I don't know who needs to hear this, but it's ok to be OK. If you're not stressed about some pending work. IT'S OK. No need to intentionally pressure or criticize yourself. Have faith in your ability. You will do it in time. Just give yourself time to relax.
It's OK to be OK.
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SUN IN THE SKY, YOU KNOW HOW I FEEL
BREEZE DRIFTIN' ON BY, YOU KNOW HOW I FEEL
IT'S A NEW DAWN
IT'S A NEW DAY
IT'S A NEW LIFE
IT'S A NEW YEAR
FOR MEEEEEE
and i'm feeling good
come on girl, im in a coach mood so u would have to listen me.
2024 is one step ahead, 2024 is waiting for you bc they know it's gonna be THE BEST (for now) year for you and only you. KEEP THAT HEAD UP GIRL CUS 2024 WILL BE FULL OF GOOD THINGS FOR U GIRL, I SAID AND U GOTTA BELIEVE IT.
U DONT HAVE A FUCKING REASON TO BE SCARED OF, YOU KNOW WHY? BC U ALREADY KNOW WHO YOU ARE, YOU ALREADY KNOW THAT NO NEW YEAR WILL GO OVER YOU GIRL.
AND YOU OBVIOUSLY KNOW THAT YOU WON'T WASTE AN OPPORTUNITY LIKE THIS; AN OPPORTUNITY TO GROW MORE THAN YOU HAVE ALREADY DONE.
SO GO FUCKING CONFIDENT GIRL BECAUSE YOU'LL KILL IT NO MATTER WHAT.
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flags are meant to notify.
if you collect too many red flags on a person, then that should be a clear indicator that they’re not good for you.
Red flag “this one thing is bad for me”
if a friend you’ve known for a while shows a singular red flag, you can be like... ok, how do I work around this? can it be worked around? etc.
If a friend you’ve known for a while suddenly shows up with a bouquet of 10 or more red flags (interesting things were learned in lockdown y’all)
perhaps, it’s time to say...wow. the bad for me is adding up. how do I minimize my time with this person for my own health and safety? (minimize might not cut them out altogether. some people are still in our lives as survival mechanisms)
and if you’re really stuck in it, just be aware, and reaffirm your senses. “Yes I see what is. and ok, I am going with this because I have to.” (this is the most important gift we can give ourselves when we’re trapped)
Yellow flags (this is suss, and I’m not sure how I feel about it yet, but it’s not an overt OMG)
again if someone brings you a bouquet of suss, pay attention, maybe you don’t want to really get involved in that? and again, if you’re stuck in it and you’re not always comfortable with the bouquet, be aware. reaffirm yourself. Know what is, and know that you’re doing what you have to, because you have to.
Green flags, the omg, this person is awesome and steady in their awesome (i will be attaching the green flags post here below shortly)
someone brings you a bouquet of green? <3 <3 <3 <3 <3
(some green flags courtesy of another post, in case y’all been in red flag land so long that you need a refresher: https://duskroads.tumblr.com/post/715331727484125184/wholesmememeshub-gets-to-be-rather-disconcerting )
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It's hard, very hard , to not quit and keep on trying . Even if the process of trying is killing you. You know why because one day you will realize you didn't quit, you kept on trying till the day; battle you were fighting ,lost from you.
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"Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If u love what you are doing, you will be successful."
Just believe in yourself, trust yourself more and never forget your passion.
You will definitely reach your destiny...
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Good time for a periodic reminder that "butch" does not mean "has muscles" and it does not mean "sidebuzz haircut" and if you look at a cartoon girl who wears makeup and skirts and high heels and decide she's butch purely on the virtue of "she's kind of buff" or "she's got short hair" or "she's rude to men" or "she knows how to fight" then you need to delete futchscale.png off your hard drive and talk to an actual butch for once in your life
EDIT: This post is somehow still dominating my activity feed after two months so I feel like I should add a couple of disclaimers:
No, I don't hate She-Ra. I like it quite a bit, in fact. I don't know why some people seem to think being annoyed by the fandom response to a character means I hate the show...?
Also, this post isn't really "about" Scorpia. She just came to mind first when I wrote the tag
(imagine I'm standing up on a big box with a megaphone for this one) THIS POST WAS MADE BY A GLEEFUL TRANSSEXUAL AND IF YOU HAVE AN ISSUE WITH THAT THEN MY WORDS ARE NOT FOR YOU. TRANS-EXCLUSIONARY FEMINISM IS A BOLD-FACED LIE AND SERVES ONLY TO REDIRECT SUFFERING AWAY FROM YOURSELF AND TOWARD THE LESS-PRIVILEGED. COWARD
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