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serenityquest · 4 months
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akindplace · 2 years
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At a certain age the feeling of "I don't give a shit if people think I'm ridiculous I will enjoy my interests anyway" gets over. The teenage insecurities don't completely go away, everyone still has a certain degree of self-consciousness, but your self-confidence does get a little boost. It does get better after your "awkward teenage phase". Nurture that self-confidence when you notice it, do things despite of the fear and don't shut yourself down for thinking confidence makes you egotistical or selfish. It is a healthy thing to have a balanced view of oneself. You really don't have to put so much energy into finding your flaws, into hating yourself, or putting your own interests down just to please other people.
You do start to get more comfortable with who you are after your teens. Don't give up now.
And if you need some encouragement today, please remember that people don't do things because they are extremely confident of themselves. They do it despite the fear of failure. You can do it too. You don't have to be perfect.
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the fits have been giving ✨️authenticity✨️
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huniegloom · 10 months
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I don’t know who needs to hear this but you don’t need to prove your blackness to people who have no interest in trying to understand you. I know it hurts when it’s you’re own people but they are just projecting their internalized racism onto you. People are just mad that they can’t put you in a box because you’re authenticity puts them off cuz it’s like “wait a minute I’m used to seeing certain people in a particular type of way so how does that work?” I have no interest in explaining myself to people who’s true goal is to make you hate yourself as much as they hate themselves.
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soulinkpoetry · 1 year
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I seriously despise liars. I have dealt with plenty in my life. Sometimes though we might lie in order to protect someone’s feelings from getting hurt. But even that I see it now as letting someone down. It’s best to refrain even from the tiniest lie, in order to be authentic. People deserve the absolute truth and nothing less.
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elfwink · 1 year
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Whether or not you disclose your autism diagnosis is a tricky subject! In this video, I talk about my thoughts and experiences on the matter.
If you’re ever unsure or uncomfortable about this sort of thing, I want you to know that you’re not alone! Many people out there worry about this. I hope that by sharing this content, that you feel a little less alone.
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skazenamarzena · 10 months
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ravenousnightwind · 1 year
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Despite how angry I get or how harsh I say things, I believe in accepting those who are different. What I don't accept is outlandish attacks without first asking questions. When people outright assume I mean something that I didn't. Cuz you know what? I don't say shit the right way sometimes. Or a lot..really. The reason is because I don't know how, and while I may know better in some regards now, it's the fucking reason I make long ass posts because if I don't put an insane amount of detail into the shit I'm saying then people will be like OMGOSH YOURE SAHINF THIS
Stfu, no I'm not. Idk, but it's like incredibly insulting to me for someone to simply assume I'm saying something instead of just fucking asking me? Like, I will respond to you and treat you like a person. But if you're gonna just idk assume and not listen to me and have zero logic in your head besides your own perspective? Then yeah I'm not gonna be happy about it.
I used to be afraid of expressing these thoughts for fear of being attacked. But you know what? It doesn't matter anymore. I've nothing to hide, but I'm also not going to argue or mingle with people who just wanna fight me because they want to change me.
I believe and do for a reason, and I try to be mindful and question myself. But you know what? I don't owe anyone anything. Especially if they've already decided they're not going to idk..give me the chance to have a civil conversation.
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Self-love tips for 2024, what to know
So this year began for me with a very serious question from me to me, “Why is it so hard for me to be emotionally open to anybody?” This question sounds innocent and simple enough, but the amount of emotion behind this question is just astounding. I have, all through the past years, learned so much about myself. For one, it is hard to contain my energy. For example, I woke up this morning, I…
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my-self-reflections · 4 months
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snezhanagubenko · 7 months
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thedeathdeelers · 8 months
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the goncharov tag rn
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akindplace · 2 years
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There is no such thing as normal. There is bravery in being authentic, it is important to be yourself. If you spend your whole life trying to blend in, you won’t actually get to live it. You won’t get the chance to do what really makes your heart warm. Let them say you are eccentric but let yourself know deep inside you are happy by being authentic.
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brilliantlybee · 8 months
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Authentic Bee-ing
Authentic bee-ng- living authentically is like a bee diligently collecting nectar and flowers.
Living authentically is like a bee diligently collecting nectar from flowers. Just as a bee follows its innate purpose to gather nectar, authentic living involves staying true to your own values, passions, and beliefs. Just as the bee contributes to the ecosystem by pollinating and producing honey, living authentically can lead to positive contributions to your own life and the world around you.…
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huniegloom · 9 months
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Have you ever seen people try way to hard to put you in a box? It's so obvious that they are struggling to find ways to bully you to the point that the things the say to you makes them look absolutely fucking stupid? It's like they were left with no choice but to project their deepest darkest insecurities onto you but all that really does is expose them as a insufferable person to be around. It's pretty impressive though, because they are so confident in what they have to say and they just keep on insisting, and insisting until you give in and no matter how you answer they managed to convince themselves that they've won. These people may be energy vampires but they are very insecure ones at best and it just doesn't work. You know you are not any of the things they say, they know that they aren't any of the things they accuse you of. It's the gaslighting thats makes everything so exhausting and if you don't shut it down right away it just makes things ten times worse. Thats the reason why they only befriend people that don't fight back, to test their patience to see what they can get away with. Some people are just so threatened by your authenticy and genuine kindness that they can't grasp the idea of it so they accuse you of faking or worse because deep down that's who they truly are and they only surround themselves by people who enable their shitty behavior. That's the only way that they can feel good about themselves. To you hate yourself as much as they hate themselves. Being you shows people who they really are, so don't hide who you are be loud and as unapologetic as possible because that is the one thing that they don't know how to do. Being you is a constient reminder of all of their insecurities.
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hsmagazine254 · 10 months
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Embracing Reflection - Positive Reflection Of The Week
Embracing Reflection: The Power Of Seeing Ourselves In Others – Article by Shahwana When we see ourselves in other people, it can be a great opportunity for growth if we are willing to do the work. Most of us have probably come across the universal wisdom that the people who irritate us the most are expressing qualities that we ourselves possess. This is why family members can be so vexing for so…
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