#coming out nonbinary

[queerism1969]

#lgbtq community #lgbt pride #lgbtqia #lesbian #lgbtq #nonbinary #sapphic #nonbinary lesbian #queer #gay girls #queer community #queer stuff #queer pride #lgbt #queer characters #queer history #pride #coming out #trans goth #transgurl #trans gay #trans guy

[oldbookshop]

thinking abt how david tenant's nonbinary kid will grow up with a doctor who that is unashamedly inclusive of trans people. they'll see their dad on TV with a trans girl who saves the world.

#doctor who #fourteenth doctor #david tennant #the star beast #doctor who 60th anniversary #14th doctor #aiden text #I didn't know what being nonbinary was until I was probably 13 #and i was scraping youtube for coming out videos and shitty short films about trans ppl #I loved doctor who and jack harkness but gay rep wasn't the same

[samstarium]

nb muriel icons in celebration of s3! all art is from hg-aneh (1/?)

transparents under the cut

#ty for allowin me to use ur art for these! it is so so much fun to edit #good omens #edits #icons #pride icons #transparents #muriel #nonbinary #good omens icons #there r definitely more to come im just busy w/ finals atm so i need to do that b4 i crank out a bunch more edits lol #pls remember to credit hg-aneh if u use the transparents! n u can credit me too if u want but not required

[seriousturd]

#lesbian #gay #bisexual #trans #nonbinary #asexual #pansexual #pride #lgbt #coming out #tumblr polls #lgbt poll #i'm in the therapist bracket lol #i'm curious bc i don't know many lgbt people irl

[sparklemaia]

Happy World Coming Out Day! As usual, my workaround for vulnerable, personal conversations is "I'll just make a comic about it and give it to everyone all at once," would recommend 👍

#nonbinary #lgbtq #genderqueer #gender #transmasc #hrt #testosterone #coming out #world coming out day #coming out day #autobio comics #journal comic #transition stories #disasters and other genders #queer

[that-one-dark-smiley]

I just opened the game and

#good omen for me wanting to come out? #trans #transgender #transgender ftm #trans ftm #transmasc #ftm #transfem #transfemme #trans mtf #mtf #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #lgbtq #agender #nonbinary

[justdavina]

Nikki Hart: Just...WOW! I absolutely LOVE redhead (almost orange)-hair, transgender women! Look at those amazing blue eyes and oh, so kissable lips! Her red-orange tiger strip top sets the picture off! She's amazing! I love her!

#trans #transgirl #trans community #transfem #transgender #queer #queer stuff #lgbtqia #queer fashion #queer solidarity #queer nsft #queer fashion #queer girl #queer culture #lgbtq #queer community #nonbinary #coming out #cisgender #transgenderwoman #lgbtlove #sexuality #queerness #intersex #gender reassignment #fluid gender #gender nonconforming #genderfluid #genderqueer #genderqueerpositivity

[that-bisexual]

I’m tired of my “friends” making homophobic comments, I’m tired of my “friends” telling me being queer is just a trend, I’m tired of my “friends” saying homosexuality is a sin but they still like me, I’m tired of my “friends” telling me it’s a phase, I’m tired of my “friends” telling me to grow up and date a boy, I’m tired of my “friends” disrespecting me constantly.

#Bi #bisexual #lgbtq #homophobia #i need better friends #queer #bisexuality #gay #lesbian #pansexual #Nonbinary #transgender #genderfluid #problems with coming out #Omnisexual #panromantic #abrosexual #aromantic #asexual #aroace

[deoidesign]

A frustrating development with the growing lack of reading comprehension I've personally noticed is an emerging fervor of insisting things aren't canon unless they are explicitly stated beyond all reasonable doubt.

I can not emphasize enough how harmful a mindset this is to have. Yes, it's wonderful to have characters outright say "I'm trans," but to deny a character's identity for not saying that is dangerous.

Plenty of real people prefer not to use specific labels. Historically, people didn't have our modern terms or modes of expression. Many modern cultures don't use these terms, either, and plenty of people within those that do can't safely openly identify.

If the only representation you accept as canon is within modern (and let's be honest, wealthy white able-bodied American) standards, then you are denying yourself and others a huge amount of representation and seriously limiting the media around you.

#remembering how people were like hmm its not actually canon that Steve is trans and adam is nonbinary... #steve doesnt fucking know what 'trans' is hes an unhoused time traveling cowboy like!!! #after an arc. about werewolves. and how people become werewolves because theyre unhappy with their lives. #especially specifically regarding their body/gender #and how adam explicitly says 'your family never saw you as a man' #AND THEN FOLLOWS IT UP. with referring to Steve as 'the man who chose' #like for fucks sake #you are being deliberately and willfully ignorant if you say its not canon. #your ideas of transness are extremely extremely limited if it doesnt include people who dont use the word. #god. ugh. ive been annoyed by this since that episode came out #dont even get me started on how people barely noticed adam is nonbinary.mm #they said they dont wanna be called a boyfriend. come on!!! come on!!!! #how can i make it clearer without them saying shit they woildnt say and have no context for!!!! #scream. #anyways. #delete later lol im just frustrated again. #im not even sure i worded this how i wanted to

[whycaninotfindausername]

the whole thing with f1nn5ter coming out is such a perfect example of why we should never allow accusations of being a "fake queer" or anything like that to be taken seriously, especially when it comes to people with non-conforming gender expressin, or people who are experimenting

I heard so many people (granted it's not a super mainstream take) saying that f1nn5ter was just dressing as a girl for clout, and that he's harmful to LGBT people, and "appropriating transness" or something, but it turns out he's now identifying as gender fluid, and i'm so happy for him that he had the space to figure this stuff out. if he took that discourse seriously though, he would have either been forced to out himself at a time when he wasn't ready, or just forced back into the closet and not allowed to experiment with gender at all

also as a side note, he spent ages being the most gender non-conforming person on the planet. if that's not queer as fuck then i don't know what is, and i can't believe some people tried to make that sound like a bad thing. identities are messy, and sometimes you need to just have space to experiment with yourself, and allowing that, and allowing people to play around with and change their identity, whether that's gender, sexuality, or something else, is necessary for having a welcoming and accepting queer community

#f1nn5ter #trans #nonbinary #genderfluid #coming out #queer #lgbt #lgbtqia #lgbtq

[queerism1969]

#lgbtq community #lgbtqia #lgbt pride #lesbian #nonbinary #sapphic #nonbinary lesbian #lgbtq #gay girls #queer #bisexual #lgbt nsft #queer community #queer artist #queer nsft #queer ns/fw #coming out #lgbt

[emotboyswag]

The conversation of when is too late to medically transition is coming round again, which it does periodically, but I have never really resonated with the phrase "it's only too late when you're dead" before. But now I realise it is so incredibly true. It fucking sucks to wait, seeing everyone around you start medically transitioning sooner and faster than you is so disheartening. I came out at 11 and tried to start hormones, I've been on the NHS waiting list for years and I desperately tried to convince my transphobic parents, I tried to get a job to pay for it etc. So it wasn't for lack of trying that things happened as they happened and I didn't start hormones until I was 18.

For 7 years I watched everyone around me transition and it felt like I was running out of time. Whenever the conversation came around about when was too late to transition I always thought to myself "its too late for me". Still these days I feel like I'm running out of time for top surgery. I have been binding ever day for 7/8 years and I'm kinda coming to the end of my rope with it, every day it's just a little harder to bind, which is devastating. I don't know what I'll do when I can't bind anymore but for me at the moment surgery is prohibitively expensive and I'm not in a safe environment to get it. I'm looking into alternatives like trans tape (but I do have a larger chest).

ANYWAY I do understand when ur in the moment of waiting that it feels like you are running out of time, my life didn't even feel like it started until I was on testosterone. A few months in after seeing some changes and finally being convinced it was real and not just hand sanitiser I finally took my first breath tbh and I have not looked back since. But before starting it was just a waiting game and I thought I'd be too old for there to be any differences which is silly really because people start in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond.

Its only too late to transition when you're dead also applies to coming out. Not everyone "always knew" not everyone had the language or ability to express themselves at 3 years old, not everyone understood or thought about gender aged 3. People come out as kids and teens and young adults but people also come out at every stage of life.

I don't admire Caitlyn Jenner by any means but she was 65 when she came out

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2022/jul/16/we-really-are-trailblazers-coming-out-as-trans-in-later-life

Article about people transitioning later in life ^

It really is only too late when you're dead

#trans #transgender #transsexual #ftm #mtf #enby #nb #nonbinary #lgbt #gay #t4t #hrt #testosterone #hrt testosterone #estrogen #hrt estrogen #trans man #trans woman #coming out #bestposts

[autisticgayplushie]

aurora the nonbinary snowshoe kitty! <3

aurora is one of 10 pride themed kitten plushies, coming to kickstarter soon!!

#colorful kitties collection #aurora the nonbinary snowshoe cat #original plushie designs #nonbinary #non binary #pride #Thank you for the suggestion to take some pictures of aurora with some books!! I think it turned out super cutie :3 #also they do not . come with glasses I stole those off my ralsei plushie but they sure do look cute in them aslkdjgs #colorful kitties

[carlyraejepsans]

Do you think Character and Frisk are nonbinary or is it supposed to be up to the players ?

no i don't think they're nonbinary

seeing as every single human we've met has been referred to as neutral the most logical conclusion is that UTDR humans straight up don't have genders at all.

#this is a joke but also not really #i wouldn't say they're nonbinary but they're definitely neutral. and their being neutral is in function to the stories utdr wants to tell #and also the transphobia isn't in erasing trans characters i don't think they're trans #the transphobia comes from being confronted with a neutral character & having the compulsive need to gender them in a binary way u recogniz #instead of accepting the neutrality as... something a character can be. something that is USEFUL to a character storywise #it really speaks to someone being completely out of touch with trans people. nonbinary people especially #if the only way they interact with gender neutrality is as something dismissable and you can spin how you want #answered asks #undertale #frisk #chara

[uncanny-tranny]

You know, I feel like other trans people might get this, but it's honestly kind of refreshing when a cis person has, like, undeniable tboy/tgirl/whatever swag. It's like when you come across somebody who speaks the same language as you and you only find out when they start speaking it, too.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #all this to say that we are existing on a rock hurling through space #and this universe is going to collide into another and does it all truly matter in the end? #a lot of this is based on ideas we have about what constitutes certain people and i think it can be a fun observation #so long as you do not inherently ascribe certain traits as being indicative of who somebody Is #it can be amusing when you're SO confident that somebody is a certain way until you realize how Wrong you were #the amusement for me only comes because it's like... 'you tried your best to box somebody and you FAILED lmao' #and in a weird way it's kind of comforting because it reminds me that we all come into this world with bias that Will be challenged... #...so the best thing you can do is recognize those biases and then try to overcome them through great effort... #...so yes maybe i did think that cis dude had tboy swag but. that's not inherently his problem you know? #it probably just means he's confident in his manhood in a way that reminds me of the trans men* i know and love #i noticed that in him and it reminded me of my friends who are trans so i think 'oh! maybe that's why he's giving off those vibes!' #so while i won't treat him any differently before or after finding out i was wrong i'm still going to appreciate the fact that... #...he and i are literally just Vibing on the same planet and we both don't have time for petty arguing about manhood #i'll acknowledge what inspired those thoughts in me but that is Not his problem and that's good and beautiful actually #i don't always mind the tboy/tgirl swag meme just so long as you don't treat it like an Inherent Trans Experience Only Trans People Have #just recognize where those ideas are inspired from and it's fine <3 #sometimes you will be Wrong and that's actually fucking neutral <<3 #anyway rant over i just think this is /generally/ harmless and fun #like astrology. sometimes you just look up your star sign without ascribing your Entire Life to it <3 #i think what i lot of people mean by saying a cis person has tboy/tgirl swag is just that... #...that cis person has an understanding of themself that comes from deep introspection that isn't necessarily expected of cis folk... #...but it is often something trans people do as part of our exploration of gender... #how is this the FIRST POST to reach tag limit... ask me for more thoughts if you want lol!

[machette-rhetti]

I know it’s like a kinda duh thing in hindsight but when you come out (as any kind of queer) to people and the reaction is anything but acceptance and interest in your identity it sucks ass. Like I keep thinking about with family oh it isn’t so bad at least they didn’t call me a bunch of slurs. But it’s like if I have to coddle you through it all just to get to the point of acceptance that actually just sucks. And my family never even got to the acceptance point. If you’re going thru it with ppl and coming out just know that anything but acceptance is actually below the bar of what love is. You can choose what to do with that but know you deserve better.

#queer #shower thoughts #coming out #elder gay #nonbinary #trans #bisexual #lesbian #gay #asexual #lgbtqia #pansexual #genderqueer