#become better

[fleurbabydoll]

We all know you come to tumblr for a hope core and yes that’s right this is the space .. I’m so proud of how you all want to be better at this point. I always wish you all well healthy and happiness and luck 🍀

#hope core #hopecore #hope #being better #self healing #healing journal #become better

[bevanne46]

#crafts #gifts #decor #quilting #sewing #bedding #briar rose quilts #room #become better

[lux-scriptum]

Theres so much i wish I could talk about Dragonmarked but I can’t cus spoilers but its really cool I prommy

#that thing when that one character has an arc? #and it coincides with another arc #being dragged in the direction of each other by force and faith #aaaaaaa #you do not gain redemption by death so fucking live and live with it #become better #dragonmarked

[heyitszachh]

And that’s on my existence.

#personal #quote #learn from my mistakes #keep moving forward #progress not perfection #mental health #best version of yourself #self care #growth #internal growth #do better #become better

[orlintommas]

How to Invest in Yourself Like a Weirdo

There is nothing more rewarding than the feeling of working hard to accomplish something. Giving your all in an endeavor because you believe that you will succeed. That is precisely how we should treat the task of investing in ourselves. There is no greater project in life than becoming the best version of yourself, becoming more weirder and sexier. I take full pride in investing in my weirdness and so should you, true greatness lies within the madness that we intensely try to suppress. Here’s how to invest in yourself like a weirdo and hopefully become the best version of yourself.

Learn how to learn

Learning is the key to discoveries. The door to opportunities and adventures beyond our wildest imaginations. But do you know what’s even better than learning: learning how to learn (that’s right, you can learn how to learn)? The road to greatness starts here. This is a step that one cannot skip. You have to spend a substantial amount of time figuring out how to learn properly and efficiently. Learn how to read and retain information. Learn where to find the information that you need and how to use it effectively. Learn how to read faster and focus better. Learn how to listen to others and how to learn from them as well.

“Every bit of learning is a little death. Every bit of new information challenges a previous conception, forcing it to dissolve into chaos before it can be reborn as something better. Sometimes such deaths virtually destroy us.”

― Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos

I cannot emphasize this idea enough: If you want to get weirder, you have to learn weirder (that sounds wrong but you get the point). Learning is the cornerstone of evolution. The better you are at it, the faster you evolve, and the more value you produce. Learning is a skill, and like all skills, it can be improved through knowledge and practice. One can master anything as long as they have weaponized learning.

Master the art of seduction

Life and death are in the power of the tongue. Every conversation, every dispute, and every negotiation hinges on your ability to persuade others. Closing sales, getting that big contract, obtaining that desired salary, and wooing your crush are all acts of persuasion. We practice the art of persuasion every day, every minute, every second. We even have to persuade ourselves constantly to get things done. But this extends beyond mere persuasion. It’s also about politeness, gentleness, and chivalry. Being able to say “hi”, “sorry”, and “thank you”. It is said that a sweet response is like a kiss on the lips and balm applied to a sore. I hope you can understand the profoundness of that adage.

“Life is negotiation. The majority of the interactions we have at work and at home are negotiations that boil down to the expression of a simple, animalistic urge: I want.”

— Christopher Voss and Tahl Raz

If ever the heavens could bestow upon me a superpower, I wish that it would be that of seduction. To be able to respond sweetly, coherently, and with much consideration to every word that I release. To be able to sell air for millions due to the craftiness of my tongue. Life becomes so much better when you have adequate control of your tongue. Master the art of seduction, and see how walls and barriers simply fade away.

Beautify thyself

No matter what you say or think, it is an undeniable fact that the perception of beauty has great privileges in the world we live in. As a result, millions of dollars are spent yearly on beauty products and plastic surgery. We all come from different walks of life with different scars and defaults but time and money offer a chance for improvement. You do not need exuberant amounts of money to beautify thyself. The cheapest and most potent tool is your smile (if it’s a bit unappealing, get it fixed). Wear a smile everywhere you go, it will cost you nothing but might give you everything).

“It is my firm belief that the best way to fix the world — a handyman’s dream, if ever there was one — is to fix yourself,”

― Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos

Go to the gym, take a walk, jog, exercise, stay in shape, broaden those shoulders, push that chest out and walk with your head held up. Take a shower and invest in a good bottle of body cream, deodorant, and hair trimmer. Men, be masculine and strong and dress sensibly. Women, be feminine and gentle and dress modestly. The better you look, the more confident you feel and behave. Beautifying yourself is life’s ultimate cheat code for getting people to like you.

How to invest in yourself like a weirdo is that simple. Learn, seduce and beatify (I hope this sounds as dope as it sounded in my head). Remember, you are the prize, you are the goal, and you are the dream. You must give yourself every chance to succeed in this world. Therefore, invest your time and effort in becoming the best version of yourself.

#invest in yourse #invest in you #best version of yourself #become better #how to become better #master the art of seduction #learn how to learn

[xxxcbecomebetterxxx]

DAY 1

I need to get my life back on track. What better way than to blog about it. Being accountable to myself.

I decided yesterday that the best day to start is today.

I got up at 4 and did the sport. Now I will study.

I should at least manage to do this 1 month and see what the results are.

Stay tuned :)

#become better

[bloodybellycomb]

One massive, legitimate way to improve as a writer or artist or in any creative endeavor really, is to become absolutely obsessed with something and to allow yourself to be weird about it. Genuinely mean this btw.

#dc comics #disco elysium #shakespeare #hamlet #scott pilgrim #<- all this things have made me a better #writer and artist for both fan creation #and for my own original work #literal life hack #allow yourself to become obsessive and cringe to a certain degree #birdy chirps

[bananonbinary]

also worth noting that "abusive" doesn't actually mean "irredeemable" either.

there's a lot of people that have done things in the past that were bad, because they weren't taught any better, or they were in an overall toxic situation where EVERYONE was shitty (like a cult), or they were just at an especially low point and hurt others for it.

you don't have to forgive them. you don't have to ever speak to them again. you can be angry with them until you die if you want.

but society cannot function if we don't allow them to move on. to change their behavior and fuck off somewhere else and build meaningful relationships without bothering you again. we need a path for people to change, or nothing ever will.

#like re: the last post #npd SHOULDNT mean 'youre an abusive person' #but also people who have abused people in the past can still become better people in the present #you know? #and as i metioned vaguely in that post. the way we currently treat people with NPD probably CAUSES THEM to lash out at and abuse others #if u abuse someone they lash back out at you and suddenly theres fun mutual abuse happening #so they need a way out of that cycle

[echo-s-land]

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#i love my friend sm i hope her boyfriend either realizes he need to be better or that she leaves his ass #itd hurt her tho. #so i hope he gets better #be better #become better

[gemstarb]

Watch "Fearless Motivation - Become Better - Song Mix (Epic Music)" on YouTube

#Fearless Motivation #Become Better #Youtube

[bigboobshaunt]

"The real point of Hbomberguy's video is being lost because people would rather clown on James specifically!" Nah man I think we're all just shocked by the depths of this particular example, I promise people are very much able to care about two things at once.

#hbomberguy #this is quickly becoming annoying to me as a takeaway #I haven't seen many comments that indicate they didn't get the point of the video about sourcing info and misinfo #so this feels like ppl wanting to act superior because They Understood It Better Than Others ngl

[bourneblack]

i’d rather have rainbow capitalism then living in constant fear of discovery. the woman in the pride flag disney t-shirt might be missing the nuance, but at least i know i can be myself. a street full of rainbow flags makes me more comfortable holding a mans hand. look. corporations aren’t your friend. they will sell to whoever will buy. but kids seeing gay everything every year is only ever a good thing, and a massive improvement in history

#unpopular opinion #lgbt #pride month #rainbow capitalism #queer things #bb unpopular opinion #notice how i never said i love capitalism #its the people who buy the flags that are the benefit #notice how i said it makes me more comfortable #and not everyone #because it's not true for everyone #but it's becoming more and more true over time #because despite the fearmongering #things are better than they were #if you can't recognize the fact that we are better off with corporate pride #than with being burned at the stake or being run behind trucks or getting mass fired and murdered and kicked out of home #then you don't need to be on this post #and don't talk to me about how corps and politicians are paying for those behaviors to continue #they've always done that #and now they are digging themselves into a hole #because we call them out and the public listens #the point #is to say there is value to having a seat at the capitialist table #having public opinoin on our side #it means we have more power to call out politicians and corporations for their hypocrisy #it means we have an audience who is listening #so shut the fuck up #trying to explain on this post what rainbow capitalism #the people on this post and I already know #and i'd rather use it

[rubysevens]

anyway in the past week the irish government has voted down two motions which would have condemned the genocide in gaza.

i need everyone to stop lionising ireland as if its not also a european government with strong ties to the us. american weapons pass through shannon airport and will continue to, because yesterday the motion to stop that was voted down 83 to 50.

other governments have done much more but somehow people still act as though ireland is the ultimate palestinian ally and exempt from criticism on its handling of palestine bc it was once colonised, even though that past experience clearly isnt being taken into account by the irish government when creating policy.

i live here i know there’s a lot of public support and sympathy for palestine, which is great, but that isnt reflected in government, and i think ireland should be treated like other countries whose governments have done nothing.

#i mean i think theres also a discrepancy btwn the govt and the people on palestine bc there hasnt been a general election since early 2020 #before the last few rounds of aggression by israel brought it back into mainstream western discussion #but also theres a degree of privilege in ppl not having felt the need to think abt it in 2020 yk. palestinians have been thinking abt this #since 1948 #there’s also the fact that ideological support of palestine absolutely doesn’t equate to better treatment of muslims #i can promise you this country is still very islamophobic and racist no matter where you go #and i feel like that gets glossed over when ireland is treated as the ultimate ally of palestine when. realistically. it isnt #be quiet b #sorry this is like paragraphs but im becoming frustrated 👍 #ive seen other posts abt this im not the first to say it they were just unrebloggable. understandably

[thecoolertails]

too many books written by people who don't read books and only read fanfic. to counteract this there should be more fanfic made by people who don't read fanfic and only read books

#my posts #edit: #if you reblog this arguing against shit i never said please know that i hate you #and if you read this post as 'books are better than fanfiction' you don't get it. #either read it again and figure it out or ask a question or move on and say nothing #bc every time someone starts jumping to conclusions and projecting shit i don't believe onto me i take one step closer to becoming the joker

[hypewinter]

The street kids of Gotham were acting off. Which wasn't saying much considering they were always acting suspicious but for the last few weeks the kids had been acting different somehow. They were a little too organized. Jason finally decided to look into it and found that the street kids really had organized under one leader. Which was concerning to say the least. Jason figured their leader was some asshole who was about to forfeit his rights to knee caps but instead he found it was some spooky teen from out of town. It was still suspicious but he figured as long as the kid wasn't causing any trouble he'd leave things be. For now.

#dp x dc #dc x dp #dpxdc #dcxdp #hyper prompts #danny becomes a mini red hood #and does arguably a better job at it #no jason is not jealous #shut up

[terezis]

belos is the most villain of all time. i’m obsessed. who is doing it like that guy. “upstanding christian man” who becomes so twisted by delusions of grandeur that he becomes the literal devil and he still thinks he’s the good guy. he possessed the corpse of a god. he is made of goo. he carved and scarified magical glyphs into his own body. he bit raine. when he was defeated he tried to lie his way out of the loss by pretending the power of friendship saved him and then proceeded to get curb-stomped to death by an amputee, a non-binary band geek, and a raccoon. what a fucking mad lad

#HE MURDERED THE PERSON IN THE WORLD HE LOVED MOST AND SPENT FOUR HUNDRED YEARS BUILDING A BETTER VERSION OUT OF THAT GUY'S BONES #like as if 'guy who hates [thing] becomes thing in his pursuit of the thing's destruction wasn't tasty ENOUGH #the owl house #watching and dreaming spoilers #watching and dreaming #toh spoilers #the owl house spoilers #1k #5k