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mommyownsmee · 7 months

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Hii I was wondering what the difference between mommy kink and your hard no/go of sexualizing Mdlg (and anything related to it). I’m new and just want to know what to do plz

Hey! 𝒙𝒙

I can explain it to you. For me Mdlg does have to do nothing with sex. I‘m a CG with no sexual interest in my little.

Mommy kink means to me the using of the name "Mommy" to generally address me right in my D/S dynamics.

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WHAT IS A MDLG-DYNAMICS AND WHY IS IT NOT ALWAYS SEEN AS SOMETHING 6UAL?

Mdlg (or Ddlg or Ddlb or Mdlb) is a form of power exchange. If we look at the BDSM acronym, it is the D/S part of the acronym. A kink is sexual.

Power exchange is not intrinsically sexual, so it's not a kink.

Mdlg is also a style of domination & submission that doesn't require any sexual interest.

MdIg is a dynamic. It refers to the way two people relate to each other. Dynamics are everywhere.

In MdIg the Mommy Dom behaves in a way that evokes a response in her little girl. The little girl's response affects the Mommy Dom's behaviour and so on. This is a very simplistic description but l'm sure y’all can see how it might play out.

For example: The little girl might dress in a way that triggers her Mommy’s desire. The Mommy channels her desire into acting more Mommy like, which triggers the little to respond in more 'little' ways. Y’all can see how the needs and desires of one feed into the needs and desires of the other. The dynamic can escalate into a kind of virtuous circle that makes both feel fulfilled.

Mdlg is a generally a more gentle, motherly-daughterly sort of leadership and guidance. The dominant does exhibit a caretaker/parental sort of care for their partner.

So no, itself is not a kink, but kinks and desires can be fulfilled through exploring the dynamic.

The difference between Mdlg and age regression is that one of those is roleplay, while the other is a therapeutic technique for dealing with trauma. CGI dynamics (which include Mdlg) can be sexual, nonsexual, or a blend of both, and would still qualify under general usage of "kink" regardless.

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regal-rosebuds · 7 days

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ꔫAgere Terms & Acronym Dictionary

ꔫHi all! I am going to try and be quick and as explanatory as I can! Feel free to reblog with added terms as needed!

ꔫ!!Warning!! Under the flower banner, there are mentions of NSFW topics and kink!!

ꔫ * next to terms that are used cross community

ꔫAgere: Shortening for age regression | See: “ꔫWhat Is Age Regression?”

ꔫAgedre: Shortening for age dreaming

ꔫCg: Shortening for caregiver | someone who takes care of a regressor, dreamer, or pet while they are in their space to ensure their comfort and safety *

ꔫCglre: Shortening for “caregiver, little regression” | age regression with a caregiver | distinct from “cgl” ꔫDreamer: The term for one who age/pet dreams | See: "ꔫWhat Is Age Dreaming?"

ꔫFlip: The term for someone who both caregives and regresses

ꔫImpure regression: A commonly used term to refer to when one is regressing because of a bad trigger, bad thoughts and/or bad emotions | Another term for it, and the one that I personally use, is vent regression.

ꔫInvoluntary regression: See: “ꔫWhy Do People Age Regress?"

ꔫLittle: The term for one who age regresses*

ꔫLittle Age: The term for age or range that someone identifies with when regressed

ꔫLittle Gear: Items used to help people maintain their mindset | ex. pacifiers, plushees, bottles, etc. *

ꔫLittle Speak: The term for when a regressor babbles, shortens words, or otherwise changes them because of being in little space.

ꔫLittle/pet space: The terms referring to the headspace/mindset that one enters when age/pet regressing *

ꔫPet: The term for one who pet regresses *

ꔫPetre: Shortening for pet regression | See: “ꔫWhat Is Pet Regression?”

ꔫPetdre: Shortening for pet dreaming

ꔫPure regression: A term meant to be the reverse of “impure regression” characterized by happy emotions and fun.

ꔫSFW: Safe for Work | a commonly used term to refer to when a post is not inappropriate or lacks mature content

ꔫSibby: Shortening for sibling | like a sibling who you are related to irl, a sibby in regression is a friend who you are close to who you would regress with! They may regress as well, and may even be a cg, however, they are usually depicted as someone to have fun with rather than your typical “care”.

ꔫVent regression: See: “impure regression”

ꔫVoluntary regression: See: “ꔫWhy Do People Age Regress?"

ꔫCommonly Misused Terms

ꔫThese are terms that are mistakenly used within the community or crosstagged (posted with tags across communities that are not connected, or improperly tagging a post with unrelated content). Oftentimes, these terms are used by people who have gone uninformed and mistakenly identify with them without knowing what it really is.

ꔫTW: mentions of kink & NSFW

ꔫABDL: “Adult baby diaper lover” | a kink (inherently sexual) involving an adult wearing a diaper and acting like a baby

ꔫAgeplay: A kink where one person pretends to be a child while their partner takes care of them for sexual purposes.

ꔫBDSM: “Bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism” | kinks involving adults with dominant/submissive roles

ꔫCGL: “Caregiver little” | Despite having similar names, cglre and cgl are NOT the same. CGL is the gender neutral term for “DDLG/B” and “MDLD/B”. It is not regression and it is sexual. It is a term to refer to a dynamic within ageplay.

ꔫDDLG/B & MDLG/B: “Daddy Dom Little Girl/Boy” and “Mommy Dom Little Girl/Boy” respectively | see above

ꔫLittle: This term is commonly used across both the SFW and NSFW communities, so please be cautious if you explore these tags.*

ꔫLittle/petspace: See above*

ꔫNSFW: “Not Safe For Work” | a commonly used term to refer to when a post is inappropriate and has mature content

ꔫPet: See: "Little" *

ꔫPetplay: Similarly to ageplay, it is a kink where one person pretends to be an animal while their partner cares for them for sexual purposes.

ꔫSwitch: The term for someone who can be both dominant and submissive | This is commonly confused for “flip”

#agere #agere blog #agere community #age regressor #age regression #sfw agere #sfw age regression #age dreaming #sfw agere blog #sfw interaction only #regal rosebuds

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mellowin · 3 months

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Hello everyone. You can all call me Mellow. I am new(ish) to fanfiction writing but I’m not new to writing. I’m a bit intimidated to start writing fanfiction so to deep my toes in I’ll be taking little scenario or headcanon asks before I start writing any of my fic ideas.

At the moment, I write for Gojo, Geto, Nanami, Toji, Choso, Naoya, Sukuna, Mahito, Yuji, and Megumi. I can write fluff and I want to try my hand at smut. Although I won’t write any suggestive or nsfw asks for Yuji and Megumi.

I enjoy writing for a Cis Fem reader the most so if you do not specify in your ask I will default to that so if that is not what you’d like please specify the gender identity of your preference in your ask. If there’s a previously answered ask that is answered with an identity you don’t identify with(whether or not that’s your ask), I’m more than willing create an alternate version upon request.

I don’t write any:

Bathroom stuff(Vomit, Scat, Pee)

Ageplay

Raceplay

DDLG(B)/MDLG(B) or any other variation of that. I’m perfectly fine with writing reader calling a character Daddy/Mommy or getting called Mommy/Daddy but I will not write the dynamic the kink entails.

And I think that’s it? This is just a small thing to get me used to writing fanfic and is just a fun little thing to do. If I enjoy it, I’ll make a formal rules page. ^-^

#naoya zenin x reader #naoya x reader #naoya zen'in x reader #sukuna x reader #jjk x reader #ryomen sukuna x reader #gojo satoru x reader #gojo x reader #geto x reader #suguru geto x reader #nanami kento x reader #nanami x reader #toji fushigro x reader #toji x reader #mahito x reader #yuji itadori x reader #yuji x reader #megumi fushiguro #megumi fushiguro x reader

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shrimpmandan · 11 months

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DDLG gets so much disproportionate shit even from kinksters it’s absurd. People will think that the sheer idea of a man wanting to dominate a woman is somehow predatory even when it’s a consensual dynamic. MDLB, DDLB, MDLG? Doesn’t bat an eye. People barely acknowledge the other CGL subtypes. Meanwhile saying you’re a daddy dom-- or even a little girl-- will get you lobbed with pedophilia allegations because pedophilia is when man has sex with woman, I guess

#saucyish #kink discourse

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itoshislave · 1 year

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𝐖𝐄𝐋𝐋𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐄 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐘 𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐓𝐄𝐍𝐓 𝐈𝐍𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐌𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍 + 𝐌𝐀𝐒𝐓𝐄𝐑𝐋𝐈𝐒𝐓!

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Here contains the specific content i write and don’t write. Along with a list of fandoms I'll be writing for!

𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐓𝐄𝐍𝐓 𝐈 𝐃𝐎𝐍’𝐓 𝐖𝐑𝐈𝐓𝐄.

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･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Lolicon/ Shotacon/ or anything like that

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Pegging

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Shipps/ OC's

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Teacher/ student relationships (minor x adult).

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Feet.

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Scat/vomit.

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Serious mental illnesses (depression & anxiety are acceptable)

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Eating disorders

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Weight insecurities

›･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Extreme violence

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Gore/ snuff

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Pedophilia

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Suicide

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Major character death

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𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐓𝐄𝐍𝐓 𝐈 𝐖𝐑𝐈𝐓𝐄.

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･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ BDSM

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Incest/ pseudo/ stepcest

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Sadism/ Masochism

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Corruption Kink

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Daddy/ Mommy Kink

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ DDLG/MDLG dynamics

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Noncon/ Dubcon

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Manipulation/ Blackmail

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Toxic/abusive relationships/behavior

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Sub!reader/ Crybaby!reader

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Dom!reader (very, very rarely)

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Yuri/GL

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Loss of virginity

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Degrading

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Hurt/comfort

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Size difference

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Dumbification/ infantilization/ Mind break/ Little space

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Yandere

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Somnophilia (both con + noncon)

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ A few more things!

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𝐅𝐀𝐍𝐃𝐎𝐌𝐒 𝐈 𝐖𝐈𝐋𝐋 𝐖𝐇𝐑𝐈𝐓𝐄 𝐅𝐎𝐑 + 𝐌𝐀𝐒𝐓𝐄𝐑𝐋𝐈𝐒𝐓:

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･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Haikyuu. Hq

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Boku no hero. Bnha

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Kuroko no basket. Knb

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Tokyo Revengers. Tr

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Jujutsu Kaisen. Jjk

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Tokyo Ghoul. Tg

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Blue Lock. Bllk

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Shingeki no Kyojin. Aot

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Kimetsu no Yaiba. Kny

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Enen no Shouboutai. Ff

･:*.ೃ⚜࿔ Bleach. Blch

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⚠ This blog contains obscure content. If this is not something you feel comfortable, get out of here.You are responsible for your own internet experience. I'll not censor myself for your comfort. I'll mark the things that have triggers, but I won't stop writing dark content just because you think its wrong or immoral. Just block me and forget my existence, it will be better for both sides.

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𝐁𝐀𝐂𝐊 𝐓𝐎 𝐍𝐀𝐕𝐈𝐆𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍

#└➤ content info #└➤ masterlist #└➤ navi

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catboy-catboy-backup · 1 year

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silly little intro for both me and my partner~

20 n 22

they/them for me and she/he for him, but i use masc terms and they use femme (boyfriend/girlfriend)

t4t and queer

submissive top / domme bottom

we're both physically disabled !

obnoxious and autistic /pos

MINORS DNI !!!

@domprincessfantasies is the love of my life, we are exploring some low level kinky stuff together! we are both technically switches but right now im a sub/top and theyre a dom/bottom, theyre my princess 💜

none of this is meant to be serious, this is for fun!! fun is what matters!!

theres a focus on transmascs and wlw wording, but both of our genders are fluid, just know its ALWAYS in a t4t way.

they will be reblogging this and pinning it, so everything stated here is for both of us. if you have boundary questions id ask them, but im open to silly asks!

blinking/flashing below!!!

generally explicit asks are okay! im simply not going to answer them if i dont want to

that being said-

no dms

we are not open to flirting

i try to be as organized as possible w tags, pls lmk if theres anything i should adjust!

things you might find here:

t4t

disability positivity/accessible sex

orgasm control

edging and denial

princesses

d/s dynamic

light catboy/puppyboy talk

things you will NOT find here:

dd/lg or md/lg

ageplay of any kind

cnc

raceplay

detransition kink

fetishization of trans people

fetishization of disabled people

ageless blogs / minors will be blocked

DNI:

MINORS, terfs, nazis, fascists, racists, DDLG / MDLG, cishet men, feeders, foot fetish, pro ed, cnc, ageplay

#blinkies #intros #introducing myself #bio #kinky stuff #flashing #flash warning #epilepsy warning #blinky

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mommyownsmee · 7 months

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Hi mommy!

I was just going through your blog. Can you tell me what’s a little?

(Can I please be 🥺 anon from now?)

Hey sweetie! 𝒙𝒙

[Ofc you can!]

So, there is a lot of confusion about age play (littles/middles) & age regressors. I got so many messages about this topic. That‘s why I decided to explain it here. I hope it will help you.<3

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Age Play:

Age Play is a kink. Age Play isn't always engaging in sexual activity while pretending to be in a child like state. There are a lot of "sfw" kinks that a person does not engage sexually.

But, to be clear, kink by definition is sexual. Kink is still activating those pleasure receptors in the brain. Someone can be a-sexual and gain gratification from kinks.

So, by definition, age play is pretending to be a child, or teen, or adult. People who age play can also just feel younger or need a lot of support and attention from their CG - without actually diving into littlespace or feeling like they are a younger age.

Age players are cognitively still an adult and consenting to the sexual dynamic between someone older and someone younger.

This form of kink doesn‘t always have to be sexual. CG and age player don‘t have to be sexually active to fulfill the meaning of the kink itself or give both sides pleasure. Not every little/middle wants to have sex with their CG and not every CG wants to have sex with their little/middle. But also, a Mdlg/Ddlg relationship can involve both - sex with the little/middle while in littlespace and no sex in littlespace - without the CG being seen as an pedophile (since both parties still know that the little/middle is not really the age they play). Age player and CG can be in a normal sexual relationship outside of littlespace-activities!

+ Age play isn't always young, sometimes it can be pretending to be older. That's just a lesser noticed side of it.

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Age Regression:

Age Regression is a coping mechanism.

A lot of people involuntarily regress from trauma.

A lot of people voluntarily regress as a form of stress relief.

That said, however, your mind goes back to that of an actual child. You cannot consent, whether you think you can or not. A child cannot consent to sexual things with another person. When regressed, it means, people cannot process things as an adult would. Therefore certain topics must be avoided. Age Regression is not pretending. Your mind is actually reverting back to when you were a child.

Regression as a term is used to refer to essentially taking steps back. Sometimes that can mean things like a skill regression (not related to agere) - "regression" is a broad term. Age regression is returning to the mental state of a younger age. That means literally thinking and/or behaving like a child. It‘s a coping mechanism and sometimes the person who age regresses does so involuntarily due to a trigger. It is also possible that the "Regressor" still is aware they are an older age and can think their age but instead choose to surround themself with things for a younger age as a coping mechanism or a way to have fun.

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Someone can be into age play and be a regressor.

But these two things should not mix in the sense of being sexual or kinky when regressed. Age play and age regression need to stay very separate.

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lunamothiekiddo · 2 years

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Why i don’t support minors in kink

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Disclaimer: TRIGGER WARNING- heavy mentions of kink, grooming, pedophilia.

•Children don’t belong in kink.

•It’s so so so so dangerous.

•it’s basically throwing themselves out to the wolves. or actual pedophiles.

•They are putting themselves at risk of being groomed.

•Some of them purposely rebel, and don’t care. this also takes away from their childhood. no child deserves to lose their childhood to something so reckless and stupid!

•They normalize power dynamics at a young age which means every relationship afterwards will be messed up.

•Sexualizing themselves as children means adults in kink communities can take advantage of them. not only that the sexualization of a child is disgusting.

What communities should minors not be in?

•The age play community.

•The online kink community as a whole.

•The DDLG (daddy dom/ little girl) community

•The ABDL (Adult baby/diaper lovers) community.

•The CGL (caregiver/little) community

•The MDLG (mommy dom/little girl) community

•The MDLB (mommy dom/ little boy) community.

•The DDLB (daddy dom/little boy) community.

•The TDLB (trans daddy/little boy) community.

•The TDLG(trans daddy/ little girl) community.

•The TMLG (trans mommy/little girl) community.

•The TMLB (trans mommy/ little boy) community.

AND OR ANY OTHER VARIANT(s)

What can we do to help them get out of kink?

•educate. education is the first step for anything. most of these children DONT KNOW that kink is not a safe space for them.

•be patient. sometimes it takes explaining without being mean. or sharing their account publicly etc. if you don’t feel comfortable messaging them or interacting DONT. but don’t bash them either.

•If you do openly help MIK. open up your dms for others to send you their @ and you can approach. instead of them going unnoticed and uneducated.

I’m not saying anyone should go out of their comfort zone or endanger their space.

I am saying: these are children. Biological children. who 99.9% of them don’t know the difference between DDLG/ ABDL/ CGL/ ETC and age regression. educating them can save them a lot of grief in the future.

That’s all. thanks for reading!

#age regressor #agedre #age regression #agere #agere blog #agere aesthetic #agere post #toycore #cglre #agere community #safe agere #sfw agere #babycore #toddlercore #pet regression #pet regressor #non community little #noncom little

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chaos-coining · 2 years

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Ageplay Genders

DDLGgender is a gender related to the DDLG kink

DDLBgender is a gender related to the DDLB kink

MDLGgender is a gender related to the MDLG kink

MDLBgender is a gender related to the MDLB kink

I would’ve sworn that I say something like ageplayic or ageplaykinkic or something a while back, but it didn’t exist or got deleted or I just can’t find it.

Again, per my xDNIx, minors and anyone who just doesn’t understand the basic fundamental of things they oppose (justly and otherwise) should not interact with my blog. Any minors or anyone trying to start discourse will be blocked. I’m not tagging my stuff with mainstream xMOGAIx tags and I’m incredibly easy to ignore and avoid - do it.

The colors are meant to represent the parties and dynamics involved. The MD and DD colors are darker and on top to represent more maturity (at least in kink situations) and being in charge/dominating. The LG and LB colors are lighter and on bottom to represent less maturity (at least in kink situations) and being submissive

#minors dni #minors dont touch #mogaidult #mogai after dark #kinkic #kinkgender #pretty flags goe brr #i dont use my typing style in definitions #just for aesthetic reasons #keeping definitions relatively accessible #-kinkic #ive had this blog for a few months #i figured it was finally time to post something #lowkey curious to see the chaos i could cause if i blazed this #but im just smart enough not to do that #(only just tho)

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