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#but being rude makes me feel bad
sergle · 4 months
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perhaps it doesn't need to be that Deep, but some of y'all's relationship with age and youth truly stresses me out. you're doing this thing
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like nevermind that using reaction pics/gifs in place of a text response is not something that Olds Do, if it's becoming less common on tumblr, i think that's been in the past like. 2 - 4 years. nevermind that... you truly stress me out using Thirty Five as the old and out of touch age to make a joke about. oh my god girl... 35.... please!!! you don't need to be so scared of aging!!! 35 is young! the imaginary 35 year old mom being used for this joke is a Young Woman! my first instinct is to make jokes abt how I am, in fact, geriatric (which I like to do) but I gotta break character and be like. hey you guys don't Actually think that 30 is elderly, right. we're joking when we say we're old, right?? you aren't actually internalizing that. right??????
also I spent like 5 years curating my Fotos Folder and I've got so many good ones... so I am actually probably gonna keep using them when I AM old. I love these images
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factual-fantasy · 9 months
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I got 26 asks for ya’ll, sorry they’re a bit late!
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..Bruh. Where have you been for the last 4 months?? Scroll down on my blog for like 3 seconds. You’ll find dozens of posts talking about my FNAF AU. How I’ve spent weeks rewriting the timeline, how certain comics aren’t canon anymore, how I’m working on my Recap/Repair project WHICH MIND YOU, part 1 is the most recent post I’ve made.
Also I will give Gregory any story that I want, thank you very much.
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Hey, buddy. Listen, you’re up here at a 10 right now, I’m gonna need you to come down to at least a 4, okay?
Also I hate to burst your bubble, but If you want a faithful interpretation/version of Vanessa? You don’t want my blog.
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Ah, sorry. I don’t do commissions no.. Thank you though!
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AU comes first, movies later lol
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Awe, thank you! I did my best! :} Also I don’t have a jester Anon, feel free to take the title!
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Uhg. That’s really frustrating. But I actually heard word that he finally took them down. I never checked to confirm but its a nice thought. Also thanks for letting me know!
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@elegysonnet​
Thank you so much! Also I don’t think I’ve actually seen any Don Bluth movies.. or if I have I didn’t know they were made by him-
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@sunnysshanty
Thank you so much! Also nooo, sorry. Those game’s events don’t happen. I built my AU mostly on games that I myself have played/ones I know a lot about. <:/
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@readeren​
I haven’t actually thought about it too much. Just figured eventually they’d meet and hit it off-
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@jyalynn​
<XD I’ll do my best! Thank you for the reminder,
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@quillsinkwell​
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Awww, you’re too kind. Thank you so much!
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@mishishiwritings​
Holy cow, that far back?? Man, well, I apologize for the completely unhinged content you were subjected to- <XDDD
But also thank you so much! Hearing that I have such an old fan is really cool! And your patience and support for my project means the world! 
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@aberrant-winter​
Thank you! I’m so glad you like them! :DD
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aaaa thank you so much!!! Same to you! :DD
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@mynameisdoofthelizardandamlesbi​
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WOOOOOOOOOOOOO MAYHEMMMM
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@chickenmilk120​
Does being glued to the couch for 8 hours because of being in a constant state if dizziness count as a break? :D If so, back to work I go weee!!
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@cherrycreamfairy​
AAAAA that’s so cool! Having no dead kids in the story is really refreshing! (something I never thought I’d type-) Also I love their designs! Especially Foxy’s, seeing him so tall is different to me, but cool! XD 
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XD You can always count on me to jump fandoms at the perfect time! Also oh man, that’s a tough one. I’m really torn between Engineer and Soldier.
On one hand you have Engineer. He has so many things I love in a character. He’s a tough Texan that has a healthy dosage of southern hospitality. He has total dad vibes. I love the way he interacts with the other characters as well. Like in Expiration date, taking off his helmet to show some respect to his team as he gave them the grim news. Also being mostly gentle about how he worded the news as well. He spent what he thought was his last 3 days on Earth, helping Medic to try and find a cure, overall just working in his last hours to try and help his team. Even when it should have been pretty hopeless.. Also the way he bursts into the room, “Guys! Hey, Fellas! Listen! Its just bread that gets tumors! :DD” Tossing his arms over Soldier and Medics shoulders and smiling with them, UHG he’s so cool.
I also love all the headcannons people have made about his character. A lot of people, me included, like to think that engineer cooks breakfast for the team sometimes. Eggs, Bacon, pancakes, you name it. I also love the thought that after a rough battle, where they lost and the whole team is cranky and aching. Engie goes out and fires up the grill and makes everyone some good food as a pick me up. Burgers and hotdogs, shish kabobs and sandwiches, just MAN. Such a fun idea and such an awesome character. 
His design is also really fun to me. Overalls and googles, with a hard hat that’s slightly crooked. And of course his wicked gunslinger that’s kept under wraps. Not sure why he covers it up, its awesome! ALSO His dialogue in the game is a real hoot, I also like his GAME PLAY. Although I’m a pretty lousy Engineer myself, I love the idea of being able to support my team the way he does. People can fall back and be fully protected by the Engineer. A sentry to keep you safe, a dispenser to replenish your ammo and health. And a kind hearted man to pat you on the shoulder and say, “You alright son? Here, take a seat for a while. You can get back out there when yer ready. I’ll keep an eye on you till then.” like OUHG, so much fun. I absolutely adore everything about his character.
On the other hand, there’s Soldier. He is so unbelievingly stupid, so mind blowingly absurd, and so incredibly big hearted and ridiculous. His antics and overall hilarity have brought me to tears multiple times and never fail to make me smile.
I don’t think I have a super gushy, character analysis-y reason why I like him so much. He’s just really funny, his character is so fun and ridiculous and he always makes me laugh. So that’s why its so hard to pick between Engie and him-
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Sorry, I dumped that comic long ago.. but who knows? Maybe someday I’ll feel inspired and come back to it. My hyper fixations have been known to be quite unpredictable-
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I straightened up and got 3 water bottles, I hope you’re proud of me! :}
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Thank you so much!! :DDDD
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@jellycreamjammedart​
BIBI IS THAT YOU?? WHERE ARE YOUR CLOTHES-
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Oooo, that’s so interesting!
Meanwhile there’s me who has completely deleted her from my brain and refuses to acknowledge her existence- XDDD
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All I’m hoping for is that they make it scary.
I want little kids to come into this movie chanting “FNAF! FNAF! FNAF! :DD” And run out screaming and crying moments later.
FNAF at its core, is a disturbing story. With gruesome themes and horrible tragedies and disgusting people. It is not meant for kids. I feel like FNAF recently has been really dumbed down and kid-ified. Which makes me kind’a sad..
I tried not to let that rub off on my AU. It may be light hearted for now, but the truth about the past and the disturbing story of William will not be buried for long..
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Thank you for the reminder, I’ll do my best!
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Awe, thank you! Once my Recap/Repair is done I gotta get around to drawing some of them!
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kyouka-supremacy · 2 months
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#This is about the last thing I could have imagined happening to me but.#A girl just slid what pretty realistically is a love letter under my door and. I really don't know what to do about it#God. I like her a lot but I also really just love her as a friend??#I don't. I have no idea what to reply because on one hand if I said something like#“yeah every second we spend together is precious to me too I love you <3 ” I would probably. Definitely come across wrong#But at the same time I can't just reply coldly I don't want to be rude. I do enjoy the time we spend together.#I just feel that if I don't reply with the same love and dedication I will come off as rude and make her sad and I really don't want to#But also I'm like. 100% sure I'm not into her romantically#It's just. The way she talks to me in the letter makes me feel... Odd in the bad way.#She spent words of admiration on me I really feel like I can't own you know.#She seems to look up to me a lot and I don't think I should be looked up to at all.#“You're a wonderful‚ very strong‚ and intelligent person” HOW DO YOU EVEN REPLY TO THAT.#“Uh I disagree but you're entitled to your opinion”... ?#Thank you?#This is. Ugh. I'm really not fit for this kind of stuff.#I LOVE exploring characters being in love and putting them in awkward ridiculous situations that make them miserable.#I HATE to be in such situations#As if exams weren't enough. How do I deal with that#Posting this just in case anyone has genuine advice btw. How do you reject a girl you actually like a lot#And how should I even write her back. Because she said to and I'm the WORST at writing back#Sis this is stressing me off so much. I want to dig a hole and disappear in it. I'm not getting out of my room for the next six months.#(For context we live in the same students dorm)#random rambles#I'm so distressed right now this is the absolute worst.#Like I was pretty fine with where we were at but now I feel like I really don't want to spend time with her again for a long time.#Deleting this soon hopefully
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sysig · 4 months
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Haha, this Winterkov stuff is fun- where did all these other feelings come from (Patreon)
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towards-toramunda · 6 months
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Oop finding out people were upset about my random shit posting theories relating to Ashton and the luxon beacons is… interesting? Don’t get why you’re angry that I had a fan theory (that I said at the time was probably not true but is a cool concept to me) but go off I guess! Don’t know why you’re annoyed that I’m invested in this world and character and saw a possible connection and pointed it out but cool!
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walker-lister · 2 months
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I just have to remind myself sometimes that no matter what anyone else says, the way a piece of media makes me feel and the positive impact it has had on my queer identity is valid, and that tearing myself apart thinking I have to defend it or questioning my own place within queer communities is not at all important when compared to the almost tangible sense of 'rightness' that piece of media helped me to feel about myself.
#just something i've been pondering the last few days#kind of like no matter how much people debate or i suppose theoretically deconstruct media featuring queer stories#the most important thing is how it makes a queer person feel#and I do think it is of course a good thing to ensure queer stories are executed with respect and authenticity#but there's this grey area in fandom spaces in which people may have found rep from a 'unreliable' source i suppose#or something which is queerbaiting- sherlock springs to mind for example yet if people have been able to explore and nurture their own#queerness through that media does that therefore mean their experience is invalid? i don't think so#and my worry is the more we focus on theory the less we focus on emotion and therefore the actual queer experience itself#and sure theory can inform the queer experience and ensure the media is a 'healthy' site of queer identity formation and identity aid#but at the same time scorning or being rude to those who have found certain media an aid is not the right approach to be taking#especially as queer experiences are so wide ranging that one person's idea of 'good' representation is someone's else's of 'bad'#and that unless a piece of media is clearly offensive in its portrayal of queer experience there has to be some benefit of doubt#I think we're still in a period of progression in media espc tv where queer creators are coming to the fore of their own stories#and we've got to 'live and let live' a little about where people are finding sights of queer validation and joy#and perhaps this a naive and simplistic way of thinking but i think queer people can either recognise when something isn't the best rep#but was helpful for them anyway and therefore in a way confer 'ownership' of the media to themselves in how they engage#or there is variety in queer experiences represented in media so that perhaps not everyone finds a 'site' of rep but that does not#therefore invalidate it or make it 'bad' representation#this is just my opinion and it'd be hypocritical for me to not now mention this is only formed from my own queer experience lol#so i'm not trying to tell anyone how to feel or anything just something i'm pondering
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brittlebutch · 14 days
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experiencing a deeply autistic thought process of “I feel uncomfortable with how little i speak in social settings, I’m worried it makes me look Rude or Strange in a very bad way. I should come up with ways to make myself Talk More to fix this” and realizing the only solution for the problem I can think of is “Spend more time researching my more ‘socially conventional’ interests so that I can monologue about something at least once during a social encounter in order to appear more open” and having to acknowledge that “only talks about what they want to talk about” is generally considered a social blunder that most people find Deeply annoying in addition to rude and strange, so we haven’t solved anything at all
#N posts stuff#don’t take this observation as a criticism it ISNT but i have noticed that generally people irl in my age group / older#tend to talk Mostly in anecdotes about their relationships to other people (ie. coworkers friends spouses kids etc)#instead of anything like ‘interest topics’ — i don’t think this is Dumb or Flawed or anything i’m definitely not pulling the#‘NT people don’t even Have interests really’ card but i as an individual legitimately do not have anything in those topic pools to pull from#i don’t really leave my house i don’t have irl friends i don’t date etc etc etc like i just Legitimately don’t Have anything to offer#so i can make efforts to perform ‘active listening’ but that’s All i can offer to the group and i feel. a way about it#i don’t really feel a need/want to Make Friends but i also want coworkers to have a Generally Positive opinion of me and so i don’t want#to like. Completely divorce myself from any effort to appear engaged or interested in them does that make sense??#but it’s a frustrating dichotomy of like. if ‘not talking = Bad’ then ‘talking = Good’ BUT#‘the way You Specifically talk = bad’ so. there’s no way to win it. :(#like even if i could successfully create a cogent monologue about my opinions on puppet design or facts about millipedes or bill&ted movies#then i would Still leave feeling frustrated and upset with myself for being Rude and Strange and making a bad impression#UGHHHHH idk dude i don’t have a solution i’m Trying to make myself focus on the positive of#‘my two bosses took the time to thank me for showing up bc they seemed to appreciate the genuine Effort that went into that regardless of#how Successful i was in speaking there’ but instead all i can think about is how like. no one else really engaged with me#and that feels ambiguously Bad and like they might be uncomfortable about me and only get worse going forward’#i even specifically changed bags before i showed up in the hopes someone would ask and i would be able to talk about either bill and ted#or the fiber arts class i took where i designed the bag but no one asked :(#the best ‘autistic social advice’ book i found had a thing in there about how like. if you can’t be a social butterfly then instead#you should try being a Flower by using visual cues to prompt people to engage You in convo instead of forcing yourself to interject when#that’s basically impossible for you. it’s such good advice but unfortunately it’s like the only social skill under my belt and so like#when no one Asks i’m like ‘oh NO that was all i had going for me’ NOT fair
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fairytale-lights · 5 months
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I feel like people keep telling me that men don't have any capacity for making good decisions or being kind or having morals or being a decent person until they're at least 25. I don't think this is true or at least I don't want to believe it is but I don't know enough to say?
#and looking for an argument against this because i do not think i believe it#the age keeps getting pushed back but I've been hearing this my entire life. oh they just make bad decisions and they're immature#because they're boys. they're just like that.#i also feel like saying this excuses it?? the bad ones will see this and use it as an excuse not to put any effort into doing good#my mom says this to me if i ever have any sort of complaint against one. she said it when i was a kid and they'd bother me#that boys my age are just immature and that's just how they are. and now she's saying the same thing#I'm an adult. i don't feel like they really have an age excuse here. but now it's moved up to 25 apparently#they apparently can't have morals and intentionally be good to people until their brains are fully developed#i brought up what my mom says to my friend who's in a long term relationship recently and she laughed and agreed#she has a boyfriend she's been dating since high school and wants to marry. they're not 25 yet. and she agrees with this about him?#counterpoint: my sister's ex boyfriend was always very polite. and he's like 15 or something#he would open doors for her and apparently when his mom buys groceries he helps her bring them in unprompted#i think there were other things like this about him but i don't remember what#anyway I've been thinking about this. clearly because I've been hearing about it but also i guess because when i was in high school#i decided not to date until i was out at least. and now i am out. and I'm not really looking but i think about that sometimes#but what I'm hearing is that guys my age are all just rude and inconsiderate and give no thought to morality or kindness#which i don't feel like i can reasonably believe!#like there are people my age in relationships and getting married. being intentional about things and being adults and such#you'd think logically they can make good decisions and be good enough people for someone to want to marry them#i just don't feel like this can be right. but i don't know enough to disprove it 😂 it's very discouraging to hear though#thoughts? true or false? i do not personally know enough men to know this. i have no brothers or even really male friends#my post
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burgeaux · 7 months
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ok now that I'm in elpis I'll probably just post/react and shut off my phone immediately after more than ever to avoid spoilers and allusions and such
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feynavaley · 9 months
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I keep seeing people claiming things that straight-up contradict canon about America and Canada's dynamic, so I'm going to clarify a couple of points.
What's canon: Canada makes America cry after insulting him at length during an argument. Once. (The other time, we don't get to see America's reaction, even though we can certainly surmise he doesn't take it well.)
What's NOT canon: Canada constantly bullies (or even abuses!) America, treats him horribly and believes to be above him.
As I have already stressed, Canada makes America cry at most two times in canon.
Now, this obviously isn't okay and I'm not claiming Canada's actions were right. However, people just love to dismiss the context. First of all, this isn't Canada just insulting America out of nowhere without a justification, they're in the middle of arguments. Not to mention, both times, America is the one who starts insulting Canada. (This is another thing people conveniently never mention.) Then, Canada answers and, with the spirits running so high, he definitely goes too far. Even so, there is a context that, without justifying it, does explain why he lashed out so.
Moreover, Canada insulting America definitely isn't their everyday dynamic. They're depicted at ease around each other numerous times, doing activities and spending time together. All instances in which both of them are nice and friendly, clearly enjoying what they're doing. To make this even clearer, in most of their interactions, Canada shows no hostility towards America and is, instead, very kind to him.
Lastly, regarding the assumption that Canada feels superior to America... that one is explicitly denied in canon. Canada does have some issues with America's behaviour, this much is true. However, he believes himself to be overall inferior to America, not superior. He explicitly says so.
With all this, I'm not trying to claim that Canada is perfect or that he never does anything wrong. Just like every person, he has his limits and flaws and even though he's generally nice and accommodating, he can reach the breaking point when put under a lot of stress and then, make mistakes. But not being perfect all the time doesn't make him a bad person either. Not when that faulty behaviour is so different from his normal one.
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vermillioncrown · 7 months
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i was so sure my wine mom vampire boyfriend would have wanted to hang the 'damsel' out to dry lmao
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beetrootsoupdragon · 5 months
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hmmm.
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beingatoaster · 5 months
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DAWN OF THE FINAL DAY
(though better yet, the car is packed and I am leaving within the hour :D I originally thought I'd stay through lunch and do the bulk of my driving tomorrow, but Grandma thought "leaving Sunday" meant "Sunday morning" and frankly this week has been stressful enough that I didn't dispute her)
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varibean · 5 months
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Venting on tumblr always feels weird bc I like the catharsis of talking about my feelings without the shame and guilt of going to someone to talk about them bc I don’t wanna be someone who just bitches all the time. But at the same time venting on a public online space makes me feel self conscious of like, ppl thinking I’m ranting for attention idk bad brain hours
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kithj · 4 months
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why are people on this website so rude 😭 you can make like the most neutral innocent post but once it hits a certain threshold of notes you will constantly get rude and nasty comments in the tags. i need to stop making posts every time they start getting reblogged it stresses me out
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frostedmelone · 26 days
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There's so many people I've met on the internet through the years that are always so used to people being cruel or rude to them and when I'm nice they always say they love being around me but it just makes me so...... sad. Like everyone deserves someone who is genuinely kind to them and yeah joking around and being mean to your pals is fine when you respect boundaries but when it's a constant thing it just weirds me out. I love being nice to people. I love spreading kindness. What do you get from being a huge jackass to everyone, including people who you claim to be very close to? I dunno.
Everyone deserves to be loved by their friends!! It's one of my favorite things to make my friends smile and make them feel good about themselves. It feels like everyone is always so ready to put their friends down for a joke. I love lifting mine up!!! Maybe it's just me. But I am a lover at heart.
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