#detransitioner

[genderqueerdykes]

my heart goes out to people who have been talked out of transitioning and people who have been talked out of detransitioning. having someone else convince you to avoid doing what is in your best interest and increase your comfort and quality of life is always heart breaking and exhausting- no matter what your choice, to transition, or to detransition, that is your choice, and it does not impact other people. you are not a bad person for wanting to do either of these things.

#lgbtqia #lgbtq #lgbt #queer #trans #transgender #nonbinary #non binary #detransition #detransitioner #detrans #retrans #retransition #transmasc #transmasculine #ftm #trans man #enby #transfemme #transfeminine #trans woman #trans women #mtf #our writing

[jindoripilled]

stephen hawking having connections to epstein just shows that even the most educated man is still, at the end of the day, a fucking man. no matter what contributions a man makes to society, he'll always only ever be a disgusting fucking man. even the most "non threatening" men are still men. sad

#radblr #terfsafe #radical feminism #radical feminists do interact #detransitioner #gender critical #radfem #gc feminist #radical feminist community #radical feminist safe

[anti-terf-posts]

if you're an ex-radfem, I hope your bed is nice and warm tonight.

if you're a trans-supportive detransitioner, I hope you get your favourite meal today.

if you're an ex-conservative, I hope you wake up feeling refreshed and happy.

❤️

#scottie speaks #detransitioner #ex radfem #trans #transgender

[woman-for-women]

You are not trapped in your body. You feel trapped by how others perceive it.

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#gender abolition #w4w post #radfem ideas #detrans #detransition #detransitioning #detransitioners #detransitioner #dysphoric #dysphoria

[outofthehaze]

i can’t believe i was given testosterone.

i was just out of conversion therapy (literally less than a year out), freshly 18, my ed was serious enough that i had to leave my job, couldn’t walk more than a few feet or go near stairs, i was in and out of a psychotic episode so bad i legitimately thought i was an angel from heaven sent to earth as a punishment, i was actively self harming and using drugs AND MY DOCTORS KNEW ALL OF THIS!!! and they gave me hormones!!!!

#detransitioner #detrans female #diary entry

[detransisbeautiful]

misgendering cis people is still misgendering. many intersex, detrans, and gender noncomforming cis people are misgendered due to transphobia and misogyny, and it's not funny to misgender people who may already be regularly misgendered and experience gender dysphoria bc of it

#detrans #detransition #detransitioner #trans #transgender #pro trans detrans #trans positive detrans #actual detrans #actually detrans #nonbinary #enby #terfs fuck off #lgbt #intersex #gnc #gender nonconforming

[spiderfreedom]

Jesse Singal is writing a book on youth gender medicine and is looking for interviews!

Please consider sending me an email at [email protected] if any of the below conditions apply to you. Anonymity is completely fine if you require it, though if I end up using your story and/or quotes in the book, my team might need to privately verify certain things during the fact-checking process.

I recommend checking out his Substack and previous journalistic work on youth transition to see if you feel comfortable working with him. (I know some detransitioners weren’t happy with how they were portrayed by him, especially the use of the “before” and “after” photos.) He has been writing about youth transition for 6 years now, so you’ll have an opportunity to see how he discusses the subject.

I’m not a detransitioner or youth transitioner. But I wanted to put it out there anyway, in case any people who transitioned under 18 would be interested in an interview on the topic. Of course, feel free to send this to anyone who meets Jesse’s above interest areas too.

#detrans #detrans women #detransitioner #detransition #mypost

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Detrans Woman Pride Flag

Detrans woman (or reidentified woman): someone who detransitioned to womanhood.

It could overlap with FtMtF, however not every detrans woman feel represented by that acronym, some may detransition from being non-binary, for example (i.e. FtNtF).

#destrans #detrans #reid #reidentified #detransitioned #detransition #detransitional #detransitioner #pride flag #detrans woman #women #ftmtf #reidentification #detransed #detransing #retrans #retransing #retransed #detranser #mogai #mod ap #detransitioning #lgbtqia+ #ex-trans #extrans #detransgender

[sweaty-confetti]

more support for detransitioners. understanding gender affirming care regrets is beneficial to all of us. it’s very easy for us trans people (including myself, i am not some perfect unbiased guy) to assume that all detransitioners are TERFs or transphobes but this is simply not true and also a self fulfilling prophecy.  

detransition is just as isolating of an experience as transition and in queer circles can be more so due to the knee-jerk reaction of many queer people to assume that detransitioners hate trans people or think that gender affirming care should be banned. thus they are shunned. but by assuming this, we inadvertently cause this to happen. there will always be detransitioners and we need to make room for them especially considering many/most are queer or still have a complex relationship with gender, not to mention that our community is built upon acceptance.

when trans and queer people shun detransitioners in fear that they’re terfs of transphobes, it offers an easy oppurtunity for terfs and transphobes to go, “those awful trans people, they’re small minded and then shun you. come join our ranks and we will liberate you from Gender Ideology™” and this hurts all of us.

it is not out of the question that detransitioners can be transphobic, but immediately assuming that they are harms queer people and other detransitioners. it’s an easy reaction and a mistake that i have worked hard to stop making, and i do not think it is an entirely unfair guess to make - but here is the important part - with reason. meeting someone who has detransitioned and immediately assuming that they are transphobic is dangerous. however obviously if they start spouting questionable conservative/transphobic nonsense that is a normal thing to assume. 

terfs/transphobes use detransitioners as a tool to blame the trans community, and many of us fall for it. in turn we use detransitioners as a tool to blame transphobes. the cycle needs to stop. 

TERFS, transphobes, etc. do not interact with this post. this is not a discourse post nor are you not welcome here. you will be blocked.

#long post #transphobia tw #detransitioner #pro trans detrans #trans liberation #hrt #detrans #ftm detrans #mtf detrans #not kink #trans positivity #detrans positivity #trans positive detrans #terfs fuck off #terfs do NOT touch #TERF tw #terfs are not welcome #mtf #ftm #nonbinary #transgender #gender affirming care #transmasc #transfem #transneu

[marblecakemix]

Welcome to my humble domain!! 🫧✨

Hi, I'm Marble, a lesbian in her early 20s from Poland. Just vibing here on Tumblr from time to time. If you want to look into my post/reblogs read my takes on #talk tag.

You can ask me anything you want. I won't shy away, but remember that I'm not your therapist and all my opinions are biased forward women!

More information about me under the cut! 💕

If the part has * in front of it that means I changed something in the text and/or my views are different than before.

*I'm still quite new to radical feminism and I'm trying my best to learn how to take action. In short, I fight for women's rights and freedom from sex-based oppression. Right now I'm looking into creating a small radfem activism group in my area. If you're from Poland and feel comfortable, dm me!

I detransitioned in the middle of 2023. I used to be a non-binary/agender and asexual individual for around 3 to 4 years, but I understood all of that was because of internalized misogyny and homophobia and I actually wanted to have sex and did like me being a woman before I entered the trans community.

I'm an ex-Christian, now I probably would call myself a spiritual person, researching my Slavic roots at the moment.

I believe in critical thinking and triple-checking facts. Everyone can have their opinions, but actions should have a base in grounded reality and unbiased scientific research. Read those books ladies!

I'm mostly talking about my experience as an ex-TRA, a lesbian, a woman, someone who lives in a misogynistic/conservative family and a country that has yet to legalize same-sex marriage, but you can safely transition here even as a minor.

*I'm a trans identified men hater, a terf if you will. I don't care. Fuck all men, I don't care anymore. Gender dysphoria or perversion (autogynephilia) should have never been "solved" with a surgery and/or irreversible "gender affirming" treatment. No other mental illness has permanent body modification as its treatment, same should be for gender dysphoria. The trans movement (men's rights movement in disguise) is the most harmful thing right now and I'm so tired of seeing more people being pushed into it just because they are themselves and aren't scared to dress unconventionally! I'm fuming with rage.

I make mistakes! I'm just a human being and, naturally, I will be in the wrong sometimes. May it be because of the language barrier or me just not thinking things through, doesn't matter. I will try to acknowledge my mistakes and say sorry. I'm still learning and there isn't a better way than through your own downfalls!

I don't block people, unless they're insufferable. We can have different opinions, different lifestyles, different views, but if you're annoying I draw the line there.

I also draw sometimes (I don't have much time for it right now, bc I'm in the middle of my academic years), you can find my work under #my art.

Nothing here is set in stone. As I grow as a person my views will probably change. If you have any questions, just ask them! I'm happy to answer all of them ❤️

Last update: 30th March 2024

#intro post #introduction #blog intro #bio #talk tag #radical lesbian #lesbian #lgb drop the t #radical feminst #detransitioner #detrans #radical feminism #radblr #radfem #feminism #gender critical #gender abolitionist #woman artist #artists on tumblr #terf #terfsafe #terfblr #trans exclusionary radical feminist

[brettdoesdiscourse]

#this is literally so important #trans #transgender #trans positive #detransition #detransitioner #video #tiktok

[genderqueerdykes]

hope you have a great week, and rest of your life, honestly, if you have detransitioned for any reason. whether or not it's for safety, because you tried medical transition or presenting differently and didn't like them, because hormones were not safe for you, were forced into binary male or female transition and realized you were nonbinary or choose to accept an identity like that instead, got to a point in medical transition where you felt comfortable and wanted to stop, you found out you're cis but wanted your body to be different, or just generally discovered something about yourself in the process and choose to walk a different path afterwards, you deserve to have a good time in life, with your expression, and with who you are.

all anyone should want for you is to find the path that makes you happiest in life, and if that path includes detransition, you're welcome to take it, no shame, no harm, no questions asked. your life is in your hands, your gender and sex are yours and yours alone to dictate and change. you are owed autonomy like anyone else

#detrans #detransition #detransitioner #detransitioning #trans #transgender #nonbinary #enby #genderqueer #genderfluid #transmasc #transmasculine #transfem #transfemme #transfeminine #transneutral #transneu #retransition #retrans #multitrans #multitransitional #retransitioning #queer #genderfucker #genderfuck #genderpunk #drag artist #our writing

[jindoripilled]

"you want womens only sports? so you think women are worse at chess/sports/etc.?!"

have you considered the fact that maybe it's because we just don't like you? that we don't like being around you & shouldn't be forced to pretend we do?

oh wait. i forgot. explaining that women have boundaries is "oppressive" or some stupid shit.

#radblr #terfsafe #detransitioner #radical feminists do interact #gender critical #radical feminism #gc feminist

[tiredfemininity]

I spoke about being detrans on tiktok and it went approximately like this.

Video: here are things I experienced socially and psychologically as a direct consequence of my detransition.

Commenter: you can talk about your issues, but you shouldn't like comments saying being trans is a mental disorder.

Me: one needs a F64.0 to receive transition-related treatment.

Commenter: that's transmedicalism.

Me: no, like, legally. Because you have to be diagnosed with something to have it treated.

Commenter: APA no longer considers being transgender a mental illness.

I felt kind of like speaking with a wall? I don't know, it's just, am I missing something or were they legitimately missing my point?

Anyways being trans is a mental illness, I'll be very persistent in defending that claim, there's a reason my old username is dysphoriaenthusiast.

#transgender #trans #discourse #lgbt #detrans #trans discourse #detransition #detransitioner #transmed #truscum #tucute #trumed #radfems interact #radfems please touch

[woman-for-women]

You can't identify out of your oppression / You can't identify out of your privilege

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#gender abolition #w4w post #radfem ideas #detrans #detransition #detransitioning #detransitioners #detransitioner #dysphoria #dysphoric

[lostandfem]

i could be anything i wanted, while my actual self was still bogged down by unresolved trauma, self-loathing, and internalized misogyny

#based on my own experiences #reasons for transitioning #detrans #detransition #detransitioner