#bierasure

[polyamzeal]

#bierasure #bi erasure #polyamory #polyam #nonmonogamy

[bidotorg]

"You don't have to deny who you are or all the wonderful aspects of your bisexuality, but you also don't have to tell every super judgmental stranger you meet either."

#Bisexual #Bisexuality #Advice #BiErasure #BiVisibility

[perfect-bi-paradise]

I was reading an article that stated that bisexuality was a new term from the 1990's. News flash it's not. It's truly sad and amazing all at the same time that people are unaware how pervasive bi-erasure is in our society.

Bisexuality has always existed. Hell one of the most famous bisexuals' of all time is Julius Ceasar himself. Julius Caesar had assorted wives, mistresses and male lovers, prompting the poet Catullus to refer to Caesar as ″the husband to every woman and wife to every man″ in Rome. To top it all off, we have an actual month of the year (July) named after him.

If that doesn't clue you in about how pervasive bi-erasure and misinformation about bisexuality is that arguably the most famous roman emperor, who exuded so much chaotic bisexual energy that he got his own month in the year (shout out to all July babies) sexuality has been erased, you're not paying attention.

#bisexuality #anti mspec #bi history #lgbt #bierasure #battleaxe bi #bisexaul #bi visibility #julius ceasar

[bi-buddha]

Comphet

Compulsory heterosexuality (often shortened to comphet) is the theory that heterosexuality is assumed and enforced upon people by a patriarchal and heteronormative society. (The term was popularized by Adrienne Rich in her 1980 essay titled "Compulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence".)

Yes, I believe "Compulsory heterosexuality" is 100% a real thing. But I also think it can be used for bi-erasure.

If a someone is in a heteronormative relationship and then changes to a homonormative relationship, don't immediately proclaim "comphet, they are a lesbian!" In my experience that scenario is usually someone who is realizing and embracing their bisexuality. It does NOT make them lesbian. It is up to the individual to define their sexuality for themselves.

#StopBiErasure #BiErasure #Comphet #Bisexual #Bisexuality

[craftygal65]

It’s sad that biphobia is still happening in the day & age. (RepostBy @zaphtik: "The "B" and the "T" in LGBTQ+ don't exist for decoration. There's no room for division in the LGBTQ+ community. #bisexual #biphobia #bierasure #lgbtqplus #misogyny #slutshaming #feminism #intersectionalfeminism repost via @instarepost20 from @lgbt.heroes Any bisexual girls here?💜💖💙" (via #InstaRepost @AppsKottage)) https://www.instagram.com/p/Ck9WCATPDQi/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#bisexual #biphobia #bierasure #lgbtqplus #misogyny #slutshaming #feminism #intersectionalfeminism #instarepost

[stevesbipanic]

Steve can have loved Nancy and be bisexual. Steve can love Eddie and be bisexual. Steve can date whoever he wants and be bisexual.

That's what bisexuality is. Both.

#stop bierasure #stranger things #stranger things s4 #steve harrington #st4 #eddie munson #steddie #nancy wheeler #bisexuality #bi erasure

[septembersghost]

screaming into a void: unlabeled queer identities are valid you don't get to decide for someone else what their identity is and if we don't listen to people's words and allow them to self-identify and leave it up to them to tell us who they are and trust their truths then what are we even doing here and people are allowed to have fun with self-expression no matter what their identity is because the whole point is nobody has to adhere to binaries especially with things like fashion and art and real people can't queerbait!!!!!

#EVERY FEW MONTHS WE REALLY HAVE TO DO THIS #specificallly the constant biphobia/bierasure online makes me so tired y'all #also getting mad about...people's clothes? reinforcing the exact stereotypes we're supposedly avoiding? #but this is true of everything #fandom discourse

[kittenfangirl20]

I am tired of people responding to my Erehisu posts by saying that Historia is gay and only loves Ymir. That isn’t going to change the fact that I headcanon Historia as bisexual or that Ymir is dead, so at least I want Historia to find love again while people like you want her to be in perpetual mourning over her first love that she lost at 15 years old.

#attack on titan #aot #erehisu #i ship both erehisu and yumihisu #tw bierasure #bisexual historia #i don’t want want people coming to my posts with bierasure #eren jaeger #historia reiss #krista lenz

[lilisouless]

It´s amazing how often Six of crows fandom forget that Nina is an lgbt+ character

#nina zenik #six of crows #biphobia #or bierasure at the very least #netflix shadow and bone #leigh bardugo #crooked kingdom #you want to ignore chapter 40 happened? fine! #she is still bi!

[capinejghafa]

When the fic starts off strong and then the author forgets that bisexual characters exist 🙃

#just say you're biphobic and go #hc are fun but im not here for bierasure or potential bierasure... #not surprised just disappointed #random

[bidotorg]

"Let's use Pride as an opportunity to remind the gay community that we are very much a part of the LGBT umbrella."

#PrideMonth #Bisexual #BiErasure #LGBT

[mirrorofliterature]

queer characters can be queer and wildly in love with their opposite gender partner, I'll fight you on that

or did you forget that bi, trans and aspec ppl exist?

#rambles #fandom fuckery #bierasure can have some real devasting consequences for bisexual asylum seekers too!

[venomade]

I am officially old enough for not only my mom but now MY DAD to start commenting on my chronically single life and looking out for men (and only men) for me to potentially date :-)))

#the bierasure from my own flesh and bone... tragic #venom's dysfunctional family #anyway I told my dad I was probably gonna have kids on my own #and he realized I am in my [redacted] and has decided “not on MY watch!!!” #text post

[mrslukecastellan]

if I see one more person claim poison ivy is a lesbian I'm going to mf lose it

#the bierasure is not cute #poison ivy #is a canon bisexual #how many times do we have to go through this #claiming a bi char is just experiencing comphet is bierasure #claiming a bi char isn't bi is bierasure #she #is #bisexual

[whalehouse1]

Me: Absolutely hates DickBabs and is probably my #3 NOTP in all of DC (still top 10, but that’s more due to some rare pairs I found by random).

Also me: -sees anti-DickBabs content- I get it’s awful, but you seem ready to tear off a DickBabs shipper’s head. Calm down.

#I would say DickBab fans could interact but I block I tagged ships I dislike faster than bierasure posts #I have to deal with enough ppl talking to me about stuff I dislike and disagree with irl I’m not dealing with it online #but seriously ppl can ship what they want and also from one in particular #shut up about brief mentions in canon and acting like everyone has to follow it #that’s what’s fun is seeing what ppl like and dislike but still grab

[bloomingdead]

me two years ago, screaming about bi erasure: 🤬

me now, realizing the bi in me should not be so easy to erase: 👩🏻‍❤️‍💋‍👩🏼, 🚫🤷🏻‍♂️

#lesbianism #i’ve noticed the ppl loudest about bierasure have the most internalized misogyny and lesbophobia