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[bonny-kookoo]

Jungkook

X♡X♡ [SEVEN DAYS] Day 1

You're struggling a bit to comprehend the fact that you really did agree to this whole week-long thing with him. Luckily for you, Jungkook knows exactly how to ease you into things. But wait- why is he naked?!

Tags/Warnings: Porn with a lot of plot basically, inexperienced!reader, Dom!Jungkook, BDSM themes and elements, non-sexual nudity, safeword discussion, Corruption kink, some backstory on JK, Shibari, wax play, Dom/Sub dynamics (beginner/introductory), minor sub-drop, slight angst, dry humping, cumming inside underwear, massages, mentions of primal play, mentions of pet play, very light orgasm control, hinted praise kink, JK in nothing but dark grey Calvin's for like... 90% of this, hinted big dick!JK, they both in love it's kinda cute,

Shibari: a form of artistic bondage using rope to create visually appealing patterns on the skin.

Wax play: the use of body-safe candles to drop wax onto someone's skin.

Corruption kink: gaining pleasure from corrupting a seemingly innocent person.

Length: 6k words

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A/N: I'll include a short definition of the kinks in every chapter because I just know someone's gonna ask/complain that I don't explain things enough in my works haha. Also my smut writing is kinda rusty I've noticed, so I apologize for that as well...

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"So.." You say through your food, chopsticks seemingly aiming for any piece of meat that could be done next on the barbecue in front of you on the table. "..do we like, need some fifty-shades-of-grey-type contract?" You ask Jungkook, who rolls his eyes.

"Absolutely not." He shakes his head, drinking some water. "Don't tell me you saw that movie too." He asks, and you shrug.

"Saw it with Jimin and Yoongi back when it was in the theaters." You say. "Yoongi said there was a lady who literally masturbated in the front rows, but I don't believe that. Who would do that in public?" You cringe to yourself, and Jungkook watches you for a second.

He's gonna put a no on voyeurism for you then, judging from that reaction.

"I'm surprised Yoongi went." Jungkook chuckles.

"Me too. Wasn't really sure why he did." You tell Jungkook, snatching a piece of meat for yourself. "He just complained over it the entire time anyways."

"Yeah, well-" Jungkook says, reaching for the scissors to cut up some meat. "-he's in the same scene as I am, so I'm not surprised he thought the movie was dogshit too." He explains, and your eyes widen.

"Wait, Yoongi ties people up too?!" You hiss, and Jungkook can't help but shake his head, laughing to himself.

"That's the tamest thing he does." He laughs. "Yoongi actually.. showed me most of the things I know." Jungkook offers, putting the scissors back to the side to instead pick up his chopsticks again. You wonder what he means by that.

"Like.. what?" You ask him, unsure- but you can't deny the curiosity inside of you. You had a hunch about Yoongi for a while now- and in a way, you can see him being in the whole scene a lot more than Jungkook. Jungkook is your fluffy buff but cute best friend- Yoongi has this odd aura to him that feels almost like a warning that he's hiding more of himself than he shows.

"I'm a Dominant person, right?" He asks you, and you shrug. "I like to be in charge, command and take the lead during.. scenes."

"Yeah, that part-" You say, stuffing a steaming piece of meat into your mouth, almost burning your tongue, "-I know about that stuff. Like, dom and sub, top and bottom all that." You nod, and he acknowledges it too.

"Good. Then you probably also have read that the best Dom's have been sub's in the past." He simply tells you.

"… so Yoongi tied you up before?" You ask, and Jungkook lets his head fall for a second.

"You're so cute sometimes, you know that?" He shakes his head, before he continues. "No, he actually didn't. I learned that part all by myself." He explains gently. "But before I could take charge, I had to learn. Someone had to get me into this stuff somehow, right?" He shrugs.

"So you and Yoongi were a couple at some point?" You ask, but he shakes his head.

"Yoongi and I had something similar to.. us, one could say." He explains across from you. "Simple exploration, nothing more than that." He tells you, before his chopsticks reach out to steal a piece of food right from between yours- and when you look up, he's staring right at you. "So now that I think of it, Yoongi and I had nothing like we do." He says.

"H..how so?" You ask, slightly intimidated.

"Because I don't just want to explore and leave you be after this week." Jungkook says. "I hope you know that I'm aiming for something entirely different here."

"For what?" You wonder, and he leans back, crossing his arms, grill in between you both sizzling loudly.

"Your trust." He shrugs. "Your love." He offers.

"What if I can't love the same as you do?" You say, a little defeated. You know Jungkook likes you- it's no secret. And you know he knows that you like him too- because it's no secret either.

"Then we'll search until we find what works." He responds.

"But-" You start, but he reaches out instead, a warm hand over yours cutting you off in midst of your sentence as he speaks to you, voice just as warm as his skin.

"I won't give up without trying first." He tells you. "And neither should you."

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"Why here?" You ask, as he adjusts the couch into a makeshift bed for the time being. You'll be staying the entire week with him, and you'd agreed to that, because you've stayed over a lot of times before. Jungkook's apartment is nothing new- it's familiar, like a second home, warm and comforting.

"Because my bedroom is too intimidating-" He starts, tucking in a bedsheet in the corners of the couch. "-and I don't want to ruin your own with memories that might be unpleasant." Jungkook offers.

"Oh." you simply say, unsure. You've not yet thought about the possibility of him doing something you.. don't like. What happens then? Will you have to leave, or will the week end before it's even begun? Will it make things awkward, and weird?

"Hey." Jungkook calls out softly, holding out a hand. You look at him confused. "The blanket?" He asks, and you remember now that you're holding one for yourself to sleep under tonight, giving it to him. He puts it in a corner for now, same with the pillows, before he pats the couch for you to join him on. "Are you scared?" He asks, and you shake your head- albeit a little unsure.

"Just.. nervous." You say. "It'll be weird."

"Maybe." He admits. "A lot of things are weird first time. Nothing wrong about that." He shrugs.

You sit down on the makeshift bed next to him, when he chuckles, and brushes your hair over your shoulder. "I'll go shower real quick, alright? You just get yourself comfortable." He tells you, and you nod, watching him as he leaves to walk into the bathroom, closing the door behind him.

It's clear that he's taking his time in there, because even after an hour, he's not yet returned. Or maybe longer? You're not sure, because you know you've somewhat dozed off on the bed when you feel his hand on your shoulder, simple strap top giving him access to a lot of bare skin there. He smells nice, and when you reach out, his skin is warm.

Wait- skin?

The moment you open your eyes you're greeted with his bare legs- he's only really dressed in some… dark grey, very form-fitting Calvin Klein's that pretty much hide almost nothing, really. It makes you sit up suddenly, body having to take a moment for a second after the rather sudden movement, a chuckle heard from Jungkook who seems entirely unbothered by his almost-nudity. "Sorry I took a bit longer. I had to get some stuff." He explains, sitting up properly himself.

"Why- why are you naked?" You ask, unsure where to look. In his opinion, you're so.. adorably shy just from the mere sight of his bare skin that it makes his inner desire stir a little. The fact that he's gonna be the one to really help you discover some of your hidden fantasies gives him chills- the good kind, of course.

He can't wait for what you might be hiding.

"I'm technically not." He raises his brows playfully, before crossing his arms- noticing the way your eyes focus on them for a good moment. "And considering why you're here, you'll soon have to get undressed too." He shrugs.

"Oh.." You hum yet again today, looking down on your body. You didn't really think about that. Compared to his toned body, you're.. an embarrassment.

"A body is just a body." He tells you. "I know you don't like yours, but I promise you it doesn't look the same to me as it does to you." He reassures you.

"Do I have to.. like.." You mumble, and he understands.

"You don't have to do anything." He promises. "We can just forget about this whole thing-"

"No!" You deny, shaking your head immediately. You do want this. You do want him to.. love you the way he does love others. Or maybe you want to somehow make him love you in a more.. special way. You're not sure- you don't really know what exactly you want right now, but you do know that you trust him.

You trust him.

"I trust you." You say out loud, grabbing the hem of your shirt- when he reaches out.

"..can I?" He wonders, and you nod, raising your arms without thinking so he can easily pull the item of clothing over your head. It's cute, the way you already feed into his own interests and kinks, without even knowing- and is that a piercing decorating your belly button? "Good girl." He purrs, lifting your shirt over your head, before slip out of your leggings, sitting back down. His hands move around your back slowly, fingers easily finding the clasp of your bra to undo it, letting the piece of underwear fall down easily from your shoulders and into your lap. "Hey-" Jungkook says, and you look up at him. "-you're fine." He smiles, and you nod.

You're fine.

"You can keep on the rest." He says, referring to your panties. At least you chose some cute ones, you think to yourself a bit relieved, as you nod. "I know you said you can't imagine it-" He starts, grabbing some pale pink and rather… delicate looking rope from the side. "But I'd like to try it, still." He asks, and you nod. "I won't restrain you this time. I'll only show you what it feels like, so you can decide for yourself if you enjoy the sensation or not." He says, and again, you only quietly nod. "But before that.. we have to address this first." He chuckles, looking at you. "I need.. verbal responses from you. Not just somewhat of an answer."

"Like.. do I need to call you sir, or something?" You ask, and he smirks.

"If you want to, you can." He smiles. "But you don't have to. A simple yes or no works just fine for me. And-" He adds on, undoing the neatly folded nylon rope in his hands as he speaks. "-We need a safeword."

"A safeword?" You repeat, and he nods.

"Something other than stop or no that you say to end a scene and get you out of whatever position you might be in." He explains. "Preferably something odd, that you wouldn't normally say during sex, so it won't be used by accident."

"So like.. Tiger?" You ask, not really thinking about it, and he nods.

"Tiger it is." He agrees, tapping your folded knees. "Turn around for me, yeah?"

"Yes." You say, moving to sit in front of him, making him chuckle.

"Cute." He comments under his breath, before he positions the rope right under your chest. "Tell me.. what do you usually do?" He wonders, and you don't answer for a moment.

"Like.. when I do it myself?" You ask, and he hums an agreeing reply.

"Yes. I'd like to know." He tells you. "So I'll have somewhat of an.. idea what is safe and comfortable for you." He explains his reasons, while he moves and adjusts the pale pink rope around your torso. You've almost instinctively moves your hands to hold onto your neck so your arms are out of the way, and he can't help but grin about that.

So much to 'I can't see myself enjoying that'.

"Uhm.. I don't know-" You begin, unsure how to really talk about that. "I have like.. toys, n' stuff, and I usually do it in the bathroom cause I get the bed dirty otherwise.." You explain.

"Toys?" He asks, pulling the rope snug in some places- and while it's tight, it doesn't bother you at all, surprisingly. You understand when he said that some people feel some sense of security from it- it feels actually quite nice, even the knots you can feel dig a bit harsher into your skin.

"Yeah like.." You take a deep breath, somewhat to test if that's still a possibility- and you can, while his fingers seem to adjust some knots in the back. "..a normal… dildo." You cringe at saying it out loud, moving on quickly. "And a vibrating.. thing. I don't use anything else." You admit, and he chuckles, as he taps your butt.

"Sit up for a second." He commands, and you do so, letting him guide the two ends of the rope in between your legs before he helps you sit down again. "So other than that, I guess you just use your hand, am I right?" He assumes, and you nod.

"Yes." You add on quickly, squirming a bit at the sensation of the rope between your legs. You have to control yourself. It's clear that he said he doesn't want sex- yet.

"You're free to get.. turned on, by the way." He tells you, teasingly pulling on the ends that run through your legs as if to underline his statement. "After all, this is about you."

"But-" You complain weakly, trying not to move to much. "-What about you?" You ask, and he shrugs, something you cannot see.

"I'm getting my satisfaction, don't worry." He explains. You're not sure how that would work- but you don't question it either. Say.." He starts, tapping your elbows. "How do you feel, right now?"

"Good." You nod to yourself. "It's.. surprisingly comfortable. It feels nice." You say.

"It looks nice, too." he offers, hands moving over your skin, causing goosebumps to erupt on your skin. "Very pretty." He praises, and you decide you don't care if he's just speaking about his work- you take this praise for yourself, using it to fuel your own emotional state in this moment. He runs his hands over your arms that are now comfortably down, hands holding yours for a second. "Let yourself go." He chuckles. "You're still tense."

"I can't help it.." You complain weakly, unsure what to do. It does feel nice, you want to move- but in a way, it's not quite right yet.

"Then maybe I can help.." He offers, hands testing the waters it seems like as they run over your thighs, just touching, nothing else. "Would you want that?" He asks, and you nod, eyes closed. "Words, darling." He demands, face close to yours while his fingers suddenly dig into your skin, gentle punishment for not following what he'd told you to do at the beginning.

"Yes.!" You almost gasp out, when one of his hands moves to grab onto the back of the artistically tied harness, pulling you, arching your back for you as he forces you to rest your upper body against his arm. You can practically feel the way your underwear soaks up your arousal, rope suddenly moving a lot more easily with the help of it between your legs.

"Show me how your hips can move." He hums into your ear, and what should feel weird comes naturally. Like in a trance you follow his words, let yourself fall because he's basically seeing all of you right now anyways- and he's seen much more before, so how bad can it really be? You trust him.

You trust him.

You can hear his breathing right next to your ear, and your hand starts to wander- before it stops. "Can-" You begin, swallowing down before you can continue. "can I touch you?" You ask, unsure if the same rules that apply to you apply to him as well. It's only fair if they do, right? It's only fair to ask him for permission, right?

"Yes." He answers, and with that, your hand blindly searches- finds his knee, moves up his thigh, warm skin underneath your rather cold fingertips earning a change in the pace at which he's breathing in. You hold onto his leg for a moment, feel the muscles move underneath the skin for a good while, as you become more and more desperate for a release of any sorts. You want to touch him too, but you don't know how- so you just leave your hand where it is, not moving any further.

His head, meanwhile, leans down into the crook of your neck, placing soft kisses there, while the hand that's not holding onto your harness moves over your chest, grabs onto the soft flesh with almost rough motions. You can only imagine the sight of his inked hand holding strongly onto your skin, thumb running over your nipple as your breathing hitches, legs moving in any way you can imagine to adjust your position.

But it's not enough.

Only when his hand sneaks between your underwear, the rope and your skin do you finally make any progress, breathing heavier as his fingers seem to play around with you just the way you like it. And it doesn't take long for you to come undone, back arching more, eyes clenching shut as he helps you ride it out for as long as you can.

You notice after a moment or two how he has already begun to untie you- and in a way, you're confused.

"What're you doing?" You slur a bit exhausted, surprised yourself how much energy this seemed to have taken out of you.

"Untying you." He chuckles, continuing to undo all the knots while he holds you close to him.

"Yeah but.." You mumble, moving a bit so he can reach your back better. "What about you?" You ask, and he shakes his head.

"This isn't about me." He declines. "And I've had my fun, don't worry about me." He reassures, gently pulling out the rope from between your legs, making you cringe as you feel how wet you are down there. "There we go." He softly hums, running his palms over the red skin where the rope has left it's mark here and there. It doesn't hurt- though you do have to admit that your back and neck are kind of sore now. "How do you feel?" He asks, and you shrug- hissing when it stings.

"I think I pulled something, dunno.." You say, sitting up as he rolls up the rope again, setting it aside, before he helps you sit properly for a moment. "I'll go wash up.. sorry for the uhm.. sheets.." You mumble as you see the damp spot where you've sat on.

"No problem." He shakes his head, getting up as well to help you up. It's only when you enter the bathroom and Jungkook is still behind you that you suddenly question what's going to happen next. "What?" He chuckles, amused.

"Uh.. I need to.." You struggle, unsure how to tell him what you want to say. "I wanna shower?" You question almost, and he laughs.

"I know." He confirms. "And I wanna make sure you're fine." He tells you, and you look at him confused. "You might feel fine right now- but once that adrenaline goes down-" He tells you, a finger gently tapping your collarbone. "-you might not be."

But you cross your arms, stubborn as you are. "I'm fine." You tell him, and he smirks suspiciously, looking at you with his arms now crossed as well. "You said a no means no and I'm saying no right now." You huff, and he reacts at that-

though not in the way you thought he would.

Because he simply nods, uncrosses his arms, and sets some towels out for you to use. "Don't worry about running around naked, I'm not bothered." He simply snickers, before he leaves you alone, a moment of silence soon interrupted by him moving around in the living room, presumably changing the sheet over the couch. You slowly take off your pretty soiled panties, putting them in the hamper to wash before you get into the shower to clean up.

And much to your own dismay, Jungkook seems to be right, because suddenly, as the water runs over your skin and you're almost done cleaning up, you're not fine anymore.

Dark, rather upsetting thoughts suddenly grow inside your head, making you feel not shame- but something almost like regret. You should have insisted to do something for him, right? Maybe he wanted to shower with you because he felt like you were abandoning him.. just because he is a guy, doesn't mean that he's without any feelings. Did you upset him? He probably won't tell you even if he did.

A knock on the bathroom door is heard, and you're busy trying to pull yourself together, when Jungkook's still bare arm reaches out to turn off the shower, before he wraps a towel around you. Quietly he dries your hair with a towel before he leads you to your makeshift bed, now with new sheets, where you sit in silence until he returns with brush and hairdryer. Everything goes by in a blur, until you feel Jungkook's hands on your shoulders, his legs next to yours as he holds you close to himself.

You're waiting for the 'I told you so'.

But he doesn't say it.

Instead, he simply silently sleeps on the couch with you, letting you cling onto him throughout the small nap you take in the middle of the day as much as you want.

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A few hours later, when you wake up, things are.. weird. Just like you feared.

Jungkook is still sleeping heavily, right behind you with you laying on one of his outstretched arms, biceps serving as a surprisingly comfortable headrest. He smells nice, his body is warm, and he looks relaxed as he still slumbers away.

And yet, you feel odd.

He just quietly took care of you after.. what you did a few hours ago, but you don't understand why you actually felt that way. You know that it was irrational of you- nothing had happened, everything was fine, you made a decision that you felt most comfortable in. So why were you so distraught over it later?

Well, he told you that you might end up like that. You just didn't listen.

He slowly stirs behind you, waking up as he watches you already sitting on the couch, wide awake. He's careful but not overly cautious as he slowly gets up as well, simply observing for a minute or two before he decides to speak up.

"How are you feeling?" He asks, and you shrug. You're not sure. You don't know it yourself.

"I don't know." You answer because of that, because you can't give him anything than that.

"Hm, I can imagine." He hums simply, running a hand through his chaotic bedhair. "I knew you'd drop, but I also knew.. you had to experience it yourself." He shrugs, watching you with still sleepy eyes.

"Drop?" You wonder, and he nods leaning back on his hands.

"Think of it as.." he thinks for a good example, "when people go to concerts. And they end up crying afterwards. It's the same principle, at its core." He says, and only now, as you turn to face him, do you realize you're only wearing panties- just like he's only wearing his boxers, making you snatch up the blanket to cover yourself. You earn nothing but a chuckle from him. "What we did together gave you a rush. And without any aftercare, people crash down from it." He explains softly.

"So that's why.. you wanted to shower with me?" You ask. "Aftercare?" You wonder, and he nods.

"Its important. For everyone involved, not just the.. one receiving it." He offers.

"Were you.. upset?" You ask, and he shrugs his shoulders.

"A little." He honestly replies, and you're thankful for that. It only adds to your reasons to trust him.

"I'm sorry." You say, pulling the blanket a bit closer. "I didn't know."

"Now you do." He simply chuckles, a hand on your back as he gets up, and walks into the bathroom, getting some things you assume before he emerges again. He's still almost naked as he walks back to you, smiling in a friendly manner as he sets down a towel, and tells you to lay down on your stomach on it. You do as told- determined not to push him away this time.

He notices that change in your behavior almost immediately- and he can't help but feel excited about it.

You're swaying your legs a little as you watch him light a candle close by, setting it on a table for now before he leans back and watches you it seems like. You realize it's one of those he'd received in that package earlier today- and you're curious. "What're you doing with that?" You ask, chin on your arms.

"I'll.. let some of the wax drop onto your skin." He says, chuckles when you tense up. "Dont worry. They're body safe, very low melting point. I'm only using things I believe you can handle." He offers, when you feel something drop onto your back- right between your shoulder blades.

True. It's hot- but not unpleasantly so. Maybe like the warmth of a cup of tea maybe.

"After all…" he hums, one more drop under the last falling down. "…You're not only getting to know me.." he continues, voice almost.. sensual as he speaks, another two drops falling in quick sucession of one another onto your skin, straight on your spine. "…but I'm getting to know you, too." He tells you with amusement, free hand softly running over your back. "Your body is talking to me a lot more openly than you do, darling.." he purrs teasingly, and only now do you notice how dark it is in his apartment. How long did you two sleep? It must be almost nighttime by now- led lights and flame from the candle illuminating the room enough to see comfortably, while he runs his fingers over your skin, another set of drops falling down the length of your spine.

It's almost agonizing how slow this all is. Frustrating, even. But you try and stay composed, maybe that'll earn you praise?

It's only when he sets the candle aside, and starts to dig the heels of his palms into your muscles that you sigh out in pleasure, feeling how your sore neck and back relax. Of course he'd know everything about massages. Sometimes, you're convinced he knows everything.

It feels childish to think like that, but sometimes, you've caught yourself looking at Jungkook as if he's the answer to all your problems. As if he can just pick you up and whisk you off your feet, hold you close and fight all monsters like a knight in shining armor ripped straight out of cheesy romance novels. He makes you feel like that, at least. And maybe it's time to let him prove if he can be prince charming.

"There we go." He praises suddenly, hands still moving as he sits behind you, legs pulled over his thighs while he continues to push out the knots in your neck and shoulders. "Let yourself go." He mumbles to you, as if he's hypnotizing you. If he does, it's working, weirdly enough. "I'll take over from here, hm?" He asks, no, states, and you simply sigh, closing your eyes.

"Yes." Is your answer, and you can't see the way his lips twitch.

His arms push your legs closer to him, manhandles you gently to have your core right over what you assume must be his own length, barely contained in his underwear. You wonder what he looks like. You've been told you can't take much- how will he make it work? He feels strong, big- maybe too much to handle. But you want to learn, maybe there's a way. You want to take him, even if it hurts. You've never felt like that before- it had never been something.. attractive to you. But you want him to make you take it. You trust that he will, now that you think about it.

You don't even question if he will. You know he will- the anticipation lays in how.

Are you already realizing it? What you could have with him? Probably- maybe. Or maybe it's just the way his bulge feels pressed against your core that's making you dizzy in the head. Yeah. That could be it, too. The way it's hot and hard, giving you nothing but a teaser of what he's got hidden away from you. How cruel he is. You want to see him.

"So needy.." he hums, chuckles, as his hands move with the help of the oil from the candle, fingers sliding easily down your back, to find their way around your waist to hold you. "Poor thing.." he mumbles towards you, grabs a bit more harshly at your flesh as if to test, and you want to whine-

But you swallow it down, making Jungkook tilt his head a bit with a smirk.

Not quite there yet, he thinks to himself. But I've got six more days to go to make you mine.

"Tell me what you're thinking." He asks- demands, because there's no question about this sentence you notice. It makes your spine tingle, a sudden urge to please and voice out your thoughts boiling up in your throat, as you let out a breath first and foremost, and he can't help but be affected by it, length in his underwear twitching impatiently at the sight of you so lost in pleasure. Oh the things he'd love to do to you make him greedy almost, mind coming up with scenario after scenario he'd love to see you in.

How long could he edge you until you'd cry and beg for him to let you have your release? Or how often could he make you cum until your body would give up?

How far would you go to please him?

Would you let him hunt you down like nothing but prey, just to feast on you, sex all bite and scratch and nothing but primal urges needing to be satiated? Or maybe you'd rather play his pretty little pet, loyal at his feet, patiently awaiting his command?

There's so many ways he can think of to corrupt you.

And he wants to try them all.

"You-" you answer his earlier question, hiding your face in your arms as you move your hips, grinding over his crotch on the hunt for your release. He'll be easy on you today, won't tell you no, will let you have it if you so desire. "I'm.. thinking-" you stutter a bit muffled into your arms, "-of you..!" you press out, and he can't help his smile from forming as he leans back his body, pulls you a little more roughly over his groin, unable to hide his growl as you become more and more shameless, moving erratically to gain any form of friction from him.

"Good." he sighs out as an answer to you, hands grabbing at your bottom, the urge to hit the soft flesh at least once agonizing- but he controls himself, holds back, just as to not overwhelm you too much at once. Instead, he presses you down, helps the movements of your lower body, earns a whimper as payment for it, and he can't help but be affected by it as well. "The only thing you're allowed to think of is me, understood?" he tests out, and much to his delight, you nod.

"yes-!" it feels like you almost want to say something else- and he wonders what your choice would've been, but he doesn't pry. He's got enough time to find out about it soon, after all- and he can be surprisingly patient, especially when it comes to things he's passionate about.

And god, is he passionate about you.

Suddenly, he wants to know. Wants to test you, despite his earlier choice of wanting to take is soft and slow- as his hands reach out, arms hooking underneath your thighs, suddenly lifting you up, leaving you with nothing before he turns you around onto your back, hands on your hips pressing down, preventing any movement. "Please-!" you beg, and he watches in interest how you struggle against him.

"Please, what?" he asks, acting nonchalant. "What do you want?" he wonders as if he doesn't know, and you look at him like you're searching for something, or maybe you're just collecting courage. For what, he doesn't know- yet.

"Please- let me.. cum.." you try, but it's not quite right for him. You also don't seem uncomfortable with the situation- you seem more like you're holding back, like you're unsure, hesitant.

"Hm, that won't do."he shakes his head, leaning further away, though his hold on you still keeps you still. "Try again." he tells you, and you close your eyes, like you're bracing yourself.

"Please let me cum!" You repeat, though this time with a lot more confidence, and he grins at that, one of his hands taking the front of your panties into it, before he pulls it up, fabric slipping between your lower lips, already drenched in your arousal.

"Go ahead then." he tells you. "Give me a good show, yeah?" he almost sings, and you immediately move, frantically so, hips rolling in desperation as he watches, muscles in your thighs stuttering especially when he helps you assist, pushing you towards your orgasm a lot faster than you anticipated.

It leaves you gasping for air, hips stuttering as you try and catch your breath, core clenching around nothing for a good while. The moment you open your eyes you're greeted with the sight of someone more akin to a demon, a predator, Eden's sin recreated as a human person- the sweat on his skin making him look as if he's glowing, eyes sharp and pupils blown wide, one hand carefully running over your thigh while he other is on his-

oh.

Oh..

There's a clear and surprisingly big stain on his dark grey Calvin Klein's, and you turn red as you realize what that must be. It gives you an odd boost of confidence, knowing that the sigh of you had done that to him- had helped him get to this point, even if just a little. It still counts, you still take it- as he smiles, and leans down to gently kiss your cheek.

"Good girl." he praises quietly, and this time you don't mask your whimper of pleasure, this one of different nature as you bathe in the praise clearly directed at you, you, and only you.

You feel drunk.

But this time, you happily let him move you around, pick you up and carry you into the bathroom, where he helps you step out of your underwear, your state leaving no room to feel shy about your nudity in front of him it seems like. He's used to it- it's nothing new to witness, but considering it's you in this state, he's even more gentle than he would usually be in a situation like this. how can he be with anyone else after you?

He doesn't know. And for now, he won't think of that.

All he knows is that underneath the shower, and later on on the couch where you'll sleep for the entirety of the week, he's got you.

And he'll do his best to keep you at his side forever.

#bts imagine #bts fanfic #bts fic #jungkook imagine #bts smut #jeon jungkook x reader #bts jungkook imagine #bts jungkook x reader #jungkook smut #dom jungkook #dom!jungkook #bts jeon jungkook x reader #jeon jungkook imagine #bts jeon jungkook imagine #bts jungkook fanfic

[knotnea]

Basic Wrap & Cinch Tutorial

As requested here is a tutorial for our go-to tie. It can be used to tie two things together, like your arms and legs, in almost any combination, we will show a wrist tie. It is a great beginner tie because of how easy it is to slip out of when needed, and we would recommend it to any newcomer to Shibari.

Step 1 - Coil

The first step is to wrap (coil) a length of rope around your wrists. We are using a 10ft rope, but almost any length works. Start in the middle and wrap each tail around until even, leaving a comfortable amount of rope to work with. Do not over-tighten, especially with wrists you should be able to comfortably fit a few fingers between the rope and skin.

Step 2 - Cross

Take the tails cross the top and bottom rope over each other holding the coil in place and leading each over and to the other side.

Step 3 - Cross Again

On the other side cross each rope over each other then back the way they came to the front side. It should look like a chain link.

Step 4 - Cinch & Enjoy

On the front, tie any knot of your choice to cinch the ropes. We use a simple knot (one tail wrapped around the other once then pulled tight) that relies only on friction to make it easier to escape.

This is our first time doing a tutorial, let us know if there is anything we can improve on. 💋

#ropeart #shibari #black clothes #black rope #tutorial

[petrajuliet]

Haven't done shibari/bondage before but saw your post, how's the best way to learn?

ok under the cut bc i’m about to ramble

i’m still a novice myself but first i just wanna say if u can afford a subscription to shibari study its such an amazing resource they have SO many high quality tutorials/vids on safety and fundamentals as well as live classes and videos on stuff like incorporating d/s dynamics, tying sensually, self-tying, tips on rope bottoming, etc.

not sponsored i just fucking love shibari study LMAO

otherwise theres tons of vids on youtube and theduchy also has some written tutorials on his website as well as video tutorials on vimeo if you look (his beginner stuff is free but getting a membership for the more advanced stuff is also super worth it imo)

but yeah start w safety, don’t overlook ur fundamentals, practice drills of basic knots, research what type of ropes to use (don’t buy a spool of jute off of amazon i’ll beat your ass), and remember to enjoy yourself lol take your time and don’t get too frustrated when you’re just starting out, knots can get confusing haha <3 :,)

[crybaby-bkg]

Gojo shares his love for shibari pretty casually one night. There’s no big lead up, no anxiety about sharing, no hesitation. He just…kinda does, and lets you ask everything you’ve ever wondered about it. He’s smiling the whole time though, at your curiosity, and tips his head down to where you sit beside him so you can see his eyes.

“You know, being the one on the receiving end of things should clear your mind a little more.” He tells you, before sitting up and resuming his previous position of reading a book. Or, pretending to, at least. He hasn’t flipped a single page in the past fifteen minutes.

But his words shock you even more, and you find your eyebrows raising high on your forehead. Receiving end? As in—as in him? You feel your brain rewiring as you sit there, before your eyes glaze over in thought, picking at your bottom lip as you mumble aloud.

“I’d have to do some research into becoming a rigger, because of safety and all that. I wonder if I’d be any good—I hope I’ll be good, because I want you to feel comfortable. I wonder what rope I could get, unless you have your own? Maybe we can try tomorrow since I don’t have anything to do,” you’re rambling quietly to yourself.

Gojo just stares at you the entire time, doesn’t even try to fake like he’s reading anymore. He has this look on his face; his eyes soft and his smile gentle, his eyebrows screwing up in fondness. He never thought you’d handle it the way you did, thought you would’ve rejected him being the one to give up control. But as he watches you pick up your phone to start watching beginner shibari videos, he thinks about your love for him. And it warms him a little more than he expects it to.

#sorry this kinda ***** #I just went crazy over the thought of him being into this #and then saw someone on tt say he’d be a sub #and I went completely bonkers #I have like four other Drabble drafts and just can’t find it in myself to write them for some reason #I’m gonna go try tho 🏃🏽‍♂️ #—new treat in the streets! 🍫 #gojo treats! 🍬

[quinloki]

I love your events ❤️

Can I please have Jinbe after hours?

Thank you! ✨

Jinbei, First Son of the Sea

(my apologies for possibly being a little too crass XD)

After Hours Role: Bouncer / escort

After Hours Attire: I really can’t see Jinbei in anything but yukata, kimono, etc. I’m sure he could rock a tux or other more western style kind of clothing, but the eastern seas vibe just suits him so well. Business hours or After hours – he’s been comfortable that way for years, and you’re not changing his mind at this point.

After Hours Vibe: Jovial and almost grandpa like during the day, Jinbei is willing to remind everyone that he’s neither old, nor “soft” (two dicks). Mid-40s and 9’11” he’s one of the taller and older options available at the club, and while his primary role is bouncer, he sees plenty of traffic, especially from regulars. (two dicks) He’s got plenty of experience and even though he’s not listed on the “beginner” menu (two dicks), he is gentle and understanding enough to be a safe choice for new clientele.

Neither Jinbei, nor most people who pick him, are in much of a hurry (two dicks), and so evenings are often savored in the common area before things are moved to more private accommodations.

Tag Line: “I’ll steer you toward deep and satisfying pleasures, haha!”

Dom/Sub/Top/Bottom: Experienced as he is, he’s not overly flexible in terms of control. A steady dom and top, Jinbei’s skills are in turning the tides in his favor and steering any bottom/sub requests away gracefully.

Kink Preferences: Daddy Dom, Breeding, Soft Dom, Double Penetration (I mean. >.>), Shibari, Forced Orgasms

Host Club AU Head Canon Event

#quin muses #One Piece Host Club AU #x reader #reader insert #September head canon event #jinbei one piece #jinbei first son of the sea

[writtenbynath]

How dangerous is hypno kink really?

The problem with trying to classify how dangerous hypno play is that different types of hypno play have different risk profiles.

Hypnotising your partner casually for relaxation or party tricks is absolutely very low-risk. This is why I often advertise hypnokink as easy to learn and fun in the bedroom. Tricks like this are easily learned in one workshop and it just opens up so many kinky possibilities.

Intense hypnotic roleplay scenes and edgy sadomasochistic scenes are about as dangerous as shibari and impact play, as in the bottom will need aftercare because they may not be able to care for themselves for a while. The top might need aftercare too btw, I know I've certainly had my moments. Play like this might lead to trauma, despite everyone's best intentions. Now you all know I believe in RACK. I'm not going to say you shouldn't do it. I'm telling you that if you want to do this, you should figure out the risks and the precautions you could take to mitigate those risks. Inform yourself.

Now… Conditioning and brainwashing play, including but not limited to personality play, addiction play and/or online files, can be life-destabilisingly dangerous. Absolutely high risk! And unfortunately, this danger is freely available online with no one to provide a safety net or aftercare. It's hard to tell the "harmless" online files apart from the ones that could fuck you over, especially as a beginner. It's hard to tell the friendly online hypnotists apart from the culty abusive doms that could fuck you over. And it's hard to find help when you've become the victim of one.

If you didn't know, now you know.

#hypnokink #safety #RACK #risk management

[mommyownsmee]

Hi I was wondering if you could perhaps explain what bondage is because I've heard a lot of people say it I've just been to scared to ask and I don't want to search it up cus I don't want that to be on my search history because I lent my phone to my friends allot and I don't want them seeing that it's embarrassing 😞 it's ok if it's uncomfortable and you don't want to respond (sorry it's long 😭) also can I be 🍒

Don‘t worry, cherry. 𝒙𝒙

Please keep in mind that I‘m not a professional and Bondage is only a hobby for me.

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Bondage is the consensual act of restraining someone through use of rope or similar - such as cable ties, chains, cuffs, etc.

There are many different types of bondage. The most simple definition is that bondage restricts someone’s movement.

Being tied up allows some people to relax and enjoy sexual pleasure without worrying about giving pleasure back to their partner at the same time. Others prefer to play-struggle against their restraints and say it builds up an exciting adrenaline rush.

A kinkster who enjoys tying up their partner is called a ‚rope Top‘ or ‚Rigger‘. The person being tied is called a ‚rope Bottom‘ or ‚rope Bunny’.

Bondage can be done in various ways ranging from practical or decorative to restrictive or predicament.

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Is there only one type of Bondage?

No. There are various types of Bondage, for excample

Decorative bondage: In this form of bondage, the restrained partner is bound for a decorative purpose.

Self-bondage: It refers to the use of restraints on oneself for erotic pleasure.

Suspension bondage: Where a bound person is hung from one or more overhead suspension points.

Japanese bandage/Shibari/Kinbaku: Is a form of Japanese rope bondage. It focuses on friction and wraps instead of knots and uses the rope doubled over at the middle and it has a deep focus on the aesthetic of the ties.

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What types of ropes are used for Bondage?

There are a variety of rope materials to choose from. Much like everything else in kink and BDSM, the answer depends on a number of variables.

Whilst natural fibre bondage ropes (such as hemp, linen, coconut, sisal, and jute) provide a great grip and easier handling than their synthetic counterparts, these ropes are not very durable and can be difficult to clean.

Synthetic bondage ropes (such as nylon, MFP, polypropylene and polyester) are more durable and easier to keep clean, but they can be slippery or stiff and don't provide as much natural friction.

Japanese bondage is best done with jute or hemp.

Western bondage is best done with hemp or nylon.

Decorative bondage is best done with MFP or nylon.

Don‘t use cotton ropes in bondage, because the knots can become too tight and difficult to loosen. Keep in mind to always have a pair of safety scissors near you for emergencies.

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Important:

In any sort of bondage, there is risk. The rope Top/Rigger has to take care that no blood vessels or nerves are compressed or it can cause permanent damage. The rope Top/Rigger has to know how to tie without putting pressure on nerves or blood vessels and still keep checking in for tingling, pins and needles or numbness.

It has to be tied in such a way the rope can't tighten beyond where it got tied.

If sex is performed with someone who is tied up, chances are high that they are pulling against the rope - and the rope Top/Rigger should always be checking in on the knots.

For many people, rope does things to their mind. Many get claustrophobic and panicked and that’s not good for sex. Many people get spacy and floaty, which can reduce their ability to withdraw consent.

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Websites for more info for beginners:

https://www.theduchy.com/

https://rope365.com/

#ropebondage #bd/sm rope #rope suspension #rope bottom #ropeart #rigger #rope top #bd/sm mommy #mommy #domme mommy #mommy k!nk #bd/sm blog #bd/sm community #lesbian nsft #bd/sm relationship #sapphic nsft #lesbian #lesbian smut #anon #sapphic smut #sapphic #queer #queer ns/fw #queer relationships #queer community #queer nsft #wlw ns/fw #ns/fw community #nsft ask #ns/fw blog

[dominantmasculine]

My Identity as a Rigger / Rope Top

Most of my friends (including many on here) who know me well know that I am passionate about a few hobbies, and one of them is my love for rope bondage. 

My journey in rope bondage began a little over 5 years ago. To be honest, at that point in time I did not have much interest in rope. I saw it as a long drawn, uninteresting activity. But, I’ll be honest, a lot of my friends circle was curious about learning and doing it, and so I thought it does not hurt to learn at least how to tie someone quickly and safely so that the “fun times” can begin. 

I started learning Japanese shibari / kinbaku first from websites and YouTube (very bad idea, do NOT recommend), and then from books (better idea) and teachers (best idea, though not always practical depending on where you live and how much you can afford). 

In Japanese shibari there are several schools of thought, and I started learning the one that is most commonly taught at a beginner level: the Denki / Kanna style of bondage. In the beginning, what captured my interest in rope was more the geometry and engineering. The Denki style is strongly structural, and it intrigued me about how to build strong, stable structures that withstood tension and pressure and could be used very safely. The shapes that emerged from it were to my liking in a mathematical / geometric way. Interestingly along the way, I had to use quite a bit of physics, and learned quite a bit of human body anatomy - layout of nerves, blood flow, muscles, tendons, pressure points, flexibility and tolerance. It was fascinating, in a scientific way. 

So, I kept learning, contrary to my initial premise of “just a bit and no more”. 

3 years in, I had attended close to a dozen workshops and lessons, and was increasingly fluent in foundational structures, tiny details, and the push towards perfection in execution of ties. But, something felt missing. I would tell my friends, I know a lot more about rope now, but I feel like I dont have my own flavour, style, love of what I want to do through rope. 

And at that point, something changed, a lot. I got introduced to the second major style [there are more] of kinbaku, a more esoteric and less commonly taught one - the style of Nureki / Naka. 

Naka’s style of tying initially looks puzzling. It is far less structured, it has weaknesses that need to be carefully adjusted or patched. But, it has something that at least I had failed to feel in the Kanna style - and that was emotion. Naka’s style of bondage - classically centred around the concept of semenawa (suffering and endurance in rope) is not about structure and shapes and patterns. It is a way of expression, a language of communication of how you convey your feelings to your partner / lover / bottom / submissive in rope [note: not all rope bottoms are submissive, although I would argue that you need to be fairly masochistic to be into semenawa]. 

What Naka style of bondage enabled me to do was something that I struggled with - to express emotions. As a person I am fairly good at identifying and knowing what I feel and when and why. But, I am not good at talking about it. Words get stuck in my mouth and my mind - perhaps influenced by social and cultural pressures of being vulnerable as a man. So, I instead turned to rope as a medium to express - express my pain, my sadness, my aggression, my anger, my passion, my love, my loyalty, my deep care and affection - and share it with the person I am tying with. It is not uncommon for us to be able to convey, shuttle back and forth, and sense and cry together on those shared emotions without any, any words being spoken. And that has something very beautiful in it. 

I have been tying mostly in Naka style now for more than 2 years, and have attended multiple trainings and workshops. It has opened up a new world for me in bondage and self expression. My friends tell me that my personality switches when I start tying. I am generally a very laid back, soft spoken, gentle and approachable person. But, when I and my rope bottom kneel down side by side and I put her in place and reach for the first line of jute, the mood shifts. The tension is thick and quiet, in search of wordlessly sharing and listening to the emotions of the day. I extract every bit of submission and surrender out of her [note: I have sometimes tied men too], and she knows that me making her endure and suffer is, in a twisted way, a proof of how much I value her, how much I this depth only with her, how much it touches me to see how far she is willing to give to my (often) silent unleashing.

I am far from a master, it will probably take me years more to really find my own way of expression. But I am happy with what shibari has given me, and how it has helped me grow as a person - in patience, in expression, in connection. This year I hope to actively start teaching [I have taught in bits and pieces before and have been kindly encouraged], but the logistics of it are yet to be worked out. Perhaps this is also why I am critical and selective about the rope work I often see on social media (especially here on Tumblr) because I can very easily see mistakes where many just see a pretty picture, and I feel responsible to share the real essence of shibari. 

Until then, perhaps you shall see me tying somewhere someday, and feel free to come say hello, and tell me what touches you the most about bondage. 

[serotoninswitch]

How/where could you learn shibari/rope play? Asking for a bottom

If you get into your local BDSM community or the community of the nearest major city they should have skill shares or classes on rope play. If not you might be able to find some online classes through Fetlife.

Edit: If neither of those options are available you can probably pick up a book for the beginner part of rope play

But yeah good question, rope is definitely not something you want to do without proper instruction, that way lies potential nerve damage.

[bdatlc]

Kink alignment chart for plants

Nepenthes The vore enthusiasts of the group. They will gladly eat everything from insects to small animals and have evolved to grow different kinds of pitchers--often in the same plant--depending on what prey they are targeting. Some of them will even feed on mouse droppings. ykinmkbykiok. Philodendron Any self-respecting plant person has one in their collection, and they are both a fashion statement and a beacon of prestige. Their unique, colorful, and patterned foliage is highly sought after. Some philodendrons can go for thousands of dollars. Fin doms.

Cacti They're the leather daddies of the plant kingdom. They've lost leaves and developed spines and needles to protect them from harsh conditions; they totally give off that don't fuck with me vibe, but when you get close, they provide everything from dyes to furniture, medicine, and even shade. Total service tops.  Ferns The fern family contains a wide variety of growth habits that all share one trait in common: they don't grow flowers. Ferns produce can reproduce both sexually or asexually, depending on the type. No matter the species, they command the attention of the room. Mounted staghorns especially have a very stately and unique growth habit. Snake Plants A somewhat understated succulent plant that grows as a weed in Australia of all places. Incredibly easy to care for and thrives on neglect. Will text you back "thanks" to a super heartfelt message. Sub tops. Monstera These can be found everywhere nowadays. Their fenestrations (holes) are what draws everyone into buying them. Although they are relatively easy to grow, demand for this plant has driven up prices exponentially. Sugar babies. Orchids There are so many different kinds of orchids with so many different kinds of adaptations and the wildest, most universally praised flowers that it's hard to tell what this plant wants to be. But god help you if you don't research what exact conditions your specific plant needs because it will very much hate you if the humidity is off or the water isn't pure. Dom vers.

Spider Plants Easy to grow plant that puts out thick fleshy roots to hold water and is constantly throwing copies of itself everywhere. A solo star that doesn't need your constant attention, but will thank you for giving it a place to stay. Dom vers. Bromeliads An extraordinarily adaptable family of plants whose traits and characteristics run the gamut of leaf shapes and colors. You need them to grow in deserts, jungles, cloud forests, or even telephone wires? They got you. Typically, they hold water in a central tank that they drink from and gladly share with animals and insects that live with them. The most vers of verses. Bird of Paradise A funky little flowering plant with a foot fetish. It is pollinated when birds perch on the flower, which deposits pollen on their feet. Their leaves have evolved the ability to split in high winds, which allows them to withstand the weather without hurting the plant. Masochists. Dracaena Dracaena are the beginner's houseplant. They have an understated elegance in their foliage and will survive lower light and inconsistent watering conditions. There's really nothing that special to say about these. They are the most vanilla, neutral plant. Banana Plant These thirsty motherfuckers require a lot of water and a lot of sun to grow properly and aren't shy about letting you know if you're not doing enough for them. Bossy bottoms. Marantacae Known as total brats and drama queens in the houseplant community, these plants are prized for their foliage and rarely put out flowers in cultivation. They require a very specific amount of water, light, and humidity to grow happily, but can also be pretty resilient when given a chance. Dom bottoms. ZZ Plant A statement plant with leaves arranged unlike any other. They have thick and juicy rhizomatic roots and foliage ranging from pale green to gothic dark. Can be found posting ass pics on instagram and asking you to sign up for their Only Fans. Spathiphyllum An elegant plant with dark, beautiful foliage and long lasting, distinguished blooms. They can grow impressively large if well cared for, and have a quiet, yet striking beauty. Would totally be into shibari. Ficus Elastica An ornamental plant who is mainly used as decoration. The latex from its sap was once used to make rubber but not anymore; Now, all it does is grow and put out flowers exclusively for its dom, wasps. Umbrella Tree Grown as housplants due to their accomodating nature. Not enough light? Whatever, still grows. Not enough water? It's fine. They'll take what you throw at them and they'll do just fine. Service bottoms. Ficus Lyrata A beauty queen who recently had quite a resurgence in the interior design world and has long been prized as a sign of high class and good taste. Her tree like form has been sought after over all others, but some find her difficult to care for. Moody and despondent. Twink.

[deeperforme]

Me and Hypnosis and Competency Threat

I'm not a very good hypnotist. That's just true. My wife is getting ready to argue with me on this. And even a couple of other people too. But they are wrong.

How do I know they're wrong? Because I'm not working to get good.

We've been hanging out with some lovely shibari people recently, people on a very high level, and it always hits home the level of commitment that goes into a rope practice. Especially the most spectacular manifestations, like suspensions. I don't know the number of professional rope teachers and dojos around the world, but I bet it's staggering. People move to Japan for months just to learn.

The other night, I and another hypno top made ourselves quite grumpy while getting taught an intermediate single column tie. We realized it had been a long time since we were really bad at something. Since we had to work. I found myself pulling back, talking myself out of wanting to learn at all. Our little focus group has a mission of exploring hypnosis and rope bondage, but it's in danger of going away if I don't commit to being more than a beginner at rope.

And I thought why should I? In the last week I got to show off hypnosis in front of a couple of groups of people, and it was easy and I got praise. I got to feel like a badass.

But really, people love the feeling of hypnosis, and my partners and their powerful imaginations (and fetishes!) are making the magic happen. If everyone knew how easy it was, if hypnosis was even a fraction of how popular rope is - let alone something like classical music or Super Mario speed runs! - my skills would be seen as mediocre at best. The fact that it feels easy is not really a good sign.

There's a few things I think I'm right on track with: Working with first timers. Consent conscious negotiation. Some twisty evil scene ideas. Intimate, unhurried scenes with highly motivated and imaginative people. Engineering positive environments for other people to get their hypnoplay on.

But I can feel myself getting cautious with my abilities, as though they are flimsy and wouldn't stand up to bending or stretching. I'm not watching instructional videos, even ones recommended to me by friends. I'm not reading a book at the moment, and I'm not going hunting for new sources of ideas in various corners of the internet (e.g. reddit, discord). I'm writing less - certainly not keeping up the detailed logs I did at the beginning. Although I hypnotize people several days a week (usually khatsha!) I don't do hours of hypnosis a week. I'm not following around hypnotists I admire and studying what they do - in fact I'm a bit avoidant and intimidated.

And in particular I'm not doing deliberate practice on specific skills, the kind of practice everyone agrees is necessary for real mastery, like Malcolm Gladwell's 10,000 hours. There are plenty of skills I could use work on. I don't have a decent hypnotic handshake - I'm often out of my body and not good at using it in general. I'm lacking in almost all the skills that stage hypnotists and street hypnotists have, such as speed, showmanship, and quickly getting attention and rapport. I'm not very fluent - I pause a lot, and have a rough time with intricate wordplay and random confusing nonsense. My voice could be improved a ton. I'm not great at asking people to play. I'm still often so freaked out just to be doing hypnosis with someone that I think I don't truly connect with them and stay in the moment, give them my authentic self.

I've hit a wall that's all too familiar, when I start to get kinda good at something, enough that my ego gets tied up with my competence. The fear arrives: what if you're not that good?? What if you'll never be good? You've put so much of yourself into this - wouldn't it be better just to not to find out? To just keep having "potential"?

On another, more legitimate note, do I really want to make hypnosis about achievement and skill building? This is my sex life. And this is my play: this is about spontaneity and joy and silliness and ridiculous science fictional scenarios. This is my submissive hypnotized to blow me at a single command. This is living the dream. Why should this be work?

Here's why. I think there's something there, over that hill: a chance to be part of building something that has never actually existed before, in the form of large-scale hypno community and high level hypnosis skills. A chance to be one of the best in the world at something, however tiny the pond. Who gets that kind of chance? Besides which, spontaneity, play and creativity are not the opposite of practice and learning - take the examples of fiction writing, or improv comedy. In those you practice and you learn to be able to play better, have a higher hit ratio, go farther into it and sustain it. While still striking out a lot of the time!

The only obstacle is this competency threat, this hangup that is such typical baggage of being raised male. Especially the stirrings of competitiveness, which is so useless: what this is really about is getting to the point where I can jam with the greats, tops and bottoms and switches, have so much fun, be wide open to learning, make so many memories and invent new things together, expand the playground together and fill it with toys.

So that's why it feels great to say: I'm not very good at hypnosis! I kind of suck! (And I really suck at rope!) But who cares?

There's specific things I want to do differently, now that I've gotten here, but basically I'm going to be a doofus and work and put the time in, just for its own sake. Just for the pleasure of seeing myself growing, for the new territories that open up, and to get to watch other people growing too. This erotic hypnosis thing is going to be big, people. This is going to be bananas. I'm going to be there.

#original content #hypnocommunity

[foxtailapp]

The Finest Rope Bondage Sex Thrill For People Who Like BDSM

This post is originally from Pleasure Uncensored by Foxtail. It can be found here.

  While there are many different forms of bondage, Rope Bondage or more commonly known as Rope Play is an act that involves rope as a means of connection, intimacy, and pleasure. One person, the top, binds another, the bottom, with a cord. The rope is a valuable tool that encourages people to engage in play, exploration, and incorporating new, emotionally and physically stimulating experiences into their sex lives or relationships.

  Rope Play Is on The Middle Ground Of Commonality

    BDSM is an effective umbrella term that encompasses the various concepts of bondage, discipline, domination, and submission, as well as sadism and masochism. Also known as kink, this wide-ranging group of sexual activities includes some tried-and-true favorites like spanking and a unique group like fire or knife play. Rope Bondage is somewhere in-between all of these modalities. Makes you wonder should you try it, right?

  Why People use Rope Play?

  To use rope during sex is to exhibit power and control. A person in charge of a relationship will immensely enjoy physically restraining their partner and doing as they please. Rope Bondage gives you the feeling of restraint, and loss of control will elevate your pleasure if you happen to be on the other side of the spectrum. The contemporary BDSM community is familiar with the origin of the Japanese shibari bondage art form. Western approaches more with controlling, whereas the Japanese style is all about bringing out the artistic aspects.

  Things You Should Know Before Getting Started With Rope Bondage:

  The price. We can’t deny that this was the topic on everyone’s mind. Is it a lot of money? The answer is it is, and it isn’t. If you purchase your sex toy from a reputable sex shop, you may wind up spending more than you should. Most good hardware stores usually have all the items required for a beginning kit.

The rope’s diameter is critical. To avoid the risk of a minor injury such as skin burns, circulation problems, bruises, or scars while in Rope Play, you should only use ropes that have a diameter of no less than a quarter inch. For this post, we’ll define a small diameter as anything less than 5mm.

Braids can affect the looseness or tightness of your knots and make it difficult to get them undone. Since you always have the option of cutting the rope, there is no urgent need to keep it. However, this may lead to additional expenses if the string ends up being insufficient for further use.

The tooth (i.e., the teeth of a rope) refers to the friction that results from your knots; this means that your knots will be better if your string has a smooth tooth. If you’re afraid to cut your rope into smaller pieces, you may not be missing the string. With long strands of yarn, you will need to cut them up to meet your needs.

Maintenance is a requirement for every tool, as ropes are too. To keep it in good condition, wash it whenever you can and store it in a bag or case. If the cord gets too stiff, give it a trim and break it down in the water before using it.

Tying up loose ends. look for and use up all the rope, even if you cannot. It will keep loose ends from forming and help make it more visually appealing.

Relax. If you do BDSM, relax because there is no right or wrong decisions to be made. If you’re scared of experimentation, don’t be but look out for any possible hazards before trying it.

  Types of Bondage Rope

  There are many types of bondage ropes, but mostly they are separated into two categories – Natural and Synthetic. Both sorts have their advantages and drawbacks and it all comes down to your personal preference.

  If you want to give yourself “Fifty Shades” adventure and thrill, go for the “Fifty Shades of Grey Ropes” that excites the finest feelings in every inch of you. 

  Want more than this? You can use a rope with a magic wand vibrator and have lots of fun! Tie a knot around yourself in the form of a harness and slip this bad boy in for a mind-blowing sexual experience. Using a rope, you can have an enjoyable time with the Magic Wand Vibrator. Use a harness to make a rope to wrap around yourself to create an intense and pleasurable sexual experience. Rope Bondage is fun, experiment and try it.

  You can get it on Lovehoney.com

  Beginners Guide to Bondage knots

    There is not much I can write that will make you understand the intricacies involved in BDSM bondage without getting complicated. Luckily, you can find many videos with tutorials for beginners and advanced users on the Internet.

  Extra Ideas to Make Your Rope Play More Intense

    This is a must-read, the above is all about techniques, and this part is just about fun.

  Restraint to items (chair, bed etc)

  Try to mix things up in Rope Play by restraining your partner to a chair, bed, a sturdy pole, or anything that catches your attention and has the ability to hold a rope. But keep in mind that safety is first.

  The suspension

  For this, you will need some extra equipment (hooks, or poles with rings hanging from the ceiling) but it can be a lot of fun when done properly. Not everything has to be played out in bed.

  Erotic Effects of Rope Bondage

  These ropes help to caress or tickle while you tie or untie them, especially the more sensitive body areas. From ecstasy to pain, it can cover the whole spectrum. It is possible to scratch and tickle someone with frayed rope ends. Rope can serve as an excellent makeshift whip because of its numerous strands. Also known as nipple and genital bondage, this results in increased sensitivity to pleasure and pain because the skin is pulled. In addition, it typically positions your target in a prominent and convenient location.

  Vibration on The Rope Can Cause Stimulation

  With Rope Bondage it’s possible to have direct clitoral, perineal, and anal stimulation if the knots are properly tied near those areas. Either simple pressure or movement is required to make this happen. You can add your input by gently twisting, pulling, or tapping on the ropes. It is possible to enhance the feeling using a vibrator on ropes or knots. The surprise is that using a vibrator in seemingly innocuous places can dramatically affect the string’s effectiveness in transmitting vibration.

  The Practice of Meditation and Relaxation

  Meditation-like is an excellent way to describe the experience. To expand on this, perhaps the dom and sub can sit in silence, embrace, relax, and coordinate their breathing to get to know each other better. Using meditative techniques is acceptable. One good scene will develop a connection between dominant and submissive characters.

  Many of us have an unusual experience when we are unable to move. It is a unique feeling. There are instances when a submissive might appear euphoric or unusually relaxed after a session. This is known as a “rope stoned” or “sub-spaced” feeling. Bondage often helps to de-stress and relax. So, to summarize, you can acquire many benefits from bondage. You won’t necessarily like everything it offers, but hopefully, you will see that it can change the sexual and psychological dynamics with your partner.

  If you like rope bondage and want to read out more visit our website. To explore in-depth pleasures hidden in different articles or you may look around on Esinem’s website for information about rope bondage tutorials and guides.

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Kinks and their explanations.

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24/7 – A power exchange relationship (whether aspects big or small) that exists all day, every day.

Aftercare – a period of time after play during which players check in and re-establish connections with each other. Often involves cuddling, sex, eating or drinking to replace electrolytes, discussing the scene and/or checking in. Aftercare is different for everyone, and can also involve alone time, or any number of personal preferences. Aftercare is widely considered to be an essential part of kinky play.

BDSM – A modern acronym used to refer to the kink and fetish communities and activities. Letters stand for many different things, including “Bondage and Disciplin,” “Dominance and Submission,” “Sadomasochim,” “Sadism and Masochism,” and “Slave/Master.”

Bondage – Restraint or restriction of a subject, often used to refer to a preference (ie, “I like bondage”). Can include rope bondage, suspension bondage, leather bondage, furniture and device bondage, predicament bondage. Can be employed for dominance, sex, art, or anything you like. Check out our REKINK 12 piece starter set or the REKINK beginner bondage rope set. See also: Shibari.

Bottom – A role referring to the person receiving sensation.  One who receives sensation of action. See also: top.

Breathplay – The act of choking and/or restricting breath. Breathplay is a topic of debate in many kink circles because of the difficulty of the risks involved; it is considered very dangerous, and falls into the category of edgepay.

Cane/Caning – A common BDSM toy and acivity. Canes can be made from many different materials, including different woods, plastics, or any semi-flexible material. The act of caning involves striking someone with a cane, usually across broad, fleshy areas of the body (the butt, the backs of the thighs, etc). Caning is also popular across the bottoms of the feet.

Collar/Collaring – Usually represents someone’s identity as a submissive and/or owned person, a collar can be imbued with whatever meaning by the wearer, or none at all, although it often carries some symbolic weight. Collaring ceremonies are common in BDSM, and can range anywhere from a simple commitment or preference for wearing a collar, to a level of seriousness on-par with an engagement or marriage. Check out our REKINK Brand leather collar.

Consent – Saying yes! Saying yes please Sir or Madam! Consent is un-coerced, non-pressured, freely given permission. This is at the heart of all things kinky; consent is very, very important. See also: safewords

Corsetry/Tight-lacing – A fetish that explores power exchange and/or fetish through shape changing, sometimes breath-limiting corsetry.

Dom(me) – A role identifying a person as dominant; to be on the controlling and decision-making side of power exchange (male: Dom, female: Domme) One who has, takes, or receives power. See also: submissive. Our Guide to Dominance 101.

Dungeon – A word referring to large group play spaces or places where play parties are held. Rarely are these actual dungeons. Often, they’re converted conference rooms, ballrooms, or even individual homes or rooms in homes. Sometimes, they’re committed spaces that stay dungeons all the time. A dungeon often includes kink furniture (spanking benches, st. andrews crosses, suspension points (or “hard points”), stocks, cages), a common area to socialize and/or have snacks and drinks, and quieter places for aftercare and cuddling. Dungeons (and play parties) also have their own unique sets of rules and ettiquettes.

Dungeon Master – A person responsible for safety in the Dungeon, usually an experienced member of the community, sometimes the host. They walk around, check in on different scenes, are responsible for ousting unsafe of inappropriate players etc.

D/s – Shorthand for Dominance and submission.

Edgeplay – A term for BDSM practices that are considered at the edge, inherently more risky, or debated within the community. Included are: breathplay, choking, knifeplay, play peircing, bloodplay, fireplay, gun play, consensual nonconsent

Floggers/Flogging – A common BDSM toy and practice, a flogger is a multi-tailed whip. The tails can be made from various materials, such as leather, suede, or hair, often with wood or synthetic handles wrapped in the material of choice. Flogging can produce a sensation that’s anywhere from sharp sting to heavy thud, or any combination of the two. Hits from a flogger are best across a part of the body that’s large and meaty, such as the upper thighs, butt, or upper back (but not) the lower back. Floggers come in many sizes, with any number of tails (and often specific names based on those numbers, such as a cat-o-nine-tails).

Hard Limit – A specific element or action that a person isn’t comfortable with, and cannot see themselves becoming comfortable with (example: “Golden showers are a hard limit for me”). See also: soft limit, limits

Knife Play – Play involving the use, threat, or sensation of knives. Considered edgeplay.

Masochism/Masochist – Someone who enjoys pain/the act of enjoying pain. Can sometimes indicate the feeling of pain as pleasure, or the simple enjoyment of pain as pain.

Master/Slave – A relationship term indicating intense power exchange, service, and sometimes a 24/7 dynamic. A more specific and different kind of Dominant/submissive relationship, Master/slave is sometimes thought of as more extreme and/or more 24/7 oriented than D/s

Rough Sex – sex involving anything rough: biting, scratching, power play, you name it, if it’s rough, go for it.

Sadism/Sadist – Someone who finds in the enjoyment in giving pain to another/the act of enjoying giving pain to another. Sadists like pain for many different reasons; some are sexual, some aren’t (but either way, you’re gonna have fun…)

Safeword – a pre-negotiated word that either party (although most commonly the bottom) can use to pause, check-in, or end the scene or play. Safewords function in the same “no” or “stop” might otherwise (and part of their function is allowing the bottom to scream “no” or “stop” as much as they like). Some common safewords are “safeword,” and the color system: “red” = stop, “yellow” = check in (some people also use various different colors to mean different things, for instance, “green” = please god don’t stop, etc.).

Sensation Play – Play that involves the sense of touch, not necessarily pain. Running a flogger gently across someone’s skin, alternating between soft velvet and scratchy burlap on the back of a paddle, running a ; all these are playing with the sensation across someone’s skin.

Service Top – A specific kind of top, a service top usually describes their turn-on as how their actions are in service to the bottom (example: “I like to flog her because she likes it,”), as opposed a Sadist or Dominant, who might find their role a turn-on in other ways. See also: Top

Sensory deprivation – depriving someone of their senses in some way. Examples: blindfolds, earmuffs/headphones/ear plugs, a bag over one’s head, etc.

Soft Limit – A specific element or action of play that a person isn’t really comfortable with, but could be some time in the future, and/or might want to push past. Example: “Scat play is a soft limit for me… maybe check back in a few months?” See also: Hard limit.

Suspension – the practice of lifting or partially lifting the subject into the air. Most commonly seen with rope, suspension can be done with any number of things, although a familiarity with anatomy and safety practices is a must.

Subspace – a state of mind referring to a blissed-out, other-worldly place bottoms can go during heavy play. Subspace, also referred to as “flying,” or “floating,” is usually a combination of endorphins and adrenaline that, in the right mix, have an almost drug-like affect. Many bottoms report their pain tolerance sky rocketing, and a desire to keep playing forever.

S/M – originally an acronym for “Sadomasochism,” S/M, SM, or S&M became an all-inclusive word meaning the same as “kink” or “BDSM,” when the scene was still in its fledgling stages. Many older texts will use S/M (or “leather”) in much the same way as we use “BDSM” or “kink” today.

Submissive – One who gives, relents, or doesn’t have power.

Switch – One who switches between roles.

Sadist – One who enjoys giving pain.

Masochist – One who enjoys receiving pain.

Sadomasochist – One who enjoys both giving and receiving pain.

Top – a role referring to the person giving sensation. One who gives sensation or action. See also: bottom.

Vanilla – A word first used to describe non-kink oriented sex, “vanilla,” sometimes takes on a dismissive tone, and has come (in the some places) to mean just “boring sex.” Also, a delicious ice cream flavor.

Wax Play – play involving dripping hot wax on the skin. Different waxes can be used, although many burn at different temperatures, and good research beforehand is highly recommended.

Wartenberg wheel – A device originating in the medical field to test nerve ending response and sensation, and wartenberg wheel is a small, very sharp-spiked wheel that can be rolled over the skin, or used in conjunction with an electrical play unit.