear. #perhaps there are no hidden genocidal messages behind the wording of my tumblr posts - who knows! #when i said i cared about every single civilian living in that land i meant it. if you decide that i actually don’t that’s not my problem #if you somehow took my words and decided that what i really meant is that i’m a government bootlicker who loves murder #you can do that all you want. it won’t make it true and it won’t help save any lives #i was in ramallah and jerusalem six months ago. have you gone? #if the answer is no maybe think about that for a second #moreover if you’re viewing this from a purely racial or religious framework you have no idea how to navigate this subject #i don’t view israel and palestine through which government i want to back. why the fuck would i do that #palestinians and jews and everyone else in that land is who i care about. i care about gazans #if that’s not enough of ‘a side’ for you i don’t really think there’s much of a conversation to be had. #do you think i wake up every day NOT thinking about gaza? do you think i wouldn’t feel nauseous every second of every day because of gaza? #do you think that within everything i’m saying that the most logical conclusion would be to post all of my thoughts on tumblr? #because if you think any of that we’re not going to have a productive conversation. i don’t take kindly to being told my own emotions

[iridescentis]

I'm too tired to come up with something coherent to say about this video so just have some random screenshots I collected

#no because my point still stands #they never look at each other with more affection than when the other is just saying complete nonsense #just casually unhinged commentary #good for them but they can also fuck off kindly <33 #leave us ALONE #dan and phil #dnp

[ravens-words]

I haven't been able to open tumblr because as bad as seeing terrible realities of what's happening in the world, what's worse is NOT seeing them.

Israel has now bombed the last hospital in Gaza. You read that right. The last (meaning not the first or second) Hospital in Gaza. 500 are dead. 1200 children have died in one week. 6000 bombs dropped on innocents in, what? One week? And the world watches. Or worse, turns a blind eye. Or even worse, looking, and seeing, and applauding the genocide.

#free palestine #genocide #war crimes #I'm starting to hate the world and everyone in it #i don't know how we can turn back from this #I know most of you are going to ignore this because what else is new lol #but I had to say it because i don't want to look back on these days and hate myself for not speaking out #if by any chance you read this and would like to say anything know this: if your words are anything other than condolences for the loss- #of my people then kindly fuck off

[lee-kangin]

as a fan of another pl team i think your problem is that your captain is son. he's too emotional and soft and instead of demanding better of your players he goes around comforting them and protecting them from the refs. idk i feel like he's probably let the band get to his head a bit and now he's pushing people like PEH (who have proper authority) away from the refs, it's a bit weird. strange appointment. he's trying too hard

know him do you?

#you’ve got to be taking the piss? this ask simply reeks of racism LOL #firstly sonny has captained the korean nt for years and has shouldered the hopes and dreams of an entire country #especially because he’s the FIGUREHEAD of ALL korean football in a way nobody has ever really been #that’s not enough responsibility for you? and calling his captaincy style emotional and soft oh so you’re for toxic masculinity too then? #sonny can very much demand the best of his teammates (as he does) and also lead them with kindness and compassion. and it clearly is #working bc every player there would run through a brick wall for him. i’m sorry but big dav missing the pen yesterday and sonny going #straight over to him to hug him and then pappy kissing his back - that’s all sonny’s influence. #maybe you want your team to be a toxic bunch of men but i like my team led by sonny just fine #full of passion and fight and love and support for each other and the fans #‘protect them from the refs’ yeah man maybe bc the dissent rules this szn are mad? have you not seen the red cards? #also you saying PEH has more authority than sonny that’s pure racism LMFAO. #golly gee wonder who has more influence over the players #heungmin son who has played for this club for eight years and has had stellar individual performances #and captains his country with pride and shoulders the burden of being one of the guys to lay the path for asian footballers #and is just an all around sweet dude #or ‘the viking’ #please kindly fuck off and go support your team instead of coming here and shitting on my captain. #rahul answers

[hwiyoungies]

if you're going to move out of your country literally the least you could do is try to adapt to your new country rules and traditions, and if you don't like it sucks for you gringo weón

#i'm sorry but seeing all of the shit that is happening in méxico has me furious #because what do you Mean you willingly moved to another country #and now are pressing charges against a restaurant for their traditions? #for playing mariachi music? you gringo imbécil are mad that they're playing Mariachi Music in México????? #it's the fact that they're all still getting paid their usa salaries that are higher than the mexican ones #so they can afford to pay more for houses and you know gentrification happens #like yeah sure latine america is cheaper for you but have you even considered the difference in salaries? #if you want to move to any country here just because it's cheaper for you kindly fucking don't #unless you're getting paid what we're getting paid and you literally don't go and destroy the housing market even further #like fuck this whole epidemic of gringos leaving the states just to find a cheaper country so that they can be more comfortable #is so fucking infuriating because it's so selfish!!! making shit hard for everyone just so they can accommodate you #because they're not even immigrating they still have their stupid ass job in the states #so what are they doing for the country they're moving into. nothing literally nothing but be bothersome #b.txt #rant of the day so sorry i'll be off

[kyliaquilor]

As a fat person (who really really really really doesn’t want to be), the way that the concept of fat-acceptance and ‘fatphobia is BS’ (both true and good and valid) has spun all the way around to ‘fat is inevitable and you shouldn’t aspire to not be fat and being fat is GOOD AND AWESOME’ is not really great.

#Kylia Konfesses #Don't cite the scientific studies to me by the way because I don't actually care this is me being unhappy #because this idea that no one can lose more than 5% of their body weight is insane when I certainly GAINED more than 5% of my body weight #I'm lazy and don't actually diet or exercise and I know that it's not like I'm trying hard and failing so kindly FUCK OFF with your fat #acceptance #I could use a bit of fatphobia to force myself to whip myself into action THANK YOU VERY MUCH #Grumping

[angeltism]

when 99% of the content of one of uur fragments is weird icky stuff

#➳ the fool speaks #yes tumblr i follow this character tag. because i am this character. can uu stop showing me ONLY 18+ material!!!! #i'll blog the x rea.der tag for this specific fragment (nat.asha h.sr) but like #there's gotta be sfw stuff to. some cute art? right? or is everybun just perverted and only likes me for their gross fantasies? #uhggh. i know i know i'll just. as i said. block the 18+ x read.er tag. or maybe the general tag for that fragment. but it's still #kinda distressing because nyeow i'm kinda scared to actually go see the tag. IS there fanart? one per 100 sm.ut fics? #what. uu gonna make me go kiss sam.po? how about uu just. draw. normal things. i'm nawt even against ship art i don't want it to sound that #way i just. in my mems. view sam.po as an annoying brother. and i find content of me and him to be distressing. i've blocked the tag but #just knowing that if i go to my tag it'll be like 99% things i don't like to see and 1% cute or nice or pretty normal art. #makes me feel ugh #anyways tag blocking time. also adding sa.mpota.sha to my do nawt look bc i've realized in this moment that it is genuinely ew 4 me so. jic #and nothing wrong w writing stuff like that i'm just SO ANNOYED that it seems like 99% of ANY CONTENT OF ME IS *THAT* #do ya'll even like me/her as a character... #ps. very insecure abt beings liking me for weird shit irl too bc of. things. so if it seems i care too much abt this. kindly fuck off!

[author-morgan]

i hope you know russell crowe is super problematic, just thought you should know so you can refrain from reblogging his movies. 💚

wow, a human being is flawed and has made mistakes, what a surprise. respectfully, if that’s your thought process then i hope you’ll boycott the new Thor movie since he’s in it. 💜

#sierra replies #news alert #you can enjoy movies without liking an actor or placing them on a pedestal #and I don’t need you to curate my blog when I can think for myself #also fr Russell Crowe is in so many of my favorite movies so kindly fuck off anon #imagine if everyone stopped creating and reblogging for movies shows etc just bc one actor was problematic #tumblr would be fuckin dead #because SURPRISE human beings make mistakes #anon hate

[ofknowlcdge]

i refuse any and all theiving clothes unless it's the occasional thievery, listen my boy does that too but he hardly takes clothes literally everyday and leave the occupant with nothing.

#argyle can fuck off if he even thinks about it #eddie can fuck off #he wears things that will give him a heatstroke in the summer #so he can kindly find other clothes in someone else's wordrobe #jonathan can too #nancy is alright #she doesn't take anything unless she knows steve is going to shriug and say you can have it no doubt #robin can take all she wants #because to be fair steve takes all he wants #so two peas in a pod there #they more likely share #and everyone else can kindly find themselves different hobbies #steve doesn't roll in money for them to take constantly #at least mine doesn't #and no tommy doesn't take steve's clothes #he's a couple inches shorter #he's probably going to look like a hobbit in them #he's good with his own thanks

[lakemichigans]

alright well. alright. okay so. alright. alright.

#tlou spoilers #i very nearly had to turn this ep off and try again another time it was hurting so much #if you know me you know sibling dynamics especially protective older siblings hits me the hardest #this was especially hard with sam being so much younger and deaf #the way henry talked to him so kindly and made an effort to include him in every conversation #that was the first thing that hurt me so bad because it reminds me so much of when my brother was little #he's not deaf but for other reasons it was very difficult for him to talk to people on his own #i spent most of my childhood and even now being his sort of interpreter #so i knew this would cut deeper than ever but man this really really really fucking hurt #dont get me wrong i loved it #loved it? that's not the right word #i know this will sound crazy but this show is making me feel so... blessed? #i'm not even religious lmao but i just feel blessed and thankful that i get to experience this #i feel grateful to feel everything i'm feeling and to share it with others for the first time #i feel grateful that i can hug my brother and be reminded of how much he means to me #i'm just. yeah #i feel blessed that's really all i can say right now #i'll have more plot centric thoughts tomorrow lol i need to go cry some more

[savage-rhi]

I think it's BS you've been receiving hateful anons in regard to your IS fic. It's a work of art. Don't wanna read it— get lost.

@hauntedadagium I appreciate your compassion immensely hon 💙

It's been there since day one. The anon hate for IS. I also got it for when I wrote Sky of Atoms in the Death Stranding fandom. It's not my first rodeo, but it does hurt sometimes especially if I'm in a vulnerable position because of my health problems.

I block and delete, and don't put my energy to them because I don't want my blog to be an environment that feeds that kind of bullshit. I know I can post whatever I want, the good and the bad, but I'm mindful that I have a lot of people with mental health problems and the last thing they need to see is more negative crap. Myself included.

Some people just get really fired up about oc x canon content. I think it has a lot to do with bias against the genre, and personal experiences. Maybe said person read one too many stories with Mary Sue content and now assumes all of oc x canon work is just that. Maybe they got pissed because they went into a story thinking it was an x reader thing but nope. There's so many what ifs.

I'm not making excuses for what's been said and done to me, but I try looking at where this is coming from because I hope that maybe one of my works can break that mold and make someone go "oh, guess there's some good shit out there in this genre!" and I don't know, they stop being assholes to fellow fic writers?

Eh, wishful thinking, but gotta try somewhere right?

#immortal shield #also they can kindly fuck off too because the hate motivates me to keep adding to it #if you don't cease and desist it will go on forever until you vortex yourself into the void #cause I CAN WRITE FOREVER #AND EVER #bwhahahaa

[snekdood]

i dont care for being a female or being perceived as such, in spite of how many queer people seem to insist i should be just like totally fine with it and theres something wrong with **me** for not seeing the greatness of being feminine and seen as a woman or whatever

#bitch how patronizing lol #i tried and went back to see if i liked it in 2015 and i still didn't. what do you know #if me being a man is such a stain for you then suck my balls #you can leave at any moment in time because this is not gonna stop lol #if you think its so great then YOU can do it! #and if my rejection of it turns you off and makes you suspiscious of me or you think it means i have 'bad vibes' #then you can kindly go fuck yourself and fuck off! #im never not gonna come to the conclusion that being a guy aligns with me better #idk what to tell you lol

[shirawords]

i would like to take this opportunity to damn the american health care system to all of the hells that i dont believe in

#im like 85% sure ill get my meds in time to not go into withdrawal #based on the last 2 weeks [comma] and especially the last 12.5 hours [comma] of doctor-pharmacy-insurance wrangling #i should receive my refill a few hours after i take my last pill #but only because my father happens to be going to fort collins on saturday #and is kindly adding like 3 hours into his drive to pick up my prescription from boulder and bring it to me in greeley #today was [comma] no hyperbole [comma] one of if not the most stressful days of my life #im just trying to not go into acute withdrawal here okay #im just trying to not get into another serious car accident #im just trying to not go off my fucking meds #oof #its gonna be ok #we are manifesting #medical #medical cw #medication cw #medication #health #health cw #not sure how else to tag [comma] lmk if theres anything i can add #i spam

[inkskinned]

what is with men being mad any time a woman raises her voice where did that even come from. someone posted a video of a small electrical explosion, and the top comment was of course the woman screams. the second comment is women try not to scream challenge, level impossible. i had to go back and watch the video again. there is, somewhat fainty, a little gasp emitted off-camera, more of a yelp than a scream. it is mostly lost in the crack of the explosion. afterwards, you hear her voice, shaken, say, are you okay?

i am helping one of my friends train her voice pitch lower, because she wants to be taken seriously at work. she and i do each other's nails and talk about gender roles; and how - due to our appearance - neither of us have ever been able to be "hysterical" in public. we both appear young and sweet and feminine. she is cisgender, and cannot use her natural voice in her profession because people keep saying she appears to be "vapid". we both try to figure out if our purposeful voice lowering is technically sexist. is it promoting something when you are a victim to it?

a storm almost sends a pole through a car window. in the dashcam, you can hear the woman passenger say her partner's name twice, crying out in alarm. she sounds terrified. in the comments, she is lambasted for her lack of calm. how is that even fucking helping?

in high school, i taught myself to have a lower voice. i had been recorded when i was genuinely (and righteously) upset; and i hated how my voice sounded on the phone speakers when it was played back. i was defending my mom, and my voice cracked with emotion. it meant i was no longer winning the argument: i was just shrieking about it.

girls meet each other after a long summer and let out a little joyful scream. this usually stops around 12-14, because people will not tolerate this display of affection (as it has the effect of being passingly annoying). something about the fact that little girls can't ever even be annoying. we are trained to examine each part of our lives (even joy) for anything that could make us upsetting and disgusting. they act like teenage girls are breaking into houses and shrieking you awake at 3 in the morning. speaking as a public school educator: trust me, it's not that bad, you can just roll your eyes and move on. it does not compare to the ways boys end up being annoying: slurs in graffiti, purposefully mocking your body, following you after you said no. you know, just boy things.

there's another video of a man who is not allowed to yell in the house, so he snaps his fingers when he's excited about soccer. the comments are full of angry men, talking about how their brother is unfairly caged. let him express himself and this is terrible to do to someone. eventually the couple has to address it in a second video: they are married with a newborn baby. he was trying not to wake the infant up. there is no comment on the fact women are not allowed to yell indoors. or the fact that it could have been really alarming or triggering for his wife. sometimes i wonder if straight men even like women, if they even enjoy being in relationships with them.

for the longest time, i hated roller coasters because it always felt inappropriate and uncomfortable for me to scream. one of my friends called me on it, said it was unusual i'm so unwilling. i had to go to my therapist about it. i don't like to scream because i was not raised in a safe situation, and raising my voice would have brought unsafe attention towards me. even when i am supposed to scream, it feels shameful, guilty. i was not treated kindly, so i lack a basic form of self-protection. this is not a natural response. it is not good that in a situation of high adrenaline - i shut up about it.

something very bad is happening, i think. in between all the beauty standards and the stuff i've already discussed - this one feels new and cruel in a way i can't quite express. yes, it's scary and silencing. but there's something about how direct it is - that so many men agree with the sentiment that women should never yell, even in an emergency - it feels different.

is the word shriek gendered automatically? how about shrill or screech? in self defense class, one of the first things they tell you is to yell, as loud and as shrilly as you can. they say it will feel rude. most women will not do this. you need to practice overcoming the social pressure and just scream.

most women do not cry out, even when it's bad. we do not report it. we walk faster. we do not make a scene. what would be the point of doing anything else? no matter what we do, we don't get taken seriously. it is a joke to them. an instagram caption punchline. we have to present ourselves as silent, beautiful, captivating - "valuable."

a woman is outside watching her kids when someone throws a firecracker at them. she screams and runs towards her children. in the comments, grown men flock together in the thousands: god. women are so annoying.

#warm up #writeblr #this one has bothered me for a bit #any time a woman does something even passingly annoying we treat it like a fucking crime #hey man. women are allowed to be annoying. everyone forever is allowed to be passingly annoying #as long as they aren't hurting anyone/thing #like u wanna know something? i find it super annoying that men don't wear seatbelts #why arent there thousands of comments on driving videos thats just like : men try not to die in a car crash challenge #''this briefly annoyed me''. okay??????? AND????????????????? go get ur self a cookie and calm down about it #ur not entitled to control other ppl's experiences and emotions just so u can maintain ur own peace #if being briefly annoyed ruins ur whole day! you! need! therapy!!!! #men try not to become immediately angry about nothing challenge: level impossible #ps author is nonbinary. we didn't even get into the gender presentation thing #the fact men think it's SEXY that my voice is on the lower end....

[dragonanon]

I am going to burn my pharmacy to the ground I stg.

I’ve been trying to get my Zoloft refilled for a month now, and I ran out of it almost a week ago so I’ve been an absolute disaster all week without it. I haven’t been able to get it refilled because my pharmacy insisted I didn’t have any refills left despite my doctor having placed at least 2 refills on it.

Well I finally had enough and called my pharmacy to ask them what the fuck they were doing, and that sparked me spending the rest of the morning having to talk to a different pharmacy AND my insurance.

Turns out, my stupid ass pharmacy managed to fuck up spectacularly and never dispensed my medication to me, yet they STILL filed a claim to my insurance saying they did, leaving me unable to get it filled anywhere else as my insurance had believed it had already been filled. I of course explained to my insurance that NO, I did NOT receive any medication from my pharmacy nor did they have any record of giving me that prescription since sometime last year.

And despite my insurance contacting the pharmacy and not only verifying this, but also telling them they needed to reverse the claim, my pharmacy STILL hasn’t reversed it despite them assuring my insurance that they would have it reversed in the next hour. I contacted a different pharmacy from the first pharmacy to have it filled there, and it STILL wouldn’t go through because my first pharmacy still hasn’t reversed their false claim almost 4 hours later.

Y’all I am seething, I’m having to pay for a medication that SHOULD’VE gone through insurance because I can’t wait any longer for my original pharmacy to fix their fuck up! As soon as I pick up this prescription, I’m calling my original pharmacy and tearing them a new one for committing insurance fraud whether it was intentional or not!

#i am beyond pissed right now #their fuckery has caused me to spiral into a completely preventable depressive episode with full on suicidal thoughts #and before anyone asks yes billing insurance for a service you didn’t actually provide IS indeed fraud #and you can get in HUGE trouble for it if you get caught #insurance companies do not take kindly to fraudulent claims #once i get back on this medication it’ll still probably be several days before I stabilize again #due to stopping so abruptly and then being off it for so long afterwards #this has been hell #i forgot how fucking miserable i am without my Zoloft #so i pray i never run out of it again because jfc