#but like...

[colorisbyshe]

i remember when someone was complaining about their partner being late for shit allll the time and someone was like ‘oh they MUST have adhd and they just can’t help it,’ so i was like ‘hey, yeah, i have adhd, i get this, here are some things other people with adhd can do to help with this problem’

and like five different people just went ‘um time blindness is REAL and you must just not have a severe enough case :/ but there’s no fixing this’

and it’s just........ is this how we beat ableism? by just pretending that we aren’t in control of our actions at all?

that instead of having conversations about maybe offering more leeway and empathy for people’s struggles while ALSO equipping people with better tools to help themselves

we’re just gonna go ‘yeah, actually, neurodivergent people are wholly incapable of personal will and are ruled by their neurodivergence and can’t be expected to help themselves or other people in any way.’

like i get that some things are truly harmless or truly cannot be helped but... some things... can be worked on. maybe not “cured” or “fixed” but like... worked on. and maybe we should make that info more accessible rather than pretending like its ableist to like... offer tips or  maybe not let people entirely off the hook for behaviour they can manage

#some things are imposssible #but some things are jjust... harder #and it's not FAIR that they're harder #but like... #it's still o peopel to TRY

[grain-my-beloved]

Okay but the way we ALWAYS expect bitterness that isn't there with Desert Duo?

Sure, they snark about each other, but half the time they're giggling while they do it. Sure, they turn on each other, but always with an undertone of understanding. Sure, they avoid- narrowly miss, moreso- each other, but always linger in each others peripheral.

We expected Grian not to ask to team.

We expected Scar not to want to team.

Instead, Grian asked to be partners again. And Scar- he didn't even really say no- ran away only because he HAD to.

We keep expecting some long term fallout, some genuine rejection, some bitterness, but Grian wanted to team, and Scar wanted to say yes, and if it weren't for the eyes on Scar telling him don't, they would have.

Because they aren't angry. They're barely even bitter. Their internal compasses lead back to each other, always. And when they're apart, it's because the game pulls them apart, always.

Why do you think on Hermitcraft- free from the eyes of the cruel death game they sometimes find themselves in- they so unabashedly cling to each other in every moment they can?

#desert duo #grian #goodtimeswithscar #scarian #probably #i mean this can be /p or /r #but like... #y e a h. #/rp

[2aceofspades]

Would...would y'all be mad at me if I um...I didn't draw up a reunion for Cassandra and Casey...?

Just wondering...

#after hours ace #um...yeah #i had plans to just...time skip a lil which would exclude a cass and casey reunion #i dunno maybe i'm just art blocked/burntout #but like... #this series isn't really ~about~ cassandra #it was mostly about leo so... #yeah i dunno #anywhizzle #:)

[quil12]

So, was no one gonna tell me that Link and Midna kiss at the end of the TP manga???

#loz tp #twilight princess #twilight princess manga spoilers #midlink #i just bought the last volume #and like #i dont consider the manga canon at all #but like... #and the way he looks so sad in the second panel #cause he knows its a one off thing #and that shes still gonna leave #its sad #tp link doesnt really get a happy ending does he?

[thefirstanomally]

Professors are so funny. "How has this book I made you read changed you fundamentally as a person?"

Lol. My dude. I will write this report and then never think of it again.

#I was already a kind person who cared about the environment #I didn't need some guys published diary to make me so #Which is not to say that I do not enjoy reading #Nor that I think no book could have an impact on me #Or even that this particular book couldn't have an impact on others #But like... #The book report prompt is how did it change me as a person #And in all honesty I am the same person as I was #Very Tired #T1A Speaks

[single-every-single-day]

what do you mean you wouldnt fuck a vampire?? like damn i'll do it for you?? coward???

#vampire #vampires #vampire fucker #no i dont have a vampire kink wdymmm #but like... #yknow #👀 #vampires are hot

[sporkandpringles]

I know these are niche Voyager thoughts but... how did the families of the crewmembers who died feel when Voyager got home? Did Frank Darwin's family react with anger and horror when they learned he lived for 3 years into the journey, only to be brutally murdered by a fellow crewmate for no reason? Did Ahni Jetal's family intially come to terms with the fact they'd never see her again, grieve, and move on, then get a flicker of hope when they learn Voyager survived, only to have those hopes dashed again when they see the casualty list? And what about Joe Carey, who lived until after Project Pathfinder was established. Who probably sent his family letters. And then who died right before Voyager came home. Can you imagine the emotional whiplash that must have been?

#angst time #star trek voy #star trek #I just picked casualties at random #but like... #think about it #sporkandpringles original #Frank Darwin #Ahni Jetal #Pete Durst #Joe Carey #Veronica Stadi

[ranubd]

“Nobody you know will understand.”

#gtws #grian #desert duo #hermitcraft #hermitshipping #traffic shipping #traffic life #traffic life series #traffic smp #trafficshipping #felt silly #this is also on my tiktok #what!!! u have a tiktok?? 😦😦😦 #yes. #i do #:9 #mostly i just repost stuff I post here but lately its been getting a bit more extra there #a bit of pish and pash #i really seem to have an attatchment to third life though #but like... #doesnt everyone..? :D #ranubd

[uselessgay10101]

~Dance under the rainbow~

#i know pb said she was bi #but like... #sure but not my hc #but whatever its a whole thing #hana deserved to explore her sexuality #mc totally takes her to a pride parade #this deserves a fanfic #i love them #mc x hana #hana lee #choices: stories you play #choices #trr #the royal romance

[maxer-blaster]

I desperately need Ed to walk by Izzy’s door and hear that man getting RAILED within an inch of his life.

#izzy hands #ofmd #ed teach #and feel weirdly jealous #but like... #i need him to see Izzy happy without him #and maybe get his own 1x06 #where he hears Izzy with someone

[atticollateral]

listening to Ghost again and im.

You have never stood this close, to where you want to be You have always waded in the shallows Between me and the deep blue sea You'd never want me to appear You'd never want it to be over You never wanted to reach out to the edge of time

my jaw is on the floor. we're skipping a few lines but-

While you sleep in earthly delight Still your soul will suffer this plight Like your father in hell What you've sold you can not unsell

punching my pillow. gnawing at the bars of my enclosure.

#ghost the band #the band ghost #ghost bc #ghost band #witch image #the whole song makes me feel things #how do i function #tobias forge #knowing what the song means makes everything worse #/pos #not my usual stuff #but like... #my corner #not yours #so leave me alone

[ordinaryschmuck]

Owl House x Amphibia? Or Luz x Anne?

I see the connections! I've connected the dots!

"You haven't connected shit."

I'VE CONNECTED THEM!

#the owl house #luz noceda #amphibia #anne boonchuy #luzanne #rare luzanne post from yours truly #don't get me wrong I'm lumity all the way #but like... #in an alternate universe where lumity never happened or they broke up? #these two would be a cute couple #anne's already into cute nerds #I point back to that blush she had when Marcy was info dumping!

[lollytea]

Which one of them decided they wanted "home teeth home" hanging in their hallway?

#home teeth home.... #i know that to the VIEWER this is a pun #but like... #to them its just... #its just home teeth home #what does that MEAN #what is wrong with them

[kafka-ohdear]

well, dumb shit but i'd like to think the two flamingos in bubbles' snow globe are him and croz.

#sorry last post about then today i promise #but like... #the two flamingos........... #harry crosby #bubbles payne #mota #masters of the air #croz & bubbles

[theragethatisdesire]

poly relationships in fiction r so important to me i will scream it from the rooftops

#not irl. #never irl. #but like... #a handful of gals and guys who just unequivocally love each other and each have equally #important and special partnerships with one another???? #CUTE!!!!! #SEXY!!!!!! #FUN!!!!! #rage.rambles

[drbatsponge]

Chip Zdarsky's obsession with Batman being a loser loner and fighting the Bat-Family needs to be studied because the leaks for the upcoming Batman arc are sounding as trash as Gotham War, maybe even worse.

#I don't know if I should directly spoil things here #but like... #it's bad #I am so tired #glad I dropped that stinker of a title #batman #batfamily #dc comics