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twohornycannibals · 2 days ago
Not Hannibal related just another Hannibal stan asking for a prediction: will I get pregnant this month?
LORD NO i'm praying for u
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adviceforwlw · 6 days ago
i’ve identified as bi since i was 16 (i’m 23 now) and kinda came to the conclusion i was demisexual a few years later bc every single time i had the chance to sleep with (what’s supposed to be) a perfect guy my body simply did not respond. i tried it once and all i could think was ‘what’s all the fuss about?’ lmao. i thought i just needed to get emotionally involved first u kno? idk if that’s me trying to explain why i didn’t want to have sex with them or not. i can’t really say for sure if that’s the same with women bc i literally feel like i’m going to make an ass out of myself when i’m around a girl who’s attractive and i know is sapphic so i don’t put myself out there. i also always told myself i couldn’t be a lesbian bc when i was a kid i had crushes on boys but recently a gay friend of mine told me he had crushes on girls when he was young too but it didn’t mean he was attracted to them now. that sent me into a tail spin that lead me to the comphet doc which led me here. tbh i’m just confused and i don’t know what to think. i know for a fact that i have internalised homophobia so that doesn’t help lol like at all
hey anon! I went through some similar things when I was first coming to terms with myself. right off the bat, I wanna say that I have some reservations with label of demisexuality. obviously you can do what you want, but as someone who used to use that label for myself for what was really just comphet/internalized homophobia. I think sexual attraction is a specturm, everyone’s sex drives are different and some people are def ace, but I’ve seen demisexuality as a standalone label cause more harm than good. I find sex within relationships way better + more fulfilling than casual hook-ups, but I still wouldn’t consider myself demi anymore. I think this is honestly a fairly common experience for many ppl. 
I am a lesbian who also had childhood/teen crushes on men. I never actually dated them because whenever I’d be in any sort of situation with them even like kissing etc I’d panic and shut down (again, something I assumed was bc of being demi but really just uhhhh gay). my girlfriend also used to ID as bi, dated men, then came out as demi/ace, then realized she was just a lesbian all along so I think this type of trajectory is really quite common. 
I don’t know you or your experiences beyond what little you’ve told me and can’t say how you should identify (& I know you weren’t asking that either!) but as a lesbian, much of what you’ve said sounds very relatable to me earlier on in my coming out/coming to terms journey. I think continuing to reflect and figure your shit out is good (but also balancing without overthinking it). I’m not saying having relationships/sexual experiences with women might help clarify things for you, but I know it did for me (lol). things will start to click into place and it’s ok to not fully know where you stand! there is no timeline for figuring yourself out - it’s a long process and unlearning all the internalized stuff just takes time and reflection
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baeshijima · 6 days ago
HELLO I NEED TO SCREAM WITH SOMEONE ABOUT THE STREAM KASNVSDKVN INAZUMA IS GORGEOUS AND THE NEW GIRL MIGHT BE EITHER BAAL OR SOMEONE FROM THERE??? (if you're pulling for zhongli, i wish you luck!)
HDJDJDJD HELLO FELLOW PERSON WHO ALSO NEEDS TO SCREAM ABT THE STREAM I HOPE UR WELL
AND PLS THE WAY THEY DROPPED IT AT THE END GNDJFKD IN CN VERSION THEY HAD HER AS A PRESENTER AND IN THE ENG VERSION THEY DIDNT ;-; BUT ENG ZHONGLI REALLY WENT AND DROPPED IT RIGHT AT THE ENDJFJF
AND I THINK SHE’S AN OLD FRIEND OF ZHONGLI, BAAL AND GANYU’S?? I THINK THAT’S WHAT WAS SAID IN THE CN VERSIONHDJD
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homopsychology · 7 days ago
I’m a crypto and I’m in a lot of lesbian fandoms and as all of life there’s a lot of trans women there but I mostly ignore their existence but there’s this one that a bunch of my mutuals follows and he posted that he wants more representation of trans women in lesbian shows especially in big popular fandoms and I honestly had to laugh because these men are so delusional like Euphoria is right there and there is a trans woman in that show and honestly it’s so funny because the show or even the “lesbian” ship with the trans woman is not even popular there’s not even 200 fics in their AO3 tag meanwhile actual lesbian ships have more that 5k and it’s so funny because I saw this TIM complaining about lack of trans women and it got me thinking, the reason all of these other lesbian ships with only “cis” women are more popular is exactly because lesbians create most of the content for it and no matter how much they try to change it lesbian will never include them. Not even trans/nonbinary lesbians are interested in writing about lesbians relationships with a male in it because even if they are deep in the TRA cult they also deep down know the real meaning of lesbian and that there’s no place for males in a lesbian relationship so my point is if other people keep making and marketing lesbian ships in media with trans women then that’s not really gonna become so popular because no actual lesbian will want to create content for it this not making the ship/characters very popular
literally. like people go on about like euphoria and sense8 and pose and whatever for transbian rep, but what cultural impact have they really had beyond that? certainly not as much as real lesbian representation (the l word for example, or even the 100 made a lasting impact with clexa)
deep down, content creators and audiences know that these are heterosexual couples + the fact that who even wants to read about the trans experience? the media narrative about being trans is so wildly different to what it's actually like because the reality is that these days it's mainly wide scale online grooming by narcissistic porn addicts but that doesn't look very ~trans rights~ in TV and fanfics
(on a tangent, I was really struck by how Perfuma in the she-ra reboot is allegedly trans coded because she is exactly the tim fantasy they will never achieve. a uwu soft smol lesbian flower princess that also kicks ass is something a lot of transbians want to be (usually in a fetishistic way) when irl they're super fucking aggressive and unbearable)
also exactly what you said about lesbians making our own rep. we've worked for years to build our community's media representation and we're still working on it. it's not our job to make content for those who are parasites to our community
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spacedikut · 10 days ago
ahhh i need your opinion! so my school is starting hybrid next week and i signed up to go in person but now i’m kinda freaking out... i’m debating whether i should go cuz i’m finally comfortable with my online schedule and idk if i want to stress myself out by doing something different for like a month and a half... is it worth it?? my mom says that it would be good for me but i’m really nervous cuz i have ap tests coming up and finals and idkkkkk hellllppp! -🧃
(also another reason i may not wanna go is because barely anybody is and ✨anxiety✨)
OK this is my opinion and obv no one knows how you feel better than you BUT
id stay home and do the work online!! to me there’s more pros than cons of staying home and if you’re getting into the groove of online school AND going in person is going to add stress..................i don’t see a strong reason to mess with the routine you’ve formed you know?
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traumahqs · 16 days ago
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Please unfollow @ofseattles​. Arizona Robbins & Nico Kim are re-open for application.
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koutawoo · 16 days ago
Your blog is one of my favorites. I love seeing your edits and posts❤️. That's it that's the ask. Have a good night!
please 😭😭 thank u, and srsly tho, thank u for that mini chat !! this blog is a shitshow at this point but it’s nice for release 😌🤝 glad to know u like it
i expect to see childe on ur team tmr or else i will go rob that fatui bank and steal childe from his post
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shmaroace · 28 days ago
Oh hey! I'm not used to sending anons but I've seen you around :)
I've been thinking about who I am lately, and I think I might be ace. I'm not sure and I'm extremly confused because I have no one to ask ;-;
You don't have to answer if you don't want to!
- :D anon
it’s all up to what you decide to label yourself with! if you decide that you’re ace or acespec, then that’s great! you can change this if you feel that something has changed. welcome to the community regardless, though!
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kagrenacs · a month ago
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The topic of the night seems to be the almalexia fight in tribunal, my nerevarine kills her completely on accident in a dumb stroke of luck (fate? I think azura pulled some strings) and feels very bad about it
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cartoonsun · a month ago
pendulum reading: will i pass two of my dream schools? 🥺
I’m going to be real, I don’t actually fully know what your asking. I’m trying to figure out if you’re asking if your dream schools are going to reject you or if you’ll get accepted by both of them? 
Uh, that being said. I asked if you’ll get rejected by both (no) will you get accepted by one (yes) but couldn’t tell you which one. Good luck! 
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acefitzroymaplecourt · a month ago
neopronouns are incredible and i am sad that none of them are right for me
rip 😔
anonymously tell me a secret
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anemo-writes · a month ago
I want those matching icons rn :grabhandL:
as you wish 🙇🏻‍♀️
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wildshq · a month ago
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Due to personal reasons, please unfollow the survivor listed below.
Blair Machado
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malafvma · a month ago
Hi Bess, could we have a shoutout? / Of Stone and Sea is a diverse roleplay based around the lives of 15 thirty-something year olds reuniting to help their alma mater. Each muse has been placed in a group and given connections that have the potential for great pain and growth. These connections are mere pieces of the people they were. Through world building and character development, we aim to explore topics that though commonplace in our daily lives, are often underrepresented. opening @ 3 apps
Of course my dears! Here you go. – 𝐒𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐓𝐎𝐔𝐓 !!
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goldenraisins · a month ago
damn you're living my columbia dreams they straight up rejected me for ED this year. never cried so much 😔✌🏼it's ok though
<333 they simply don't deserve u ur destined for bigger n better things!! it can be super rough dealing w college decision stuff, esp when everything is as uncertain as it is rn, but i do promise that everything will work out 💗 which is hard to believe until it happens but. it will happen!
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the-adventures-of-dave · a month ago
Hi, I have a kitten who has taken to walking around on her harness pretty well but finds Outside to be very scary, how did y’all get to the point of “cars and squirrels and other humans exist and that is okay”?
I don’t think I’ve reached a point where the cats are bombproof or anything- whenever we go on walks I expect the possibility of them being spooked. That being said, taking it slow and starting out somewhere quiet really helps. Training both the boys I started out in the backyard, and then slowly extended our radius farther from home. If they come to see your yard as their territory and safe place, they’ll be a little more comfortable with new stimuli that is introduced there. 
Keep a favourite toy or some treats on hand, and when you see a potential stressor try to distract your cat with those. If possible, don’t wait until after your cat is already scared, as I don’t think it works quite as well (but if she is scared still give her the treat). 
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seohoshi · a month ago
Hey, here’s a friendly reminder that your original content is incredible!!! Let’s spread some support by sharing this message to 10 other blogs whose creations you love, and don’t break the chain 💖✨💐 (eli ^^)
@honeyseoho if you were already honoured by me sending this to you... (although i can’t think why ksjdfkjsdk honestly) imagine how I MUST FEEL seeing this in my inbox.... i’m beyond honoured by you sending it back to me eli <3 like wow how overwhelming 💕💕
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