#ci-ci speaks

[ratbastarddotfuck]

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This is maybe the funniest (worst) radfem post I've come across in a while. It was a comment about cis women getting hysterectomies.

Do y'all know how many feminists have been fighting to be allowed to get hysterectomies without a) birthing (often multiple) children or b) a husband's permission? Including many people who have extremely painful and/or dangerous uterus-related conditions, like PCOS or menorrhagia? So many doctors HATE giving hysterectomies specifically because "you really should have kids first".

Also, cis men don't need to "remove their ballsack" to avoid having kids. They get vasectomies. An incredibly simple, routine procedure.

People who are getting hysterectomies are often doing so for reasons not solely related to pregnancy - if it were just about fertility, getting your tubes tied would suffice if you were averse to other forms of birth control. My mum did that after my sister was born, and then went back in for a hysterectomy a few years later because her periods were agonising. My aunty also had a hysto several years back, because not only were her periods agonising, but they would cause flare ups in some of her other conditions.

I just... how are you calling yourself a feminist while advocating for LESS bodily autonomy for women? How can you act like women are being stupid or reckless in their choice to get a hysto and not see the indescribable misogyny you're utilising?

"It's never [cis] men who remove an organ just because they don't want it" yeah, I wonder if that's because they don't have an organ that causes agonising blood loss on a monthly basis? Like... nobody's out here getting kidneys removed for fun. It's a very specific organ only being removed for very specific, personal reasons.

It's my body, not yours. Hands the fuck off.

*This post is authored by a trans person. If you're agreeing with me about this topic while being against trans healthcare, consider that your whole ideology is built in opposition to bodily autonomy for people outside your ideals of gender. Sit with that information.*

#feminism #healthcare #gender #this post really pissed me off #you're ridiculing cis women for getting hysterectomies now? your suffragettes would be horrified. #the system speaks

[emberglowfox]

fuck all cis people except for the guy who dmed me on instagram to ask about my new name and, upon me explaining the concept of transgenderism, said, “interesting strat. i like it.”

#fucking LOVING the idea of transgenderism as some kind of strategy to win at life. he’s right #this guy gets gender more than any cis person #sparks speaks #obligatory “fuck all cis people” is slash jay i have a few cis “people” i keep close to my heart <3 #containment breach #<- deeply unfortunately

[collidedscope]

mentopolis?? pretty sure you mean womentopolis…

#d20 #mentopolis #i speak #cis-her gala-them #dimension 20

[sciderman]

Sci in the short time Uncle Ben was around -- or even if he'd lived longer -- would he have known that Peter is Spiderman?

this is such a delight of a question! what a delightful little thought experiment. thinking about a scenario where uncle ben was still around when aunt may finds out peter is spider-man – when she finds peter's tights, when he was seventeen.

i think there's no way at all that aunt may wouldn't have told uncle ben. she definitely would have told him. i don't think uncle ben would've been observant enough to figure it out by himself, but – aunt may, she's smart. she figures it out.

may and ben have such entirely different ways of handling peter

[x]

ben's old-fashioned, a bit square (like peter), and not very well-informed. he worries a lot about peter. worries about him getting into trouble. sees his unusual behaviour, and meets it with soft concern. he doesn't understand it all, he doesn't understand the youth. but he has a desire to embrace peter and attempt to understand him. he worries about him a lot.

may - may's always been the cool parent. she's encouraging, and very easy about this sort of thing. i think she has a lot of trust in peter. maybe more than she should. she is well-informed, and smart, and she recognises behaviours in peter and kind of feels like it's nothing to worry about. she knows peter's doing all the important exploration that he needs to do, and he'll do it at his own time. she thinks peter can handle it.

(of course peter could not handle it.)

i think that's why aunt may didn't confront peter about spider-man. i think she's of the feeling that peter would come out to her when he's ready to. but - she'd definitely tell ben. and if uncle ben knew - well, oh. he would be worried out of his mind.

god bless, it would come out of such a place of concern. and he'd talk to peter. in the most awkward way a father could give his son the talk.

#sci speaks #ask-spiderpool #peter parker #uncle ben #meta #uncle ben cares so much. he's old fashioned and you probably would need to Explain bisexuality to him but he's got the spirit. #he's the only heterosexual cis man in 9319. and he is a true ally. #i think aunt may taught him a lot but he's still got a lot of learning to do.

[average-hua-cheng-fan]

my copy of book 7 arrived :3

#tgcf #tian guan ci fu #hob #heaven official's blessing #hua cheng #xie lian #hualian #tgcf meme #tgcf shitpost #lmao #i speak

[salaciousslut]

no one is kissing and biting my thighs so whats the point

#ci speaks #a

[bigquestionmark]

a lot of people act like xie lian was entirely unaware/ignorant to the power imbalance in his and mu qings relationship when he was probably the most empathetic and understanding towards mu qing. for example, he defends mqs behaviour to fx multiple times because he understands what causes it.

i think he just believed their friendship overcame this power imbalance (which was easier for him to do because he wasnt negatively impacted by it unlike mu qing).

whereas, despite how deeply he cared for xl, mq couldnt overlook it because he was literally xls servant and was faced with this power imbalance everyday.

xl saw mq as his friend first, however mq believed he was viewed primarily as a servant

#IDK IF THIS IS WORDED RIGHT BUT I JUST EANTED TO SPEAK ABOUT THIs!!!!! #people act like xl is so emotionally unintelligent its so odd to me #especially bc his emotional intelligence and compassion is like one the his defining features #he was just a little insensitive to it bc he was like 17 #heaven officials blessing #heaven official's blessing #tgcf #tian guan ci fu #mu qing #xie lian #xianle trio #kinda

[strawberry-crocodile]

trans women: he's a cool guy, but it sucks how f1nnster gets a ton of money and support, and it's because he's still cis and thats easier for people to respect than trans womanhood.

TME queers: wow you have gender nonconformity? don't you know gender can be anything? we should destroy gender anyway. you're the real bigot, actually.

#f1nnster #gnc cis men are used as a bludgeon against trans women #genderqueerness is used as a bludgeon against trans women #we are getting murdered in bathrooms and legislated out of existance #and the rest of the queer community is pretending we're bad guys for speaking out #dalucaray #im gonna become a fucking baeddel i swear to fuck

[apollos-boyfriend]

people who refer to their favorite characters with pronouns that deviate from what said character uses in canon are stronger than any us marine

#icarus speaks #CIS CHARACTERS!!! i don’t mean misgendering canonically trans characters #i mean me using 300 different pronouns for cpurp #and the dozens of ppl who use he/him for mafuyu or she/her for tsukasa without missing a beat #i fucking love that shit. keep at it everypony #containment breach

[tethered-heartstrings]

how is it that trans people are infantilized to the point they aren't deemed capable of making medical decisions about themselves and their body to make them actually *comfortable* in their own skin without jumping through 7000 hoops and sometimes multiple mental health evaluations but cis people can get plastic surgery solely to follow the most recent "what's hot" trend and nobody bats an eye

#the speaking clown #trans #transgender #nonbinary #enby #and it's like all cis people as the gatekeepers. please

[hualian]

my TGCF novel collection is FINALLY complete 😭🦋 it took many months but all the books are here!!!!

+ bonus my current MXTX collection:

#tgcf #hualian #tian guan ci fu #heaven official's blessing #mxtx #books #literature #macy speaks #i cried when i put all the books together #FINALLY #fun fact i was a silly person who thought my collection was complete BUT i forgot to get book 7 #cue clown noises hahahaha #now just to complete mdzs and I'll be so happy

[bixels]

im gonna be honest sir for the longest time i thought you WERE a beautiful butch lesbian on account of the multitudes of lesbian art and your attire in photos and your lack of pronouns that would suggest otherwise

Sorry to disappoint.

#anon #ask me #this is insane to me i'm the most cis-looking man i know #not a beautiful butch lesbian but a decent asian queer twink. #also i'm not offended i'm taking this as somewhat of a compliment i'm just being dry #funny story after i met my partner's parents he told his dad i'm bisexual (my partner is fem presenting) and his dad said #“yea i can tell by the way he dresses.” never been told this before tho! #hey speaking of attire my dad just gave me his old taiwanese air force helmet bag it's sick as hell. maybe i'll post pics

[moxielynx]

Lloyd wishes his brother a happy trans visibility day

#speaking of which #happy trans visibility day yall #every cis person is now legally obligated to give us money #ninjago #lego ninjago #ninjago fanart #ninjago oc #ryan garmadon #ninjago lloyd #lloyd ninjago #lloyd garmadon #lynx oc #lynx posting

[psychotrenny]

It does annoy me how a Cis person can gain all the accolades of "Allyship" by doing the bare fucking minimum, such a writing a transfem character as anything but a demonised caricature, while their supporters get violently defensive should you mention all the transphobic remarks they've made and all the transphobic people they've willingly gotten friendly with. Like I suppose you could have been a whole lot worse about it, but I begrudge the idea that I should wash your feet because you refrained from kicking my face

#of course you can replace “cis” and “trans” with the groups among any other axes of marginalisation #trans women are so very far from unique in this #but as a trans woman herself who started thinking about this due to a certain so called “trans ally” #it's what I want to blog about today #Stella Speaks

[average-hua-cheng-fan]

open discussion: in what part of tgcf would it be funniest to put a cornetto ad?

the tragic parts, yeah, okay, but imagine hua cheng leaving bride xie lian with only a strawberry cornetto to remember him by.....

#on the topic i need to eat the hualian cornettos or ill die i think #unforchunately all we have in america is. spongebob popsicle #i speak #lmao #tgcf #tian guan ci fu #hob #heaven official's blessing #tgcf shitpost

[salaciousslut]

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#ci speaks #a