#child abuse ment

[theriverbeyond]

Hi my name is Crux Nolastname and I have no hair (it is sacramentally shorn) and my skull is very bony and have black eyes like coal and a lot of people tell me I look like a dead corpse (AN: if u don’t know what that is get da hell out of here!). I’m not related to the Reverend Family but I wish I was because they are the best. I’m a mean old coot and my teeth falling out and yellow. I have grey and purple skin. I’m also a bitch, and I live on a installation on Pluto called the Ninth House (I’m 95 years old). I’m a penitant (in case you couldn’t tell) and I wear mostly black. I love the hand-me-downs of the Ninth House and I get all my clothes from there. For example today I was wearing a black robe with matching embroidery around it and a black leather miniskirt, pink fishnets and black combat boots. A redheaded dyke child stared at me. I hit her with my stick.

#the locked tomb #crux #posting this on request with no context #trb.txt #x #child abuse ment

[springtrappd]

You said in one post that the author of Solar Lunacy is ableist. Could you explain how they're being problematic? I know almost nothing about them or the story itself, so I wouldn't know if they've said or done anything sus. Also, thank you for actually criticizing the Daycare Attendant stans, almost nobody in this site does that.

thank you for asking! it's rare to see, you're right, but it's also rare that people are willing to actually engage with that critical posting, so -- again, thank you! as for your question: oh boy, can i!

first: the basics. dissociation is a psychological response to overwhelming stress wherein the brain... disassociates from itself, placing a barrier between itself and the harsh reality. the most famous dissociative disorder is dissociative identity disorder (DID), known formerly as multiple personality disorder (MPD) or split personality. did occurs when someone without a fully-formed identity (read: a child) undergoes such severe stress that the 'brain' dissociates from its identity itself, creating alternate identities (personalities) to deal with the things they can't. these alternate identities work together to form a system. it's way more complicated than that and you can read more on it here and here but that's the bare minimum for the ignorant in the audience. we all caught up? good! moving on.

now, the question of whether or not the daycare attendant is a system is a touchy one. i've seen multiple different stances on the matter, seen a lot of arguments, and typed (and deleted) several hundreds of words about it, and the answer that i've come to is that, for the sake of this argument, whether the dca is a system in canon doesn't matter. what matters is how bamsara treats them. how do they handle the characters, how do they frame the switches in personality, the confusion, all the parallels to real-world symptoms -- how do they expect the viewer to feel, what do they pull from the cultural lexicon, yadda yadda. does bamsara -- regardless of their intentions -- depict the dca as a system, and if so, how do they handle it?

the answer is that they depict the dca as experiencing altered identity states, switching (and even blurring) between identities, and even repeatedly acknowledges them as a plural entity.

and it is these behaviours, specifically, that are used to make the dca scary. bamsara's daycare attendant is scary because they experience altered identity states. because they blur identities. because they are a plural entity. because they display the textbook symptoms and behaviours of a disorder most commonly caused by childhood sexual abuse. and it is the fear that this is inspires that makes them (but especially moon & eclipse) sexy.

now, one can argue that this is simply in line with existing horror media, and they would be correct: most pop culture depictions of dissociative disorders are extremely ableist, and have real-world consequences! but what makes it really, really shitty is that... i don't want to think about this stuff. i don't come to fandom to be reminded that people are terrified of what they don't understand, and that that very very often includes the mentally ill. i don't want to be reminded that there are people who don't believe dissociative disorders exist at all. i don't want to reminded that they -- the sick, the survivors, the unlucky 140 million -- are spoken of in the same way as monsters. i don't come here for harsh realities. but solar lunacy is the most kudos'd fnaf fic on ao3, and we all have to live with that.

if you liked solar lunacy or bamsara's content or... whatever, i don't particularly care. i'm not mad about people thinking evil alters are sexy, or engaging with horror content that says shitty things about systems -- it's your life, live it how you please (and i've got a vanny icon so who am i to judge lmao). sometimes the things that make us happy are kinda shitty, and that's okay! our views are shaped by the society we live in, and there is no society on earth that is kind to the mentally ill -- there's no way to undo that, to stop that from influencing you in some capacity. but... all i ask is for you to think about this stuff, and try to educate yourself on the topic. there's nothing wrong with making a mistake, or having flaws -- but there's something wrong with making a space that feels unsafe, that reflects some of the more uncomfortable aspects of our society, that unintentionally hurts people. it's just up to you if that something is something you care about.

i hope that answers your question, anon (and anyone else who's curious). take care, mate!

(edit 13/01/2023: due to some technical difficulties on tumblr's end, the notes aren't quite showing up properly, so here's the link to bamsara's reblog chain if you can't find it.)

#speaking! #asks #anon #bamsara #fnaf #discourse #long post #loooong looooooong post #sorry it got so long!! i have a lot to say abt this topic #& wanted to do my due diligence #so doubly sorry if there are any errors... 'tis midnight #also: don't ask if i have did/am a system please! #it's extremely rude and confronting to ask someone something like that #just like. putting that out there. #anyway #csa ment #child abuse ment #bs saga

[pespillo]

these screens are all correlated .

with the fact that collector saw things/people as "playthings" that could be fixed up even as much damage its done to them, its messes me up with the implications / their behavior towards trying to be open to Belos again so quickly after everything because he thought it could kindness could work, to use their own self in the form of a doll as something that can be broken up and fixed on a whim fully makes me believe they expected to be freed by Philip and continue to be treated the same way he did before, even when Philip was physically lashing out at them in their shadow form, he put trust into Philip that even if they "got broken" , Philip would be able to "fix him" or he would fix themselves and continue playing on, just like the grimwalkers were made over and over and Collector was not raised to see them as their own individuals . By all means Collector was not raised to fear Belos like grimwalkers did , but its worse that Collector was actually always this willing to take in abuse on the guise that its "pretend" or "its just part of the game" because at the end of it all they are inmortal and it "shouldnt matter".

#child abuse ment #the collector #toh spoilers #the owl house spoilers #the owl house #toh collector #sorry this is rather heavy i just didnt expect the implication here to have this much merit #can you tell i cre abt this kid so much sdlfkjlkfds

[lockandkeyhyena]

whaaaaat? you’re joking. a youtube parenting blogger? arrested for child abuse? no wayyyy. whaaaat? you’re kidding me. those people that film their children before they can even give their consent and deprive them of all bodily autonomy?? those people that the youtube community has been calling out for years and yet youtube does nothing about because they make them money? those people? no way.

#yeen rambles #child abuse ment

[solidwater05]

Do you have any Exigency theories?

Nope. I kinda gave up theorizing about Saint's characters. And I'm pretty sure that 'believing something that is heavily implied' (in this case that Gabriel was the Exigency's abusive dad) doesn't count as a theory

If this turns out to not be true somehow I'll jump out of the window. /silly

#punctuationverse #epprbcu #!cu #!!!exigency #ice speaks #ask tag goes here #anon ask #child abuse ment #i can't jump out of my window; it has mosquito mesh and i am considerably bigger than an insect

[subterra-rose]

Based on this:

#the owl house #toh #toh spoilers #Luz noceda #Odalia blight #Luz toh #Odalia toh #child abuse ment #Alex doodles #too much drawing last night. cramped my hand #anyways would Odalia support nfts? we just don’t know #toh comic

[cookie-waffle]

I still full-heartedly believe that someone hurt Wild Link before he even met Zelda. I’ve had an anxiety disorder since around 12, and I know people don’t just develop extreme anxiety and become selectively mute as an older teen within a few months or a few years.

I could’t help but put two and two together and get a lil sus about Link’s family when Zelda asked him if he would have chose a different path if he was given the option, AND when Mipha mentioned how happy he was as a young child by comparison. Even before he pulled the master sword, he was like this. He was a child solider, and given the fact that he’s the youngest knight in Hyrule’s (remembered) history, he must have joined the military at a VERY young age. Perhaps around 12-14 yrs old.

I’m not sure this was Nintendo’s intention, but given that Zelda’s father was very blatantly portrayed as an abusive parent, and the fact that Zelda relates to Link so much, it does kinda feel like there’s an implication that Link was heavily abused at some point.

#loz #legend of zelda #botw #totk #child abuse ment

[prisoner-000]

i'm so curious if purge march will show amane's cult elders (the mascot costume people in magic) in person like as humans or if it'll just be her father. maybe her father Is actually one of them but i'm kind of hoping he's not - would make it a lot more interesting for him to either be a basically nobody in the cult or even its leader imo. regardless i hope all of them blow up and die for hurting her and the other kids <3

#prisoner's ramblings #milgram #008 #child abuse ment

[prettyboyprincely]

And, in a shocking turn of events, it turns out the “anti groomer” crowd is okay with child abuse, so long as it is a cis person doing it

This is the world they want. A world where they can use violence to force children to conform to them.

#child abuse #child abuse tw #tw child abuse #child abuse ment #child abuse mention #child abuse cw #cw child abuse #physical abuse #physical abuse ment #physical abuse mention #physical abuse tw #tw physical abuse #cw physical abuse #physical abuse cw

[sakakisilverlining]

What if your dad forgot about you, little girl?

Oh. Uh...

I don't really know... Last time we saw each other He said He didn't love me... And He pulled my hair! It hurt! Mmm... I don't want to think about it anymore. Can I stop? I wanna go home.

#♤hmph. naturally. [×silverpostings×] #sleepytime event #child abuse ment

[pespillo]

in an effort for the body to protect itself it forces the form into early maturity and warps into a scythe

#the owl house #emperor acolyte au #king clawthorne #emperor belos #humanization #samsa´s art stuff #child abuse ment #id in alt

[emdotcom]

A warning!! If you look into this, this one IS a real event that did result in actual children dying -- please be cautious, & take care of yourself.

Remember! If you share, more answers will be there.

#gale chatter #poll #polls #urban legends #creepy pasta #i feel somewhat ick posting this one. thr case is interesting to me but again. it's real. #i like true crime in concept but struggle w/ like. this #child death ment #death ment #child abuse ment #i feel particularly scummy with asking people to reblog this one. doesn't feel right. i changed the share mantra on this one.

[mp100confessionbox]

Remember those panels in the manga, where the 7th Division grunts were discussing the kid who was transferred from HQ and had survived Claw's brutal awakening experiments? I think some stuff had been mistranslated through the grapevine by the time the information reached them...but I believe they're talking about Shou. I think he was tortured to make his powers stronger.

#confession #suzuki shou #mob psycho 100 #mp100 #torture ment #child abuse ment #:(

[subterra-rose]

I think Hunter is a good character in showing how trauma can be reductive to a person’ view of self because as someone who grew up abused by a guardian, a lot of the anger and resentment directed at me as a child wasn’t my fault, but the result of someone taking her bitterness out on someone who reminded her of the person who hurt her. And it can take a lot of time to heal from having to hear your entire life you’re just like that person and then figure out who you are outside of that perception

#texting my patience #child abuse ment #not even gonna go into the generational trauma of the coven system vs real life indigenous people because that’s #a whole new can of worms to open up and I don’t want to talk about personal family stuff #ok to rb but do not clown #the owl house

[poobit]

people always bringing out christian puritanism when talking abt whether its fine for adults to jack off to media idealized idea of adults abusing of children is always so painfully ironic when you all know damn well csa n child abuse are extremely excused and normalized in abusive christian spaces of all kinds , like Its almost the norm the body of a child is an adult´s property regardless of their wellbeing and all.

#child abuse ment

[endgamesyndicate]

tbh it’s funny how the most traction i get is from radfems even tho it was never an intention to come on here and dunk on them, like i came to enjoy the 3 or 4 mutuals i do have bc they know who i are and i leave it ya dig like lmfao seethe quietly and proceed to show your literal abusiveness by telling me to kill myself because you’re mad i’m wrong. like fr i came out as bi and was a part of the lgbtq+ community before the time of neopronouns and tbh it doesn’t. Quite Make Sense to me but if a mfka wanna go by pineself WHO AM I TO BE MAD. are they abusing people. are they abusing kids. are they raping people are they Genuinely Bad People or are they someone who just. minds their business and thinks they’re akin to a pine tree why the fuck would i be mad at that, get it you lil funky dinosaur and i’m not tryna say that to make fun of anyone it’s an attempt to prove my neutrality towards it the shit we really need to be concerned about is movements of people calling for genocide or euthanasia of certain groups of people, the movements of people who would rather see mentally ill, certain genders, disabled individuals, “undesirables” gone. there’s too much detriment to every human being in some way, shape, or form to be fucking infighting idk man.

#abuse mention #radblr mention #radblr still is weird 2 me #cw sa mention #neopronouns mention #csa mention #child abuse ment #genocide mention #cw genocide #infighting #cw infighting #oh and #this IS a trans-safe blog #this is NOT a terf/radfem/radblr safe blog #PERIOD #i don't discriminate against anyone other than MAPS and abusers #period.