at the end of the day it’s not only that twitter is having a meltdown over maia crimew calling herself a a bi lesbian, that a huge amount of people are basically fine with threats of violence for that reason alone, and that some are actually trying to find a justification to say that her leaking the list is Harmful To People Of Colour/is actually anti-communist (when really they said they find her annoying and that they’re mostly mad at her being a bi lesbian).
it’s that this whole insane discourse has completely overshadowed anything about the no-fly list and how and why she did this. it’s being completely buried under the avalanche of nonsense and the arguments that she’s causing Material Harm. i wish i could say i think this is the work of feds but unfortunately i know people are batshit about this stuff. but really as i said before the best thing is to fucking ostracize and ignore these people and get them out of organizing and instead focus on what that list means and what to do next. bc these people are gonna sabotage any conversation or meaningful work, and are ready to betray any activist or person who takes risks.
but beyond that man the fucking state of leftism that any actual work and effort gets highjacked by clowns who drown it in their discourse instead. the fact that they genuinely feel justified in harming and impeding people and precious work in the name of labels. they talk about material harm but if that isn’t what’s happening rn idk what is.
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not to be That Person but y’all have got to learn to be more normal about bisexual and pansexual characters. this isn’t 2012. women romancing astarion is not the problem, nor is karlach “lesbian coded”. the real problem is y’all’s bi/panphobia stemming largely from homophobic stereotypes
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i'll never understand the bisexual vs pansexual discourse. i think we need to stop pitting two bad bitches against each other and kiss on the mouth
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Periodic reminder that unless a person specifically and clearly tells you it is okay to tell others they are trans or queer, you should err on the side of caution and assume they do not want you to tell people (especially random people!) about their transness or queerness.
You have no idea, generally, why somebody doesn't talk openly about their trans or queer status, and you have no idea, truly, how somebody might react to that information. The most progressive person out there is still capable of harbouring incredibly negative thoughts about somebody's queer status.
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it's absolutely upsetting seeing people in the BG3 fandom say things like
"I can't believe that Asterion likes women, he's just gay"
"Shadowheart is 100% a lesbian"
statements like that in a game where all the companions are open about liking all genders is plain bi/panphobic! Whether the characters prefer one gender over the other, they're still bi/pan!!
If you're romancing Asterion, Gale, Wyll, etc as a man, it doesn't make them gay, similarly if you’re romancing Shadowheart, Karlach, Laezel, etc as a woman, it doesnt make them a lesbian.
You can relate to and express your own queer identity through bi/pan characters without changing their sexuality I promise 💕
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i have this headcanon that percy and annabeth are raging accidental flirts. but not with each other. like. they'll go to the coffee shop on fifteenth street. and compliment the barista on his hair and clothes and tip really well. but only for him. and they have no idea this boy is absolutely swooning over them. or. each time they to go the bakery downtown. they take the time to converse with the waitress at the counter as they eat her homemade muffins. and are incredibly vocal about how she's their favorite server. and how much they enjoy seeing her. and suddenly they're the only two customers that can get her services for free. except, they just think she's like that with everyone.
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Bisexuality by Trisha Miller in Lavender Woman Vol. 2 Iss. 5 (1973)
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i want to have sex with someone who lets me stim while i eat them out
i want to have sex with someone who lets me ramble on about my special interests while i sit on their dick for half an hour
i want someone to tease me or to obnoxiously smother me with admiration and compliments when i tell them about my special interest because i'm such a smart cutie and they just felt the need to stroke my ego
i want to have sex with someone amid a bunch of soft blankets with my earplugs in/my ANC headphones on and with the lights down low, taking our time to explore sensory play together while i can relax because there's no evil sounds and bright lights overloading me
i want to have sex with someone who doesn't mind me asking if their playful brattiness/dominance is meant sarcastically or not, but who will gladly explain it to me every time
i want to have sex with someone when we go to a museum or a convention that features my special interest, where, after i've given them the full 3 hour tour, i blow them in a restroom cabin and get my face all wet
i just want someone to take me, wholeheartedly and with all my autistic traits, and proceed to love me anyway is that too much to ask for
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never forget "I'm as straight as any of you" and the immediate shot on house and thirteen. never forget
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fellas is it gay to let another man edge you until you can't think anymore and you're just his helplessly hypnotized puppet? his brainwashed boytoy?
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