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demiro-allosexual-culture-is · 9 months

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You know the promiscuous character you tried to write into an amatonormative and sex negative 'they have romance now so they are fixed' character arc?? They're demiromantic allosexual now, sorry not sorry I don't make the rules

#demiromantic #amatonormativity #sex negativity #alloarophobia #alloaromisia #demiro #allosexual demiromantic #demiro headcanons #demiro allosexual #alloarospec #demiromantic allosexual #aspec #arospec #aro #aromantic #dia aro #romo aro #demi #demiromanticism

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entropy-sea-system · 8 days

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Maybe its just because Im sex favorable allosexual and (only romance favorable when I feel romantic attraction) demiromantic, but it sometimes just bewilders me that people find any happiness in just dating people and don't need sexual aspects to be a part of it to actually like dating. Like, I would be absolutely miserable if I forced myself to date someone, and I literally can't even feel romantic attraction until after being in a long term sexual relationship with someone. I just can't see the appeal in it. It sounds downright boring.

And I can't imagine not frequently feeling sexual emotions about my partners- I'm not capable of suppressing that or idk not even feeling that to begin with(?I have no idea what allorose people mean when they say their relationship is only sexual when they have sex and at no other time. Like- do they just not feel sexual attraction at other moments ?? wouldn't that be not perfectly allosexual?). I don't understand how people who feel sexual attraction apparently don't feel sexually about affection like hugs or kisses with their partners.

But the expected relationship model is generally that people romantically date someone then maybe, only if they both want to and feel ready, it becomes also sexual (although, generally it is still expected that it eventually becomes sexual), and that sounds like torture to me because I can't put myself through dating like that when Im not even romance favorable until I feel romantic attraction to someone. My experience is more like I want a sexual relationship but theres a low chance of me feeling romantic attraction and romance can only happen if I and the other person are ready for it(and Im polyam/polyerosous so I don't do monogamy anyways)

That's probably why I prefer to be with other alloaros and alloarospecs. So many alloromantics are just so obsessed with dating and it feels like even the ones who claim to like sexual relationships without romance expect you to eventually be okay with romance. And it feels like people only care about sexual consent and don't care about how romance (and other things like friendship etc.) requires consent too.

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#alloaro #aromantic allosexual #aroallo #allosexual aromantic #allosexual #arospec #demiromantic #demiromantic allosexual #sexuromantic #demiro #aromantic #aspec #romo aro #alloarospec #allosexual demiromantic

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king-of-freaks-and-fools · 1 year

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where are other demiromantic allosexuals guys cmon i know you’re out there

#demiromantic #allosexual #aroallo #demiromantic allosexual #allodemiromantic

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caiiaxteiie · 2 years

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this one's for my arospec homies.

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tommy2020 · 4 months

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AROSPECS AND ASPECS ARE JUST AS QUEER AS LESBIANS AND TRANS PEOPLE.

AROMANTIC PEOPLE ARE VALID.

ASEXUALS ARE VALID.

ALLOSEXUAL AROMANTICS ARE VALID.

ALLOROMANTIC ASEXUALS ARE VALID.

AROACES ARE VALID.

DEMISEXUALS ARE VALID.

GREYSEXUALS ARE VALID.

DEMIROMANTICS ARE VALID.

GREYROMANTICS ARE VALID.

CISHET ALLOAROS ARE VALID.

CISHET ALLOACES ARE VALID.

CISHET AROACES ARE VALID.

IF YOU DISAGREE, GET OFF MY BLOG.

#aromantic #asexual #aspec #aroace #arospec #demisexual #greysexual #aromantic allosexual #queer #lgbtq #lgbtqia #queer community #demiromantic #greyromantic

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papercranesandpride · 2 months

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Aromantic arrows! You can get these in absolutely any aro flag, not just the ones shown here. I love my custom options. Although these have been popular for me partially because I have the aro allo one as a listed option and there's not enough aro allo merch (and hey! This one is even made by an actual aro allo!)

Anyway, I know my community. You already want an aromantic arrow thing anyway. I don't have to sell you on this. Pins are $10.00 each and earrings are $18 a pair, and shipping to literally anywhere is free.

#aromantic #aro #aromantic pride #aro pride #aromantic spectrum #arospec #aroace #aromantic allosexual #allosexual aromantic #aromantic asexual #alloaro #aroallo #allo aro #aro allo #aro ace #greyromantic #grayromantic #demiromantic

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floorsauce · 2 months

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Shout out to those who don't feel romantic or intimate attraction. Stay awesome frens =)

Also here's some aro/ace/aroace saucies

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z0mbi-dog · 1 year

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idk if someones already done this but i've already made them all so :3

-demisexual -agender -demiromantic

-aromantic -nebularomantic -asexual

-demigender -transgender -demiboy

-neopronouns -xenogender -queerplatonic

-oriented aroace -polyamourus -transmasculine

-aroace -aromantic allosexual -nonbinary

lemme know if i got anything wrong lol

also if u want more just ask :]

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urpurplehairedsage · 9 months

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arospecs (demi- & grayromantics), but especially arospec allosexuals talk to me for a sec about being across the aro spectrum, your attitude toward romantic attraction and romance relationships, I'm tryna see something

-Y.

#🧙🏾‍♀️'s weird musings #aromantic #aro #arospec #aromanticism #alloaro #aroallo #aromantic allosexual #demiromantic #grayromantic #queer #lgbtqia+#💚🤍🖤

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sipping-on-thoriumg · 1 year

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🟩⬜🟨 Aroallo Moodboard! 🟩⬜🟨

🟩 🟩 🟩 | ⬜ ⬜ ⬜ | 🟨 🟨 🟨

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plato-repulsed-culture-is · 6 months

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plato-repulsed demiromantic culture is not relating to the 'friends to lovers' trope because you don't want friends, and so friendship is not how you form the emotional connection that makes romantic attraction possible for you

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demiro-allosexual-culture-is · 9 months

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Demiromantic non-ace arospec culture is wishing we were more represented in the demiromantic community instead of demiromantics being assumed to be demisexual or asexual

#alloaro #aroallo #alloarospec #arospec #dia aro #romo aro #demiro #demiromantic #aro #aromantic #demiromantic allosexual #allosexual demiromantic #non ace demiromantic #non ace aro #demiromantic non ace aro culture is #demiromantic allosexual culture is #demi #aspec #demispec

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entropy-sea-system · 4 months

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sexuromantic / demiromantic allosexual / sequenceromantic allosexual/etc. culture is wishing the relationship layer cake thing actually meaningfully included people who experience sexual attraction and/or favorability right away but only develop romantic attraction and/or favorability over the course of a sexual relationship, instead of assuming the only way it can occur is the other way around