#closeted bi

[bicultureblog]

Pseudo-closeted, eternally single bisexual culture is feeling like you can not have an official partner ever in your life.

My mom and my sister know that I'm bisexual but they think it is phase bc I haven't had a girlfriend in 6 years, so if I get a boyfriend now they will think I'm "finally straight"

But I'm closeted to rest of my family, but they all know I have never in my life had a boyfriend, so if I get a girlfriend now they will all think "of course she never had a bf, she's a lesbian!"

So I'm just resigned that my future is to be a spinster with 14 cats and 2 cows in a cozy cabin in a Scottish forest.

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#bi culture #bi #bisexual #closeted #closeted bi #closeted bisexual #biphobia

[slippin-joh]

It's ok if you're not ready yet

Art by @mbpanther

#pride #closeted bisexual #coming out #closeted bi #bi #bi pride #bisexual

[xxiamnotokay666xx]

Sitting here trying to find subtle pride merch so that I can wear it once pride month rolls around without my parents finding out im bi...

#bi pride #pride merch #bisexual #bisexual pride #closeted bi #my friends know though #but not my parents #I'll die before they find out

[scintillatingshortgirl19]

VERY interesting that this moment took place in the "woman in house and wilson's building thinks they're gay/dating" episode

also. hugh laurie's little smirk here really adds a certain . . . dimension to this moment that would not be there if he'd responded to the joke in a different way

#thirteen knows house is bi she totally fucking knows #anyway yeah i cannot get over house's goddamn little Smirk #that was so unnecessary. christ #this is one of those moments where i'm like. #damn i guess this isn't *technically* canon confirmation of house's queerness but it sure comes pretty fucking close #it's just that there are a lot of alternate ways house could have responded to to thirteen's comment #an eyeroll perhaps #some sort of no homo statement #anything #but he didn't! he fucking SMIRKED #and not in a performative way #it was a subtle smirk #a smirk just for thirteen and himself #this whole moment feels SO fundamentally 'bisexual daughter telling her closeted father figure that she is fully aware they are The Same' #house season 6 #house md #house 6x11

[graycious-tea]

So are we just not gonna talk about Tommy’s fan-fucking-tastic in the closet joke or????

#evan buckley #911 abc #evan buck buckely #buck buckley #911 show #911 spoilers #911 #9 1 1 #9 1 1 abc #tommy kinard #buck x tommy #bi buck #episode 5 #like very gay #the gay is strong in this one #it’s so funny #i luv him #he’s so silly #in the closet #narnia waved hello #eddie diaz #edmundo diaz

[thankstothe]

#house md #gregory house #remy hadley #thirteen #13 #screencap #s04e12 “Don't Ever Change” #pov: your closeted dad telling you he knows what you are #;) #he's such a bitch i cant #finally someone (not me) who i can unleash all my bi puns on #he has decades of material #this is adoption btw #don't remember if foreman told house or they individually clocked her

[mocha-mochii-blog]

guys I just noticed this on the left is Dr. Frank-N-Furter from Rocky Horror and on the right is Mike Wheeler’s main s4 outfit the triangle over the heart on the left was historically used to indicate people as gay and has now become frequent lgbt imagery (e.g. in Robin’s shirt) this is making me crack upppp

#byler #mike wheeler #mike wheeler is gay #stranger things #stranger things costume #byler is real #bi mike truther #bi mike wheeler #closeted mike wheeler #bylerendgame #mike gay symbolism #mike is gay #slay mike #stranger things costumes #byler analysis #mike wheeler analysis

[syrva]

sending my love to gay sports girlies, every now and then I get flashbacks to my soccer days and I am shocked by the realization of how fruity it was

#happy pride month #chitter chatter syrva #u know the one scene in puss in boots (2011) where humpty dumpty is like “I was there the entire time” #and hes's hidden horribly in a bunch of scenes #that scene but with closeted gay/bi teen girls

[greenmantle]

The Righteous Gemstones ✞3.09 Wonders That Cannot Be Fathomed, Miracles That Cannot Be Counted

#the righteous gemstones #trgedit #mine #baby billy freeman #jesse gemstone #judy gemstone #kelvin gemstone #bi baby billy #imagine you're kelvin and you literally just came out after 33ish years in the closet #and like the next day you find out your 70 year old uncle has been bisexually slutting it up for over 20 years

[sunwithmooninblue]

Maddie when Buck tell that damn piece of information and come out in the process:

#she will have the most insane reaction trust me yall #she go straight to the closet pulling out the old ass bi flag that she bought for buck when he was only 10 #buddie #maddie #911

[farmerlesbian]

How long was it between when you knew or realized you were gay before you came out?

I know coming out is a process for a lot of people, so just choose when like the biggest moment for you was. Basically I'm asking about how long you knew you were gay but were in the closet, however you define being in the closet

#reblog or comment if it's complicated or you want to talk about it! #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtq+ #queer #coming out #closeted #polls #farmer lesbian #mod alfalfa #lesbian #gay #wlw #sapphic #homosexual #in the closet #bi #pan #bisexual #pansexual

[zichiwatchesyou]

gay

#woy #wander over yonder #woy wander #wander woy #wander #skeleton dance #screenshots #hehehe #woy hater #lord hater #my favorite closeted bi and homosexual

[flopianasupreme]

source

#let that man be bi already #the closet is glass #buddie #911 #911 abc #evan buckley #oliver stark

[hereforthe911buds]

as I go over that new sneak peek scene of the date, I don't see "I'm an ally" as Buck denying he's on a gay date or that he's not not straight, (I say since he hasn't said a label yet, but he knows he's not 100% straight) but Tommy's insinuation about internalized homophobia.

Tommy starts out with "nobody is looking at us Evan, we are just two guys out to dinner. nobody cares." Buck is so scared of being judged, as if someone thinking he is bi/gay could be a bad thing.

then Buck's relief at Tommy's coming out story, not being out when he worked at the 118, knowing Tommy came out later in life (still young imo) and worked through his fears.

but it's the "that I stopped lying to myself" is what causes some pushback.

"this is my first date with a dude, I'm not weirded out" for that buck acknowledges he's on a date with a man, that's not the problem. he is obviously uncomfortable, but he recognizes this new aspect about himself and wants to explore it.

the "I'm an ally. every pride month I put a rainbow on my Instagram" is more a I have nothing to hide. I'm literally on a date with a man. how could I have any homophobia? I love and support LGBTQ+ people.

buck is scared and even if supportive of LGBTQ+ people externally, he has some internalized issues (as nearly all queer people work through), and Tommy acknowledges it and talks him through some of his own experiences. even if I'm a buddie ride or die, I love Tommy. he's such a good boy.

#all of my uses of queer or gay/homo are meant to be bi inclusive #buck says this and then Eddie is going to walk up and he will most likely instinctively closet himself in fear #going to be so chaotic #911 abc #evan buckley #tommy kinard #911 spoilers

[slime-hoe]

I know it's early but I need lesbian huskerdust content.

Clarification I'm a baby dyke not some weird fetishy dude. Also I love the guys as they are I just am excited by the realization that they would make a cute butch/femme couple

Just idk something about imagining husk as a handsome woman makes me very flustered.

#I need to get better at art quick. #I used lesbian as shorthand for wlw here Husk would still 100% be pan #we dont invalidate bi and pan individuals in this household #I thought of this listening to a poem by Ivan coyote about the beauty of femmes and it made something in my brain go #this is the way husk loves Angel. My brain then went old timey butch/femme couple dancing to Loser baby and I started crying again #because i was already crying my heart out because the poem made me reflect on why ive been in the closet so long and #avoiding poetry on purpose as a way to keep myself from analyzing my own emotions around my sexuality and gender #hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel spoilers #husker x angel dust #huskerdust

[showmethesneer]

"Bisexuality itself is inherently resistant to heteronormative frameworks. Because gatekeeping is shortsighted and unbecoming. Because desire and understanding do not always go hand in hand. The project of identifying false or performative queerness is dead in the water. Do not trouble yourself to rescue it. Do not grieve at its graveside. Kiss someone. Fuck someone. Think about fucking someone while kissing someone else. Let sex be unknowable, warm, thrilling, funny, erotic, terrifying."

-"Both Ways" by Carmen Maria Machado from It Came From The Closet: Queer Reflections on Horror edited by Joe Vallese

#it came from the closet #both ways #carmen maria machado #horror #sexuality #bi pride #lgbtqia #queer #queerbaiting #liveblog of me reading