#dating preferences

[tumbler-polls]

This poll is potentially controversial, but the majority of our followers voted to allow it.

Prompt submitted by anon:

Question to cis monosexual people: "Would you date/have sex with a pre-op trans person who identifies as the gender you're into?" Options: 🍷 No; I want my partner to have particular stuff down there / I have a strong genital preference. ☕️ Yes, but I wouldn't want to interact with their genitals. 🧁 Yes, I'm into all kinds of genitals, what matters is how someone identifies. Additional options: cis straight guy / cis gay guy / cis straight woman / cis lesbian.

The other part of this poll is here.

#lgbtqia #lesbian #sapphic #gay #tw genitalia mention #terfs dont interact #dating preferences #tumblr polls #tumbler polls

[alwaysbewoke]

look, women are going to be women, so i believe the first run of pops was because of his height. we can have all the conversations about how hypocritical that is, but women are going to be women, and his height was definitely the primary reason for the first run of pops. the second run of pops was for his name, which admittedly is probably a little much for some people. it's a lot. it's cool in that kind of famous european classical composer vibe, but i get it if a woman thinks that's just a lot. petty, but we are talking about women. but it's the pop when he said he's a chef that kills me because i don't understand what's wrong with that. like there's a video of a girl saying that her ick is men who can cook, but i always assumed she was saying that just to be outrageous. but is that a real thing? a woman out here really unattracted to men who can get down in the kitchen? that's crazy to disqualify this man cuz he can cook! women are truly insane.

#dating game #youtube #hilarious #funny #lmao #height #name #cooking #gender stereotypes #dating preferences

[am-i-the-asshole]

I (F21) am a lesbian. The thing is, I have 0 desire to sleep with trans women. Sex is a crucial part of the relationship for me, and I love going down on girls. Dicks repulse me; they look like fucking naked mole rats. And the results of gender-affirming surgery are not there yet. Plus, I don't like how most trans women I know are obsessed, and I mean it, with femininity, trying to act like a conservatives' wet dream. My bisexual friend (F22) wanted to set me up with a trans girl she knows, so I told her I only date AFABs (who aren't trans men). All hell has broken loose, and now half of my friends avoid me and call me transphobic. I don't hate trans people; I'm just not that into them. AITA?

Feel free to send your stories!

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#tumblr polls #lesbian #transgender #wlw #dating preferences #relationship advice #aita #am i the asshole #may the public decide! 🫡

[gentlemonst3r]

Unpopular opinion, but if you're sterilized, you're automatically ten times sexier.

#dating preferences #sterilization #tokophobia

[fiercemillennial]

Nick Cannon Faces Backlash Over Dating Preferences Comments

Nick Cannon is under fire after comments suggesting his mother's race influences his dating preferences. Does this perpetuate harmful biases? Let's discuss 👇🏾 #NickCannon #representation #colorism #FierceMillennial #FierceImpact

Cannon’s remarks about his mother’s race influencing his romantic choices spark heated discussions on colorism. Nick Cannon is once again facing a wave of controversy following comments he made about his dating preferences. During a recent interview, the media personality suggested that his mother’s race has influenced his attraction to women. “My Mom’s Light-Skinned…” Cannon, who is of mixed…

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#colorism #controversy #dating preferences #empowerment #FIERCE IMPACT #FIERCE MILLENNIAL #Nick Cannon #representation

[sometimes-men-need-help-too]

You’re allowed to have preferences 

Nobody can tell you otherwise 

Having a preference  such as being attracted to a thinner person over someone that’s not isn’t wrong. Making someone feel bad because they don’t fit your preferences is. 

But in and of itself, it isn’t. It doesn’t mean you’re shallow. It doesn’t mean whatever negative word they try to label you as. 

#dating #dating preferences #double standards #misandry #anti misandry #preferences

[keyki421]

So much truth

#relationships #black men #erica mena #dating preferences

[i-am-the-quintessential-queer]

Sometimes I think my age preference with dating isn’t that serious and then I’ll get the fattest crush on someone in their 30’s and the sheer thought of being with anyone my age is just gone, out the door

People 10+ years older than me have no business being that hot like tf

Anyways I’m getting crushes on men in their 30’s again so I’ll deal with shit as it comes

#it speaks #text post #ramblings #my ramblings #crushes #dating #dating preferences #like ngl my minimum age preference is 25 #my max?? yeah I’m not gonna go there 😅 #the men where I work just hit different okay?

[politicsmoribund]

Here Blaire White reacts to a series of events involving Andrew Tate, Jeffree Star, woke TikTok users, and Jordan Peterson. Andrew Tate was arrested, leading Blaire to express their thoughts on the situation. In addition, Jeffree Star has claimed that he "escaped the Illuminati", which has caught Blaire's attention. Woke TikTok users have also been causing a stir by claiming that dating preferences are transphobic, which has prompted Blaire to share their thoughts on the matter. Finally, Jordan Peterson has been sentenced to a re-education camp.

#Re-education camp #Transphobia #Dating preferences #Illuminati #Arrest #Jordan Peterson #Woke culture #Tiktok #Jeffree Star #Andrew Tate #Blaire White #Moribund Institute #Woke tiktok #matrix hoax

[pinkieloveheartpastel]

I need to talk about preferences in dating, and an example of an actual preference, because a lot of what is considered “preferences” is actually just bigotry. And way too many people think that having a preference means: “this is the only group I will date. No one else. I refuse to date anyone else”. Which is completely untrue.

So I once preferred short dudes. And no, I’m not talking about dudes who are medium-height, aka 5’6 and up. They are nowhere near short, and I will argue until I’m blue in the face to prove that. I’m talking about dudes who are around 5’0. ACTUAL short dudes. Dudes who are tiny af.

I always pictured myself being with a dude who looked like a hobbit, a goblin, a gnome, etc, just any short mythical being, especially if they gravitate to nature, and yes fantasy is my special interest. But my partner happens to be 6’3, and I don’t mind that at all. And I, in fact, like to think of him as a kind, and soft-hearted giant or troll, etc, because fantasy-brain and we both love nature.

Or a giant cuddly bear. I’m a fairy.

So having a preference for short men doesn’t mean I wouldn’t date anyone who is tall or medium-height. And I damn sure won’t go out of my way to shit on people who are medium or tall. That’s pathetic and uncalled for. I don’t like bullying.

Same thing for food. Just because I prefer cookies and cream, cotton candy and vanilla doesn’t mean I won’t eat cookie dough, chocolate, or peppermint.

So don’t claim to have a preference while shitting on people you won’t date. Because what you have isn’t a preference if you refuse to date someone because of how they were born, and treat them like shit because of it, or say that this group of people are all ugly, undesirable, etc. It is bigotry. You are a bigot. You haven’t even given this group a chance and you’re immediately shitting on them.

Just say you will only date this specific group of people and shut up.

#bigotry #preferences #dating #dating preferences

[tumbler-polls]

Hiii! Right now, there is this huuuge debate within the LGBT community as to whether not wanting to date trans folks is transphobic. I'm bi, so pre/post-op is not an issue for me because I like all kinds of genitals, but I'm wondering how the attraction works in this regard for cis monosexual people (gays, lesbians, straights).

Could you make a poll asking, "Would you date a pre-op trans person?" with the options "No, I want my partner to have particular stuff down there", "Yes, but I wouldn't want to interact with their genitals", "Yes, I'm into all kinds of genitals, what matters is how someone identifies", and additional options: cis straight guy / cis gay guy / cis straight woman / cis lesbian. I sent this idea to other poll blogs, but they refused to publish it :((

This topic is quite controversial and can be triggering to some people. We want our blog to be an inclusive space, so we'll let our followers decide.

Feel free to make suggestions / expand on your answer in the comments!

#meta #poll submissions #controversial topics #lgbtqia #dating preferences #tw genitalia mention

[knifearo]

ultimately when it comes to shipping and fandom space treatment of aspec characters i just don't accept "aro/ace people can still date/have sex" as an answer from nonaspecs. like yeah. mhm. okay. now i think we both know that you're not saying that out of real interest in the diversity of aspec experiences. so you can turn in your seventeen-page essay on why and how you plan to examine this character's aspec identity within the context of a romantic or sexual relationship complete with evidence from canon and peer reviews from multiple aspec people within the next week or i'm putting you in the pit from the edgar allen poe story

#you know. the one with the pendulum #'hey. why are you as an allo person shipping this aspec character like this' #'oh aspec people can still date/have sex!' #'yeah. now can you answer the question that i actually asked you' #like goddamn just say you don't care they're aspec and you want to fulfill a sexual/romantic fantasy with them. that's Fine #it like. sucks. for sure. lotta aspec people will be unhappy with you. but everyone is entitled to their own wants and experiences. #but i'd prefer you just be honest with it rather than using our community's conversation points as retroactive justification #and ONCE AGAIN. you guys are real fucking cavalier with this shit and it shows a real fundamental lack of respect for aspecs #when most of you would NEVER ship a canonically gay character with the 'other' gender. cause again. it would suck. #you can do it. nobody's Stopping you. but it would suck. #and we understand that putting a queer character in situations that erase that queerness is shitty! until it comes to aspec characters! #and whoa... there it is again... people don't consider aspec identities to be queer... crazy how it always comes back to that #anyway. you all know what i'm talking about. have seen many posts about this lately #it is [ long sigh ] unfortunately a very hot button issue with the advent lately of alastor hazbinhotel #which. again. god i wish there were other canon aspec characters to be having this conversation about. #but we'll have to do our best with what we have #aromantic #aromanticism #arospec #aroace #talking #aspec #asexual #asexuality

[firestorm09890]

Penny stardewvalley makes me so sad because she's SO sensitive to, like, basically everything you tell her (telling her that you can't stand children while two children are nearby is a pretty lousy move but -1500 friendship?? being a jerk to other characters' faces typically loses you about 50 points, and if you choose the option labeled "creepy" and ask Leah for a kiss in her 2 heart event she physically hits you and kicks you out of her house but that's only -100 friendship…) and so if you want to befriend her it's a whole lot of lying and tiptoeing around her feelings (2 hearts: George was right but saying that makes her feel bad. 6 hearts: her food sucks but even if you try to be polite about it she feels like a failure; only a bald-faced lie pleases her. 8 hearts: saying you don't want to be tied down with a family loses you a little bit of friendship and she's only happy if you say you want kids) and I can't help but think she's a product of her environment. She lives in a trailer with only her mother, who gets drunk every night and has something of a temper. Penny's like a skittish rescue animal who won’t even come out from hiding under something unless you leave her lots of treats

#stardew valley #penny sdv #I didn't mention the SECOND opportunity to lose 1500 friendship with her #because I think if you go out of your way to date her and then tell her that you don't like her that way then you deserve it #but yeah she's super volatile #i was upset for a little bit after reading that one post saying the ‘right’ answer in the 2 heart event is ableist #like nooooo not my favorite farming game :( #except that in the context of several other things in the game it becomes clear that winning someone over #does not always mean doing the right thing #looking directly at how the easiest way to befriend shane and pam is by enabling their alcoholism #which is framed as a harmful thing even if the characters themselves like it #you have to lie to befriend other characters too like with sam dropping his egg #and you can lose a little friendship based on preferences like sebastian asking about what books you like #though to be fair if i saw someone who could potentially be cool and i found out that what they like was stuff im not into id also #lose interest a little #anyway those are all examples spread around on different characters #penny's got it all at once #me post

[hypogryffin]

Thoughts on Akesumi?

not my cup of tea romantically but i do love their platonic dynamic

#its mostly i only see akechi dating men and imagine sumire heavily prefers women #i can deffo see the appeal its just not something that clicks fo me #asks & requests #akesumi #persona 5 #p5 #p5r #goro akechi #sumire yoshizawa #kasumi yoshizawa #ive done akesumi [metaverse] outfit swaps before but as a royal trio thing and im pretty sure before? i really solidified my #black mask redesign. also: i put akechi in sumis casual clothes for the outfit swap bc sumi doesnt modify her uniform except for the shoes #so id just be drawing akechi in the girls uniform for shuujin which is less recognisable as an ''outfit swap'' #but i put sumi in akechis uniform/coat bc its MORE immediately recognisable as an outfit swap #sumire would wear akechi's casual clothing 100% its just an argyle vest and slacks #i also added a waist tie in a bow bc i put her hair down so she was missing her ribbon :> end notes

[brigwife]

my toxic trait is just assuming everyone online has seen the lord of the rings and is a low-key permanent member of the fandom

#I just think that regardless of any other fandom that may be occupying my attention at any given time #this 20 year old trilogy is the best film franchise ever made #not just because if the incredible themes taken from Tolkien's works which were largely accurately portrayed #but also because of the preference for costuming and makeup and physical effects over CGI which becomes so easily dated #meaning the movies never look old #and the SOUNDTRACK #The HEART behind the whole project #Idk I think we just forget sometimes that this was not a Hollywood production hashed out asap to Make Money #It was just some guys in New Zealand #And it SHOWS #I'm having LOTR feelings at 8am in a Thursday morning

[collophora]

Quick test of magma Who instantly denied pressure sensitivity

#star wars #star wars the bad batch #the bad batch fanart #ofc the documentation is “do you got an up to date system” #like I'm going to risk updating every drivers for an online software who has chrome as “preferred browser” #anyway I doodle on it it's all I need