I don't like to follow bookstagram trends but I find one super interesting (it's definitely NOT reading a popular bookstagram book).
I'm currently working on creating a box to randomly pick the next book I read. I have hopes to lower my tbr, well with my erratic reading sessions and me ordering second hand books cause I can buy more, it's gonna be a harsh task. Also it's gonna helping me read the books I bought to step out my comfort zone and then I ignored them. But also books that are in my comfort zone but have been here for year. And since my apartment is very small, yet 1/3 books if I avoid the same book lot of time, I will get rid of it.
BUT
While crafting this at past 10pm in the middle of the working week cause I needed to do it now (didn't finish considering the numbers of unread books I read), I have been struck by a sudden illumination.
Maybe, and really maybe, it's a hypothesis, I could apply the jar stuff for the daily stuff I have to do, chores, administrative paperwork, everything a normal human adult has to do. Maybe I could pick a task to do every day and it feels less overwhelming. I definitely need to try it.
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Poll adventure (paventure? lol) Day 10: read the small story tidbit below the poll for more details, OR just vote based on initial impression
(✦ see past poll results + further information HERE (link) ✦)
Yesterday's poll decided that The Adventurer should join the travelers on the larger river boat for a short lunch ...
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"Before he even fully musters the courage to shout a 'hello', the large group on the boat initiates contact first, gleefully waving at him, whooping and shouting as they near his tiny raft in the water. Apparently, some of them were betting over whether they'd actually find any other travelers out on the river today.. He fumbles over his words a bit, as always, but somehow manages to successfully get himself invited onto their boat for a quick lunch..
After safely securing his raft to the side of the boat with some spare rope, he climbs aboard, stumbling into the excitement of some sort of celebration. A few of them explain that they're traveling for 'kahesallei', an old elven holiday recently re-popularized in some of the larger cities nearby. Whatever it's true meaning and origins used to be, the current significance (at least to those within the city walls) seems to just be mindless feasting, drinking, and gaudy decor. Most of the traveling group are strangers to each other, only brought together by catching a ride on the same tour/party boat, but the mood is light, quite friendly between them, and perhaps a bit drunk.
While the boat itself is relatively plain wood, it's been strewn with gold and orange banners, flags, shimmery tassels, beads, and bushels of dark green ivy braided with fresh herbs and wildflowers. There are flat round tables of food and drink, plenty of cushions to lounge on, and one random guy perched precariously on the edge railing of the boat, gently strumming a lute for background music..
The elderly ship captain hobbles over to The Adventurer, sternly explaining that, no matter what the 'silly' passengers say, he's only allowed to stay for an hour because he didn't pay for a boat ride ticket, and thus really shouldn't even be allowed on board. By the time The Adventurer has mentally processed this information, the captain has already returned to his little steering room, slamming the door shut with a displeased grunt.. It probably wouldn't be a good idea to confront him or question the rules...... But! Hey, at least he has one hour at the party.. How should he spend his time? "
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Additional Information
the adventurer's current main goal: follow his map to reach the abandoned castle ruins and see the rare animal specialist about the mysterious egg he has
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Your task menu for today, sir
It's day 2 of getting my shit back together and infusing life with the structure I need, and the method I came up with and want to share today is called the Task Menu. I was inspired to reformat my to-do list and reminders this way from watching some YouTube videos about the Dopamenu (Dopamine Menu); it's not the same concept, but it helps in a similar way.
Pardon the gross looking piece of clear acrylic board on the random shipping package, that's a tangent for another time. Suffice to say, it is now a whiteboard, because the little magnetic CVS board is not nearly big enough to contain the explosion that is my brain.
So the Task Menu. First off, it's important to me that I write the day of the week at the top, and wipe the entire thing clean at the end of the day, regardless of what I've done or not done. The purpose is to make me more conscious of time and stop the days from all blurring together, so I have to start fresh every day. I decided to use the menu structure from now on instead of just a boring "today's to-do list", because I wanted to focus more on getting to pick the tasks I feel up to accomplishing throughout the day, and less on feeling like I HAVE to or SHOULD be doing the entire list in one go. The menu is a list of options for my day, not a set plan. Sections of my daily task menu include:
Appetizers - the simple, basic tasks I need to be aware of throughout the day. These include things like taking a shower, remembering to eat meals, feeding my hermit crab every 2 days, remembering if I have d&d or social stuff today, etc.
Mains - the closest to the traditional To-Do list. These are the tasks I should really focus up on during the day. Most of them have a fairly low spoons requirement, and I feel they are well attainable on any given day. Examples of mains are things like making important phonecalls, filling out paperwork, sweeping my floor or putting things away, going for a walk, or watering plants.
Specials - the daily specials are like a bonus challenge list. These are higher spoons, more project-like tasks that I have a lot of trouble motivating for. They're the restaurant's famous megaburger you get a gift certificate or T-shirt for finishing in one sitting. My goal is to aim for getting one special done a day, but it's no big deal if it doesn't happen. Examples of Specials are cleaning up my storage drawers, repotting and pruning plants, getting out all the supplies and pumping the creative juices to paint something sellable, having to go out to an appointment or getting ready for a job interview.
Sides - sides are my daily reminders. They're things I have to make sure I hold on to while I'm doing all the other menu stuff, like the fact that I have a D&D game that night, or that I still need to pay rent when I get the chance, or that I have a trip with a friend coming up this month. Because of my struggles with time blindness and object permanence, I often forget things like this until they're right on top of me, get swept up in some hyperfocus of the day, and feel like an ass when I realize I should have been online half an hour ago or that I procrastinated packing until 10pm the night before, or that it's father's day and I really should have called home. It's not that I forgot about the thing itself (I'm well aware that game is on Thursday nights, in theory) but that I forgot to associate that thing with a concrete time and date and keep track (in practice, I forgot that Today is Thursday, and that I shouldn't get sucked in to a cross stitch project an hour before game.)
Along with the daily menu board, I have the bigger Megaboard to pull daily task ideas from and keep track of what I actually accomplish. Here is a master list of tasks and reminders, sorted into "levels" based on spoons requirement. The color coded levels are similar to the Tsp idea I posted about a week or two ago. Level 1, green tasks, are easy, daily repeatable, little things that require almost no effort themselves, but that I just need to be better about structuring and self motivating for. Level 2, red tasks, are those Daily Specials; these are bigger projects to do around the house that require some time and activity energy. They're finite milestones that I can check off and get rid of once they're done. Level 3, black tasks, are the big spoons tasks. The thought of any one of these is overwhelming, and I've put them off for way too long. These require a plan to spend most of the day on them, and should be planned in advance.
Also on the Megaboard is a section labeled "today I accomplished:". Sometimes (a lot of times) life with squirrel brain doesn't always go as planned. I want to acknowledge the menu items I do get done in a day, as well as whatever tasks come up naturally during the day that I wasn't expecting. I might look at my menu and feel bad that I didn't knock a lot off it in a day, but then I can remember that's because I did 3 other things that day that I didn't even know would come up when I wrote it. Just because they're not on the daily to-do list doesn't mean they don't count. I also keep tally marks of the tasks I complete from each color level, just for the dopamine hit of seeing how much I've done at a glance.
It's a lot of writing, rewriting, moving things around, and meticulously planning out the details of my day, but right now, it's helping. I have no daily habits formed at the moment, and I have trouble juggling all these thoughts in my head. If I weren't writing everything down, I'd basically get lost in my own daily doings, and not know how I end up at bedtime every night. I think of this stuff as less of a daunting list of tasks to get done, and more of a helpful guide or set of instructions for being human.
So what do you think of the Task Menu and Megaboard? Do you think it could be improved or streamlined? If you plan to use and adapt this to your own needs, what kind of changes will you make? I'd genuinely love to see outside perspectives on my ideas 😊
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