#deepest desires

[auroralightsup]

they stuck

#miraculous: tales of ladybug and cat noir #miraculous ladybug #cat noir #chat noir #ladybug #season 5 #spoilers #jubilation #deepest desires

[sushicatdasilly]

I want to have big enough pockets so I can fit sand in them

So if I don’t like someone I can whip sand in there eyes

If I don’t like you

I blind you

#deepest desires #tell me you don’t want to do this to someone #like cmon they say something rude #BAM SAND ATTACK #GET BLINDED LOSER

[madewithonerib]

4.]  Delusion of Deferred Satisfaction

aka the Marshmallow Hunger Games

Question: How do people try to solve this problem?

And I'd like to give you a whole slew of alternatives.

There are so many of them that I'm going to categorize them & give them to you under 4 categories, ready?

These are four alternate ways that people try to deal with the problem of hope, category:

[A] People who think it, that is satisfaction of your       deepest desires, it is still out there in things.

       What do I mean by things? [21:40]         Well you know, love, romance, family, money,        success, achievement, pleasure, political causes!

       IT is still out there, if I can just find the right thing

       That is category A.

       And there are two kinds of people in category A,        many are in this room because you're young; most        young people know they are not that satisfied but        they are so sure that they will be satisfied later on

       Because they will get IT!

       They'll get the things that they are after, that is        why they're here at the university—getting my        -self into position where I can get these things.

       And you have decided what things you want.

       Most of you know you're pretty unsatisfied        right now, but you're sure that it's okay cause        eventually you will be. [22:25] 

       Younger people are dismissive of this whole        problem, they doubt it's a big problem; and        even though you're actually pretty unhappy        in life, the reason why you're not completely        dysfunctional — is because you tell yourself:

       “I will be happy later.”

       See that's how you live.

       You're actually pretty unhappy, you don't know        who you are, you often get down & feel kind of        depressed. But you say, “Hey, I'm just a student        & I'm getting it together.. If I do it,”

       You have hopes of the general generic hopes        of the future; & actually an awful lot of young        people today believe that if they're just fairly        successful & they find a love partner, and they        learn some meditation techniques to relax        themselves, that they'll be fine! [23:11]

       That's what you want: Some success, some love        —some meditation & I'll be fine..!

........................................................................................        You do not know how deep your desires are. ........................................................................................

       You just don't know, you don't understand the        psychological problem of hope yet. [23:24] 

       The 2nd kind, and this is a sad kind of person,        these are people around my age, or something        like my age, who just never got to their goals.

       They never got married & they wanted to be        married. [23:47] 

       or they never even got close to the level of        success that they wanted in their career, or        they never got into the career they wanted!

       And there's a lot of people who were sure that        IT is in this, it's in ABC, now if you're young you        are sure you're going to get to ABC someday.

       So you just sort of put the whole hope thing off

       But there are a lot of people my age, who missed        ABC, who never got to ABC & know they will never        get to ABC now. [24:18] 

       But because they never got there, they still live        under the illusion that if they did get there they        would be happy. [24:23] 

       Now these kinds of folks are often very bitter.

       This sounds very weird, but a lot of good social        activism happens because very often if you are        trying to get to ABC & you don't get there & you        perceive that it is some social group that did it,        that some racism or some injustice prevented        you from getting ABC; very often you get very        upset & then you become a social activist, you        you want to change things. [24:49] 

       You know a lot of good work happens that way.

       But sometimes, it's based on the illusion that if I        had gotten ABC, I would have found it! [24:56] 

       So people who think that hope is found in ABC &        it's in there, younger or older, are folks who are        still living in an illusion. [25:06] 

       And the people who are older who feel like I've        failed & I'll never get ABC, they can be extremely        bitter, very upset, or filled with self-hate.

       Filled with a sense of failure, I never got ABC, the        reason I'm unhappy is because I failed & you get        down on yourself. [25:20] 

       That's category A.

       Not a good category to be in, at least not for long. 

Hope Beyond Walls of the World | Timothy J. Keller P1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9 | Q1,2,3,4,5,6,7

#Deferred Satisfaction #Marshmallow Hunger Games #deepest desires #coping with dissatisfaction #lie to yourself #Hope Beyond Walls of the World #Timothy J. Keller #ThankYouTimKeller

[egotisticalgold]

‘the woman with the knife’

(1969) | dir. timité bassori

#movie #words #want #I deserve the love of my deepest desires #love #1969 #mine

[samwiththearc]

Don't know who the artist is, but this speaks to me!

#phone treasures #comic #deepest desires

[girlboyburger]

new fernsona ..!!

#this deaign has been a ROLLERCOASTER i'm so happy to finally be satisfied with it #giving into my deepest desires (being a big dragon) #my art #furry #fursona #anthro #furry fandom #oc #dragon #white #fluffy #furred #reference sheet #ref sheet #shapeshifter #yes its human form is more or less me. read that as u will #sleepy #pastel #oc: fern

[bombuni]

Steven and a breeding kink (๑ᵔ⤙ᵔ๑)

nsfw, minors dni!

“Oh-fuck, that feels good, yeah? ‘S okay if I fill you up? You want it?”

He’s rambling at this point, rattling on and on about how good you feel wrapped around him and how you’re the only one for him. You can feel his breath against your neck as he leans his head on your shoulder in an attempt to hide himself from you-try to have some decency, good lord, Marc says.

Steven’s rutting into you with no other thought in mind, one goal set. It’s clear in the way he has you pinned under him, encasing you in his arms. He’s not usually this pushy, taking what he wants, but you don’t really mind.

“I think you’d look lovely-“ he stops himself, pausing to breathe and lifting his head from your shoulder.

You know what he’s thinking. You always do with Steven, “Lovely how, Steven?” You whisper against his lips and he’s lost his train of thought again. This is dangerous. You could get possibly any and everything out of him.

There’s a whine building in his throat, waiting to move again, “Full of me. You know,”

“I think so too,”

“Really?” There’s a dumb smile on his face now, his cock twitching at the idea of you plump and ready to burst all because of him.

Smirking up at him, you pull him down to your neck again, “Do it, Steven. Wanna make you a daddy,”

He lets out a breathless whine at your words, and follows your orders.

#steven grant #steven grant smut #steven grant x reader #steven grant imagine #moon knight #moon knight x reader #moon knight smut #marc spector #jake lockley #marvel #marvel x reader #smut #imagine #srry for posting my deepest darkest desires on here #but u guys get it

[afklancelot]

really love how in dungeon meshi the winged lion cursed laois in its final moments saying he would never have his biggest desires and then for the last few chapters laois frets over it potentially being bout not being able to revive his sis, but then falin (farlyn? around the second half the spelling of her name suddenly changed) resurrects with minimal problems

and then the epilogue in the same chapter revealed that his curse is that monsters stay the fuck away from laois forever. like man, what an incredible play by the winged lion. gotta give em props

#dungeon meshi #dungeon meshi spoilers #kicker is that laois’ friends immediately could tell that his deepest desire definitely aint to bring his sis back to life #anyways good manga

[crianpy]

Cookie9 is a dead man

#fulfilling my deepest desires here #look at that old man he is so soft #im doing it for him its all for him #the stanley parable ultra deluxe #stanarrator #the stanley parable #tsp narrator #tsp stanley #tsp #tspud

[nitewrighter]

So last night I was watching the JLU episode "The Man Who Has Everything" and the plot synopsis was, "Wonder Woman and Batman visit Superman at the Fortress of Solitude for his birthday, only to discover he's been captured by Mongul." And I'm walking in like "Cool, fun, I'm going to see Bruce and Diana punching Mongul while surrounded by a whole bunch of nifty little Fortress of Solitude easter eggs" but NO it turns out that 80% of the episode is Clark trapped in an Illusory Krypton where he has everything he wanted and it turns out that just boils down to being a chill Dad on a farm (but also the farm is on Krypton which didn't die and also his dad is still alive). And when Clark finally realizes that this Krypton is an illusion, he takes his son by the shoulders and he's like "I love you and I'm so proud of you and I remember the day you were born and how it was the happiest day of my life and I am packed with all of these amazing memories of watching you grow up but I don't think you're real" and you straight-up feel your heart get ripped out of your chest at the concept of Supes having to make the conscious decision to part with all this to get back to reality and save his friends

And when Superman finally breaks free of the illusory Krypton he goes completely apeshit on Mongul and it's so satisfying.

But then also Bruce gets trapped in the same 'prison of what you most desire' and it turns out he just wants to see his dad beat the shit out of the dude that killed him and Martha.

It's honestly kind of funny because Clark's 'perfect prison' was this highly complex conceptualization of Krypton where Jor-El is talking about how it took him years to salvage his reputation after mistakenly predicting Krypton's destruction, and Clark's wife is this obvious fusion of both Lois and Lana, and Clark has to remind his kid to take the dog out, and it keeps cutting back to Bruce's fantasy which is just "Hell yeah, Thomas, beat his ass."

#something something bruce being a traumatized kid with a funky relationship to violence at his core #something something Clark's fantasy still embodying this enormous sense of responsibility he feels towards other people #justice league unlimited #and also WHY THE HELL WOULD THEY AGE UP JON KENT WHEN THIS IS SUCH A GOOD CHARACTERIZATION OF SUPERMAN #HIS DEEPEST DESIRE WAS STRAIGHT UP JUST BEING A DAD AND THEY CHUCKED HIS SON IN A TIME WARP #dc #superman #batman

[hotcinnamonsunset]

rabbit heart (raise it up) but make it fashion❣️🐇

#knitting #knitblr #wip #florence and the machine #pattern is called lion hearted on ravelry❣️ #if you thought I used up all my sweater symbolism designing Melville. well. I’ve got news for you. #(this gal was an english and lit class suck up. the symbolism never stops.) #admittedly it’s a bit heavy handed and on the nose. alas. but the designs just hit better that way! #the raglan shaping is meant to replicate an EKG with heartbeats. the notion of wearing your heart on your sleeve…and the song being about #a rabbit hearted girl. hence. rabbits and hearts on the cuffs. #the most vulnerable part of these lyrics (i wish that i could just be brave) on the most vulnerable part of the sweater (the back) #(because anyone can see it but you don’t realize who’s looking and reading your deepest desires) #anyways. I wanted to knit a lot of words in different fonts and sizes and I listened to florence on repeat and this happened.

[auroralightsup]

This really makes me feel weird...

#miraculous: tales of ladybug and cat noir #miraculous ladybug #cat noir #chat noir #ladybug #season 5 #spoilers #jubilation #deepest desires

[tragedy-for-sale]

How Highly he Thought of You

Look, I really just want to say that if this is a trial based on Yoda's deepest fears and desires, meaning one of his desires is for Obi-Wan to have known Dooku

If this is how Yoda wants things to be, he wants Dooku to still be with the Jedi and he wants Obi-Wan to know him. Yoda knows Obi-Wan would adore Dooku, he knows that if Dooku was still there, the loss of Qui-Gon might've not ruined him so much, because Dooku would be there and maybe Obi-Wan would've been okay.

Look how Obi-Wan doesn't take his eyes from Dooku, he adores him, he cannot stop smiling and he's just so invested in everything Dooku has to say. This is a child wonderstruck by old stories their Grandfather tells them. This is the Obi-Wan Yoda knows he would be if things hadn't gone how they had. He'd be happy, Yoda sees Obi-Wan's suffering and his strength and loyalty to the Jedi, he sees all that and knows Obi-Wan isn't happy, that he carries such a burden, so in Yoda's utopia there is such an emphasis on Obi-Wan's happiness because it isn't fair for Obi-Wan to suffer so much when he's never strayed from the light.

Yoda knows this, and he knows if he still had those two, Obi-Wan wouldn't suffer so.

Think of Obi-Wan's seat on the council too, we know Dooku was offered a seat and that Qui-Gon was too, then Obi-Wan and Anakin. Their entire (disaster) lineage was offered council seats, perhaps because Yoda, though Jedi cannot form attachments, offered Obi-Wan that seat because of how much it meant for Yoda to have one, one that turned out okay. And maybe Yoda looks at Obi-Wan and sees Qui-Gon, he sees Dooku, and his pain is a little less.

One of my favorite things to do are analysis' like these, if you want to see my take on a certain scenes send a request in perhaps :3

#like this is not Obi-Wan's own thoughts and desires #this is Yoda's #this is what YODA wants to see #what YODA wants life to be like #it's Yoda that wants Obi-Wan to know Dooku and admire him so #this Obi-Wan is the Obi-Wan of Yoda's mind #it's not actually Obi-Wan #this is how HE thinks Obi-Wan would act like if he'd gotten to know Dooku #if he hadn't watched Qui-Gon get gutted on Naboo #this is the Obi-Wan Yoda wishes he was #one who had never know pain #star wars #clone wars #tcw #sw #obi wan kenobi #Yoda #EXCUSE ME WHILE I AM ABSOLUTELY INCAPABLE OF BEING NORMAL ABOUT THIS #obi-wan kenobi #MY BOI #AND THAT FACT THAT YODA'S FOCUS WAS ON THE THREE OF THEM #NO ONE ELSE #Dooku #Obi-Wan and Qui-Gon #Yoda at the center of his deepest desires #wanted the three of them to know each other #to be alive to know each other #because Yoda would've loved seeing how happy knowing you're closest family made Obi-Wan #made all of them

[harmonyloveangels1990]

Closed RP w/@darkest-and-deepest-desires

Raven had invited her mother over to stay with her until she can find her own place to live. She didn't mind it, especially since her boyfriend was being so supportive of her. Unaware that her mother's body had completely changed and had gotten thicc. To the point any guy, would want to sleep with her.

Raven gave her mom some clothes and went to the living room, while her mother went to take a nap. Raven sat down and sighed softly, before hearing the door open. "Welcome home. Sorry for not returning your messages. I was busy helping my mom."

@darkest-and-deepest-desires

#darkest and deepest desires #closed rp #closed #close #close rp

[cinnamonsikwate]

laios & marcille's relationship is so important to me. like. not even in a romantic sense! but they're each other's ride or die for real. they've both grown so much *with* and *through* each other that just seeing the difference between how they treated each other in the first chapter vs the last chokes me up!!!

#dungeon meshi #dungeon meshi spoilers #i guess??? #laios touden #laius thorden #marcille donato #laios insisting that marcille stay with them on the island instead of going w the canaries #marcille saying laios would be hurt if they were to be blunt w him about his real deepest desires #i want what they have #the way it's become second nature to them to look out for each other #a little bit codependent maybe but that's where trauma gets you #calemonsito notes

[hordeofcorvids]

My deepest desire is for a Sherlock Holmes adaption with a Scottish Watson because one line in a Study in Scarlet mentions that he doesn't have any family in England and I used it as a thin excuse to incorporate Scottish Watson™ into my world view

#this is a lie my deepest desire is a queer Sherlock Holmes adaption but I digress #also listen there could be other reasons but Watson with a scottish brogue is irresistible #sherlock holmes #doctor john watson #acd holmes #acd sherlock holmes #acd watson #acd john watson #acd canon #a study in scarlet