#best dating advice

[froma-certain-pov]

Gideon: How do I make a date really romantic?

Gricko: Be mysterious.

Gideon: Okay!

*later, while on a date with Kremy*

Kremy: So where are we going?

Gideon: None of your fucking business.

#gricko gives the best and worst love advice #this is kredeon’s 4th date #gideon coal #gricko grimgrin #kremy lecroux #kredeon #legends of avantris #once upon a witchlight #incorrect quotes

[kicktwine]

hey, any advice for ppl just getting into ffxiv? there's so much happening I'm a Little intimidated lmao

yes! actually! ok ok

Slow down. Don’t worry too much about terms and mechanics. The very beginning of FFXIV is very good at teaching you how to fight and how to do things, so long as you pay attention (and read your tooltips! Hover over your skills to read what they do)

if you’re getting lost in the lore, Jesse Cox has a very in depth and spoiler free video on Hydealyn’s history. I would argue you don’t need it, because you can coast by and learn everything you need by osmosis, but if you’re one of those ppl who wants a solid background before going forward it’s a great video!

The very beginning is a little overwhelming because you’re doing job AND main story quests at the same time right off the bat. You can do them at the same time and you’ll be fine, but the stories can get tangled, so you can choose to do blue job quests (they will teach you moves and buttons and stuff!! And unlock moves and buttons!) until you can’t do them anymore then use MSQ to get the experience in between. After you’re around 25-35 you can get a hang of spacing those out and just go ham on MSQ

you’re also learning the map which I can’t help you with i got lost in the shroud and ul’dah so often. click the blue text under the quest name to bring up where it is on the map

and it’s throwing new terms at you a lot. If you need them, it’ll come up again. If they’re not 100% necessary, like crafting and materia melding and stuff, it’ll be there for you to figure out whenever you want to.

If you miss a line of dialogue in a cutscene, which I did sometimes because I was speeding and then something important happened, hit / and then click “event” in your chat log. A log of dialogue will appear!

if you miss a cutscene entirely, go into any inn and click on the unending journey book.

when doing your outfits, go into character and then click the button near the top of your outfit display that says recommended gear. Always wear that. You can glamor over pretty looking outfits later

if you go into system -> HUD layout, you can move hud items around. It’s a little complicated, but I had to move a bunch of stuff to get comfortable!

spending your Gil is fine. you’ll earn it back, just save some for aetheryte teleporting fees for now

i swear you can ignore leves. you can. you can

and fates

you can sell any items (like beastkin blood or animal leather) you get from combat at any vendor by dragging it from your inventory into theirs. Keep food (to eat!), and clothes until they’re far too low level. animal parts you are not going to need ever unless you’re into crafting

hall of the novice is good for getting your grips but dungeons at level 15 are way more effective for learning how to play your class in the actual game

don’t be afraid of being a beginner in the beginning dungeons!!! You are either queuing with other beginners or people who know they’re going to be in an arr dungeon with new players. You have a sprout you’re safe people will 90% of the time be super nice. Let people know you’re new and they’ll help! You got this!!!!!!

once you get your chocobo go find “my feisty little chocobo” it will let the bird fight with you AND OR HEAL YOU (HELPFUL <-BLACK MAGE)

say hi to merlwyb for me-

#ffxiv #ask #anon #hope this wasn’t overwhelming HAH um but just have fun! That is the best advice just go at your own pace #and have fun seek out what’s coolest and most interesting to you #OH BUT MAKE SURE TO DO YOUR JOB QUESTS BEFORE YOU MOVE ON TO THE NEXT EXPANSION just keep those up to date

[mt10lt20]

Incorrect Ace Combat - AC 0/6/7 AU Did quite a few slightly shippy Wingmen's perspectives before, so on the flipside - the Flight Leaders' version.

Cipher: Trig, I don't think you should go out with Count.

Talisman: Agree, he's slightly dodgy.

Trigger: *Ahem*. You both do not have the moral high ground to tell me not to date Count when one of you is seeing a dude who got you court-martialed and the other is seeing a dude who tried to murder you.

Trigger: And, you are both still alive. So.

Cipher & Talisman: Okay, low bar, but fair enough. You win. Enjoy, don't die.

#ace combat #incorrect ace combat #ace combat zero #ace combat 7 #ace combat 6 #AU #Slight interlude to drawing stuff #Random musing #When you think about it #Count could be the best haha #And Trigger should be giving Cipher and Talisman dating advice #Shippy stuff #TROUNT #Mentions of #Ciphixy #and #TaliSham #And cos I got to give Ciphixy a happy ending no one died in this AU #PJ and Ilya live too my babies #Crackposting

[noisysaladjaylenario]

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[xxlilaayxx]

It's that time of year again. The hyperfixation returns

Just like Papyrus and Undyne are besties I hereby declare that so are Alphys and Sans. Sorry thats just canon now

#undertale #digital art #ibispaintx #video game #sans #alphys #alphys undertale #sans undertale #sans has the best dating advice

[saintchaser]

regulus: sirius, how does one confess to the person they are infatuated with?

sirius: you just go for it? just tell them i love you and if that doesn't do the trick, do something nice for them

regulus: okay thank you i'm going to do just that with your best friend now

sirius: what

regulus: what

#sibling bonding 🤞😍 #sibling bonding which means terrible or not so terrible dating advice except sirius doesn't know that the person regulus is infatuated with #is his very own best friend #so that's gonna be a shocker when he finds out 😭 #sirius black #sirius black incorrect quotes #regulus black #regulus black incorrect quotes #the black brothers #the black brothers incorrect quotes #the noble and most ancient house of black angst #the noble and most ancient house of black incorrect quotes #marauders era #marauders era incorrect quotes #regulus&sirius #shitposts

[liverpool-enjoyer]

venting / advice seeking (dw its not depressing this time lmao)

#ok so my best friend started talking to this guy #n its all she talks abt #WHICH SHE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO #like im not blaming her at all #i would do the same thing #but every time she brings it up i feel so unloved #like this girl got on hinge IMMEDIATELY met a guy shes gonna go on a date with #like what must it be like to have guys look at you and see something pretty #and like my envy is starting to make me not wanna be around her #which sucks bc shes my best friend n i LOVE HER #n i value her friendship sm she means sm to be i dont wanna cause a rift between us over something stupid #but every time im around her i feel unloved and ugly and sad and pathetic and belittled and less than #and i think she can tell??? (not sure tho) #so yeah #sigh #idk what to do #some advice would be so appreciated #ok thats it i love you guys 🫂🫂

[allthefujoshiunite]

hey there! may i request some recs? i’m looking for sweet, fluffy stories with a lot of pining, whether or not they realize their feelings. high school stories are preferred.

fav manga include: sasaki and miyano (love love love this one!!! the way sasaki will make a bold move and then secretly get really embarrassed…it’s the best (๑>◡<๑) ), hidamari ga kikoeru, the two lions, never understand

Hiii! Except Never Understand, I'm familiar with the rest of your favorite series and LOVE them! And if you liked The Two Lions by Furuya Nagisa, I'm sure you'll love the rest of their works as well. The Summer Of You and its continuation (Kodansha) is already out, and Number Call is finally picked up by Kodansha again! Not sure if it's out yet though. I think Suzumaru Minta has a similar tone to their works, you might want to check their releases in English.

You can find some other works that I love after the jump!

I don't do single volume purchases of manga as much as I did in the past, so most of my recommendations will come from Manga Planet! I'll mention if it's from a different publisher/platform. Starting with *drum rolls* high school sweethearts!!

Advice for Mutually Unrequited Love (Aniya Yuiji): Cute and quite different from the usual childhood-friends-turned-lovers story!

Hello (Kouda Miu): Anything Kouda Miu draws, I read. Another friends-to-lovers story full of future worries, insecurities, and questioning sexualities.

My Best Friend♂ Confessed to Me in a Dating Sim (Fujitobi): Two best friends find themselves transported into a dating sim. Fujitobi is another artist I like and their works always contain a supernatural/fantasy element. Super cute!

We Aren't Secure (Sojima Yuco): Omegaverse. Two close friends (one omega and the other alpha). I think the dynamic was included responsibly into the story and I enjoyed the conflict it brought.

Welcome Back, Aureole (Takatsu - TOKYOPOP): From the artist of Skip and Loafer. More soul-searching than the usual romance tropes but definitely worth the read!

Super Morning Star (Aomiya Kara - Kodansha): How can I NOT recommend a title that's dear to my heart and is finally in English??!! While it isn't really out of your ordinary high school BL, I don't know, I just have a really soft spot for this one!

I have additional titles that are, again, all works that I have reread again and again. The childhood friends trope is still here, but the stories are set in adulthood (college/working). All from Manga Planet, all highly recommended!

See You Later, Mermaid - Hayane Dento

Paint Love and the Colors Will Bloom - Shota Kon

Perfect Propose - Mayo Tsurukame

Aaand that's it! Hopefully these recommendations will be to your liking and don't forget to let me know what you think if you pick either of these series up. See you around ~

#allthefujoshiunite answers #bl manga #bl recommendation #yaoi manga #yaoi recommendation #Advice for Mutually Unrequited Love #My Best Friend Confessed to Me in a Dating Sim #Kouda Miu #Welcome Back Aureole #We Aren't Secure #Super Morning Star #high school bl

[ndcultureis]

ND culture is not understanding talking stages or situationships because if we know we like each other and have been talking for a while and we’ve kissed and call each other pet names why aren’t we dating??

At what point does the talking stage end?

At what point does it become too awkward to ask?

Help

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#Neurodivergent culture #actually neurodivergent #mod emri #I didn't know they was a talking stage to dating #But honestly my best advice is to simply ask/communicate your confusion #Even if it is really awkward because like being on the same page #+ open w/ eachother can greatly help in any kind of relationship #But also what do I know I'm aro /lh /hj

[aro-culture-is]

Aro culture is your friend inviting you to go see a movie, you agreeing and then absolutely freaking out because what if they think this is a date? How the heck do I make sure that they know that I see them as a friend, no romantic feelings involved? :'))

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#theiceemperor #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod alexander #best advice: ask #like legit the best thing i can advise is saying 'hey just to check - this is a friendship thing and not a date thing right?' #bonus is that in my experience even if the person intended to use it as a romo date situation that clues them in to Maybe Not

[mustangs-flames]

sarah: mark how do i flirt with girls

mark: um. uh. (<- homoromantic)

Happy Pride Month!! htb Mark Heathcliff has no fucking clue how to talk to girls!!

either it goes like that or-

Sarah: *sigh* How do I get a girlfriend?

Mark: Have you tried actually talking to a girl?

Sarah: Absolutely dogshit advice why the fuck do I even bother asking you. Fuck you. Have a terrible day.

Mark: Wh-????

#hail true body au #htb mark #htb sarah #just 2 gay siblings trying their best to give dating advice and failing miserably lmao

[chainedupgirlsblog]

Chay: How do you show to the person you like that you like them?

Tankhun: That’s easy! Invite them to the movies or a series marathon

Kinn: You can take them on a date flying around in a helicopter

Porsche: Or to a nice cafe to eat traditional desserts

Vegas: Or…

Everyone at once: DON'T!!

Vegas: Why?? I was just going to say you can cook something they like…

Everyone: *sighs in relief*

Vegas: Or just take them hostage and make them fall in love with you, it’s easier…

Pete: *covers his face blushing hard*

Everyone: DON'T DO THAT!!!

Kim: Why are you asking, anyway??

#incorrect kinnporsche quotes #vegaspete #kinnporsche #kimchay #vegas x pete #fandom #fanfiction #vegas theerapanyakul #pete saengtham #incorrect quotes #dating advice with Vegas he's the most romantic among all of them lol #vegas best boyfriend #pete is whipped #help

[noisysaladjaylenario]

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[metanarrates]

my mom is so funny. we live in a super mormon area but since she cares a lot about making sure her teenage children and their friends have safe sexual experiences, she's kind of become known as the condom mom, since she will just hand them out at the drop of a hat if anybody asks for them. my sister says it can be a little bit embarrassing, but apparently a lot of her friends have ended up going to my mom for sex ed resources, and in a few cases help with things like sexual assault and abortions, so it's nice that the kids feel comfortable with her

#narrates #she was sort of like this when i was a teen but not to this extent #my sister says that she Will just ask my sister's friends if they are being safe if they ever mention that they're dating someone #overall though she's a very good person to talk to if you're a teenager going through issues. shes a bit embarrassingly open sometimes #but she's a good listener and she 1000% has kids' backs when they're going through issues #when i was a teen my best friend would sometimes come over just to have a private chat with my mom because he needed adult advice #and couldn't talk to his own parents about what he was going through #she's such an admirable person. i was gonna say i miss her but i'm literally gonna see her this afternoon

[honeyssweetened]

This has (sadly) been 90% of my experience with men

"He said 'she knows her worth too much 😡' because the woman is standing on business"

#know your worth #know your value #women #high value woman #no shit men #dating #bad dates #advice #giving and receiving #good advice #best advice #dating advice #advice for women #female positivity #positive vibes #positivity #positive vent #tiktok video #positive thoughts #positive thinking #positive mental attitude #positive quotes #tiktok #mine

[snowcoming]

my friend, asking me for dating advice:

my ass, who's never dated someone in my entire life: COMMUNICATION, COUPLES THERAPHY U CAN DO THIS GIRLIE!! or you could dump him and make life easier c'mon.

i did in fact tell her to dump the guy and she did in fact end up dumping him because he refused to communicate and other stuff so i feel pretty proud of myself lmao

#best friends #relationship #relationship advice #dating advice