#childhood ✨trauma✨

[apollo-zero-one]

Can we get some special love for middle children with eldest daughter syndrome. For whatever reason you had to be the big sibling to your elder sibling too. You had to grow up in the shadow of someone who you were also expected to be responsible for. You had to grow up extra-fast so you could be your elder sibling's guide and mentor and babysitter even though your family clearly favored them and they were given more opportunities in life. You have a weird slightly dysfunctional relationship with your elder sibling because of that.

You deserved to be a child too. You deserved to be seen. You deserved help. You deserved better. I hope you are able to find a place where the only person you have to take care of is yourself. You shouldn't have to carry your whole family forever.

#eldest daughter syndrome #middle child #✨childhood trauma✨ #childhood trauma

[mydarlingdahlia]

Someone yell at me and tell me that I’m deserving of love bc I don’t think I am in the slightest

#charlotte rambles #this is so random #but it’s true #i’ve always been convinced that i’m nothing and not deserving of other’s love #even if i was told otherwise #the perks of ✨childhood trauma✨

[going-to-superhell]

The fact that I apologise whenever I ask a question properly isn’t normal

#that’s called ✨childhood trauma✨ #‘it’s okay to ask’ NO THE FUCK IT ISNT #t r u m a I have trauma and I’m gay #unintelligible gremlin noises

[char4925]

I’m generally surprised there’s basically no angsty stuff for ddv. Like there’s SO much potential, Mickey’s missing wife, memory loss, loneliness, lost hope, guilt, etc! Like ESPECIALLY the mc, they literally abandoned & forgot about their kingdom full of people who are trapped, lost some/a lot of their memories, people being gone (not dead but you can get them back), not to mention the condition the valley itself is in when you get there. The player’s gonna feel a whole lot of guilt for what they did, possibly trying to overwork themselves due to them trying to “make up for it” (they’re already doing enough to make up for it). They do this to the point that everyone’s incredibly concerned for their wellbeing (including the villains!), so when someone finds the ruler passed out the ones who have been there longer would nonchalantly would carry them/find someone to carry them to their house while the newer ones would be very confused as to why they’re so nonchalant about their ruler being passed out (maybe even dead). The last part would hilarious but the rest is just pure angst.

#dreamlight valley #disney dreamlight valley #disney #ddlv community #ddlv #ddv #angst #My player oc Zakia would 100000% overwork herself so often that residents are used to it #she has a different type of ✨trauma✨ #the rest of my main character/protag ocs (who I play as in their respective games) be out here fighting what are basically gods #being betrayed #& saving the world while she overworks herself to death bc she feels bad about leaving a bunch of fictional characters #in a place that is basically a metaphor of childhood imagination #she has a trauma related reason for it but STILL #lot of tags bc of character limit #Also all of protag oc’s lore of their respective games change to fit their backatory & character #like Abbott (PSMD protag) isn’t & never was human #just came from a world with humans

[superspoonie24]

Anna: *is neglected and abandoned for majority of her life, starting at like age 5*

Anna: *runs into someone who actually sees Her and notices Her and doesn't act like she's invisible or a burden for the first time in over a decade*

Anna: hey sister I desperately want to notice me and will accept even the tiniest bit of attention from, here is a man I just met that is, *checks notes*, actually talking to me. I'm going to marry him.

Elsa: that's ridiculous! You just met him.

Anna: ~~yeah and in the few hours I've been with him he has talked to me more than you (or anyone else really) have in like 13 ish years~~ Oh haha yeah but like... I Know him and he's a prince!

Elsa: No. I don't approve.

Anna: ~~who the hell are you to approve??? You. Don't. Talk. To. Me.~~ Oh. Uh. Well can we talk about it? (Definitely is not desperate and terrified to lose the tiniest shred of a shred of a relationship she has with her sister) *Reaches out for the attention and affection she is so starved of*

Elsa: *freaks out, reveals giant secret, runs away*

Anna: holy *shit*... I gotta go make sure she's okay!! ~~I gotta make sure I don't lose her.~~

Anna: *goes after Elsa and gets shamed by another stranger for A going after her and B 'falling for a man she just met'*

Elsa: *rejects her more and tells Anna she is better off without her*

Anna: *heartbroken cause the last member of her family, the person she idolizes and so desperately wants love from, Keeps Rejecting Her.*

Anna: *leaves heart broken ~~and heart frozen~~ to go back to the only person this whole night who has shown her undivided 'love', attention, care, affection*

Hans: *is an asshole out of no where????*

Anna: *heartbroken AGAIN because she really can't trust anyone and maybe it's her own fault she's so unlovable.*

Elsa: *Is gonna be killed*

Anna: *is on the brink of literal death and when it comes to going after the stranger who is actually pretty nice and kind and likes her for her and treats her with respect vs the person who she has longed for her entire life even though she keeps pushing her away, she goes after her sister because despite it all she still wants Her love, hell just her Attention above anything else.*

The movie: This is true love 🥰

Me, definitely not projecting my own life onto this at twelve: Hold up this hurts a lot and I relate to these characters wait-

My sister: This movie is mine and only I get to sing and only I get to love it cause it's mine. But if you sing it perfectly and never mess up any of the words or notes I guess I'll let you watch with me.

Me: Really???? 😍🥺🥰🥺😍

...

Okay so this was going to be a critique about how Anna is seen as naive and dumb and it is used against her the entire movie without ever acknowledging *why* she's like that. And how a lot of fans don't see it either. But then it really just turned into me trauma dumping lmao.

But seriously. I feel like most of the neglect and abuse talk ends up being towards Elsa cause she visibly struggles more. And Anna hides it because she has to. Her parents were so worried about elsa that they didnt have time for her pain too. So it's hidden. But it is most definitely there. And it deserves to be mentioned and talked about.

Also this is a very common situation for emotionally neglected people to find themselves in. They cling onto someone showing the slightest bit of decency and believe it's good and amazing cause when you're starved, you'll eat poison if it might help for just a moment. Cause something is better than nothing. And when the something is bad and hurting, the pain of going back to nothing is worse. So you're stuck with a Hans believing it's what you deserve because of years of neglect and abuse.

But yeah. Anna is just dumb and naive. Definitely no trauma on her end.

Bottom line:

Anna deserves better. In canon and from fandom. And ESPECIALLY from Disney.

#frozen #frozen 2 #anna #anna of arendelle #elsa #anna and elsa #disney #movie analysis #disneys frozen analysis #neglect #abuse #childhood neglect #child abuse #emotional neglect #hans sucks #trauma dumping ™ #✨ p r o j e c t i o n ✨ #projection #man this isn't even talking about her desperation in the second movie EXCEPT OH WAIT THEY CUT THOSE SONGS CAUSE FUCK ANNA'S DEVELOPMENT #HAHAHAHAHA IT'S ALL ABOUT ELSA AND ANNA IS JUST A SPARE #SHE'S THE SPARE QUEEN NOW THAT ELSA HAS RUN OFF #can't wait to see how they butcher frozen 3 #can you tell I'm mad? #aly vents

[empyrangel]

Been trying to convince myself that I’m not traumatized by parents and that I don’t have mommy issues, but I decided to re-read pjo in honor of the casting of the show.I got to the page in tlt where Percy went home for summer break and was talking about how great his mom was and how much she cared for him, and I have to admit, I don’t think it’s normal to start crying when reading a couple pages of a character having a good relationship with their mother.

#traveler from another world ✨ #percy jackson #pjo #pjo tlt #the lightning thief #sally jackson #trauma #childhood trauma #mommy issues

[thatonebasicfan]

About to put a 10 year old Harry through the wringer.

#a.k.a i'm writing whump #and it's a lot #i would just like to clarify that i have always had a good childhood before this whump fic gets published #harry however #did NOT have a good childhood #and sirius is about to grab his wand and webley and ruin the dursleys #fanfic #harry potter #✨trauma✨

[inkandarsenic]

Something about the fluffy family moments between the Cuthberts always makes me tear up.

#i know what it is #it’s the trauma #they all love each other #so much #somehow #I don’t think I ever had that #always felt like I was #kind of a burden #not really wanted #childhood trauma #makes everything #✨SPICY✨ #anne with an e #anne shirly cuthbert #marilla cuthbert #matthew cuthbert #Cuthbert family #Anne with an e Netflix

[un-pearable]

📁 UM um fiona 🙏

fiona my oft-neglected beloved…. i think she and mina mongoose have a History. there was something. not necessarily on either side of platonic or romantic but they had some wacky sonic comic adventure off screen sometime after fiona ditched the freedom fighters and mina was on tour w/o ash,, let mina get some of her frustration out and be a little morally gray for funsies and let fiona have girl friends. or girlfriends. both is good. it didn’t last but they know each other and absolute No One gets why

#this is both bc i think they could relate to each other but not be enough for each other #and also be feminism. they both deserve a less shitty dynamic. they aren’t Friends Friends but there’s an understanding between them #i want mina to be morally gray. i want fiona to have her own network of people she knows across every shade of archie’s fucked up morality #i. i get the feeling i’ve talked about this before??? have i??????? i need to reread archie so bad. anyway point being Girls. like them. #we are ignoring the questionable relationship with tails in both situations i am talking purely from a ‘trauma from my childhood shaped by w #ar and getting dragged into a conflict i was unprepared for’ level of relatability #archie sonic #text✨ #ask game #fiona fox

[buck-n-dots]

mannnnn my son is having a bad time in this fic...

#🦋 clown car.txt #911 show #evan buck buckley #📝 fancy a sneak peek? #✨ uh oh! childhood trauma! ✨ | bad buckley parents fics #fanfiction #911 fanfic #evan buckley #🔪 comfort? what comfort?

[myersesque]

the "that was kinda fucked up" to "woah. jesus. what the fuck. that was really fucked up" pipeline is real. can someone invent time travel so i can wrap 13 yr old me in bubblewrap rq

#✨childhood trauma✨ #the startling realisation that ur NOT a terrible person u were just a DUMB TRAUMATISED MENTALLY ILL CHILD #but that comes w the BONUS EXTRA-STARTLING REALISATION that OH FUCK #THAT MEANS IT WAS FUCKED UP THE *OTHER* WAY #like damn. what the fuck /lh #og #vent

[triforce-of-mischief]

Fanfic Ask - B, Q, V

Sweet Hylia I answer one ask and another pops up! /j

B (Any of your stories inspired by personal experience?): Absolutely! Bunny Bumps and Bruises is like 90% based on something that happened to me that day. Sicktember Day 11 is a mashup of me going to the ER for pneumonia when I was like 8 and me going to the ER recently and remembering how much being in a hospital freaks me out. And then I dumped it all on poor Lege. 💜

Q (Do you have any discarded scenes/storylines/projects?): Probably that Zack and Wiki crossover fic I told Dragon about.

V (A secondary (or underrated) character you want to see more of in fic?): Hmm I think in this fandom we're pretty well balanced? I could always use more Ravio though.

#fable writes #fable gets personal #fable's asks #chatting with squiggles! #I feel like I keep needing to say this (bc social anxiety) but I dont have anything against healthcare workers /gen #I have a lot of respect for healthcare workers #I'm just a civilian with trypanophobia and a lil bit of childhood trauma that never got addressed ✨

[austerulous]

Sorry for going quiet.  It has been a Week™.

#( rant warning here there is no obligation to read these tags ahjgwf ) #highlights include: #✨ my daughter biting / lacerating her tongue ✨ #( it wasn't even an accident - she was literally thrown by my friend's son ) #( the incident shook me up there was so much blood pouring out of her mouth all over her beloved plushie bunny and all over my clothes ) #( the situation was handled so poorly by my friend and her son that it's got me questioning the whole friendship ) #( her nonchalant unapologetic reaction reeked of ' boys will be boys ' and that makes me go feral ) #( i'm happy to report my daughter is fine now and her tongue is healing beautifully though we were worried she would need stitches ) #✨ me thinking i was going to lose my job ✨ #( i had a meeting on tuesday where i had to defend my role within the company ) #( which was easy because i do everything around here ) #( sales! customer service! office admin! import documentation! hr! all this in two days a week ) #( my job appears secure but i've kind of fallen out of love with it now ) #✨ my dad unhinging at my son for no good reason ✨ #( which not only frightened the little chap but also brought my own childhood trauma bubbling to the surface ) #( my dad apologised to me yesterday and showed genuine remorse for his behaviour ) #( hi my name is puffin i'm 33 years old and my father has never apologised to me for anything so this took some processing ) #✨ marital discord ✨ #( not going to elaborate on this much but i carry the team at work and i carry the team at home and i'm just so tired ) #anyway!! #friday is my work-free child-free day so i hope to be around #i have a few more smooch asks to send #i want to answer those kink asks and reply to dms #i'm not ignoring anyone i'm just 🥴 trying to survive #on the bright side our swallows have returned and are rebuilding their nest in the garage #and i have done some work in the garden and it's looking lovely #there's a long way to go but baby steps still count #ilu all and i hope you're having a good week so far ♡ #take no shit do no harm be kind to yourselves #◈ — ooc; puffin speaks

[going-to-superhell]

#look at all that ✨childhood trauma✨ #also rb for a bigger sample size maybe? idk #tw possible childhood trauma #poll #polls #tumblr poll #tumblr polls

[filthycockroach]

Pst hey...

Psssssst heeeeey!

Hey there!

I'm glad I caught your attention, now please...

READ MY FIC!!!

https://archiveofourown.org/works/32886685

Ah, ✨childhood trauma✨

#bnha #bnha fanfiction #fanfic #mha fanfiction #eraserhead #childhood trauma #healing #Rat dad is best dad #i wrote some sad shit... #And I want YOU to read it :) #erasermic #erasermicnight #but the relationship isn't really the focus #the ✨healing journey✨ is what it's about

[raccoonsinacooat]

Is it just me?

Am I the only one who forgets to eat almost all day then complains about it later at 12:23 in the morning?

Just me?

Okay noted-

#oh welp #welp anyways #i have a problem #i have a huge problem that im never going to fix because ✨trauma✨ #child neglect from my childhood is amazing #tell me you had a terrible childhood without telling me you had a terrible childhood lemme go first this entire post #i need help- #like i have to be told to eat or food has to be made for me or I'm not going to eat till I'm literally starving #that means something #that says something #don't know what that means though nor do i know what that says but it's something