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hongjoongsmuse · 10 months
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hi dear! firstly it’s nice to see you back. i hope everything is fine now and you’re doing well!! i wanted to ask if could you do an mbti reading for san’s ideal type? like what kind of personality he’s attracted to? -mel 🍪
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june 5 2023.
hi mel 🍪 ! honestly as soon as i saw this reading, i felt like i had to do it lol. i also think it's a very unique request ! i'm actually not that knowledgeable on personality type databases - so please take this with a huge grain of salt.
disclaimer ! despite what some people may think, tarot is NOT a fixed fate, nor can it predict the future. tarot is merely just an act of guidance and outcomes are subject to change based on one’s actions. it can be taken into consideration when making choices, but it shouldn’t be taken as fact/evidence. results may vary from reader to reader depending on their own energies, intuitions, personal interpretations of the cards and the date/time the reading was conducted. if what i say is different from someone else’s, it doesn’t mean i’m right, but it doesn’t mean i’m wrong either. there’s no right or wrong until anything is confirmed.
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june 5 2023 ; no
; deck/s used !
the rider-waite tarot deck
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- ˏˋ before we begin ! ˊˎ-
SAN'S MBTI SOURCE CREDIT ; WANTEEZ EP.8 희대의 명작 탄생 예상합니다
san is an infp; however according to fan vote on personality-database.com, he is also associated with the isfp personality type.
of course, mbti has some mixed opinions on its validity. and due to this, people have different thoughts on what's compatible with what. due to a subjective opinion, i can't give a definitive answer.
so, i have decided to compile what majority of people have said across multiple sites and forums. since his confirmed mbti is infp (at this point in time) - i will look into that instead.
choi san, as an infp, might be most compatible with
other infps
some other intuitive/intuitive-feeling types (infj, enfp, enfj)
esfj
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- ˏˋ the rider-waite ! ˊˎ-
THE HIGH PRIESTESS, THE MOON, THE SUN, KING OF SWORDS, KNIGHT OF SWORDS, KING OF CUPS, KNIGHT OF PENTACLES, 9 OF PENTACLES
intuitive
mysterious
philosophical
insightful
sensual (aura)
empathetic
a bit weird
creative
even though kings are commonly seen as extj types, we need to take their general meanings into account
so i believe they could be intuitive-feeling, and more introverted
but capable of being outgoing
and can be comfortable in social situations
maybe if they know the people around them?
overall, optimistic and idealistic - but can remain realistic, logical and objective when they need to be
mature
confident self assuring
loyal
FROM THE TAROT, SAN MIGHT BE DRAWN TO ;
infp(-a)
infj
enfp, enfj and esfj
arguably, an entp (if they care about the person)
please keep in mind, i'm not an expert on personality types. this is also a subjective opinion, and if you disagree that's totally okay too. thank you for your request once again mel 🍪, it was actually a pretty fun and unique challenge.
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crescencestudio · 11 months
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Hello there! It is me, again. I never really know how to start asks, aha.
During my first play through, I at first got attached to Fenir and Kuna’a(surprise surprise, the two probably most popular characters), but during my other ones where I unlocked all but the two Faes’ dates, I actually found myself really liking Kayn? Which really surprised me for some reason. Usually, I don’t get attached to the flirtier LIs, but I have apparently gotten attached to Kayn.
What also helped me get attached to Kayn was your tumblr! One, was when an anon asked what the LI’s mbti would be, and you said Kayn would be an ENFP, which surprised me a little at first, but then it made a lot more sense. The other was the LI’s reaction to puns and how Kayn would make even worse ones back.
For the MBTI, I’m actually an INFP, so we’re rather similar in that aspect. For puns, ooooh boy. I freaking love puns. And I feel like we’d both just fuel each other’s fire in making the cringiest puns making everyone around us suffer while we’re both probably on the floor laughing.
My favorite thing about the potential dynamic though is just how oblivious I am. You see an oblivious character and think “There is no way anyone is that oblivious.” It’s me. I’m that character. But only towards how others perceive me. I’m quite perceptive of all but that.
Kayn frequently using pet names(darling, dear, love), reminds me so much of this one time a friend who had a crush on me started calling me them and I still didn’t get the hint(I did think it was kinda weird that they started out of nowhere though). I just think that that is so funny.
Also, I’m glad you liked my rambling and thoughts on how I interpreted the characters with the VA’s voices! I’m rather nervous when I send long/longer asks cause of that not so little thing called anxiety. I also don’t frequently send things off of anon because of anxiety, but I wanted to get an notif for when you decide to reply/answer
Ah, anyways. I think that’s all for this ask? You’re doing amazing, and I hope to see Alaris grow! Remember to hydrate and what not!
Hi again!
I’m laughing because Fenir and Kuna’a indeed are the two most popular LMAO. BUT I’m glad to hear about the Kayn love!!!!! I actually thought Kayn would be more popular going into the game’s release, so I was surprised Kuna’a was the most popular with Fenir and not Kayn.
Kayn is a really fun and playful partner, which I think gets overshadowed by their flirtiness. But I’m glad to hear even tho they’re not typically your type, you are still attached to them! Flirty types can be hard to write, I think—I’ve noticed they’re a hit or miss in the VN community. Some people love the trope and some ppl hate it.
I personally think flirting can be fun (not that I’m a very flirty person myself lmao)!! It doesn’t have to be a bunch of sexual jokes/innuendos; it can also be cheesy pick up lines, witty banter, corny compliments, etc., and I hope that comes through with Kayn <3
Also, fun fact but your inner two MBTI letters (e.g., NF) are basically very core to you and how you process the world. The outer two (e.g., IJ) are more behavioral. But basically, if your two inner MBTI letters are the same as someone else’s, you will probably get along well! For legal purposes, this is not professional counseling advice.
Thank you again for the ask and sweet message! I have my water next to me as I answer this hehe.
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nyx-sagau-dreams · 1 year
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Hi there I go by Voidless! (She/They, albeit I'm fine with whatever). Welcome to the SAGAU space, I hope you can find some happiness here. Probably monoamorous and would prefer guys for this ask (with the exception of Childe)
To put it bluntly: I’m a child at heart, and fairly observant. It's not a challenge to figure out what someone’s feeling or thinking, their motives ect.
● I tend to be forthright with my emotions
● ENFP
● I like sharing bits of knowledge and fun anecdotes!
● Can be overly enthusiastic when socializing
● I’ve also gotten insecure, and assumed others don't like/distrust me without basis, proceeding to form an image in mind that's not true to who they really are. At the same time though it's really hard for me to judge a person for their past or secrets, I like to think I've seen it all
● From the outside, I’ve been described as being like Zhongli (Serious, goes on tangents and socially awkward). Very much enjoy flirty folk though, they make me feel loved
●Likes: museums, cool rocks, having a good laugh, travelling, anemo and electro slimes, civilizations of antiquity, and shopping
Hobbies: Anything under the sun! I sincerely wish I could live forever to do everything. I love to sing and tell stories and invoke the imagination. Also write and enjoy astronomy!
● I'm not unique, but I really do fear death. I can't live just to die. I still have plenty I want to experience and not enough time. Isolation is also terrifying, just being alone with your thoughts forever. But the scariest thing has to be dandelion leaves. Yeah.. I really don’t know either.
As for a scenario: How about recounting eachothers life stories. It'd be a moment of trust, relying on one another letting the wind take care of our burdens
Thank you so much for asking!
I have matched you with: Venti!
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Venti can also be childish yet observant. He loves music, and is also afraid of death. And, as an Archon, he is far less likely to die than almost anyone else.
You said that you enjoy flirty people, and I think, in the right situations, Venti can be a HUGE flirt.
Venti is a very reassuring person, and I feel like even if he's having to keep secrets, he'd assure you that they won't come between you.
He's very physically affectionate. Venti tells a lot of stories through songs, and I'm sure he would tell you more and more jokes just to hear your laugh.
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"... and so that's how I ended up in Mondstadt," you finished, waving your hand dramatically at the sky. You turned your head to Venti, who was laying on the ground next to you. "And the rest is history."
Venti snorted. "Not yet, but someday it will be."
"Okay fine, someday. But what about you?"
Venti laughed a quiet, solemn laugh. "My life is a bit hard to sum up, sweet songbird. Let me see." He raised his fingers off and started counting off on them. "I was born, helped in a rebellion when I was pretty young, lost a friend..." He went on for quite some time. "And then there was that whole deal with Dvalin and the traveler. That was a rough time."
You giggled. "You sound a thousand years old," you teased, fully aware as to why.
"Hmm, I can't imagine what reason that might be for."
A peaceful silence fell between the two of you. Venti laced his fingers with yours. "Should you ever feel afraid or worried, love. I'll be here."
You squeezed his hand. "And I will be here for you," you replied, free hand brushing on the glowing teal tattoo on your occupied wrist.
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(I'm sorry if the scenario is really short, I'm not used to writing for Venti 😅)
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a-nice-egg-offering · 7 months
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The way that Dennis and Dee are so similar and yet have nearly complete opposite personality types is so interesting and important to the fabric of the show no one else is an mbti/psychology buff like me so u probably don’t care but I’m gonna talk about it anyway. So Dennis is an ENTJ (if you break that down in the most basic of ways that’s extroverted, intuitive, thinking, judging but it’s actually a lot more complicated than that and I’m not going to go into it rn but u get the general gist) and Dee is an ESFP (Extroverted, sensing, feeling, perceiving) now in compatibility terms just with how you get along with the people in your life, the best matches are people with opposite first and last letters but the same middle two letters or opposite all letters but the same second letter so based on this Dennis and Dee couldn’t be more opposite unless one of them was an introverted type right so in theory they should clash in every way but here is when it’s nature vs nurture because they have so many of the same characteristics it seems impossible for their types to be so different and yet they are. Because your personality type is made up of your brain functions right and you can be one type while still having an overactive certain function that doesn’t technically align with your type so the way Dennis and Dee have influenced each other despite being such different types is very interesting in the whole outline of their psychology. Another interesting point is that Dennis and charlie are the only intuitive types in the group (ENTJ & ENFP) (Frank is ESTP) and also a pairing that seems to understand each other, charlie is certainly the person Dennis has the most compassion for and I find this super interesting because intuitive types generally don’t feel understood by sensor types and vice versa also since Dennis is an ENTJ and therefore the rarest type this also adds to the feeling of no one in the group truly understanding him and it’s bizarre bc I mean Dennis and Dee are twins they grew up together and tho Dee understands Dennis better than anyone else does there is still a rift between them where she is bad at intuitively feeling what’s going on with him at any given time possibly because she’s a sensor and that’s not naturally how she’s wired. Dennis on the other hand understands the gang intuitively to the point where it’s boring for him because they never surprise him - a reason why the RPG moment was so special and soft because he truly hadn’t been expecting it. This is what Dennis craves and values in the people around him - being able to surprise him. Being an INFJ myself (an equally intuitive type) I feel much the same way and also relate to him in the way that all my friends at school were sensors so though I enjoyed their company I never really felt like anyone truly understood me. I think that can be so frustrating for Dennis in regards to Dee sometimes too because she’s supposed to be his other half and he can read her so well yet she keeps missing the mark with his needs. It was interesting that in DTAMHD the Dee in his fantasy was on his side, knew how he’d react to something the gang did and actively tried to stop them from upsetting him because that’s what he wishes he had from her in reality. I don’t even really know what point I’m trying to make here these are just some thoughts and me finding a way to bring my two special interests together lol. Also just an extra little note Dee and macs types are very similar (ESFP & ESFJ) and yet they can’t stand each other which I find quite funny because as we know the gang is always offended by any kind of mirror so the fact Dee and Mac are so similar is also probably the reason they hate each other so much.
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rainytypology · 10 months
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you can’t type idols because a lot of them are giving personas by their companies. you say rm is “careful with his words as to not offend others” but as an INFJ and someone who’s been a fan of bts for years i can say this is the farthest thing from the truth and that he’s generally out of touch and tone deaf when it comes to other people’s feelings. bts also took an MBTI quiz during one of the most recent run bts episodes (not 16 personalities, but the official mbti test using functions). rm got ENFP in that episode which is basically what he is. even if you wanted to categorize him as an INXJ type which he’s not, he’s definitely not introverted in any way neither does he exhibit any J tendencies. the closest INFJ in bts is probably hobi, because aside from the whole “sunshine” persona if you listen to what others who have worked with bts have said about him, what other members say about him, and what he’s said about himself (especially in those Disney+ promo interview he did) then you’ll know. he himself said he’s quiet when he’s by himself and he says his parents worry about that too, plus in group settings he always listens while everyone else talks, he’s considers himself a sponge and soaks in other people adapting to their thoughts and feels, he’s a stickler for details and organization, and a complete perfectionist. hobi also isn’t the stereotypical ESFJ that a lot of people would have you believe. so if you’re going to type people then do a better job than surface level observations.
Yes I'm well aware most idols have a persona and I try my best to look past their set image by looking at interviews, watching the shows they're on, their personal content, reading about other's perspectives on them etc. So no I do not only have surface level observations, I actually do try to dig deeper into them. I only have short descriptions for my post (I'm sure you're referring to my recent post of the list I made) as I didn't want to make the post too long. If you look through my blog, I actually have longer analysis posts for idols, so I didn't see the point of going more in depth in that post.
Here is my bts mbti post with brief explanations. I don't have individual ones for them yet, which will have more details. You can see the other posts I've made here.
And yes I did watch that ep where they took the MBTI test... I'm pretty sure it was still 16personalities or something similar to it bc I did not see them discuss cognitive functions in the videos. The test typed Jungkook as an INTP and Suga as an ISTP. Do you really think Jungkook is an Ne user and Suga is a Ti dom with aux Se? I don't see Ne usage with Jungkook, the same with Ti and Suga. Suga uses Se, but he is not comfortable with it enough to have it as his aux; he's always had much better use of Ni and Te, hence INTJ.
Hobi is not an INFJ and your explanation for him being the closest to it is vague and can apply to any type honestly. ESFJs can be quiet and observant...It's very Fe to watch the reactions and emotions of others and the environment. Adapting to their feelings and thoughts is very Fe. That is why I think he is a dom Fe user. I also don't see him use Ni...his perfectionism stems from Si, along with his need for organization and structure. It's also why he's very detail oriented. Ni does not bother with the details or at the least is not as attentive as Si. Intuitive perceiving functions are generally more focused on the big picture. Hobi is pretty good with his tertiary Ne, it's prominent in his creative process compared to Ni doms Suga and RM (yes I'm still going with INFJ. I know there's a huge debate between ENFP and INFJ with him though).
Also I'm not an expert in MBTI, it's just something I've always been really interested in. I happen to like kpop as well and noticed the misconception of MBTI within it and decided to make this blog. It's mainly more for my entertainment and to learn more. I know I will not be accurate 100% and state that in my posts that they're subject to change, but I know for sure I am likely more correct than 16personalities lol. Honestly you can't really type anyone - only people can type themselves accurately.
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mbti-notes · 1 year
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Anon wrote: Hey, I really like your blog, thank you so much for your hard work!! I need help with my type, I want your opinion. I want to know my type so I can learn more about myself and really understand me in a deeper way. I suspect I’m ENFJ or INFJ or ENFP or INTJ. I know for sure I’m N.
I apologize in advance for the length of this message. I hope you don’t repeat yourself in your responses. I tried to search for this in your blog but I never really understood the functions very well, I guess it’s my fault because all of this is hard sometimes, trying to type myself I mean.
Important data: I suffered from depression and severe verbal bullying for years, and consequential self-loathing, I had therapy and still have but I’m way better now. I can say I’m healed so my functions developed in some way or another and this might be a clue to finding them in specific. My parents are very Se-Ti (I think, I’m 97% sure of it) and I’m an only child who was very influenced by them in the past.
I will explore each function below.
ENFP:
Ne – I constantly make up stories inside my head, I like writing novels (although I don’t write as much as I imagine it), I like learning new subjects that are outside of my reality, example: history, psychology, philosophy, learning Chinese language and Chinese history when I’m European, I also explore world religions even if I don’t adhere to it, I like learning just for the sake of learning. I want to explore the world, going everywhere and I am curious about how to change the world for the better, I prefer thinking about world-size issues like politics than every-day struggles like taxes. – this is constantly throughout my whole life.
Fi – I presume this function is about honoring our emotions and feelings. I am much better now that I learned that I need to put myself first before everyone else so I can really help them and also to make sure they don’t abuse my generosity. – I learned this lesson after a very bad experience (a year ago) when people disrespected me because I also didn’t respect myself because of bullying but I finally learned that I need to do want I like beforehand.
Te – I want authority to like me and to realize I’m special, that I’m responsible and that I follow the rules (even though I don't always like rule), basically I want to be the good student. At school I wanted the teacher to like me and to say I was his/her better student even thought I wasn’t A+ but B- but this only happened at the teacher no one liked (if they were good teachers).
I also like when older people give me reason, example my parents, teachers, boss, older people in general – I want to be seen as organized and polished and responsible. I also like to make my opinions after gathering data because I want arguments to back-up my argument, I don’t feel comfortable just having an opinion or a decision without someone giving me reason. I want to be a leader (even though the consequences of it can scare me), I do want to me remembered forever for doing something no one else has done for the benefit of humanity.
I also get very angry when I give my friend the solution to her problem and she still keeps talking about it when I already gave her my advice, it’s very annoying, it's like these people prefer just having problems and complain rather than solve it as much as you can and move on. But this is just with some friends. I also have another friend which annoys me a lot because she doesn’t obey me (my advices for her own good) – it can also make me feel as if my opinion is irrelevant but this is way less common nowadays (because I don’t speak to her everyday), she’s very stubborn and that annoys me so much.
I hate when people tell me what to do but I love telling people want to do lol. – this is constantly throughout my whole life. HOWEVER wanting to me tuff all the time is tiring, I used to not want to cry and to feel things (society told me I should always "suck it up" and not feeling anything sad and we all know that's not healthy). I know now I need to cry if the body wants it, if I feel sad but I always cry in private. I try to never put myself in public vulnerable positions.
Si – this is not inf in my opinion because I am responsible, I take valuable lessons from my past and I don’t like taking as much risks as Ne-doms use to (this is constantly throughout my whole life). I do like doing new things, I have that hunger more now that I’m more independent now (I have a job and a car) so I can go anywhere I do the things I want to do but I don’t think everything that has over years of experience should be put to death. I do like some old approaches once in a while and I do value security. // however, when I was in depression I just got scared about the world and the people around me, I didn’t leave my house and I thought that no matter what happened I never had hope for getting something good out of anything. I was very victim-mentality at the time even though I wasn’t complaining out loud, it was more from me to me.
INFJ:
Ni – same as Ne – I like planning (sometimes), I want to do something with my life that people will remember me decades after I’m gone and I do want to make the world a better place.
Fe – I tend to put people above me (but not always). When they talk about something that I don’t find amusing, I don’t tell them in their face, I keep smiling because I hate conflict and criticizing someone’s tastes is not correct. I just criticize when they do something wrong (Te/Ti) but because I want to help them, but I only get verbally angry with close people. With people I don’t know very well, I tend to smile and agreeing because I prefer this way. Many things in my life is made for the benefit of others I guess: I want to be seen as pretty, competent, intelligent, skinny, sexy.
I do love making friends and having a good time, just telling whatever comes to my mind when I’m in the flow of fun in a great conversation rather than thinking how saying X or Y will make them betray me. I just like having friends and talking about everything I like with them. My friends have different tastes of mine, I say I don’t like because of X but I’m not sincere, if I was I would say “why do you like that? Why do think like that? That’s dumb!” I don’t do that because it’s not okay.
I also don’t wanna be special (unless I’m better than everyone else) but stuff like “I suffered bullying so I’m more important than you” is never my thing, I just want to be like everyone else in that regard but I do like being better than others, more extroverted, more intelligent, more pretty – it doesn’t always happen but I’m describing my thought pattern. I also know it’s not fair to think like this but I don’t take advantage of it.
Ti – same argument as Te. + I have become more independent lately and I want that. I hate being contrived by anything (telling my parents where I’m going when I’m going out, submitting myself to do things I don’t want to because of society’s pressure’s - example “you have to get married and have kids everyone else is doing” I hate it, the “everyone else is doing so you must too” I hate so much and it’s stupid because I’m not everyone else, I’m a person. I prefer when people follow me and not the other way around, not that I’ve influenced people, I wish I could, I wish I could also manipulate them so they can follow my advice for their own sake for once. (I do know that being manipulative is not a good thing to do).
Se – when I’m bored and nothing much is happening that is new, I tend to “extrapolate” and “do something crazy” which involves buying books or clothes or going to the mall and drink some coffee. I also eat candy a lot more lately because it’s so delicious and I got a severe healthy diet for a year and after Christmas I just got into candy a lot. I guess it’s the most rebel thing I do, lol.
ENFJ:
Fe – same argument as Fe in INFJ
Ni – same argument as Ni in INFJ
Se – same argument as Se in INFJ
Ti – I used to really put myself down to other people. The worst experience I had in my life as when everyone were putting me down, making me feel like shit because of mistakes I’ve made, calling me arrogant and selfish, I got so hurt because I really hate disappointing people and after bullying I still have that scar a little bit, every time I did something and I couldn’t help someone, I was afraid I was hurting the person or disappointing them. // I also thought for years I didn’t reserve to be loved because “everyone hated me at school, so they must be right because they all agree with each other” I thought. I know now that there’s nothing wrong with me and that I deserve to be loved for who I am.
INTJ
Ni – same argument as Ni in INFJ
Te – same argument as Te in INFP
Fi - same argument as Fi in INFP
Se – same argument as Se in INFJ
Function stack information:
I do get loop sometimes, I suspect the 3rd is a T function because I valued competence instead of my desires and it gave me a fake optimism/defense mechanism about myself. I did got so much better after honoring what I want. So I suspect the F is 2nd because the 1st must be N. the order would be N F T S which leaves ENFP and INFJ. What do you think? Did any of this made sense to you?
Also important:
1) I imagine I have a boyfriend for years now but in the past I always thought that it was never going to become reality because I hated myself cuz of bullying (I thought I was stupid and ugly) but now my imaginary boyfriend comforts me when I feel sad and I know he's going to come to me and I know I deserve to be loved by him and that he loves me unconditionally for who I am.
My boyfriend is very sweet and kind to me because of the result that I didn't feel enough love in my childhood - my parents are very action oriented which is fine but I need those words of affirmation and physical touch literally like a baby, I feel so safe in his arms like I am his baby and he pampers me and takes care of me and always says sweet things example "I love you so much my love I'm so proud of you, you are my baby sweet love and I love you so much."
I presume this is Ne or just a defense mechanism because I want a boyfriend now but I don't have it (for now). I do feel an urge to be intimate with him because I feel like life without love is boring, I think a lot about love and how love makes me feel loved and safe.
I avoid watching sensitive scenes in movies like violence and hate because I tend to think about it, I absorb it and I know that's not gonna be good for me, because I get pessimistic and afraid that's going to happen in the future so I'm just going to try to be positive and thinking (or convincing me) that I'm safe by God and everything will be good and happy in my life.
I want my boyfriend to be a specific way (ethnicity) and have a specific personality (affectionate, kind, supportive) because I have my type, everyone has a type - maybe this is Ni?
I used to be obsessed with being in a relationship (even though I still never had one) and I used to had shame for being single since birth but after putting myself first and honoring my beliefs and who I am (and also knowing that it’s just life’s circumstances) I do not care anymore honestly. I also only go to this imaginary boyfriend when I’m sad and I need emotional comfort or when I miss thinking about him because he's such a breath of fresh air to me, no show me results, no suck it up, just a healthy comfort zone where I can be a little baby (not literally) and be loved by him.
2) I do get afraid about death, i think about that a lot, what if there's nothing after death? What if there's no heaven? I tried Buddhism for a year because I wanted to feel part of something bigger than myself and Buddhism really did help me a lot, meditation and mindfulness made me stop thinking about the ruminating thought and made me relax and enjoy the present moment. However Buddhism is very identity-erasure to me (the part of the Non-Self) and doesn't believe in a creator God, which I deeply do inside of my heart. I do understand we can't put our identity in our beauty or money or body because that's not permanent forever but I don't see a problem in loving our personality and body and being proud of becoming who we want to be - high Fi?
3) For the function stack, I do understand if I'm ENFP except I think I'm too risk-averse for being inf Si. I do get the hunger for new things, doing new things and meeting new people, but I also like to recover in private and I do identify more with the introvert descriptions than the extrovert ones but this can be misleading because of my past bullying. I have been a lot better in the past months and I do prefer to recover in private although I am very curious about going out with friends but it's not a big hunger. I have a bigger hunger for buying things I like. Introvert means INFJ or INFP and I think I'm none because
1) inf Se is strange (I do get the urge to do something new when I'm bored usually is eating too much candy or buying books but the whole Beth Harmon-let's-get-crazy never happened to me, never got drunk or lost my responsibilities. The craziest thing I've done was going to bed at 4am after planning novels inside my head and listening to music lol)
2) Inf Te is probably not it because I never put myself above anyone else in a unhealthy way (like unhealthy Fi would), and after my point in Te in ENFP I do think I'm not inf Te because I do value how I'm praised by others in terms of competence).
As you can see I'm very confused. I apologize again the length of this. Thank you so much for your time. Keep up the good work.
I wanted to say something more that I forgot. I'm 25. My parents are pretty sure Te and Si doms (I put it the other way around, my mistake sorry) and they were unhealthy types at the time of my upbringing I'm sure of it: very easily angry and not toughy-feely, they were when I was a baby I presume but after that it was gone. I felt a huge necessity for expressing love in this manner, hence the whole imaginary sweet boyfriend thing I guess.
I hope it's okay to send a 2nd message, I apologize for the inconvenience. There's more text mistakes but I presume it's understandable my point of view. Also I'm not a native-english speaker, so I apologize any English problem. Thank you so much, have a nice day.
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For INTJ, you said "the same as INFP" but that was not one of the types you were comparing, so I'm forced to assume you meant ENFP. Your analysis of ENFJ and INTJ functions shouldn't be the same as the other types. Functions operate very differently in different positions of the stack, therefore, e.g., auxiliary Fe cannot stand in for dominant Fe, and lower Te cannot stand in for higher Te.
If you are ENFP, your negative experiences with depression and bullying have presented serious obstacles to your function development. I don't think you are fully aware of how deeply tertiary loop and inferior grip have infiltrated your mind, attitude, and worldview. Long term problems with loop and grip during childhood and adolescence will impede healthy growth and expression of the dominant function. This may be enough to explain why you are not as confident, adventurous, and impactful as healthier Ne doms.
The instructions for submitting a type assessment require you to respond to every point in the Function Theory Guide. You didn't do this, so your function descriptions aren't detailed enough. If you don't provide exactly the information I asked for, I can't do a thorough type analysis. All I can say is: INTJ is highly unlikely because none of the functions fit. INFJ is doubtful because you don't seem to have any deep grasp of dominant Ni. ENFJ is possible, but I can't do the analysis since you didn't provide the information. ENFP is a better fit than INFJ. Although ENFP is a decent fit, I am unable to draw a firm conclusion because there isn't enough information for me to definitively rule out every other possibility.
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shimenawas · 2 years
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HELLO AINTOT CONGRATS AKING ANAKINS🤩⁉️
as for the match up event! fandom is genshin ofc ;)) my mbti is enfp, sun sign is libra, then moon sign is aries and ascendant is pisces. my enneagram is 7w6. i dont think i have a hobby though but i do enjoy reading (fictional stories only hehe) and probably writing too but like writer's block is with me rn💔💔💔 i wanna learn how to draw too! lalo na water color or painting! i used to crochet but not anymore since i dont have yarns el oh el im still a beginner btw
i am a read >>> watch type of person. i dont watch movies or like im just not interested in watching bc its probably i have a short attention span? tbh idk when's the last time i watched a movie. i am a night owl >>> early bird. i hate waking up lalo na sa mornings (f2f is coming, gonna cry) i am also a vanilla flavor >>> chocolate flavor person. idk but even though vanilla is plain i eat it up everytime. but cookies n cream is top tier. no one can change my mind.
i am interested in psychology or anything that revolves around personality (psych is probably my course in college). idk how to describe my self but i am more of a humss girl than stem girl bc math and science is boo👎👎👎 (dont come at me, im just bad at it)
im not really a hard worker or anything. more so, i am probably lazy and a procrastinator. i do everything the last minute. i am the type of person who chill first before doing things. i go with the flow and try to be friendly, kind and nice at all times. i am probably a ppl pleaser (but i wont admit that) bc i dont like it when ppl feel upset bc of me or they just don't like me. i am mostly passive agressive. idk how to be direct. i cant confront ppl and i most likely keep my thoughts to myself bc others might disagree or criticize me or i might hurt them unintentionally like i said i dont like ppl hating me. i feel satisfied and happy whenever i help someone :DD
i am an extrovert shy di lang halata. i can be the loudest, bubbly and chaotic person in the room but also the most awkward and shyest. i adjust accordingly to the atmosphere or mood of the room.
as for the emotional or personal something. i am an idk person like?? im not really mentally ill or depressed or sad i think and i am not that super duper happy either. im just fine...? idk if you get me but that's it. i am just okay. im just simply existing is all i know lol pls ignore this idk too
as you may know ain, i have a hard time opening up my feelings too. i prefer to be alone and shut my world than to solve a conflict together bc like i just cant and that's not good </33
i think thats all? it's pretty long na im sorry huhu and idk what else to say bc i am confused abt myself too. congrats again ain my ex-child! wishing more milestone to you beh! lablab (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ
pls match me up with someone that im compatible with and not with someone i love huhu iykyk ;) i mean pwede din naman if sa tingin mo compatible!
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Hey how have you been doing? I won't bother asking how you feel after what happened, I'm sorry if it felt like I was putting my work first before you.
My first priorities may look like it's my job but it's you! though it doesn't seem that way, you're more important to me than anything else.
I'm sorry I made you feel that way all those days ago and remained completely clueless as to why you were acting so differently, I'm sorry okay?
A letter like this isn't the best way to apologize so I hope you and me could talk something out sometime soon?
thoma,
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funkymbtifiction · 2 years
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hi charity! ive been pretty certain im an enfp for a while, but now ive started thinking about infp. could you give me some thoughts on this info about myself?? sorry for how long this is, i understand if you don't have the time or interest!
i mirror or adapt to the energy of the people around me. i cant really help it. i can be extremely energetic, sweet and bubbly around one person and blunt and dry around someone else.
im bad with details, eg. ill skip proof reading or editing because the process is so tedious.
i find it SO hard to type myself because when i read a description, i cant relate to anything cause i dont know how i act and i cant remember any examples. usually i can convince myself that i act a certain way, and then identify with that type
i have a horrible memory. i forget about my responsibilities, and often ill go on youtube to look up soentjing and then get distracted by something else and forget what i was there for. i also couldn’t remember when my classes were even though i’ve had the same classrooms for 7 months.
I usually do not have very strong opinions and sometimes i dont even have any - a lot of the time i dont know how to feel about things, or i will easily get swayed by outer opinions, for example, my parents are making me attend an art class. Im initially uninterested but whats the harm in learning a new skill, and i shouldnt miss out on any opportunities, right? So i attend the class and i dont like it. I tell my parents i dont like it, but they say “but its so important for you to have fundamental art skills!” and my opinion about it changes, and i continue attending the class. Or maybe my parents will ask me how i feel about it, and i can only say “i dont know”, because in my head im going: it wasnt that fun, but maybe it will be more fun next time! And plus, its important for me to pick up these skills, so i should attend! but i also dont want to go, so im conflicted and cant say anything. but these thoughts dont go clearly through my head, its all very muffled and confusing, so i cant say them out loud.
but then again, i have very strong passions and goals and dreams! and i know what kind of movies i like and stuff and i usually like to watch similar kinds of movies of genres that i like.
and on that note, i have pretty big drrams of getting famous LOL and i also have very high expectations, and i can get very disappointed if they arent met.
i feel that i don’t look back on the past often, i am usually looking towards the future.
but i also feel like i don’t “daydream” as much as intuitives are supposed to. i definitely do, but i feel like i don’t do it that much?? actually i’m not so sure anymore i’m confusing myself LOL actually i think my brain is just dead all the time but when i do daydream it feels very real
im very disorganised, i cannot keep things tidy for the life of me
sometimes i will go into phases where i wont be lazy or disprganised but it doesnt last for very long
i can be hard working with things i like, for example i had a period where i was waking up at 5am before school every morning to make videos, but ive fallen out of my routine cause ive lost sight of my goal.
hi charity! ive been pretty certain im an enfp for a while, but now ive started thinking about infp. could you give me some thoughts on this info about myself?? sorry for how long this is, i understand if you don't have the time or interest!
i mirror or adapt to the energy of the people around me. i cant really help it. i can be extremely energetic, sweet and bubbly around one person and blunt and dry around someone else. <- this rules out Fi-dom. IFPs don't do this, since they are not attuned to other people's energies. It also suggests an attachment type core (9).
im bad with details, eg. ill skip proof reading or editing because the process is so tedious. <- this isn't tert-Si
i find it SO hard to type myself because when i read a description, i cant relate to anything cause i dont know how i act and i cant remember any examples. usually i can convince myself that i act a certain way, and then identify with that type <- Ne-dom/inferior Si and 9-ness.
i have a horrible memory. i forget about my responsibilities, and often ill go on youtube to look up soentjing and then get distracted by something else and forget what i was there for. i also couldn’t remember when my classes were even though i’ve had the same classrooms for 7 months. <- inferior Si
I usually do not have very strong opinions and sometimes i dont even have any - <- ENFP 9
a lot of the time i dont know how to feel about things, or i will easily get swayed by outer opinions... <- Ne-dom 9 (going along with stuff you don't want to do to keep the peace with your parents)
but then again, i have very strong passions and goals and dreams! and i know what kind of movies i like and stuff and i usually like to watch similar kinds of movies of genres that i like. <- some Fi
and on that note, i have pretty big drrams of getting famous LOL and i also have very high expectations, and i can get very disappointed if they arent met. <- Ne-dom and 1 wing confirmed
i feel that i don’t look back on the past often, i am usually looking towards the future. <- inferior Si
im very disorganised, i cannot keep things tidy for the life of me. sometimes i will go into phases where i wont be lazy or disprganised but it doesnt last for very long i can be hard working with things i like, for example i had a period where i was waking up at 5am before school every morning to make videos, but ive fallen out of my routine cause ive lost sight of my goal. <- weak Te
ENFP 9w1.
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byulsgrease · 2 years
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for poorer ⋆ I promise you
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"Together or separate?" the cashier would inevitably ask.
"Together."
I always kind of enjoyed hearing that come out of her mouth, but my satisfaction would rapidly get eclipsed by the embarrassing reality that I had yet again forgotten my wallet. It was always something, though. Teachers growing up always called me absentminded, forgetful, what have you. As a kid I frequently completely forgot to do the backside of my homework and I’d lose my eraser once a year. Isn’t it every kid’s dream to completely use up an eraser? Although, I don’t even think Byulyi got that far. Anyway, that carried into adulthood too. My keys, my wallet. Small things that were a little too easy to misplace. Hell, I still do this now. But now I have a wildly elaborate reminder system so it’s a little more manageable.
Anyway, I tried to protest her kindness (and general adult-like responsibility) every time.
Something along the lines of— "Hey, you didn't have to do that."
"I don't have to do anything," she’d respond without skipping a beat, voice devoid of any reservation or judgement. She just smirked closed-mouthed, upturned like someone yanked at a string attached to the corner of her lips.
And that was that. I tried to put up more of a fight the first couple times this happened, trying to pay for her the next time around or bringing extra cash to sneak into her jacket pockets because she openly refused when I offered it to her normally. But just I’d find the cash back in my bag at home later. I gave up after that.
And out of college, being out of work for an extended period of time obviously meant tough times. Can't even call it living paycheck-to-paycheck if you're not getting paid. Sure, I had my parents. But it's kind of embarrassing, isn't it? I thought adulting meant— well, becoming an independent one. I guess it wasn't as bad as Byul, no siblings to constantly get compared to. But her incessant drive to accomplish her dreams ensured that even in the worst of times, she still had some kind of vision for what came next.
“How do you do that?” I asked out of the blue one day. We were chilling at home watching some random drama I don’t remember the name of.
“You’re gonna have to be a little more specific,” she chuckled, leaning back on the couch, hands interlaced behind her head.
“Like… everything,” The remaining thoughts just tumbled out in a hurry. “You’ve always got it figured out, or at least have some kind of plan for yourself. I don’t think I’ve ever seen you falter or stray from pushing for what you want. It’s like you’ve always known what you want from life.” You’re just so perfect, was more like what I meant to say.
“Hahah, well.” She paused to glance over at me calmly. “I’m human, so I struggle with all that too.”
“But how is it that you’ve never shown it?” I implored. “When I get stressed, I feel like that’s the only thing I feel. I literally can’t do anything else— it paralyzes me.”
“Mind over matter, plain and simple. There’s really nothing wrong with trying and failing. Sure, it doesn’t feel good, but better than not doing anything.” She waved her hands carelessly as she spoke. I tried not to take her advice as a jab, she didn’t mean it that way.
“I think I’m just 500 times more risk-averse than you are,” laughing to stop myself from getting openly defensive. “ENFP, right? Always so consistent, Moon Byulyi.”
“What can I say? You miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take,” she teased with a wink, sprawling out her arms above the couch cushions. A subsequent eyeroll followed from me, flopping down and laying my head in her lap. Insufferable as she is, she’s always had that charisma. Yet another thing I look up to her for and would absolutely never admit because her ego would get too wildly inflated.
“Are you still gonna be acting like this when you’re 80?” I asked, tilting my chin to look up at her.
“Never too old to be charming.” She peered down with a grin, absentmindedly toying with my earlobe.
“Greasy gets weird when you’re old— isn’t it just creepy at that point?”
“Bold of you to assume I’ll ever reach that stage,” she gloated while winking again. God, her and winking. I let out some kind of exclamation in response to her eternal cringinesss, brow furrowed in an expression that surely contributed to my future wrinkles. “Seriously though, I think you’ll figure it out. I believe in you.”
“Yeah, but WHEN, is the question,” I huffed. Had to resist the urge to poke her finger with my tongue when she rested it on my lips.
“Shh, the drama’s getting good,” suddenly drawn in by the events unfolding onscreen. I sighed and turned to watch with her, mind still swimming with the existential question of what the hell I was supposed to be doing with my life.
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rsmrymnt-tea · 2 years
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hi love! i have a question for you…..where did you come up with the name Dolasach? what does her name mean? also i would like to know what you think maybe her and my self inserts relationship would be like? i hope you’re having a good evening mwah 💗
-@barbabetos
Gray!!! So nice to see you!! You've been popping into my mind throughout the day tbh >w< How are you? How have you been? :0 I hope your day's been nice to you!
As for Dolasach... I got her name from a character I play as in Guild Wars 2 who's a sentient plant person, hence the constant theming of florals and plants as a sort of homage to her origins :3
But like I also had to come up with the name of that original Dolasach dfkgfh and because I'm weird about my characters fitting in within the game world, I followed the naming conventions for that species when I came up with the name; which is that all the names they have are taken from/inspired by Irish and Gaelic words/names. And since the original Dolasach is a necromancer, I thought up a bunch of words related to death/grieving and just looked up the Irish or Gaelic translation of them, and eventually I landed on this:
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from 'An Irish-English Dictionary' by Edward O'Reilly. It's also why I say Dola's probably of Irish heritage, it's just that I don't know much about Irish culture (yet) so I can't lean into it >.> My main cop-out is that she doesn't live in anywhere near Ireland anymore lmao but once I'm free I really wanna look into Irish culture more
I went through a bunch of other names before landing on Dolasach for my Obey Me MC though. I remember trying out Sybil, Mairsinna, and Graineann (all also names of my other characters hsdjk) but 'Dolasach' was the only one that felt right to me when held up next to everyone else's names. Haven't settled on a surname for her >.> (Also been toying with the idea that her birth name is something completely different but she just prefers going by her art alias? Mostly because I can't fucking find/think of a surname that sounds right with her name >.> And also because I think it'd be funny if everyone except Lucifer didn't know that that's not her real name lol)
Anyway anyway!! The fun part!! Thinking about her with your self insert!!! <3
Assuming they meet when Dola's already landed somewhere healthy and well-adjusted in her life (perhaps when she's immortal and somehow finds herself hopping realities?) I think they'd get along pretty fine tbh! I am imagining a situation where they're somewhere in the human world and none of the others know that they know each other but Gray and Dola know that they're both essentially the other human exchange student, just to set the scene >w< tho idk how relevant it is, I just feel the need to lmao
So like, I am looking at your info post for Gray and I think there's plenty in common but also plenty of stuff where they won't see eye to eye?
But first I wanna say, seeing those two next to each other would be exactly this hsdfghdf lmaooo their styles are so different it's funny 😭
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But okay on a serious note, I think they'd get along and have fun talking about whatever hobbies they have in common, and also not in common because I think they'd have fun learning about the Thing they haven't tried. My mind goes to them talking about fashion, makeup, self care, and also just the general things they do when they're working??? Idk why but I feel like the discussion would go to serious stuff like work habits and then them talking about their feelings when they have to stop and how they cope. Dola would definitely get into a spiel about not burning yourself out in an effort to take care of others, especially if its the brothers lmao "they're big boys, they can take care of themselves" or something to that effect lmaooo
Tbh I can see them talk about pretty much anything and they'd find a way to have pleasant discussion. Just going off of what I know about ENFPs, the conversation could go from like, lighthearted to something more serious/deep without too much challenge too? Though Dola would still somehow not get too personal? Like she'll never relate anything to a personal experience (Gray will just have to assume that Dola went through something similar) or willingly say anything too revealing.
Which is why even though they're both in relationships with Satan, she's never going to offer much information about her relationship with her Satan? >.>;; Sorry if you were hoping for fun discussion about their sex lives shjkgdfg Dola only talks to Asmo about it and even then it's like... rare and very awkward for her sdhjkf
Another thing that Dola would prefer not to talk about is children and the thought of raising families? She's not really fond of kids and the thought of her ever having children squicks her out like crazy. So if the conversation ever goes there she'll try to steer the conversation to literally anything else.
However! I think if Gray wanted to discuss immortality with Dola, that's when Dola would willingly open up a bit and thorough in answering questions, vague only where she thinks it's unnecessary to go into full detail. Dola would get that it's a huge, huge deal to Gray and would do her best to give her some sort of clarity on what she wants for herself.
Ajksdfhsdfg Suddenly thought about them going shopping together?? Like the difference in taste seems like it would make shopping so fun and interesting because I can see them finding something they thing the other would like then showing it them >w< Also thinking about Gray trying to get Dola to at least try on some shorts and shorter skirts for fun? And Dola would give it a shot at least and maybe get a few to wear at the beach or something >.< However any tops that show skin are fine and will likely be bought and worn in the summer
OH??? Dola making and gifting Gray clothes tho????? I see it!! I think she'd have fun making something that's in a completely different style from what she usually makes for herself :3 Anything she makes will still have that ~Dola Touch~ but she's careful to make sure it suits Gray's tastes
Overall I think it would be a pretty pleasant relationship? I think since the stuff Dola wouldn't really get or agree with are all matters of personal taste and differences in reality (like literally), Dola would just agree to disagree instead of trying to debate (especially the bit where Gray loves Barbatos lmao).
I think they can get close over time if they meet often enough? But the problem would be that Dola's social battery is even worse than Levi's so between Gray and everyone else Dola spends time with, idk if they could hang out that often >.<
I also have thoughts if the situation were like... If Dola were something like a character in Gray's canon instead of an MC from a different one but this is getting very long >.>
@barbabetos
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avgury · 2 years
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— and you knew you were tired, but where are your friends tonight? (if i could see all my friends tonight...)
basics.
full name: theodora faith augury  nickname: teddy  face claim: ella purnell  age: 21  gender: cis woman  pronouns: she/her  sexuality: lesbian  hometown: ellsworth, maine  birthday: september 12, 2000  zodiac: virgo sun, pisces moon, aquarius rising, libra venus  mbti: enfp  ennagram: 3w2  positive traits: driven, empathetic, imaginative, intuitive, dreamy, ambitious, kind, willing negative traits: wistful, pretentious, flappable, self-righteous, inattentive, affected, preoccupied, judgmental  major: english
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teddy’s the youngest of three. she comes from boredom and suburbia. her parents (a stay at home mom, a dad in a dull, unfulfilling office job) had teddy’s older siblings (will, 27, and lizzy, 26) on purpose, then had teddy five years later on accident. she was named after some long-dead great aunt, or whatever. she’s heard the story a handful of times, never really absorbed it. she’s teddy-of-the-top-bunk. teddy-of-hand-me-downs. teddy-of-perpetual-restlessness. she probably first thought i need to be anywhere but here for the first time one morning before second grade or whatever, when she was masticating her cereal while running her finger over the spine of her library book (fifth-grade reading level, not that it meant much to anybody but her and the librarian.) mundanity was her biggest problem, and she hated that her problems were mundane. she hated what felt like the inherent helplessness that came from everyone in her home being bigger than her and older than her and not listening to her any time that she spoke. 
maybe she thought she was better than everyone some of the time, with the way she wanted more and everyone else seemed content with what teddy deemed completely, agonizingly boring and unfulfilling existences. is being unhappy the same thing as being smarter than everyone around you? is constant discontent the price that you pay for having open eyes? she felt (still sometimes feels) like nobody gets it, that nobody understands her, (though of course it’s occasionally occurred to her that maybe she doesn’t understand anybody else.) 
she’s grown out of a lot of this now. she’s not so superior anymore, she isn’t twelve. it’s just that she’s stuck on this desperate restlessness, this need to see something, be someone, do something, not that she ever knows exactly what. she loves literature. she wants to make an impact. she’s deeply wistful and pretentious. she’s directionless. she’s kind. 
she’ll die if she sits still. she can’t handle the mild suburban discontent. on family holidays, she’d see her mom’s sibling - intelligent, an academic - and convince herself she’d been born on the wrong half of the family as she sat on the floor with her cousin amari and they played legos together while teddy’s mom made the turkey in the kitchen. 
teddy kind of always feels out of place, trying to figure out how to inhabit each space she enters, but she’s probably just taking everything too seriously. her room is simple because she’s so focused on how she’ll one day live that she forgets that she’s actively living now. that’s a big problem of hers - she’s always in the future, sometimes in the past, barely ever in the present - except when she’s with romy, who’s always been able to ground her, though admittedly even that relationship is colored by the fact that teddy thinks a secret relationship is so totally literary and romantic, right? 
the fire affected teddy deeply, and she didn’t deal with it in a real way. she narrated her traumas and fears in her head like a book, she wrote pages and pages describing the experience, she thought oh, here’s something serious that finally happened to me. here’s something exciting. like the fear only functioned as an interesting back story for her, or something, because she didn’t know how else to deal with it otherwise. still, she decimates her nails by chewing on them when she sees a lit candle. still, she bails on the summer bonfires to ready poetry. 
she’s determined. she’s yearning. she romanticizes every aspect of her life, or dramatizes the rest. everything is the biggest deal in the world to teddy. she has this controlling streak to her - writing everything out like it’s a book in her head - but she forces herself to abandon plans and inact spontaneity and do things she’d rather not do simply for the story of it all, because that’s important to her, too. 
she wants to experience everything the world has to offer. she’s a little sister. she’s the baby of the group. she’s a little bit annoying. she’s extremely kind and loves her friends more than anything - how remarkable to finally find somewhere you belong after years of belonging exactly nowhere. though in a way she’s extroverted (she loves to go places, do things, spend time with people), she’s always seen herself as this sort of solitary being because she can’t get out of her own head. she’s so convinced that she’s independent by nature, but it’s her friends who pull her back down to reality. 
etc.
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notanotherinfjblog · 2 years
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Submitted my survey just now, I’m an enfj and probably the most recent one (doubt there are too many recent enfjs that would be a strange coincidence), my results interesting in any capacity or naw?
Oh crap, I've completely forgotten about the survey. Thanks for the reminder!! I haven't looked at it for almost a year now, I think, cause the data I got back then wasn't exactly balanced, so I just kept waiting for more participants. For instance, 109 people have participated so far. 31 of those are INFJs. You were the 3rd ENFJ in total. The most contributing sensing type so far has been ISTP with as many as 5 participants. But hey, at least I've gotten at least one participant of each type now, so that's definitely an improvement to last year. Also, I remember being a bit discouraged back then by some results since I set up some questions that I thought were mutually exclusive (e.g. "which types do you feel an instant connection with because you can easily follow each other's thought processes" versus "which types feel completely foreign to you since you can never really understand where the other person is coming from") and several people answered those questions exactly the same, which honestly left me quite dumbfounded. I'll have to decide later how to deal with those participants.
Your specific results specifically don't strike me as odd, but any result is interesting. Now that my awareness of the survey has reawakened (thanks again), I might look into the overall results in more detail some time. I'll probably only be able to say anything about the types that I have an at least somewhat reasonable number of participants of though, which are INFJs, INFPs, INTPs and INTJs. What I'm also interested in, however, is analysing people's families' types. I mean, I have to take everyone's answers with a grain of salt since there is no way for me to verify that either the participants or their families are typed correctly, but that's all I have to go on. Maybe there really are some trends as to which types happen to marry each other more frequently and which types their children happen to be. One very noticeable trend here: the most common marriage recipe is that you take one introvert and one extrovert, one of which is a thinker and one of which is a feeler. Sometimes you get two feelers or two thinkers, but then the introvert/extrovert dynamic still stands. Likewise, sometimes you get two introverts or two extroverts, but then the feeler/thinker dynamic stays intact. I have literally never seen two people of the same type date each other, nor the same type occurring twice within the same nuclear family, which raises some existential questions because that means that we don't inherit our parents' brain activation patterns (since that's what cognitive functions really are), but they aren't nurture either or else we'd develop the same types as our siblings, which we don't. However, siblings do tend to have similar types, so there's definitely something fishy going on.
Sorry, I've written all this lot and still answered your question with just a single sentence. So here's one interesting point: I often find that we are a lot like our siblings, even when they use different functions than we do, but we still assimilate to each other to some degree and we can develop biases towards (or against? maybe? possibly?) their cognitive functions in other people. Your entire family consists of feelers and your sister is an ENFP, as you say, and it does look like you have a slight bias towards Fi and Ne in other people, but are also somewhat drawn towards NTs, which actually makes a lot of sense. Is that your impression as well? I can only guess from your answers, and I'm beginning to wonder if I should have asked more pointed questions in the survey, but that's a problem for another day.
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brattata · 2 years
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Hi there! Hope I'm not too late for match-up xD
K, X and Z from fluff alphabet, please!
I'm 19 y.o bi girl, inclined towards men. At first I might seen as cold and serious cuz of my resting biatch face, but I'm very empathetic, kind and easygoing person. Was ENFP last time I checked xD May be a little shy and scared about relationship thanks to abandonment issues ™, so I will never approach first till get sure that person is serious about me and doesn't count me as a stupid clown. Tho, if I get in relationship, I will be very affectionate and loving towards them x) Really love singing and I have a dream to become opera singer one day... But now I'm just finishing my degree on engineering, lol.
Jojo/Genshin/JJK match, please!
No worries, you're not too late! For the masterlist, I'm going to call you 🎶 anon.
It's been sooo long since I wrote for JJBA, so I have to seize this chance! 👊 Initially I thought you might make an interesting couple with Abbacchio, but the problem is he will never everrrr make the first move or even act like he's interested in you, just wait for you to end up with someone else and stew in his regret. 😔 Instead, I'm going in a different direction and matching you with...
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Guido Mista! Mista shares your outgoing, laidback nature, but while you can be a little guarded about your feelings sometimes, he's pretty much an open book. There's no mind games or negging with Mista - it's very obvious that he's attracted to you (at first glance) and also respects you (after he gets to know you). He can be sloppy and crude sometimes, but he's also reliable and even kind of a gentleman, in his way. Also, isn't a mafioso dating an opera singer so romantic? 😍 Tbh, he...really didn't get the appeal of opera at first, but he's learning to like it for you.
K is for Kiss:
Your first kiss with Mista is good, but kind of...artificial. That's because he rehearses it for, like, weeks. He reads up on kissing techniques, (re)watches a bunch of romantic movies, asks for advice from Trish (actually pretty helpful) and even Giorno (useless). His lips are smooth and dry, breath is fresh, solid technique, but it just doesn't have the passion you were expecting. As he gets more confident the kisses will get wilder though. You won't be disappointed. 😉
X is for XOXO:
Unless you're someone who hates all PDA, I think Mista gives the perfect amount of it, actually. He's not the classiest guy in the world, but he has enough class not to make out with you in public. He does usually like to walk with his arm around your shoulders or waist, and he'll kiss your cheek/forehead or peck you on the lips, but that's about all. He's a little touchier in private, and he does like to cuddle, but he can adjust to your preferences.
Z is for Zeal:
He would literally die for you. Gold Experience could probably patch him up in time, but please don't test it. A better question might be whether he would betray Giorno for you. That's...actually less certain. I think he would, under the right conditions, but only if he really couldn't see any other way.
Thanks for joining the event, and I hope you liked your match! It's nice writing for JoJo again! ☺️
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drippingviolets3 · 2 years
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If the event is open is it okay if I can get a matchup + love letter of said character from TWST?
I am Non-binary, I am panromantic. My zodiac is moon Gemini and rising Cancer. My personality type is ENFP.
Despite being an ENFP I am a very recluse person, but I do care for everyone and it is hard to make me hate someone. I open up immediately as soon as we have something in common, but it isn't hard to have a conversation with me if we know each other, if anything I am very talkative if we are close.
My hobbies are drawing, swimming, making crafts, cooking, baking and dancing. I like having fun, anime a video games the most, but that doesn't mean I'm not open to something else. I am very picky about my movies, but I'll try it all. I love sweets the most. I also like true crime and the dark past. Horror is my favorite genre asides from romance.
Okay, I tried my best with this but I think you’d work well with….Idia Shroud! Please bear with me I haven’t finished chapter 6 yet-
•A n y w a y s, Idia gets excited over games and anime (and just his interests in general) and with your reclusive-yet-caring attitude would make him have a panic attack
•I don’t think he favors any particular genre, so horror is definitely a go-to for him when you guys hang out
•Romance will make him short-circuit though.
•Ortho loves you! But he might be the one to rat out Idia on his feelings.
•Idia will share his candy with you to try and hunt at his crush on you.
•It didn’t work but he tried.
•He didn’t know what to do because he was too inexperienced with romance to figure something out, so Ortho suggested writing a letter could help.
•With no other options, Idia got to work.
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I know you’re just going to find this gross and toss it in the trash when this is delivered to you, but I can make peace with that so long as I get this off my chest.
Um…you know those anime series’ where there’s a guy who likes a girl but she doesn’t notice how he truly feels? Actually I’m pretty sure it’s the other way around-But you get what I mean right? Well, I feel like that represents us. Like..I’m that guy trying to hunt that I like you and you just..aren’t picking up on that? I mean I’ve been meeting up with you in person, sharing sweets with you, I’ve even invited you to my room! I thought if I was indirect I could confess without chickening out but…well now look where I am.
Ortho suggested writing a letter, and that usually how people in anime confess their feelings right? So here’s my love letter to you, and while I expect it to be torn to shreds I hope you’ve read it to the end.
Please don’t hate me
Love, Idia Shroud
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mbti-notes · 2 years
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Anon wrote:
hello! firstly, I'd like to thank you for making this blog. it's been really helpful in understanding mbti theory and taking steps to improve myself. i do have 2 questions though:
I'm glad you find my blog helpful, thanks for saying so.
1) is it possible that a person still undergoes tertiary loop in their mid-40s? i have seen evidence of si-ti loop in my mother, but can't really reconcile that with the fact that she should've probably dealt with this earlier. and i don't think she's always been in the loop (as far as i remember, anyways), but has only gotten into it within the last 2 years.
It is more common than uncommon for people to get developmentally stuck. Type development is a very personal or individual process, so, in that sense, there is no "should've". This is explained in the Type Dev Guide, please review it. Every individual is at a different point in development based on their unique circumstances. Anyone can misuse their functions at any time of life for a variety of reasons. If she only started within the last two years, it would be important to understand what circumstances or stressors might have prompted it.
2) i have noticed in myself (an infp) that i tend to re-read books/ re-watch movies that i liked in the past multiple times, usually when I'm feeling a bit out of sorts or stressed. a celebrity that i have been trying to type said the same thing about themself— that they like re-watching a specific movie when they're tired/stressed. i thought that this was an obvious indication of si-tertiary, and that they were also an infp (using other clues about their type, too, of course). however, most other people say that that person is an enfp. (nobody else has typed them as infp). i just wanted to know if my understanding of that specific behaviour being an indication of si-tert was correct or not. I should probably explain why i think that is si-tert. tertiary functions are usually used as a psychological defense to stress. fi-si tends to make a person look to previous sources of comfort in hopes of gaining the same comfort again, usually leading to the person staying in stale comfort zones. what i think is, basically, that a person can also seek comfort in fictional stories (books and movies) that they liked in the past. again, I'm not 100% sure about this, it's just what I've noticed in myself. thank you in advance :)
It is incorrect. The problem is that you haven't understood the difference between cognition and behavior (as well as the fact that the two do not have a perfect 1:1 relationship). Taking your example: Si prompts people to revisit things of their past. This is generally true of Si, so this fact alone is not enough information to tell you the stack position of Si. To identify stack position, you cannot only focus on the behavior (the "what"), you must go far deeper than that to understand the underlying cognitive reasons (the "whys"). The set of reasons for why tertiary Si revisits the past is different from inferior Si (... is different from dominant Si ... is different from auxiliary Si). The functional stack positions are covered in the Function Theory Guide.
Until you've understood the exact underlying cognitive reasons behind the behavior, the most you can claim is that Si is probably in there... somewhere. I say "probably" because this one detail alone isn't even enough to prove Si, since other functions like Ni may also prompt someone to revisit the past, but for very different reasons. You would also need to accumulate more evidence of Si cognition that specifically rules out Ni cognition.
In short: Don't judge a book by its cover. You have to understand exactly why someone is doing what they're doing, rather than just assuming that they're doing it for the same reason as you.
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INTRODUCING: The Eras Legacy, by Taylor Swift
first and foremost, hi! i've been playing this legacy on my own by now, and actually lost what i had of the first generation because i changed saves, but i thought i should stop being a ghost here and actually post something and interact!
like i said, i lost a lot of stuff so i'll work with what i have now and explain later what i don't.
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FEARLESS: Juliet McGrath
❝ in your life you'll do things greater than dating a boy on the football team, i didn't know it at fifteen ❞
straight, esfj
was the youngest child of four before her mom died, when she was just a toddler. her dad became obsessed with work after and she and her brothers were basically raised by her big sister
was kicked out after she became pregnant at fifteen by her boyfriend and next door neighbour, jesse mcgrath. she was welcome in by her big sister, abgail, who moved out for college and stayed there for the whole duration of the pregnancy, with she and her boyfriend still finishing high school,
the triplets were born and jesse worked long hours as an athlete to provide for her and the kids. after they have grown a little, she hired a nanny so she could finish university, but dropped out to pursue her career as a singer
she became a global star, moved out to del sol valley where she currently resides. she and her husband are known for their big parties and the love they have for the triplets, even if some feel as like she has a favorite daughter...
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LOVE STORY: Jesse McGrath
❝ marry me, juliet, you'll never have to be alone. i love you and that's all i really know ❞
straight, esfp
was a football player most of his life, retired recently and is now a businessman.
did what he had to do to support his wife and is very devoted to her, but still feels like he was too young to marry. maybe that's why he has some issues regarding fidelity, even if he never acts on his desires.
favors johanna a lot because he feels like juliet doesn't like her as much as her other children, and as she is also an athlete, she is the one he connects with the most
likes dogs a lot
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DEAR JOHN: Johanna McGrath
❝ dear John, I see it all now that you're gone. don't you think I was too young to be messed with? ❞
doesn't labels herself yet, enfj
has bpd and had several behavioral issues when she was younger, so now everyone around her has that impression that she's a super mean and agressive person, when she's not
has a lot of anger issues and a strained relationship with her sister emma because of that, culminating to the point where she destroyed emma's school project. she fought a lot with violet when they were younger too, even if now their relationship is okay
obssessed with ballet and becoming a prestigious ballerina ever since she was little, and will go to any lenghts to fulfill that goal
has a boyfriend that she loves a lot, alexander zhang. they met a party that he was invited because he's the brother of her best friend, beatrice. he was talking with her sister emma when they met, she doesn't know that he's in love with her sister, though.
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INNOCENT: Violet McGrath
❝ i hope you remember today is never too late to be brand new ❞
lesbian, non binary, uses they/them pronouns
discovered themself as a pre-teen and came out, their family was very supportive, especially their sister, emma. that's why they support emma so much even when she's wrong: because emma was always there for them.
they're autistic and struggles a lot with communication and making friends. their special interests are science and pokemon.
is in love with nani kealoha and doesn't know how to tell her yet
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SPEAK NOW: Emma McGrath
❝ please don't be in love with someone else, please don't have somebody waiting on you ❞
bisexual, enfp
has adhd and hiperfixates a lot on fantasy books. she dreams since whe was little of becoming a famous author. some of her favorites include red, white and royal blue, they both die at the end and the song of achilles
currently works as an influencer as a part-time job
met her best friend, alexander zhang, during a party the triplets threw when their parents were away. they were smoking weed together and laughing and she never felt that way for no one else, but she was not prepared for a relationship with anyone. that's why she introduces him to her sister, and they start hanging out, but it's nothing serious at first
during a halloween party that's thrown by her parents, she and alexander decide to go as tuxedo kamen and sailor moon together, he approaches her and they hook up. after that, he tells her that he and her sister just became boyfriend and girlfriend, and she almost throws up because she had just betrayed her sisters.
she decides to not tell her because she doesn't want to jeopardize even more her relationship with her sister when she didn't mean any harm by what she did. now she feels that she's catching feelings by alexander, and doesn't know what to do because he feels the same for her, and is only with her sister because he can't get with her.
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