#cluster b positivity

[deceiver-of-god]

I'm glad I'm a narcissist, because it keeps me motivated. It makes me want to constantly improve myself, be better than the rest and be better than myself. It makes me want to aim higher every time. It allows me to learn new techniques, try new hobbies, and find new ways to face challenges.

Being a narcissist makes me take care of my appearance and my health. I want to be attractive, I want to dress well, I want everyone's eyes on me. I need it, and I will get it, because I always get what I want.

Yes, I admit it, I want attention, and I want compliments, and I want recognition. I want people to talk about me, and praise my abilities. I want to be the best at everything. I want glory on its knees.

I have NPD, and it is because of it that I am who I am, and that I do well in life.

Of course there are moments in which I hate having NPD, because it's still a disorder, and it has its negative consequences, not everything is precious in this life, but, despite everything, I'm glad I'm a narcissist.

#narcissistic positivity #narc posting #npd positivity #actually npd #actually narcissistic #cluster b #narcissistic personality disorder #npd safe #actually cluster b #npd culture is #narcissistic #npd #cluster b positivity #npd posting #narcissism

[sin-esthezia]

the thing that gets me the most about ableism against pd’s is that ppl will be like “these disorders make you an ASSHOLE!!!!” and then turn around and pretend that other disorders can’t and don’t make you act shitty.

depression and anxiety can make you irritable and snappy. they can cause you to refuse to listen to people and to be distant and withdrawn. they can cause you to seem angry, bitchy, rude, uncaring, etc.

ptsd causes an array of difficulties in forming meaningful relationships. it pretty much shakes up your entire worldview and sense of self a lot of the time. ptsd can cause you to get angry often. it can cause you to yell and scream. it can cause you to withdraw from others, run away, or cut them out. it can cause general changes in demeanor and more cynical worldviews. it can make you seem grouchy, negative, explosive, impolite, difficult, needy, controlling, etc.

and yet when people with personality disorders have symptoms of that nature, suddenly we are irredeemable monsters. when it’s npd, bpd, hpd, or aspd instead of ptsd or depression and anxiety, people suddenly and magically lose the ability to be understanding.

mental illness is an explanation, not an excuse. i firmly believe that. hurting others is never justified simply because you have any disorder.

but if you can be patient with people who have depression, anxiety, ptsd, ocd, or any other more well understood mental illness, you can be patient with us.

#ableism #ableism mention #ableism tw #cluster b #cluster b positivity #npd #bpd #hpd #aspd #npd positivity #bpd positivity #hpd positivity #aspd positivity #narcissistic abuse #narcissistic abuse awareness #actually cluster b #actually bpd #actually npd #actually borderline #actually narcissistic

[lyingnarc]

dear npd people with manipulative tendencies that theyre working on, i love you

dear npd people with manipulative tendencies that they can't work on, i love you

dear npd people with intrusive thoughts, i love you

dear npd people with a billion different blogs for all the possible attention, i love you

dear npd people with low or no empathy who dont try to mask it, i love you

dear npd people with low or no empathy who DO try to mask it, i love you

dear npd people who have been told they're wrong their whole lives, i love you

dear npd people, i love you

#actually npd #npd safe #npd culture is #narcissistic personality disorder #actually narcissistic #npd positivity #cluster b #cluster b safe #actually cluster b #cluster b positivity #npd #cluster b pd

[witch-of-the-creek]

Reblog to kiss a narcissist on the forehead

#I’m not npd but the stigma you all face is horrible #narc abuse does not exist #narcissistic abuse is not real #npd positivity #narcissist positivity #cluster b positivity #narcissism #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissistic positivity #reblog bait #reblog bait cw

[a-sip-of-milo]

To those with demonised disorders who like to headcanon their favourites characters as having those disorders: you are valid. It does not make you or that character a bad person. You deserve to be able to project onto media/fiction that you relate to just like everyone else without people losing their shit over it.

#cluster b positivity #cluster a positivity #cluster c positivity #cluster b #cluster a #cluster c #cluster b safe #cluster a safe #cluster c safe

[epick-cluster-b-blog]

sometimes it's okay to go along with a pwNPD's need for praise or attention.

pwNPD need acknowledgement or praise in some capacity. please be patient with us. it's okay to humor us every once in a while and give us the attention that we crave. for example, asking us to show off an accomplishment. asking us questions. letting us talk about whatever we want for a bit. the only thing that's important is that you do not cross your own boundaries (or anyone else's, for that matter).

you may think that doing this is unhealthy, because it's reinforcing grandiosity and the pattern of begging for praise. while for some people that may be true, the alternative is starving us of attention, which often does more harm than good. we don't learn to live without it that way. it is not your job to "fix" us. sometimes the best thing you can do is play along.

please just note that there is a lot of nuance to this situation, but my general rule of thumb is that as long as no one's being harmed, it's okay to engage!

oh and by the way, the same goes for other cluster b disorders, and even people without cluster b disorders. attention is something that everyone needs every once in a while. it's just that us cluster b folks tend to need it in excess.

#cluster b #cluster b awareness #cluster b positivity #npd #narcissistic personality disorder #actually npd #actually narcissistic #narcissism #bpd #hpd #aspd #actually cluster b #npd safe #npd positivity

[clusterbconfessional]

Just a reminder that no matter what you have done, lie you have told, or what PD you have, you will always be morally superior to any Billionaire or U.S politician.

#just throwing it out there #cluster b #npd safe #cluster b positivity #bpd safe #aspd safe #npd #actually npd #hpd safe #cluster b safe

[k9emote]

Would you do some BPD emojis by any chance? Love your art, the white & blue shading looks so sterile /pos

Cluster B emojis lets go

BPD

BORDERLINE

NPD

NARC

HPD

HISTRONIC

ASPD

SOCIOPATH

SPLIT

FP/PARTNER RAMBLING

Put in details to each disorder design! Psychology special interest :)

#k9emotes #custom emote #emoji blog #custom emoji #discord emoji #aac emojis #emoji #emotes #emoji requests #bpd fp #bpd #bpd safe #npd safe #aspd safe #hpd safe #cluster b #fp #npd fp #npd ep #aspd cp #bpd splitting #borderline splitting #splitting #actually aspd #npd posting #cluster b positivity

[thirdcoming]

just a reminder..

people with NPD are valid.

people with ASPD are valid.

people with HPD are valid.

people with BPD are valid.

people with cluster b personality disorders are valid.

your feelings matter.

and yes, this post applies to both transid and cisid people. <3

#npd positivity #pro transid #radqueer #transid #transx #queer #lgbt #aspd positivity #bpd positivity #hpd positivity #cluster b positivity #pro transx #transx safe #transid safe

[thenarc-angel]

hey btw narcissists are so pretty and deserve to do whatever they want all the time because they're a joy to be around. the world would be so sad and awful without them.

^me petting all my fellow narcissists because I love you

#narcangel speaks #narcangel love #npd positivity #npd supply #npd love #actually npd #npd #npd safe #narcissist supply #actually narcissistic #narcissistic personality disorder #narcblr #narc supply #cluster b safe #actually cluster b #cluster b positivity #cluster b personality disorder #cluster b

[syko-raccoon]

Them : “I have NPD/ BPD / im a sociopath so u probs dont wanna date me”

Meanwhile me

#npd positivity #npd safe #bpd #bpd positivity #npd #bpd Safe #sociopath positivity #sociopath safe #aspd positivity #aspd #aspd safe #cluster b #cluster b positivity #cluster b safe

[ghostfacetheballfondler]

cluster b solidarity time.

i love you people with bpd 💚

i love you people with hpd 💚

i love you people with aspd 💚

and... i love my fellow people with npd 💚

#on mobile rn so i can't block people from this sideblog. but when i get home need to block more ableists #so funny when people with cluster b pds are ableist against their cluster b siblings #and by funny i mean shitty #npd #bpd #aspd #hpd #cluster b positivity

[aventurine-bottomsurgery]

Me: hoo boy i sure do relate to some NPD symptoms :) i wonder what resources are available about the topic!!

"How to SPOT an EVIL, BABY EATING NARCISSIST so you can BEAT THEM WITH A STICK because they WILL hurt you"

Me: oh ok

#cluster b #cluster b personality disorder #cluster b positivity #npd #narcissism #narcissistic personality traits #self dx #idk if i do have it but holy shit what the fuck is wrong with people #disabilties #mental health #ableism tw

[witch-of-the-creek]

After that post that was going around yesterday about how to ‘banish a narcissist,’ I think this needs to be said

If you think narcissist is just another term you can use for self-centered abuser, or stars forbid use the term narc abuse, then get away from me. Unfollow me. Block me.

Narcissism is a personality disorder. A real actual medical issue.

The amount of stigma people with npd face is killing these people. Stigma that use of the word narcissistic in place of abusive or self centered is actively contributing to.

Anyone with any disorder or disability or illness can be an abuser, but you don’t see people going around saying terms like ‘anxious abuse’ or ‘adhd abuse’ even when anxiety can cause someone to lash out and hurt others and adhd can cause inattentive neglect

You can just say abuse. You can say self centered.

Do not throw people with npd under the bus. Do not use your trauma to justify ableism and sanism.

#this goes for all cluster b’s #narc abuse does not exist #npd positivity #cluster b positivity #narcissistic positivity #witchcraft #witchblr

[a-sip-of-milo]

I love narcissists. I love borderlines. I love anti-socials. I love histrionics. I love the little community of people who see life in the same light as me. I love that alongside the clowns in my askbox, there's an overwhelming amount of support from those with and without cluster b disorders.

Thank you.

#cluster b #cluster b safe #npd #npd safe #bpd #bpd safe #hpd #hpd safe #aspd #aspd safe #cluster b positivity

[epick-cluster-b-blog]

so i’ve been thinking again, and i wanna make an important reminder for my fellow cluster b folks and trauma survivors.

healing involves evaluating your current behaviors, how they may be harmful to yourself and others, and then replacing those behaviors with more constructive coping skills.

in order to do that, it’s important to approach the healing process without judgment. especially when you have a cluster b disorder or any personality disorder, it can be hard not to judge yourself as a bad person because of your maladaptive behaviors. you may see yourself as selfish, for example, because of possessive or dismissive actions.

but remember that being selfish is a survival instinct—your body and mind wants to look out for itself first, that’s totally normal. even though the results of that desire may be harmful, it’s best to acknowledge and accept that those maladaptive behaviors are a trauma response, and there is no reason to judge yourself for that.

self-love can feel nigh impossible for cluster b’s but it’s so important to our healing to at least try! i love yall and i believe in you!

#cluster b #actually cluster b #cluster b positivity #cluster b safe #cluster b awareness #recovery #healing #npd #bpd #aspd #hpd #npd positivity #npd safe #actually narcissistic #narcissistic personality disorder #bpd positivity #hpd positivity #aspd positivity #actually borderline #actually bpd #actually npd