#change is hard

[lousydrawingsforgoodpeople]

#change is hard #but it’s necessary #doodles #bad art #lousy drawings #doodle #positivity #self love #healing #recovery

[bunnies-and-sunshine]

Cranky bun.

I'm not talking to you! [shunning intensifies]

We had to do some slight alterations to River's cage so she could move around a bit easier.  She was having trouble navigating the jump into her litter box and it was getting to be a challenge to keep things sanitary.  We have paper bedding everywhere but her spaceship and her food is all in the same place as usual, just up on folded washcloths to keep the bedding out of them.

River is not a fan of this change.  Fingers crossed she adjusts fairly quickly!

(Also, please ignore the marks on my thumbnail.  I use that to get consistent stitches when sewing.)

#bunny #river the bunny #elder bun care #change is hard #giraffe kisses #sewing tips

[exclusivelyhomosexual]

I never understood the “autistics have a hard time with transitions” thing, bc doesn’t everyone have a hard time with transitions???

Yet I was only ever thinking about HUGE, life-altering transitions, like moving far away or having a kid, which is scary for anybody (but tbf autistics probably still rank higher on the “this is fucking terrifying” scale than allistics do).

But apparently, it also applies to the most basic transitions in day to day tasks. It’s harder for us to switch from one task to the next bc our brains generally function most efficiently when we are able to work in one uninterrupted segment on a task.

I’ve alwaysss struggled with this, especially when I need to use the bathroom - I will hold it for very long periods of time to avoid interruption in my task. For a while I thought it was just bc I also have adhd which causes lack of dopamine/executive dysfunction, and makes it difficult to *initiate* tasks. Which ofc plays a big part into it too. But I never knew it was a double whammy with the classic autism trait of “change and transitions are harder.” (Also the ignoring of my interoception doesn’t help with me avoiding using the bathroom)

#change is hard #transitions are hard #neurodivergent #neurodiverse stuff #self diagnosed autism #adult autism #autistic adult #autism #adult adhd #adhd brain #adhd #audhd #adult audhd #audhd brain #audhd problems #audhd things

[soulinkpoetry]

When you recognize your shortcomings you don’t only want to change for yourself, but for everyone around you who loves you.

@soulinkpoetry

When you’re smart enough to recognize that you’re hurting the ones you love, you put an effort into changing your behavior.

#self awareness #change is hard #if you love someone #put in the effort #soulinkpoetry #poetry #thoughts #she writes #feelings #poets on tumblr #that’s life #poets corner #writers and poets #psychology

[mind-over-madness]

This is my first ever tattoo and I am just so so so happy so please look at it thank you ☺️

#tattoos #art #ink #queer #trans #transmasc #nb #aging is weird #aging is a gift #twenty something #mid twenties #change #change is good #change is okay #change is constant #change is possible #change is hard #change is inevitable #self love #self acceptance #hope

[laurenkmyers]

reminder to myself (and anyone that needs it) that it’s okay to be sad about the lost potential of 4 minutes and biblebuild, and also be happy and respectful of the decision build made for his own mental health.

#build jakapan #4 minutes #goodbye biblebuild #you gave me one of the most amazing on screen pairings ever #and i will never forget that #vegaspete #continues to bring me so much joy #and i have you both to thank #i miss your partnership #i always will #change is hard #but sometimes thinks are out of our control #i hope you both continue to thrive

[oifaaa]

I don’t understand why people voted to have Jason Todd killed off

My current theory is that it was half people who genuinely didn't like Jason bc they were upset that dick was no longer Robin and missed him and nothing Jason could do would make them happy so they wanted him dead and half people curious to see what would happen if they killed off a Robin

#Ask #Antonio-in-boots #The more I think about it the more I understand #Like I'm not happy about it #But I understand #Change is hard #And even now after 5 Robins people still get upset when the mantle is passed on #Image what the vibes would of been like for when Jason was introduced as Robin #Like not even aware the Robin name was gonna be something passed down #I don't think people gave Jason a proper chance in that aspect #Which hay hay theme of Jason's life #He never got given a real chance

[mayday396]

What I like about ALTA and LOK are the Fighting styles, in the former, we see more Traditional Chinese Martial Arts, the Constant Blocking and dodging and the Punches are Vertical Facing and in the Latter, we see Horizontal Facing Punches and swift Footwork to engage and Disengage like more "Modern" fighting styles.

I see alot of People saying Legend of Korra's fighting is terrible or Boring.What you all need to understand is that in LOK, it depicts what Martial Arts is like in our World Today, the Destruction and Preservation of Old and Historic Arts, the Evolution of Combat and the New Generation favouring more easier to Understand and more easily utilise styles.

It also has to do with the environment.In ALTA, the Spaces are Wider, be it Urban or Rural, this allows a far bigger range of Movements and Motions, in LOK, places are smaller and more compact, it's better to square up and keep your fists close to your Head because if you leave it open that's a guarantee Hit.

Different Situations, Different Environments, Different Wars cause a Combat Art to change and Evolve.

Traditional Chinese Martial Arts turned into Sanshou and Jeet Kune Do.

Muay Boran turned into Muay Thai.

Traditional Vietnamese martial arts turned into Vovinam

Japanese Martial Arts gave birth the whole concept of Gendai budō.

All because change happens, nothing can stay the same for so long

#alta #avatar the last airbender #legend of korra #fighting styles #martial arts #change is good #change is hard #change is inevitable #asian martial arts

[papergaze]

Winds of winter

It is about time.

It is about to happen.

Some few may dread,

While some more eagerly awaiting.

On the other side of this rickety fence,

that has been built and standing,

By fortunates slowly faded by fuzzying fumes,

With teeth green and rotten, as their stolen harvest,

There you will find

No change

But the shape of the fallen leaves on the fields.

I take the hands that are closest to me. I hope they do the same. And I take the very next step, in hopes that some may follow. To where the winds of winter are leading us.

#spilled ink #spilled poetry #spilled words #spilled writing #original poem #free palestine #free gaza #change is good #change is inevitable #change is coming #change is hard #change is scary

[rayonthego]

#she & him #change is hard #music #spotify #Spotify

[yourgothictrashrat]

I don’t bite….

Art by: Susitse.art

#gothic #not my art #not my image #illustration #doggo #wolf in sheep's clothing #sheep #i don’t bite #poetry #poem #aesthetic #dark aesthetic #dark art #growing up #outgrown things #change is good #change is hard #change is inevitable #change is the only constant #pinterest #edgy moodboard #moody #moody aesthetic #moodyvibes #dogs #i dont know #Spotify #art

[treehuggingwitchypoet]

From Stardust Poetry on Facebook

#poetry #poem #poets corner #not my poem #poets on tumblr #transformation #falling into something different #change is hard

[daisievalentine]

i always think about going back and doing things differently, or even going forward and meeting them again.

but i know that you cannot meet the same person twice, sometimes not even in the same person.

change will always be inevitable, but sometimes i wish it wasnt.

sometimes i come across the bench we used to sit at or the song we used to yell in the car, but i know that we parted ways for a good reason, i know that things would’ve never been the same anyway

but maybe things could’ve been different. maybe we would stay friends as kids and we would’ve grown up together and shared an apartment in nyc like we always used to talk about,

or we would’ve grown apart again, but maybe this time it would’ve ended in a way where we both got what we wanted and we both ended up in our perfect happy ever after

i guess some things never really change

and i guess i need to come to terms with that.

#change #poetry #sad quotes #web weaving #change is good #change is hard #love poem #love quotes #old friendships

[visiblenostalgia]

10/14–2023 — ☀️ 🌙 Libra Eclipse

This is a fun synchronous thing to ponder and think about and maybe some of you might want to pay attention to it.

Warning: discussions of war and other triggering topics like politics.

The eclipse is happening at the end of the week. Saturday the 14th, peaking at 11:52 AM (CST)

But that’s the synchronous thing about it? Taking a gander at it, the eclipse occurs at the south node. The south node being about excrement, pushing out, letting go, the stuff that is not needed for us. A point where the butterfly comes out of its cocoon. But to add onto this,

The solar eclipse flies south much like the south node is directed.

The vice versa will occur with the north node total solar eclipse on April 8th of 2024 next year.

“The solar eclipse flies north much like the north node is directed”….

My predictions are murky with this, but I have been able to take note of the occurrences that happen before the major event.

Proceeding the Full Moon in Aries (whom was conjunct Chiron- wounds and healing and the north node — hunger, destiny) is the war declaration in Israel with Hamas. They haven’t stopped since and the war seemingly has its fate to go for a long and painful time.

I will also go forth to add on that they are in fact fighting over holy lands that they proclaim to protect. (More on this at the end of the post)

My bets is the stopping point or climax of all wars herein before they really pop off is the Saturn Neptune conjunction at 0 Aries in ‘25 or ‘26.

But on the topic of the annular, with the saturated south node eclipse happening in Libra, one must think of the quote “diplomacy dies in darkness”. What have we seen so far? The war with Hamas and the fight in Ukraine (I will add on them too, due to their almost exact implications but different starting time frame)

Another bet I have is that the wars will seemingly pop up everywhere on all fronts but all not in the same way. Next year begins the 2024 Elections for the United States and there are already signs of agitation and violence on both ends of the spectrum. The bipartisan system we’ve built in the 1770’s now crumbling at the seams. With the help of the Pluto return of the United States.

What does this mean for the north node though?

Bringing up the effects of a north node in Aries eclipse that also moves north as it trenches along; one must say that there will be striving for individuation, war, fighting for your country and peace thereof,….among others.

Wildfires, weather systems and patterns, as well as anything having to do with heat will begin to also become more severe or irrefutable.

For those going through their Nodal Return with these eclipses, and if you feel the pains of change and seeing the atrocities of the world happen on your screens/households/life…

I must be honest, these times look like they’re not gonna end soon. They’ll only ramp up and all we can do is bite down on the bullet that’s been shot. Triumph over this through perseverance, experience and knowledge so the next time that this nodal pattern occurs, we know how to handle it.

And to end it off, fighting over the holy lands that you wish to protect is very ironic because you end up destroying the sacred texts that have been there for centuries.

I’m not too entirely Christian (not devout and monkish in a way), but to fight on sacred lands of a religion and then to say your protecting it only just to be killing a bunch of people for it…

you’re not protecting it by all means

YOURE DESTORYING GODS WORK AND CALLING ONTO YOURSELF A FALSE PROPHET. YOU PROCLAIM HOLINESS WHEN YOURE KILLING ‘HIS’ PEOPLE. YOU ARE NO MORE BETTER THAN SATAN HIMSELF.

And breathe…..

Prayers and manifesting good times in our own lives ahead y’all. Keep everyone in your circle no matter how distant or close in mind. Show them some love and show them you care. Be there for them. These next few to several years will not be easy.

~visiblenostalgia

BONUS BIT: I’d like to also add on that if one thinks of it in a certain way, Terra (or mama Gaia, Mother Earth) is kind of going through contractions with this new world order. In a way the solar eclipses coming up are like the famous active labor pains that come through in childbirth. Will all the pain in change, there is forward movement in trying to make a new world order that will be better for us to inhabit this place together in the end.

Idk just a thought. Toodles!

#astrology #astrology observations #solar eclipse #libra #Aries #war in israel #hamas attack #Saturn #Neptune #conjunction #2025-2026 #change is hard #change is inevitable #change is scary #pray for israel #keep loving #keep calm #keep an eye out #open minded

[shleemies]

Dude what why did they change every single detail of this scene from what they put in the movie???? The framing is more accurate to the manga but that's about it. In what world is gojo wearing a red hoodie and not his uniform in this?

#jujutsu kaisen #jjk season 2 #jjk spoilers #like i understand changing getos short for the animators sake. but changing absolutely everything???? #even changing where the ocean is? unless their on like a pier? #i hate how these look side by side 😭 but individually theyre both good its just when you compare them #i saw something about a new animation director? maybe that has something to do with the all of it #im just nervous i hadnt realized how different the style was #which is totally fine and valid im just autistic #change is hard #also like? as if red hoodie isnt one of yujis main clothing items? why would u dress up gojo in it #autism moment happening

[thereadersideofvee]

It's my last night in my home. Bags are packed. Everyone else is asleep. Naturally, I can't sleep. And because I cannot carry all my things with me, I am sat here going through it for the last time. Turns out, I have a Lot of diary entries from the last 4 years, most of which I do not remember writing. Reading the thoughts and experiences of the 19 year old me feels so weird!! Reading about the "conversations" I used to have with a certain "someone" who is no longer a part of my life (for the absolute good) is making me question all of my life choices. Reading about my failed attempts at becoming an extrovert is giving me a good laugh. Reading about my first day of college and the "speech" I had written about it after now being graduated feels so surreal! Thinking about how that 19 year old girl had so many hopes for these past four years. And how none of what she had hoped for and wished for turned out to be true. But also about the dreams he hadn't dreamed yet, but is now on her way to fulfill them! I do not know how to process so many emotions. I have cried about leaving my home a lot in the last few weeks. But on my last day here, I'm numb. When I want to cry, no tears fall. When I don't want to, they fall like it's their sole purpose of existence (which it is but you get what I mean). I cried in front of my mother. I'm about to cry now. I'm gonna be a mess at the airport tomorrow. I know I can't 'have it all' but sometimes I pray really, really hard that I could. I don't know how I'm gonna live without my family. I don't know how I'm gonna survive without my brother. I don't know if I'll be living my dream or if everything will come crashing down. I don't know if I'll be able to survive the cut throat competition and succeed or I'll end up regretting all my choices. All I know is I have to trick my mind into being strong, I have to give my absolute freaking best, I need to keep trying, I need to hold it together and just hope that I don't lose all that I have now in the process. (cue tears)

#farewell #leaving home #new beginnings #change is hard #study abroad #moving abroad #moving out #chasing dreams #out of my comfort zone #separation anxiety