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blushedfemme · 2 days

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butches really think laying their head in a femme’s lap will solve all their problems. and they’re correct. c’mere 🥰

#blushing #butchfemme #butchxfemme #sfw post

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lovergirldyke · 1 day

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Chivalry is not lost on me! Please guide me around with your hand on my lower back, pull me away from the street and tuck me against your side, offer me your jacket and let me cling to your arm, open doors for me. I’ll giggle, twirl my hair and bat my eyes at you. I’m a princess at heart!

#lesbian #wlw #dyke #high femme #ofos femme #ofos lesbian #butch bait #femme4butch #butch4femme #femme4masc #butchfemme #femmebutch #lesbian nsft

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gothcoffins · 1 day

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I don't think I made enough of a point of how problematic it is to only like skinny people to the point of only dating, respecting, and rebloging them. I got mad and kept it mostly focused on the white aspect in my previous posts. (As in, only liking WHITE thin people and only rb white skinny femmes is weird as hell) Very sorry about that! I just felt the racism issue needed to be addressed first and then I missed the opportunity to also talk about body size as well because sometimes this goes hand in hand, let's be real.

If you only like butches and femmes when they are thin, especially only if they are thin and white, then maybe you don't like them.

Why do larger bodies make you uncomfortable? No matter if you have a tummy or not, if your thighs touch, your belly is large and prominent, or if you have rolls when standing, sitting, or existing, maybe you even have everything I listed at once but it's all beautiful and wonderful and natural. Someone's body shouldn't stop you from loving them. Someone's size shouldn't make you lose interest in them, that is just pathetic. Your love and respect for butches and femmes shouldn't depend on if they are thin or not.

ESPECIALLY for femmes, this is an issue I am seeing when trying to interact with some of the butches here. You either like us all, or you don't like any of us. You can't only like and respect people when they are thin (and white).

We all come in many different shapes and sizes, if you can only be attracted to those who are thin then you need to unpack that. Why do bodies that are not thin repulse you so much? (fatphobia is real please work on yourselves) Just because someone is fat it doesn't mean they are any less of a person. I am just as deserving of love and respect as my thinner femme sisters/siblings.

Personally as a femme, I love me some butch/stud tummy. Give me a butch with a big tummy, big arms, big legs and thighs, and I'm gonna be the happiest girl in the world. Big thighs so I can sit comfortably in their lap, big arms so I can hold onto them when we are walking together, a soft tummy that moves when they laugh and when they fuck into me. Like!!! Fat butches and fat studs, skinny, mid size, and any studs and any butches anywhere in between, you are wonderful! If you have stretch marks, scars, visible double chins, disabilities, acne, you are wonderful! regardless of your race or gender identity you are all wonderful and handsome and strong! thank you for existing. the lesbian community, especially within butch/femme dynamics is incredibly lucky to have you in it. You make me feel so safe and loved. Thank you

Femmes, femmes who are fat, femmes who have stretch marks, femmes who have big bellies, arms, and thighs. Femmes who have visible double chins, femmes who have big cheeks and fingers!! You are gorgeous to me. Femmes with stretch marks, acne, scars, disabilities, femmes who are fat, thin, mid size, or anywhere in between, regardless of your gender or race, you are all beautiful and wonderful and lesbian. There is no size requirement to be femme, it's a mindset. Thank you femmes for making the lesbian community so wonderful, especially within the butch/femme community. I love and appreciate you all 🩷

It's okay to have preferences, but it becomes an issue when your preferences are causing harm and stem from racism or fatphobia or anything else. When you are only respecting those you find attractive, when you are only holding space in your heart for those with smaller bodies, when you only value the opinions of those whose skin is pale, you are way less likely to be a safe space for others. You are less likely to care about the others in your community, less likely to treat those in larger bodies with respect and dignity. Society already treats fat people as something disgusting and something to be laughed at and looked down upon, and we don't need this in the lesbian community when this is supposed to be a space for us to exist freely in. The lesbian community is already pretty small, we don't need to bring even more hardship onto those in our community, those who are different than us deserve love and care too. We need to uplift and support each other, we are all we have at the end of the day. Let's make our space a place we can all sit comfortably in, regardless of how we physically look 🦇🖤

#femme4butch #femme4stud #butch #stud #femme #lesbian #butchfemme #femme lesbian

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burninbriight · 3 days

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butchposting: gideon nav and vi + their beautiful girlfriends in the world's most inconsistent artstyle

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butch-jotaro · 2 days

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My girlfriend is so beautiful. I wish I could look at her all day ♡

#lesbian #lgbtq #wlw #butch lesbian #agender lesbian #lesbianism #sapphic #butch #i love my gf #butchfemme #butch femme #butch4femme #lesbian yearning

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martyr0l0gy · 1 day

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✨️i just wanna hold hands with a pretty butch and drink bubble tea and see them pretend to be exasperated while blushing when i insist on paying🧋

#femme4butch #sfw lesbian #lesbian #sapphic #femme #butch #femmebutch #butchfemme #ofos femme #ofos butch #wlw #nblw #wlnb #nblnb #gay girls

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aerithpilled · 4 months

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the butch/femme scene of 1990s san francisco by chloe sherman

#lesbian #butchfemme #queer #1990s #butch4femme #femme4butch #chloe sherman #lesbian history #queer history

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alicitas · 8 months

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cowboys are frequently secretly fond of each other

#butchfemme #femme #butch #femme4butch #butch4femme #butch bait #femme bait #cowboy like me #if a butch sees this hiii im single and the ass on the right is actually from a picture of myself #lesbian #labrys

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littlefwreak · 7 months

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“this song reminds me of you” take off your clothes rn.

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transfagfemme · 3 months

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Shoutout to asexual butches, because I feel like so much that people say about butches is inherently sexual. Do you respect asexual butches? Do you respect butches who don't want to be sexualised or give you sex? Asexual butches I love you <3

#this post is explicitly inclusive of butches of all genders and sexualities btw!#butch #butchfemme #femme4butch #asexual #acespec #🐈

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lovergirldyke · 2 days

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