Another of my older posts. It actually got more relevant recently, because of Elon.
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I need trans ppl and our allies to be aware of something important that's going on with TERF rhetoric right now.
The gist of it is that they are using intercommunity problems to drive a wedge between trans fem and trans masc people. Their goal-- as always -- is to divide and conquer us. We need to be vigilant. I haven't seen a lot of people talk about this yet, but it's been happening for months.
Trans women, don't look away. You're being manipulated by TERFs to hurt your community. Don't let them do this to us. Take our grievances seriously. Trans men who voice legitimate complaints about bad behavior in our communities are not calling you "male oppressors", as TERFs would like you to believe. Your fear of that rhetoric is justified, but aimed at the wrong folks.
Only a small minority of trans women are transandrohobic. And only a small minority of trans men are trans misogynistic. But this shit does happen and it needs to be addressed.
Ignoring each others' grievances is what drives our communities apart. We need to listen to each other and moderate our communities when trans people inadvertently (or intentionally) behave in ways that are transmisogynistic or transandrophobic. Or hell, transphobic behaviors period.
This is important.
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If you consider yourself an ally to trans people, maybe don't only ask pronouns of people you think don't look cis. That's just singling people out, not actually being an ally.
The amount of times I've been in a group of cis-appearing people and only *I* was the one who was asked about my pronouns is fucking exhausting. Even within LGBT spaces, cis people you need to fucking stop with that shit.
All you're doing is just singling out people you think don't "pass" as cis. It's just clocking with a veneer of "progressive" language.
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Eu odeio a cisnormatividade. Faz eu me sentir excluído em toda santa aula. Olá. Eu sou um garoto XX. Eu existo. Eu n sou uma garota por causa dum treco minúsculo q ninguém nunca viu. Só não.
Pra q?????? Q bem te faz assumir q tds os seus alunos são cis????? NENHUM.
Vai se foder cisnormatividade.
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"Him/her" "(s)he's" "h(er)is" would it kill your cis ass to say They
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People's identities are not a debate (tw: cis nonsense/transphobia)
This happened to me a couple years back when I first came out I had asked a close friend of mine back then if they could start using they/them when referring to me. I was told I wasn't trans because I wasn't transitioned yet and that nonbinary isn't real because its a *clothing aesthetic* (I still cant believe I heard that) but yeah I am no longer friends with that person- being trans doesn't mean my titties just magically recede into my body I still have to *pay* for that, Johnathan
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Would someone like to tell me why scents are gendered? Like, what makes something a
MAN SMELL
or a
Lady Smell
It's literally a scent, how the fuck can it have a gender?
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Just saw something about "why do you as a guy have this kind of taste in music" and ????? It's music?? It's for everybody?? Also, it was just a list of like top 10 artists like Ed Sheeran and shit which a lot of people really like right?? That's WHY they're top 10, tons of people like them. Didn't think that was a "gender thing"
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Nothing makes me angrier than people trying to validate trans people’s gender through sexism. That’s not fucking helping anyone im not here to validate your misogyny and i do not agree with your gender stereotypes i don’t care that you accept gender conforming trans people in it
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I made a meme
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Buddy, if you’re gonna be a transphobic asshole, at least get it right; you’re making a fool of yourself in front of everyone 😂.
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why can't we as a society just let people who use they/them show some titty and not misgender them for it?
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friendly reminder that cis people are NOT welcome here. this is a t4t account for t4t people ONLY. if youre not trans, get out. this space isnt for you. i dont care if youre an ally, this is a TRANS ONLY SPACE
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honestly transphobes so desperately wanting to be oppressed is both hilarious and exhausting
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Cis people are on thin ice and they still decide to jump 🙄
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