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risoris · 11 months
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thinking about Brave again (specifically how the movie begins and ends with Merida and Elinor playing together, as well as how when Merida has a flashback about the time she still has a good relationship with her mother, she goes all the way back to when she’s still a wee kid who gets to play with her wooden horse while being watched over by Elinor) and realizing that... holy shit, maybe Merida’s love language has been the act of play this entire time?
Act of play, like... something close to quality time, where there is an element of togetherness, but also not quite like it because it strictly revolves around the act of playing and all kinds of activities she views as fun OR letting her loved ones have their fun. 
I think we can see this in practice through her interactions with her father and her brothers. With Fergus, she is allowed to do all sorts of things she finds exciting like archery, sword-fighting (which we can see in the Cutting Class short), falconry, and general goofing around. In all of these instances, she is shown to enjoy herself and her father’s company—which in turn bleeds into a sense of favoritism from Merida’s side; it’s clear throughout the movie that she gets along better with Fergus than with Elinor. In the triplets’ case, it’s the other way around: she’s the one who keeps them entertained by telling stories (which can be seen during the dinner scene) and lets them have their fun by not getting in the way of their pranks (despite it being hinted that they sometimes listen to her, making Merida the one with the ability to stop them if she only say the word—which in turn implies that she probably find some of those pranks funny as well). When Merida is particularly close with a family member, she is shown to either 1) do activities she perceives as fun with them, or 2) let them have fun in their own way.
Compare this to how Elinor treats Merida: how she ignores Merida’s tales of her latest excursion (the dinner scene), how she does not join Merida and Fergus during their outings (i.e: the falconry scene), and how she restricts Merida’s general freedom to relax and just have fun by always hounding on her about Princess etiquettes and manners. If we take into account this headcanon that Merida views the act of play as a love language, then Elinor is basically depriving Merida of the only way to connect with her mother emotionally. 
(This is not to say that Elinor is an entirely bad parent. It’s clear that she does invest her time, care, and efforts into her daughter; an act that is motivated by both maternal love and political duties as a queen who has to educate her offspring into rulers. Not to mention the movie never shows her to be stingy with affectionate endearments toward Merida either. It just happens that Merida initially didn’t understand all of that as an act of love from her mother, and instead translates it as only Elinor being a controlling parent. This mother and daughter pair is just not speaking the same language.)  
This is also probably why the river scene—where Merida and her mother caught fish together and played around for the first time in (probably) years—is what prompted Merida to make this expression:
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It’s only after they genuinely had fun together that Merida has a fleeting thought to herself: that maybe this strained relationship she has with her mom is still salvageable after all. And what happened before this, again? What helped her come to this conclusion? Merida and her loved one, playing together!
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joepelling · 2 months
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joeyclaire · 27 days
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felt like braveposting today
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toriel-2 · 2 years
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girls we gotta stop scaredposting. we have to braveposting. i will give you a scooby snack
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banyanas · 4 months
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braveposting again but i do love that Desire Queen’s whole thing is that she’s a demon that surface-level hits on the emotional vampire/succubus associations when in reality she’s more of a knowledge-associated demon- she knows the desires of everyone and everything, what drives both people and historical events, so by that consequence she knows everything
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diggorypuff · 4 years
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Interesting Parallels - 6/?
Need I say more?
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shauta · 4 years
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braveposts in retaliation
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hoppslutsquad · 7 years
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Here’s My #BravePost
jopper is bad! nancy x jonathan is bad! stonathan isn’t great! 
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sagelotaredingco · 8 years
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Tomorrow's call time 0830, c'mon! Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through him who strengthens me. ESV Overly excited to praise, worship and be empowered. @victoryph - Victory group leaders, don't miss #Discipleship2016 #DareToBelieve #CHARGE #Fellowship #Brethren #SharedLives #PrayerWarriors #BravePost #BringItOn2016
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x0dangerousprincessx0 · 10 years
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It may relate to a few of you and I hope it opens the eyes to those who miss judge people they do not know. For those of you who judge, go right ahead because this is me, like it or not, I'm just writing my feelings. #feelings #falling #poem #deep #thoughts #me #dontjudge #openyoureyes #brave #bravepost #braveenoughtopost
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diggorypuff · 4 years
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Buddie Texts - Suggested by @evandiaz-buckley / @struttinglikeapotter
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diggorypuff · 4 years
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Buddie + Tumblr Text Posts 5/?
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Buddie Texts
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diggorypuff · 4 years
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...wait was he going to tell him...
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diggorypuff · 4 years
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Buddie + Tumblr Text Posts 6/?
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