#casual dating

[p-redux]

Do u think these women care that he has a new one for every country… He’s w karina and then w women in other countries , she has to know?

Anon, you've never heard of "casual dating?" It's a thing. Look it up.

I know many women subscribe to the notion of "soulmates" or being with one person and one person only. But, that's only ONE type of relationship. There are MANY others.

Here's a few:

Like I said "casual dating," where neither party wants to be in an exclusive, committed relationship, and they are fine with everyone involved seeing different people casually.

There are FWB relationships aka Friends With Benefits. Basically two people who are friends but hook up every once in a while. Or more often than not, it's people who dated in the past, broke up, remained friends, and in between relationships, or on drunken nights out, hook up again occasionally.

Of course, there are people who choose to be in exclusive, committed relationships--they agree not to date or sleep with other people, and they are devoted to each other.

There is polyamory, which is being in relationships with multiple people. There are other variations of relationships, but you get the picture.

Again, these are all things most people know about, but I don't mind 'splaining them again.

Sam has been in exclusive, committed relationships in the past, namely with Abbie Salt and Mackenzie Mauzy. Since then, it's very CLEAR that he either hasn't found a woman he wants to be in another exclusive, committed relationship with, OR he's decided that he doesn't want that right now, and has been dating casually for a few years. I DON'T SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT.

As for, do the women know? I say that's a resounding YES, THEY KNOW. From what my previous sources have told me, Sam is honest with the women he dates. Obviously, you have to also want to date casually.

And even if he weren't honest, unless the women never get on social media, they can all SEE who he follows, they can all SEE the stuff written about Sam's dating life by tabloids, and fan blogs, like mine, they can all SEE where he's tagged, etc. C'mon ladies, we all know that when a woman starts dating a man she's better than the F B I ( I spaced that out because I don't want to get on some watch list by the F B I , ye ken?). The first thing any woman dating a new man does is she and her friends all go stalk the dude's social media. And find out EVERTHING about him in less than an hour. This is even easier to do if the guy in question is famous. IOW, yes, the women Sam dates know what's what and who's who. Unless, they don't have a cell phone, laptop, desktop, tablet, or friends. JS.

In summary, everyone is on board and fine with things...and those who aren't, move onto someone else. Simple as that.

I hope that answers your question, Anon.

#samheughan #mackenziemauzy #abbiesalt #karinaellelisenbee #karinaelle #casual dating #exclusive relationship #polyamory #fwb #friendswithbenefits

[jocolatemousse]

Casual connections can be meaningful. Short-term connections can be meaningful.

Do not buy into the narrative that something is only meaningful if it is intense enough, or if it lasts forever. Sometimes, meaning is nuance. Oftentimes our lives are changed in subtle ways. And the time you spent with someone will always matter even if it has passed.

#short term relationships #casual relationships #casual dating

[thefeminineessence]

Healthy sex serves a relationship; unhealthy sex becomes the relationship. Sex should be an expression of what is, not a way to temporarily and artificially create what we hope to be true.

Debra Fileta

#intimacy #emotional intimacy #love #relationships #casual relationships #dating #casual dating #self love #boundaries #long term relationship #dating with intention

[coldmermaidhologram]

Y'all i'm in a casual relationship now, and tbh, i have no idea how to navigate it. Is it a 'don't put a label on it' or labels are there, but not long-term kind of thing? The guy is great though, i love talking to him.

#relationship #relationship advice #casual dating #what does it mean exactly? #someone please explain

[mizz-stress]

People wonder how I am able to have “casual sex” bush I thought I was forming a relationship with 90% of them…. THEY were the ones having casual sex knowing full well that I’m seeking something more. They just wanna know they’re worthy of a good relationship… if they wanted one. I’m over here just tryna find someone who’s my best friend turned partner.

#mylife #single #casual seggs #casual dating #love #passion #txt #mizz-stress

[ashleycleins]

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[thatsweetdagger]

No I'm not gonna be in a healthy relationship. What if I run out of content to write on?!!?!

#iykyk lmao #dark academia #casual #i'm fine #this is my life #tumblr text post #shitpost #im a sucker for that shit #casual dating #datingmemes #dating #relatable memes #tumblr shit

[trvlytylar]

lol i’m feeling very attacked rn! I promise i really try to be chill but when i like you i like you, and i don’t have the time to act like i don’t😅😂 we go together real bad mr.sir😂😂

#trvlytylar #cancer #casual dating #real bad #caresha please

[femmilingus]

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It’s Easy Being Unhealed

This started out as a very different post. I was…in my feelings, let’s say. The thing about grief is that it can manifest in a plethora of ways – which means that you can’t really predict when it’s done with you. I guess, in a way; my grief wasn’t quite done with me. And I should have known that, really, because I did with it what I’ve done since I was a child: I pushed it down – deep into the…

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#Black creatives #break ups #casual dating #dating #defence mechanisms #gender nonconforming #grief #grieving #healing #inner child #LGBTQIA #love #mental health #nonbinary #POC #queer #relationships #self aware #self care #self love #self reflection #self work #serious #standards #therapy #trauma #unhealed

[vampangel89]

Dating casually when you are a hopeless romantic that loves all encompassing, all consuming and obsession love...is strange, wonderful but strange.

#poly #random thoughts #casual dating

[hellotherealvishal]

Dating, relationships and trolling a favorite social media past time: Not about Deepika

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#casual dating #Misogyny #monogamy #Open relationships #Patriarchy #Polyamory #sexism

[pressedink]

I CAN’T STOP

these notes app one shots have a hold on me, i can’t escape (do i want to?)

#pandalily #marauders #harry potter #pandora lovegood #lily evans #casual dating #casual sex #online dating #romantic pining #love lost #lesbian love #queer longing

[inkskinned]

the problem is that being single is seen as the consolidation prize, and not the natural neutral state of being-a-person. at the end of the movie or the book or the poetry, there is a person waiting for you at the altar, and they love you. if the play is a comedy, everyone gets married. the metaphor is about how you are not-whole. the metaphor is about how everyone is going to be happily-ever-after. the metaphor is that romantic love is the most important resource on the planet, not just all-love. all-love is not a thing, that is a disappointment. the treasure is not the friends we made along the way. the treasure is the girl you landed.

the metaphor is that you cannot be alone, that means you are broken. are you getting over someone? that is acceptable, you can be getting over someone, but not for long. you must be single because you would rather not be single. you must be single and looking to not-be-single. you must want to date, eventually.

friendship and community are never seen as being equal-to or even-better than romantic connection. that person is your one! you need to find them. you need to hunt through the sand particles until you can shift out some kind of gem. this is regardless to your own experience of the beach and the sun. you need to be somewhere with someone.

if you are taking this time alone to heal, that is so sad. everyone gives you this little pitying look. the understanding is that you are not actually happier than you were before you were single. it is seen as a sort of pity - oh, you are choosing yourself, making yourself the priority? - that isn't quite right. you must mean that you are making yourself ready for the right person. you are just laying the bed better this time. open up your heart. you'll find them, we promise!

what do you mean you're really-truly genuinely-very happy? you are probably misremembering what it was like to be in a relationship. and besides, once you meet your person, that time will look grey and bland and wasted. your person is the only way for you to see in color. so what if you have taken this time - for the first time in your entire life - to actually-for-real do the fucking work. you can be proud of yourself, sure. but the way we need to know that you got better is that you get a partner. you're healed enough for the next bad part!

people don't choose to be single, they just say they're choosing to be single - they actually mean "nobody wants to date me." it doesn't matter how many people you have gently rejected or how many times you've talked it over carefully in therapy. what matters is that you are single, and by all accounts - that means you are something worth our pity. your successes and life all seem pale in the sunlight. sure, you have done amazing things and finally found your way in life. what matters is that there wasn't a person in the room with you while you did it.

you want to tell them - that's the whole thing. i didn't know how to be alone in the room. i didn't know how to handle the silence. every moment was so sharp, and i kept choosing the wrong way to close the door. i have spent my entire life in the empty well, living in the ricochet of someone else's cruelty. for once i have built myself a ladder. for once everything i taste is all mine, every bite of sunshine and laughter. i have learned how to sleep out in the open with my memories. recently, they have started to purr.

your father rolls his eyes. listen. this isn't about you. i just want a grandchild in my future.

#writeblr #i actually didn't want a girlfriend before nat #and my dad recently said to me - raquel. i don't approve of the promiscuity #1. i am 30. #2. i had casually dated about 4 people over 18 months. #3. i do believe he was just mad that i get more girls than he ever did #i had to look this 60 yr old deacon in the eye and say. okay so i have a girlfriend first of all im just not tellin yall about her #and secondly. #OKAY???? OLD MAN I DONT EVEN LIVE HERE WHAT ARE U GONNA DO ABOUT IT #briefly considered asking nat if i could pretend we were a one night stand kind of a thing

[meggieplayssuitu]

#Meggie'sGreekMyths #SuitU #hades and persephone #hades #persephone #casual dating