#boyfriend problems

[im-in-a-love-cult]

Idk if i want a relationship, i might be cupioromantic or demiromantic IDFK

I feel bad breaking up with him cuz hes super duper sweet and we just got together but idk im just not really into this relationship

He feels more like a friend, like a best mate that u can talk to abt whatever u want but hes not. Idk

@the-dumpster-fire-of-life advice?? 😭

Anyway this is my shit

#cupioromantic #demiromantic #i am confuzzled #boyfriend problems #lmfao #i feel like shit #i feel so bad #guilt #Spotify

[thereflagman]

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#dating advice #dating coach #dating #red flags #the red flag man #self love #romance #boyfriend problems #commitment issues #mr right #mr wrong

[austinsdemise]

I need genuine advice.

So my boyfriend of 4 months had been very distant as of lately. And me and my best friend(and some friends) have noticed this and my bestie is so pissed at him for treating me this way. She says that I 'should be treated right and you deserve better' Since my bf is a mutual friend of hers she's absolutely pissed at him for being this way. And it's pretty obvious now that he's only dating me to get closer to her. But there’s still apart of me that doesn’t want to upset him or even make him sad by dumping him. And he DID treat me well at first but we only snap maybe 3-4 times a day and I don’t have to internet hangout with him. Plus he hasn’t even taken me on a date yet :/

#relationship #relationship advice #help #please 😭 #boyfriend problems #struggling girlfriend

[old-fashioned-achibi-doll]

Why am I wrong when I react to your disrespect towards me? Why am I the one labeled as hysterical when I respond to your rudeness? Why am I the crazy one when my body reacts to your mocking? Why are my tears an issue when they're just a reaction to how you treat me?

#family problems #vent #bpd thoughts #adulthood problems #depression problems #depressão #ana & mia #bad decisions #boyfriend problems #WTF is wrong with you? #anger issues

[daintyera]

Well here it goes

My heart has been broken by the same person

I put my everything into

#boyfriend #boyfriend problems #heartbrokcnn #heartbreak #vent

[lonelyfatgirl]

he’ll stay with me if i lose weight

is it OK for someone to put conditions on your relationship?

my boyfriend told me he was leaving me because i’ve gained too much and i’m not doing anything to lose it.

but then he said he will stay with me if i promise to lose weight and show my intent—by changing my diet or starting to exercise.

am i the crazy one here? is it normal to give someone this kind of ultimatum?

#breakup #boyfriend problems #ex bf problems #being fat #fat #fat girls #fat girl problems

[chloeworships]

My son sent this to me. Why does this remind me of the dream with Kuzma. How the dog popped out the side of the video frame was exactly how we popped in but he was squinting his eyes suspiciously. I just cannot make this stuff up. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Someone does not play about you girl 😂

I AM DONE!!!! 🤣

#BoyfriendProblemzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

This is why I am single. I don’t want man problems. Until somebody’s son marries me, I am single as a Pringle. I have got to feel like the only girl girl in tha world 🎶🥰

#the dog and his real girlfriend lol 😂 #not for the fakes #not for the pretenders #boyfriend problems #when he loves you and not them 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 #HANIMALS #when you try to reassure Bae it was only a massage but he ain’t having it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 #he’s making sure nothing else happens 😂 #when he’s LOYAL to you and you only #and don’t have you out here looking like no fool for loving him #if he’s not claiming you then idk 🤷🏾‍♀️ #MALE’s are all the same from all species #A MAN PROTECTS WHAT HE LOVES #he doesn’t abandon her #not for the PR fake relationships 🙃

[v3nt1nng]

"não posso ficar contigo só por causa do teu potencial" meu filho você é codependente, não tem individualidade e quer uma mamãe pra cuidar de ti 24 horas por dia vai tomar no teu cu

#relationship problems #boyfriend problems #toxic relationship #toxic boyfriend

[caddy-crystal-queen]

And there he goes being shitty again over something so damn stupid, all because he fell for a dumb ass article...

They're saying apparently Christmas is discriminatory in Canada, at least that's what the title says. Well, I actually found the article and read it myself. It was about how it's not fair that some religious holidays get off work while other religions have to ask for their holidays off, which no they shouldn't have to ask. A religious holiday is a religious holiday. You don't have to be a part of the religion to just enjoy an extra day off. Like seriously, you could possibly get paid time off if they let all religious holidays off.

What is he even complaining about?! Gods...it's called reading comprehension and reasoning. I love him, but I swear he's not the brightest bulb in the box....

#might delete later #personal rant #boyfriend problems #yeah counseling is definitely in the cards if he wants me to move up there #caddy rants #religious holidays #christmas #easter

[lilac-multifandom-multishipper]

so last night my boyfriend and I were on a call after a really awesome date. and somehow the topic of fandoms came up. he said "there's nothing wrong with being a fan of something. but if you cosplay, you're on thin ice. and if you ship characters, you're way too far gone." and quite frankly, I have never heard that stance before in my life, so I asked what was wrong with shipping. and he just gave me this look like I had lost it.

I never really got a straight answer about it and we ended up having an argument because I said directly that I had never heard that before and he mentioned some names of guys at our school, most of which constantly belittle and make fun of my best friend. (she's not very popular, mostly because she draws fanart, is sheltered, and basically acts like your average Tumblr user. I live in the south and go to a religious private school, so this instantly makes her insane to most people I know.)

i wasn't going to take their opinions, so I told him to name some normal people, which I admittedly could have phrased better. anyways, he got upset because those people have been "nothing but nice to him" and calling his friends "not normal" was "super judgmental". my response was that my best friend had been nothing but nice and supportive to me and everyone he mentioned said she wasn't normal just because she's different than what they're used to. he didn't have much of a response to that.

anyways, it made me realize I had been right before and I was being too optimistic. I really can't find love at my school. not love that lasts, anyways. I love my boyfriend, I really do, but if we argued over this, there's no way I can ever tell him all the things I post about on here. and if I can be honest with virtual strangers out in Internetland, but not the guy I'm in love with, then...well, what's even the point?

thanks if you read this far, I know it was a lot. I just needed to type it up and ship it into the vast expanse of space that is tumblr.com.

#vent post #tw vent #vent #personal vent #venting #love problems #boyfriend problems #lgbtq #lgbt #queer #<<tagged for being 9/10 things I can't tell him or anyone else I know irl #besides my best friend ofc :) #hi iz #love ya iz #iz

[ashesthendust]

My boyfriend isn’t there yet. He makes me feel like I’ve got him dangling on a rope and there are scissors in his hand. I choose not to let people in my life feel that way. And I choose not to continue feeling that way with him—whether that means leaning back a bit or asking him for clarity or taking the scissors out of his hand.

October 1, 2022

#writeblr #journaling #boyfriend problems #this was one of the earliest red flags admittedly #but I ignored it because I loved him #that's what you do when you're twenty three and desperate to be in love #live and learn

[queerxd]

I am so mad im in a long distance relationship rn like i just want to give him all the hugs and kisses but no i fucking cant i just want to cuddle him but no we have to live 700 fucking miles apart little bitch

#long distance is killing me #relationship #bf #polyamory #polyamourous #boyfriend problems #i love him #so much #angry

[old-fashioned-achibi-doll]

He knows my limit and still crosses it, claiming it's just a joke. He says I don't know how to play around. He drives me crazy, makes me freak out, how is that a joke?

#this isnt fair #not a joke #vent #boyfriend problems #family problems #depresion #bpd #bpd vent #bpd thoughts #sadness #i'm not okay

[cottage-core-cunt]

maybe i'm sensitive or whatever, but i get very upset when my boyfriend compares my school to our Rival School. he effectively shits all over my college, for zero reason, aside from his personal preference. i go to a D1 school that is widely regarded as an elite place to be, and he constantly. CONSTANTLY. acts like it's a trash school and it feels like he doesn't even consider it an accomplishment that i got here.

not to mention, he didnt even apply to the Rival School because he didn't want to. like?? hello?? he goes to a smaller school now, which is fine, but it definitely isn't as prestigious as my college and it feels hypocritical of him to insult my school when his is way lower on the totem pole. i just want him to be proud of me.

#bo rambles #boyfriend problems

[corpsebridx]

My boyfriend is a bitch he won’t stop teasing me, putting my cup on the top shelf you son of you bitch

#boyfriend #boyfriend problems #love youuuu

[violent138]

Time traveller Dick Grayson from the future: "Oh wow, you guys are fighting Mr.Freeze right now, I kind of remember that actually. Where are you at by now?"

Tim, figuring there's no harm: "Uh, we are kind of stuck on his location, don't suppose you'd help out?"

Dick, who has completely forgotten: "Sorry, I think that'd mess with something or another. Just know that you do figure it out." pats Tim on the back

Tim: "Great, very helpful. Also, in your time, does Freeze ever stop?"

Dick: "Stop what?"

Tim: "Trying to defrost his wife? Honestly, at this point I'd have given up, I can't imagine anyone that's worth it like that.

Dick, mentally telling himself: *do not think about the clones right now, do not think about the clones right now--*

Dick: "Well let's just keep an open mind, huh?"

#Dick: love does.... crazy things to a person #Tim:??? #Dick: you got 99 problems but a boyfriend ain't one #*space time continuum implodes* #Dick Grayson #Tim Drake #Batbros #Batfamily #Batman #Dc comics