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anyone else have multiple traumatic memories associated specifically with holidays/family vacations? because that is a topic I never see discussed in all the So You Had A Shitty Childhood, Now What? self-help books i've been reading. but for me, it was a significant thing. and the more i think about it the more it seems like this would be an (unfortunately) common experience. would be grateful to hear if this matches other peoples' experiences...
#not a shitpost#serious post#ask to tag#tw trauma#cptsd#c-ptsd#and if so we should TALK about it#because it means there are a whole group of survivors out there whose mental health regularly worsens during holidays#like i know i am most certainly not the only person who feels an undefined Dread hanging over christmas/my birthday/july 4 etc#bc too many shitty things happened during those times and now my brain is hypervigilant bc traditionally these are the Danger Times#and this seems like it would be particularly common for survivors of abusive/dysfunctional households (aka most people with c-ptsd)#because holidays/vacations typically mean 1) the whole family is together/being forced to interact#2) and undergoing external stressors e.g. travel/relatives aka 'outsiders' visiting/routines & coping mechanisms being interrupted etc#3) there is social pressure for this to be a Fun Family Bonding Experience which only highlights the cracks in the foundation#and exposes the common Everything Is Fine/We Are A Happy Family lie#4) the cognitive dissonance of feeling tired/anxious/stressed/afraid during a time when you are 'supposed' to be Making Good Memories#and then everyone is angry/tired/anxious/triggered and things boil over and something or someone goes Very Wrong#weird that i'm posting this in october when halloween is...sort of the ONLY holiday i have only good and happy feelings towards#i got lucky there#also i have positive feelings towards Labor Day but that's for socialist reasons
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phoenixtakaramono · 2 months
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【TIMESKIP】
I think the Princess of Hell and her devoted knight make a great powerhouse couple
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andy-clutterbuck · 1 month
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The Ones Who Live | 1x03 - Bye
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liyazaki · 6 months
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meetcuuuuute
LUCKY MY LOVE | EPISODE 1
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millleti · 5 months
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ok but what is it with charles and chilis this season
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shima-draws · 8 months
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God gives his toughest battles (being at work DESPERATELY wanting nothing more than to be at home playing the new Genshin Fontaine update) to his bravest soldiers (me)
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7698 · 3 months
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t4t4t · 7 months
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Hi I got 84 in the last two weeks, starting to run out of food money. Absolutely no gas money to get anywhere but yknow. Maybe the temp agency I'm talking to will give me some tolerable job tomorrow and I can ask a bus driver to let me on for free. ("Not my fault if you get a ticket." has been a common response.)
venmo: @nora-esther-rose
paypal.me/NoraEstherRose
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simplepotatofarmer · 4 months
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it's actually on brand for c!techno and c!dream to have names for their kids planned out beforehand, names that either have meaning or just a good name, and then get hit by a surprise kid and go 'oh crap uhhhhhhhh' and name the kid after the first object they see.
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buckttommy · 2 months
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Ryan's first interview in years being with M*x G*o I need to kill myself IMMEDIATELY
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cocksley-and-catapult · 2 months
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do either of them have a hot mom. speaking of which me and your mother have something we need to tell you
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sy5t3merr0r · 23 days
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today I woke up and choose violence
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Happy Easter everynyan
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c-hance · 5 months
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♪   □⃞   @i0hyein ∘   ⬬
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sleepoutro · 2 years
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i wouldn't front the scene if you paid me, i'm just the way that the doctor made me
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plantaagomaajor · 7 months
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Only Friends hierarchy of needs
(and then they need to end up together in the most mutually unhinged and codependent relationship possible a la HIStory 1: Obsessed)
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Baby Alabaster? Baby Alabaster!
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