#comment some transphobic shit

[northern-passage]

if the only way you know how to criticize my handling of Lea is to somehow blame Merry and also Trans Women™️ as a whole then i’m going to be honest: your criticisms are not going to be the ones i listen to. it’s very strange to me now that both times i’ve had people specifically bring up Merry when talking about Lea and also follow it up with, and i quote: “people only care about trans women.” this monolithic Trans Women you keep blaming has nothing to do with the decisions i’ve made about Lea, and i’m begging you to think for like 2 seconds and realize what you are saying and how you sound right now. i’m not even trying to change your mind or your feelings regarding Lea, that conversation has been had many times over at this point, but you have got to stop blaming trans women for.... being more oppressed than you ? come on

#transmisogyny #i'm always open to discussing things i could do better but if you do this it's an immediate No from me #smells like MRA shit for real #there is no reason for it and yet both times people have found a way to weasel in awful comments about trans women #it's gross and unnecessary #and immediately makes me recoil #this is not a 'competition' and it's weird that you think it is #this isn't an invitation to debate either btw this is just a PSA lmfao #cus again. Weird that it's happened both times now #and i never really know how to respond to it #if you want to blame someone then blame me. the person who Wrote the character that way #and again there are many posts on this blog where i discuss lea and all of the characters and why i do what i do with them #so im not interested in having the discussion again and im sure you all arent either lmfao #but i really dont like this attitude some people seem to come away with which is. 'blame trans women' ??? #like why would you say that. why would you feel that way. it's a bit weird innit? #and are the trans women in the room with us right now??? #anyways. just something to think about before you send me weird transphobic rants about hating lea and merry and trans women #and feminine transmasc people. and perhaps next time just Do Not send me that #personal

[clumsybutdedicated]

one of my favorite parts of finding out that a piece of media you love is problematic is that you can't tell anyone you like it for at least like a month without them being like "oh well have you heard about the Incredibly Fucked Up Thing that just happened?" like yes i am aware i am trying to figure out my emotions about it thank you for reminding me that this thing that has helped me through some really rough points has people/things involved with it that are Very Fucked Up

#dance gavin dance #john mulaney #i think we should normalize having some kind of a grieving period when we find this shit out #like i've got a dgd tattoo #their music is how i got through high school #i don't know enough ab what's going on with dgd to really make any more of a comment than that ab it #but anyway #fuck dave chapelle #fuck transphobes #and fuck john mulaney for supporting them

[dont-eat-lint-rollers]

still no proper dni but if you watch turkey tom get away from my blog

#champ talks #saw the 'HUGE TRANS DRAMA' tomdark video come across my feed and after watching it i can safely say he sucks ass #trying to say that transphobia and someone using slurs against a trans coworker was 'silly' and 'not a big deal' shut the fuck up #'i got a new haircut so im nonbinary im going by zim now my pronouns are je/jer' being the opener is a bad fucking look babes idk! #especially when in the same video you then go on to only refer to a nonbinary character with she/her and be like 'no thats a girl' #and then TRY AND CLAIM THATS NOT WHAT YOURE DOING #ive always had bad vibes about him bc he just genuinely seemed like he was obnoxious at best and a bad person at worst but like. lord #and he just lets his comment section fill with bigotry because he doesnt give a shit like way to go dude nice to know you dont care about u #he didnt say anything outwardly transphobic so a red mark on shinigami eyes would probably be a bit much but oooooh he needs it SO BAD #he also makes some sketchy comments about a trans furry in that 'gamers won the war' type way #so. what a wonderful time

[born-to-lose]

Heartbreaking: your former favorite concert venue loves booking queerphobic people

#not enough that the boss dropped transphobic comments at the christmas dinner and never speaks about basic queer rights #but he's also booking cherie currie right after her anti-trans care post with the child mutilation shit which he liked #like half of his (former) bartenders are lesbians and yet there's no sticker or sign like some places put up to show everyone's welcome etc #i mean i wasn't going back there anyway because i still have beef with it but that's it lol hirsch nuremberg here i go again #mel talks

[trixree]

what is it that has the most rotted-ass no-pfp transphobes digging up random posts from like a year ago that got 14 notes total to Start a Dialogue About Gender

This was on a post about widespread medical mistreatment of intersex people but please, let me pull up a chair for you, make you a nice soothing cup of chamomile, and kindly, calmly explain to you that something being a social construct (i.e., an idea/set of ideas made up by people and enforced over time through cultural norms, built systems, and power structures) does not make it "not real". That's not a fucking "gotcha" man you sound SO FUCKING SILLY!!!

"Um if um gender is a social construct what um,,,, what about my very real penis??? my penis isn't a social construct. It's a full twelve inches and very awesome and I use it all the time for sex, which I definitely know how to have and am great at. Gonna tell me and all the hot babes I've slept with that my very awesome penis isn't real, liberal??? Either gender is made up or it's REAL and I'M correct about it." Man, I am pouring that hot tea directly in your lap. Get the fuck off my blog. You aren't owed my kindness nor my expertise

#trixree speaks #i do not know where you people are coming from #i am deleting your comments and blocking you on sight #but i'm making an example of this one in particular #i don't want to play nice with you on my BLOG #if you genuinely want to Join the Discourse and learn something i'll gladly provide you with some material that is intended for that #if you want to ask GOTCHA LIBS questions on my shit i'm going to block you silly goose <3 #TRANSPHOBES GO AWAY FROM ME CHALLENGE #shoo shoo shoo #this aint the marketplace of ideas and i don't care

[handcat]

instagram should be set aflame

#EVERY reel i’m reccomended of a woman or #or disabled person or queer person etc etc has the WORST people in the world in the comments #saw a vid just now of a woman with crazy long hot using it as a jump rope (sick as hell) and a BUNCH of ppl in the comments were accusing #her if being a trans woman like??????? like the third time today i’ve seen comments on cis women calling them trans (usually just calling th #em a man and saying awful transphobic shit) and i CANT TAKE THIS MUCH LONGER #also any woman who isn’t size 0 getting called fat and told to work out INCLUDING videos of women AT THE GYM WORKING OUT bc they also have #body fat which is literally healthy to have #and also some people will work out regularly and eat auper healthy and still be fat like ????? #soz for venting i really just need to not go on instagram lmao #i’m getting better at that but when ever i cave i just get so pissed #and then have to come back here for comfort lol #and have to remind myself that the people saying that shit are def the most sad lonely angry people in the world #and also they will die soon maybe <3

[introvert-celeste]

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#vent #so apparently my dad has been getting into alpha male bigoted bullshit and has starting spouting it at my mom #and he's been making transphobic comments and getting mad when my mom doesn't agree with him #saying shit like 'im the head of the household and i won't let you say things I don't agree with' #and saying that she'll corrupt my brother with her 'agenda' #my brother is autistic and both of my parents kind of baby him but he's fucking 23 we can speak together as adults here ffs #and my mom is completely neutral these topics because they have nothing to do with her #i can't imagine how he'd react if i told him I'm a queer atheist who fully supports trans people #it's so deeply disappointing to see him falling down this ignorant rabbit hole #he was never super open minded but at least he recognized some people just live differently and it's not his place to judge #the fact that he's been verbally abusing my mom more and more lately is bad enough without the transphobia

[therealjammy]

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#losing passion for a story is one of my least-favorite experiences #and i can feel it happening with one i was so excited to finally write #but some transphobic troll was commenting on every single update and though i can usually ignore shit like that #something about it just... really rubbed me the wrong way and now every time i look at this fic #i just think of those comments and my inspiration/passion wilts #and every time i open that document i question whether i want to keep writing or not #but i would like to say that the way i often write rhaenyra is based off emma d'arcy's own words of how they played her #but also my own interpretation of her and how i saw her struggling and grappling with her own gender #which is something (as someone who considers themselves trans) i do on a near-constant basis #so writing rhaenyra struggling or presenting more masculine in my fics is my way of getting gender euphoria #because unfortunately for me i have neither the time nor the money (or support!) to make myself how i'm meant to look

[waterberry-strawmelon]

it really sucks when the creator(s) of something you really like clearly have some unchecked biases that leak into their work, cuz you know they’d probably try and correct their behavior if they had it pointed out to them, but they’re just so oblivious that some little comments drop here and there that just brilliantly showcase how entrenched they are in their sphere of privilege to recognize it

#This is about Anthony burch saying some lowkey sexist things in dungeons and daddies every now and then #It’s gotten to the point that I’d literally rather there be fewer female characters in the story just so I don’t have to hear him #absolutely butcher a female character #All the dungeons and daddies crew are just so incredibly cisgender and it SHOWS. #But him especially for some reason? Like he’s got a lot of gender dimorphism I don’t think he realizes #Or maybe he does realize it—i don’t know him! #But either way sometimes he’ll make the female NPC’s act certain ways and it’s just. Fucking weird? #He’s not transphobic and he’s not outright misogynistic #But there are just some comments every now and then that give me the feeling he thinks of men and women as very separate #Tho probably not intentionally or anything. Just fucking sucks dude. #Like—when I think about men his age my first thought is the mcelroys. And in their dnd podcasts they don’t ever say some of this shit lmfao #So like I know it’s not just in my head #AND i know not all cis men are like this. He can and should be doing better #So it makes it hard to listen to certain episodes. #He’ll recognize and joke about certain narrative things like ‘oh no I just had a woman literally do all the work for you. What have I done’ #But he doesn’t seem so good at playing female NPC’s like fucking normal people. #Like in the episode I just listened to he’s having a female NPC have a crush on one of the main characters #And that’s not in and of itself bad! #But he describes it as: ‘she does this thing that Ive seen girls do when they like someone where their mouth drops open a little bit and #they seem shocked for a second but then—‘ and I had to pump the brakes on that one!!! Like—how did this like make it into the episode?? #How did this go thru like 2 layers of editing and everyone was like ‘yes :))). This is a normal way to describe this.’ #Like. He’s not some fuckin incel who doesn’t interact with women! He’s fucking MARRIED and his partner is non-binary and he #is friends with women!!! AND one of the lead editors is a trans woman so I’m just. Completely flabbergasted. #To her credit I think Beth said something like ‘um okay? Bro I make faces like that at like EVERYONE’ but then a bunch of the other #hosts joined in and jokingly said ‘oooooooooooh~~’ like preschoolers saying ‘you’ve gotta crush!’ or some shit #And idk. Sometimes this stuff just feels fuckin WEIRD DAWG. #This is not to dissuade anyone from listening to the show; I just think there’s some annoying shit sometimes. #dungeons and dads #I just used that tag bc thats how I organize my blog; so if this ends up in the main tags please dont yell at me over a personal vent post #i just wanted to scream into the void and see if I’m not alone in this. But I’m not up for a debate about this or anything haha!

[mxliv-oftheendless]

As per usual, the comments under a Loudwire post did not pass the vibe check 🙃🙃🙃

#apparently kid rock threw a tantrum over bud lite partnering with a trans activist and shot some bud lite cans over it #and Loudwire made it clear they were pro-trans #which is not the problem here I appreciate that #the problem was people in the comments exposing their transphobic selves #see this is why I don’t feel safe around older classic rock fans #cuz they pull this shit #i would’ve made a comment of my own calling all this out #but I am not in the mood to be told I’m mentally ill and what’s ruining this country #this is mainly just a vent post btw y’all can return to your scrolling

[autistickaitovocaloid]

About to go off about a youtuber I don't like probably will delete this post later but you've been warned

Anyway I love it when I find some pretty informative videos holding matpat accountable for his (specifically in this instance) transphobic and ableist actions as if he didn't donate like 3 million dollars to next for autism two-ish years ago.

edit because i added it to an ask about this: i got it messed up he helped raise the money he didn't like. solely donate it if iirc. still fucked up imo

#art talks about stuff #he's done other shit obviously i just wanted to mention that as it's recent and directly in conflict with what those commenters were saying #also re: some of the transphobic shit he's said in the past people were like ''oh but he's apologised for saying that now'' #cool. take the videos down. correct me if i'm wrong but some of those videos where he says awful shit are still up #sorry for being like this i've had a vendetta against him since i was 15 /hj #it started off as ''hey wait a minute he got this detail wrong from a game i'm super passionate about'' to ''oh dear god''

[binch-i-might-be]

it just occurred to me that I have a fanfiction.net account

haven't checked that thing in probably a year now. maybe I should delete it

#i stopped putting my stuff on there pretty soon after i started #their interface is a nightmare. some characters aren't addable. you can only put FOUR characters. tagging is fucking shit #there's not a crumb of engagement on there #people don't comment and you don't have a kudos system so it's just kinda. ok the story is there i guess #it's a disgustingly hostile place. thinking about the sickeningly transphobic comment i got on bud bloom wither on there #i just hate fanfiction.net so much oh my god #can't believe that's where i spent my youth lmao #rayrambles

[adozentothedawn]

*flashes in my mind of every minorly bad thing I have ever said because I didn’t know better* 

Me:

#yes I made some comments that in hindsight I regret #including some slightly transphobic questions because I really honestly didn't get it #also about a fandom that one time that I didn't know was shit I just enjoyed the original content #this was all years ago #i have learned from it #there is no reason for me to feel like this #and yet #aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa #but hey at least I'll get to pet cats again on wednesday #also maybe get a proper men's shirt #i want it #also I should kinda look for lower rise pants because mine are really high rise and emphasise my hip which makes me look really feminine #and that annoys me #but unfortunately high rise pants are also way more comfy so I don't know if I'll actually get a low one

[yankeeclytemnestra]

you ever just see a something that makes you realize you have an opinion you didn't think you needed to have?

anyways if you're lgbt+ but you consciously don't act on it because you think it's a sin and you dislike lgbt-affirming churches you shouldn't call yourself queer

#i saw this person on tiktok like. a while ago #she also posted something implying that people don't like when she preaches the bible because they can't handle autistic honesty #also she just posted something about how she's celebrating the high holidays and when people talked about jews find it offensive in #her comments she was like “rabbis and religious jews don't dictate my spiritual practice” like yeah no shit. you're a christian. #i just feel like the term “queer” implies (or at least should imply) certain political values #and even if you think lgbt+ people have rights #if you believe acting on being lgbt+ is a sin you believe that the cisheteronormative homophobic transphobic society we live in is on some #level morally correct/justified #of course it goes without saying that if you think being gay is a sin and you're like “hell yeah i'm gonna do it anyway hail satan” #then that's queer as hell #oh i forgot she also thinks it's misogynistic to “demonize” the concept of biblical submission #she's a...very interesting person #with very interesting views #but a lot of bad ones

[whiskeysorrows]

I decide to go on another platform for ONE FUCKING MINUTE & the transphobia hits like a wet sock to the face

#i need to murder some ppl real quick. like idk the 8000 transphobes in the comments of that one yt short #“you can identify as a lampshade but you can’t make me believe it” & you can choke on your own shit before i do it for you #rambles

[baphofemme]

anti-lgbt lgbt ppl will always baffle me to no end...

#for reference i'm talking about a comment i saw on my fyp a few mins ago #a republican senator shoulder-checked someone for protesting against an anti-trans bill being passed #the comments were 50/50 between people rightfully showing concern for the protester and bootlickers defending the senator #one of the bootlickers was a transphobic cis gay man #his replies were along the lines of 'we normal gays and lesbians don't want to be associated with y'all' yk things of that nature #and i'm thinking to myself...first of all? #regardless of how much respectability politics you adhere to you'll still be 'othered' by the majority #and ofc he was spreading baseless information about trans ppl #and none of it was grounded in factual evidence #'facts and logic' mfs spreading misinformation? color me shocked #he kept claiming i was 'mad' in my replies #and i was honestly entertained by his ignorance #he even went so far as to comment on some of my tiktoks to continue his fruitless endeavors #but when i opened the app half a minute later the comments and notifs were gone #this shouldn't come as much of a surprise but he blocked me after he claimed i couldn't handle the argument #and before he blocked me he also said some bs like 'i'm waiting for my response' #at this point i couldn't help but laugh #more proof in the pudding that a conservative's online presence solely consists of purposely antagonizing people #this also reminds me of another tiktok i saw a few mins ago calling out lgbt ppl for shitting on other ppl in the community #y'know the pick-mes who brag about how 'normal' they are and shit on the rest of us 'cringe' lgbt ppl #and ofc one of the top comments was a pick-me proving OPs exact point without a lick of self awareness! #if these pick-mes invested the same energy into showing solidarity with their own community for once instead it would be a miracle #anyways i'm doing fine. i'm p chill #in fact i thought this 'argument' was kinda funny #you wanted all that smoke and then blocked me right after? #what's cookin' in hell's kitchen?